Why does my bf want me to call him "daddy" during sex???
Q. My boyfriend wants me to start calling him 'daddy' during sex. Can anyone explain this? He says that it is really hot and something that will get him off. Why does he find this so hot? It's incest foreplay! It's disgusting! Has anyone done it? Why...
A. 28 May 2011: HI
thats great news :) see everything always has a way of working itself out.
Good luck with the future, xx... (read in full...)
Why am I so sensitive when it comes to my ex?
Q. Why am I so sensitive? Any time I go through a break up it takes me ages to get over them. My most recent relationship only lasted 9 months, but we were very close and we were in love. We had to end the relationship back in September because she was ...
A. 23 May 2011: Hi
Your ex Gf obviously made a big impact ony your life, you shared many things together, and had many intimate times togeher. It will be hard to just forget these times, as before your finished with eachother you probally felt there was so m... (read in full...)
She won't give oral sex because its dirty
Q. I'm dating this girl, who has told me she'll do anything for me. However, she won't give me head because it is dirty.. meanwhile I give lots. How can I go about getting head and is it normal to feel bad for her reason? And I'm very clean, medically ...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi
It feels very porn style to many women doing this, also many women fear their partner wont pull out in time, therefore ejaculate in their mouth, which will put a lot of women off. Also some women cant stand anything touching the back of ... (read in full...)
Would most girls be ok with their boyfriend going to strip clubs?
Q. hey, i'm 20 and ive been with my boyfriend for 2 an a half years. he is going to bournmouth uni in september and i'm worried about him going to strip clubs. he has never been to one before. Would most girlfriends be ok with their boyfriends going...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi
Do you have any trust issues with your BF? has he given you any reason to not trust him before? if you anwsered no then I would say let him go along, his with the lads, and it's just a bit of fun . If you dont agree with strip clubs as... (read in full...)
40 weeks and no sign of labor starting
Q. im 40 weeks and my baby's head is not yet straight down and im showing no signs of labour soon as im not dialating or anything. what do you presume my doctor should do?...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi
First get the Dr to check the baby is ok, Then bring you into hospital to induce labour. Have you been in touch with your midwife? You should also let her know. But it is vey common, many women go a week or even two weeks later than expected... (read in full...)
What do you think about open relationships?
Q. Hello there, I would just like to ask people what they think of open relationships.. Do they really ever work? Interested to hear about experiences and or opinions of any type of open relationship. Are there certain conditions under which they wor...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi
Personally I feel why be in a relationship in the first place if you want sex with other people? It dont make sense to me. If your single you can do as you please without hurting anyone. But to start sleeping around when your in a relation... (read in full...)
Why am I so sensitive when it comes to my ex?
Q. Why am I so sensitive? Any time I go through a break up it takes me ages to get over them. My most recent relationship only lasted 9 months, but we were very close and we were in love. We had to end the relationship back in September because she was ...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi
I think it's a case of what you cant have you want it even more. I dont doubt you loved this girl, but your in another relationship already, so you have not given yourself enough time or space to get over her properly. If you still have thes... (read in full...)
Should the pill stop my period right away?
Q. I just started my menstrual cycle this morning, and my doctor had given me the NuvaRing to start, so after school I came home and inserted it. I noticed I hadn't bled much, and now I'm not bleeding at all. I was having scares that I might of been ...
A. 20 May 2011: Hi
I think thats the best thing to do . Always better to be safe than sorry. im sure it's nothing to worry about though :)
x... (read in full...)
I wanted to just be friends. Yet I feel really hurt when I see him with this girl. why would I have this reaction?
Q. I have a guy friend and we have known each other since we were very small. Anyway a couple of months ago another friend told me that he liked me. So when he asked me out I said I just wanted to stay friends as I didn't want to ruin a good frie...
A. 20 May 2011: Hi
he walked off because quite frankly he told you how he felt about you, and now your teasing him about it, you have hurt his feelings. The reason why you feel hurt when his with this other girl is because deep down you DO want to date... (read in full...)
Should I go see the ex? Look hot? Or just not go?
