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writes:i thought i was over this girl i was with, but i just looked at her myspace. it said "in a relationship" and it really hurt me, so obviously im not over her. i was with her for 7 months, and split 7 months ago, why is it taking me so long to get over her???
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reader, pwincess +, writes (14 September 2007):
 Hi!
I broke up with my boyfriend over a year ago and every time i see him with a new girlfreind i want to rip her head off. I beleive that you are having these feelings because once a pon a time she was yours! Every time my ex is hurt im always there for him! I think you are having these feelings because you dont want to see her get hurt but she has to over come her own obstickles.
good luck xx
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (14 September 2007):
 It always hurts when someone you care for finds someone new but its life people fall in and out of love/lust all the time, but moving on is the only way to stop hurting. Ex's are ex's for a reason.
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reader, faith scott boreanaz +, writes (13 September 2007):
 so many people on here say the same thing and yet this is nowhere near a third of the population so i think its safe to say your not alone 8D. ok heres what you can do, get back in the dating game, talk to her about it or you can try these mantra'sclose your eyes, breath deeply and feel relaxed imagine a light from within you surround you and now say calmly these four lines and focus on who you were before you met your ex!* i am totally clam and independant* i dont have feelings for my ex* People will be attracted to my good looks and positive energies* and i will find another woman who loves me for who i am.imagine the light surrounding you being absobed back into you and the guy you were before you met her you are now.ofcourse if this doesnt work counselling is always helpful too.
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (13 September 2007):
 you know you probably are over her, its normal to feel like that when you find out someone you dated is dating someone new. i found out via myspace in December that my first love (who was a loser!) is now engaged - we broke up in 2003 but i felt so sick reading it and cried bucketloads. but in 2 or 3 days i was over it and now i couldnt care less and just feel sorry for the girl.what im saying is, its completely natural to have a little emotional blow out when you first find out something like that - its jealousy and nostalgia kicking in - but the fact that you thought you were over her means something. its not that you want her back, its just the jealousy and shock of knowing she's moved on. you will probably feel much better in a day or two.xx
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