Q. Your Open Question: Why would he do that? should I still see him? ? My ex boyfriend's best friend told me my ex's been having a hard time dealing with our break up.. He says he's been drinking and he feels horrible for breaking up with me...
A. 20 May 2011: Hi
I would go and look DAMN hot :) he probally feels he dont want you back on a sympathy vote, but if you turn up looking hot he will see you have made an effort, and you genuinely want him back, not just because he had a weak moment on the p... (read in full...)
He's never going to let go of his girlfriend so I need to move on
Q. Basically i've been in love with this guy for over a year now and he has a girlfriend. He flirts with me all the time and we text most nights but i know it isnt fair on me as he is never gonna end it with his girlfriend for me so i need to get over ...
A. 20 May 2011: Hi
yes very simple, do you want to keep feeding this mans ego because he enjoys the fact you have a weak spot for him, and has you dangling on his little string? if you answered NO then you have your answer. It would be that easy to move on,... (read in full...)
Is he trying to tell me something by taking longer and longer between when he calls me on the phone?
Q. actually i do not know whether my boy friend is ignoring me or not. Things have gone from bad to worse. We only get to call each other. Before he was calling whenever he found time for me, but now he never calls me until a long time has gone by....
A. 20 May 2011: Hi
It does sound that way to me. If he is not bothering to call you, then I wouldn't waste my time on waiting on him any longer. You shouldn'y haveto wait for no man hunnie. You deserve to be treated much better than this. Tell him to move on ... (read in full...)
I get a hug and kiss once a week if I'm lucky...What's up with that??
Q. I have been with this guy for a year and he doesnt hug or kiss me. We have discussed this more than once because it bothers me, of course..and he says he is "trying" to be more affectionate. Am I wrong for thinking he just doesn't love me? He tell...
A. 20 May 2011: Hi
I would have to agree with sexlessinheuk. Many men are likethis, maybe think dont think its manly to be all touchy feely, or maybe his parents wasn't that affectionate to himm when he was growing up, so finds this normal. Has he been like thi... (read in full...)
How long do I wait before I give up on him? He's over there going out drinking, I'm still here paying the bills.
Q. When my fiancé moved to another city for a new job we decided he would get settled and find a nice place for us to live. Then the plan was that I would leave my job here and follow him. Once there I could look for another job, during which time he ...
A. 20 May 2011: Hi
Hunnie I would give it up now :( this man has now had 6 months, and seems to be enjoying his freedom, and not taking you seriously at all. Telling you he wants to marry you soon is his way of keeping you sweet. He is taking advantag... (read in full...)
Does a bad experience with one guy color her judgement towards all future guys in her life?
Q. Why and how can a bad experience with one guy change someone to change how she looks and thinks about certain things, have trust issues and be more guarded but confident? I know it sounds silly, but i'm just interested how one guy can have this af...
A. 20 May 2011: Hi
If someone has a bad relationship male or female, they are bound to be guarded with their next possible relationship, its only natural. Being hurt by someone can make you start to lack confidence, and doubt yourself. But when you are read... (read in full...)
How do we develop friendships and socialise with other people in our community? No one seems to want to socialise with us
Q. My wife and I are in our mid to late 40s and have been married for almost 20 years and have one son who is ready to be on his own feet. Our BIG problem is that we do not have any friends. In fact no one wants to be friends with us. We have trie...
A. 20 May 2011: Hi
Do you think it maybe possible that are you are both being too nice to peolpe? sometimes when people are trying to hard to be nice all the time it can put people off them, or even give them the go ahead to abuse your kindness i.e coming f... (read in full...)
Should the pill stop my period right away?
Q. I just started my menstrual cycle this morning, and my doctor had given me the NuvaRing to start, so after school I came home and inserted it. I noticed I hadn't bled much, and now I'm not bleeding at all. I was having scares that I might of been ...
A. 20 May 2011: Hi
Well it dont normally stop straight away like that . So I would suggest going back to the Dr's and asking them to do another pregnacey test, as theirs will be more accurate. Of course everyone has different side effects too with differen... (read in full...)
Social behavior after sex...
Q. So I have no experience at all with women and I am just curious about the following couple of situations: How do you behave just after having sex with someone you care? How do you behave just after having sex with someone you don't care (as ...
A. 20 May 2011: Hi
Well if its a casual one night stand I would appreciate the guy to at least cuddle for a bit, before leaving. But I wouldn't want him to hang around to long, as we have both made it clear its only sex we wanted, not getting to close to eacho... (read in full...)
She never wants to do couples things. How do I keep her happy and not lose my negative girl?
Q. My girlfriend is always getting mad at me no matter what i do for her. she never satisfied. It is as if whatever i do for her is never enough for her. She a very negative person always thinking negative as if nothing could never good right and she...
A. 20 May 2011: Hi
Im sorry but your GF sounds like a spoiled, childish girl. She is self centered and this will end up draining your spirit. I would let this one go, and find someone who REALLY cares about you, and wants to spend time with you, but also let... (read in full...)
We both play sport. It's seriously upsetting me that she will not support me the way I support her.
Q. I went to every one of my gf's games for various sports all year. She couldn't go to any of my baseball games this spring because of lacrosse. She decided to quit basketball so I thought she could finally come support me this summer like I've ...
A. 20 May 2011: Hi
It's such a shame she seems to be more wrapped up in her own world, than see your making every effort to be in hers. But have you told her how this is making you feel? It could be that she is so tired after all her games, and practice... (read in full...)
I want her so crazy it is driving me crazy. Should I go after her?
Q. Ok I am an 18 year old male, and met a hot 16 year old female. She is super sexy, and fiesty, and the chemistry is on between us. I accidently saw a pic of her nude, and it turned me on out of this world. Should I go after her and have wild sex all ...
A. 20 May 2011: Hi
I would say not to go after her, as your intentions are towards having sex with her, rather than getting to know her better. Also how do you accidently see a nude pic? Your young and your hormones are still raging. But if your interest... (read in full...)
How can I learn to sleep alone and not be scared?
Q. Hi, I'm a 22 year old woman, and I cannot sleep alone. At night I get horrible images in my head and get scared, and so cannot sleep. Sometimes I am awake until 3am because I am so scared. Or I need to go to talk to a family member or even sleep in...
A. 20 May 2011: Hi
many people have a phobia, and this sounds like more of a phobia rather than life situations.Fear of being alone is actually very common, some people fear if they are alone , that if something was to happen no-one would be there to help. Tr... (read in full...)
Sex only once a week? Is that normal?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year, we've had our ups and downs like any normal relationship but we get on really well, have a lot of fun together and are generally well suited. There is just one problem, our sex life. We've alwa...
A. 19 May 2011: Hi
Wow you sound like a great couple. I dont understand why you would be concerned of having sex once a week? trust me some people only get it once a fortnight!! you both work hard, and he has said its not you his just very tired so probally... (read in full...)
My ex's daughter wants to live with me
Q. My partner and I have split up amicably. I have just heard from her daughter that she wants me to live with her. I do know now that she wants me as a sexually active partner. It transpires that we have the same needs and desires. The age difference ...
A. 19 May 2011: Hi No dont go there.... this will have a massive disaster tag written all over it. You were with her mother!!! how do you think this will effect their relationship? You dont say if you were married to her mother, or for how long you were togethe... (read in full...)
I want to get close to him again but I'm terrified of rejection!
Q. First of all, I would like to state that I am in no way vain or conceited, just genuinely confused on what happened here. I am 27 years old, I have a Master's Degree, I work at a publishing company, and I'm fairly attractive. I met a guy back in ...
A. 19 May 2011: Hi
Well the mistake you both made here was the begining!
When a man and a women decide from the start that they are only interested in sex, then that is how one or both of you will only ever see eachother as, a sex object.
to be honest once y... (read in full...)
Is it a good thing or a bad thing to just have one child?
Q. Im 25 with a 6 year old son, i always dreamt of having more children however i am adamant the next child will be born inside marraige. The problem is i am still single and worry about my son being an only child. By the time i find someone to settl...
A. 18 May 2011: Hi
Having one child has its ups and downs. On the one hand, there is only one mouth to feed, dress,clean,wash,etc. but on the other hand if they had a sibbling to play with they would have a strong bond together, and have eachother to turn to ... (read in full...)
Don't women like to receive oral sex?
Q. Me and my partner are in love for a long long time. The thing is that my partner gives me wonderful blow jobs but when I go down on her vagina to lick it she gets reluctant. She doesnt want me to lick her down. I wanna know the fact - dont girls ...
A. 18 May 2011: Hi
Many women like oral sex, and dont like to give it, and there are women who like to give it but not recieve it, it's each to their own. Maybe she cant relax when she knows she would climax, and finds this embarrassing, she could be affraid ... (read in full...)
When guys hit on me, I feel badly
Q. this weekend I went to a friends house and got on facebook and two different guys kept calling me hot and sexy, and I told them I had a boyfriend. And I had no idea who they were. one was bugging me so much to give him my number I had my friends mom ...
A. 18 May 2011: Hi
I will give you the same advice as I do my children. NEVER add anyone you dont know, or have only met through a freind. Also ask a family member if your not sure how to do it, but ask them to make your profile private, so only freinds ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl but........
Q. alright so there is this girl that i am currently talking too, before she started talking to me first, and everything was alright, the way she talked to me was all good and the way we laugh together. and awkward funny moments where i ask some...
A. 18 May 2011: Hi
The only thing you can do, and that is tell her straight you like her and want to be with her. Its the only way your going to find out. Maybe she felt that after the kiss and expressing eachothers feelings, she was scared of loosing ... (read in full...)
Do you think she could smell it on us???
Q. Is it true that you can smell when someone has had sex after they have had it?? I had sex with my boyfriend in my house with no one there this past friday and then my mom comes home an hour later. She never tells or asks me if we had sex or not but ...
A. 18 May 2011: Hi
to answer your question yes you can smell sex in a room . But if you have changed your bed covers, opened a window, a sprayed a little air freshner this would not be the case. As many guys have a strong fluid, which can be easily picked u... (read in full...)
How do I get my hubby to tone it down a little?
Q. Hi, i need some advice. My husband speak loud. He said this is his normal way of talking. Im trying to get used to it. The problem is im having now a nervous attack. Only one little loud thing i got totally nervous. I try hard to explain that to ...
A. 18 May 2011: Hi
Is he just talking loud or is he being loud only when being angry with you? If he is just talking loud all the time, it could be that when he was younger he felt the need to talk louder to get attention, maybe he had a big family who were... (read in full...)
Why am I dragging this on?
Q. Okay, over summer break I went on a vacation to another country, where I met a boy who we will call Carlos. He was basically my vacation boyfriend, and to be honest I did and still do have feelings for him. During our time together, we did hook up. ...
A. 18 May 2011: Hi
I completely agree with CaringGuy here. This man said he wanted to make it the best vacation he could, and guess what? he did , for himself. Sending dirty pictures to a guy you have no knowledge about is a very risky and dangerous thing to... (read in full...)
Swollen vagina normal after anal sex. Is this normal??
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend twice tonight and the he really wanted to try anal so I let him (this was my first time at anal) after he finished I put his hand down there to finger me and he said I felt really swollen so I checked and struggled to get ...
A. 18 May 2011: Hi
Firstly I hope he was wearing protection when entering? This is the worst way to get infections. If you are worried about this, I suggest you visit your Dr, as this dont sound right to me either. Unless you get checked over I would not have... (read in full...)
Should I be jealous that guy I really like seems to like my sister??
Q. Im kinda worried, if you have read my other posts you will understand my situation (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/where-do-i-go-from-hre.html). If not here is a simple rundown. I'm bi, I like a guy, I think he likes me, I mean I'm almost p...
A. 18 May 2011: Hi
Ok I get the full picture here now. Why dont you speak to your sister. Ask her how she feels about this guy, if she has feelings for him then I would say not to go there. But if she seems not to bothered about him, then all you can do is as... (read in full...)
On and off with my boyfriend, but have frustrating feelings and desires for a woman? Help!
Q. Okay, I'm really confused at the moment as to what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for three years, although we've been on and off quite a lot. I love him to bits but recently we both decided to take a break from eachother, not break up so to ...
A. 15 May 2011: Hi
Many women get sexual fantasies about being with another women, especially if they are close to another women, i.e talk about everything together, go everywhere together, because you feel they really know you better than anyone, so you star... (read in full...)
Dating someone else but still have feelings for another guy. What do I do?
Q. So I have this problem that has been bothering me for quite some time. It started last October when I started talking to this guy from my school. We talked every single day and I developed strong feelings for him. I might even go as far to say that ...
A. 15 May 2011: Hi
This guy has shown he has moved on with another girl, and there is nothing you can do about this. He ended things with you in a nasty way because he probally was too weak to be man enough to say it was over, so took the easy way out by s... (read in full...)
Been dating a girl for two months but am too afraid to kiss her!!
Q. I have a great girlfriend and we've been together for almost two months. We haven't kissed though and when I try I get scared. How do I get over being scared of it and just kiss her? Also how can I make it special?...
A. 15 May 2011: Hi
By doing just that, just look at her and kiss her! or you will always put it off. The first time is A little daunting I know, but I bet she will love it, once you have kissed her, there will be no stopping you both :) and you wont have to... (read in full...)
I like this girl and want to ask her out, but our conversations (through texting and IM'ing) don't flow well. What should I do??
Q. Ok there is this girl in my grade who recently broke up with her boyfriend. I have had a crush on her for a while. I have also been pretty good friends with her for a while. I have a very strong feeling she likes me back. I have been trying to start ...
A. 15 May 2011: Hi
I would give her some space for a while, as she is still getting over her break up. Not to say dont let her know how you feel about her, but just give her time to get over one relationship before starting anoter. And if indeed she feels th... (read in full...)
Should I be jealous that guy I really like seems to like my sister??
Q. Im kinda worried, if you have read my other posts you will understand my situation (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/where-do-i-go-from-hre.html). If not here is a simple rundown. I'm bi, I like a guy, I think he likes me, I mean I'm almost p...
A. 15 May 2011: Hi
DONT even go there..... even if this guy does have feelings towards you, he is your sisters BF and that is a line you should never cross. Just because his playful with you, and says I love you does not suggest he is gay and hiding it, its ... (read in full...)
Are the things she says hints that she really likes me?
Q. so i'm trying to get a read on this girl who i've been the best of friends with for years. she's living with and dating someone else, but i still believe there may be some hidden meaning behind the things she says to me. and let me go ahead and say ...
A. 15 May 2011: Hi
It sounds like she really has the hots for you!! you dont joke about being naked if your only freinds. Maybe she has felt she couldn't tell you before becuase she dont want to ruin the freindship, but now her feelings are coming to surface ... (read in full...)
Men are leering at my legs and I want it to stop!
Q. Hello there! Here is my crisis. Men who are way older than me are looking at my legs and smiling at me. Not the friendly polite smile but a sinister pervert smile. Please forgive the language. This started happening when my mom said that I shou...
A. 15 May 2011: Hi
Unfortunately you cant stop men from looking at you, as horrible as this may make you feel. If it is older men you know , then tell your parents. But if this is really upsetting you, then I would suggest you wear longer skirts, or f... (read in full...)
Given our respective sizes, will we be able to successfully have anal sex in the future?
Q. My penis is just a little over 5 1/2 inches and just under 6 inches long when erect, and me and my girlfriend are both virgins and we really want to have anal when she and I get married, she's really self conscious about her butt because it's not ...
A. 15 May 2011: Hi
For starters your penis is more than adequate, there are many guys who may read this and think I wish mine was that size. As for anal sex with your soon to be wife, its all good talking about it, and the idea may sound great, but most wom... (read in full...)
Why does my bf want me to call him "daddy" during sex???
Q. My boyfriend wants me to start calling him 'daddy' during sex. Can anyone explain this? He says that it is really hot and something that will get him off. Why does he find this so hot? It's incest foreplay! It's disgusting! Has anyone done it? Why...
A. 15 May 2011: Hi
Many men like role play in the bedroom, as do many women. I dont think it has anything to do with incest, more of a wanting to feel like a sugardaddy, and in control. However if this is not for you, and it makes you feel uncomfor... (read in full...)
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