Should I try to contact her one last time or just say bon voyage?
Q. Hi everyone! So here's the deal, my ''ex'', and I met over an internet game, at first we really didn't care for each other - I thought she was a terrible player, in turn she thought I was an asshole. But then as time went by we kind of grew on ...
A. 10 November 2011: I hear you and I really feel where your coming from, I have been through a traumatic life myself, And I have been hurt emotionaly on more than one occassion. I dont normally talk about myself on here but as I can connect with you here I will tell ... (read in full...)
Should I try to contact her one last time or just say bon voyage?
Q. Hi everyone! So here's the deal, my ''ex'', and I met over an internet game, at first we really didn't care for each other - I thought she was a terrible player, in turn she thought I was an asshole. But then as time went by we kind of grew on ...
A. 6 November 2011: yes it looks that way hun. I would let her go her merry way, you have a whole life ahead of you, and in that life you WILL find ther perfect one for you. xx... (read in full...)
Should I try to contact her one last time or just say bon voyage?
Q. Hi everyone! So here's the deal, my ''ex'', and I met over an internet game, at first we really didn't care for each other - I thought she was a terrible player, in turn she thought I was an asshole. But then as time went by we kind of grew on ...
A. 19 August 2011: HI
go with what your heart tells you is a common saying, so on this occasion I would say go with what your mind is teling you, if you feel she is tagging you along o some mind game then she is not the one for you. Your still young and have ple... (read in full...)
How do I let him know nicely that I am not interested?
Q. this is kind of a variation on the how to let him down easy question. he's a guy i work with (which makes it even more awkward), but the problem i have is that it's really obvious that he likes me (texts regularly, buys me coffee, always suggestin...
A. 25 May 2011: Hi
Do you have other male freinds? why dont you ask one of them to pick you up for lunch, and act as though your a couple, this guy will think your not available then and should leave you alone. If he still wont leave you alone, you should s... (read in full...)
Should I try to contact her one last time or just say bon voyage?
Q. Hi everyone! So here's the deal, my ''ex'', and I met over an internet game, at first we really didn't care for each other - I thought she was a terrible player, in turn she thought I was an asshole. But then as time went by we kind of grew on ...
A. 25 May 2011: Hi
I would count on her reading your letter, she wouldn't throw it away curiousity would get the better of her, and writing a letter is so much more personal, you would have given it everything you had, and if she dont reply, then at least yo... (read in full...)
What constitutes a pedophile?
Q. Is a person considered a pedophile if they just have sexual thoughts about children and teenagers much younger than them? Or do they actually have to sleep with a minor to be a pedophile?...
A. 25 May 2011: I would be concerned as to why he feels he cant be looking at women his age, and maybe he wants to stay young so acts it by hanging around young girls. I would say its a good thing he waited for her to turn 18 BUT it would feel like he was grooming ... (read in full...)
What's up with this girl?? does she like me?
Q. Long story short. I met this girl with whom I'm befriended —if you could say that, actually I got the chance of meeting her through a friend of mine who's her friend too, now we 'all' hang out together— who's 'shy', like me. Before we were official...
A. 25 May 2011: I agree with mizz.butterflies she is testing you, trying to get a reaction, wanting you to bloody ask her out!!!!! lol x... (read in full...)
If the first time you meet a guy he talks about sex, is that all he wants from you?
Q. I have a couple of questions. If you meet a guy in a bar, and he mentions sex the first time he meets you, does that mean he is only after sex, or could it also mean that he finds you sexually attractive but could possibly want a relationship with ...
A. 24 May 2011: Hi
ALARM BELLS!!!!!! if a guy you just meet starts to talk about sex, then he is a creep who is after one thing. And if a guy wants sex very early are we talking days here? then yes he just wants sex and is trying to keep you sweet by going ou... (read in full...)
An ex-lover sent me a friend request on facebook...I am married-is it appropriate to accept?
Q. Is it okay to accept the friend request of an ex lover on facebook even if im married already?...
A. 24 May 2011: HI
Depends on how strong your marriage is. but Im guessing if you need to ask this question your husband would not be very happy about it. In which case I would not except the request. I would send one message saying, thank you for your requ... (read in full...)
His ex wants to "catch up" with him. I'm afraid of what will happen if they talk. Please advise.
Q. im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m my bestfriend that ive liked for months and months asked me to be his girlfriend only 2 days ago.. and now that im in the picture as his girlfriend, it would seem his ex wants back in too. He and his ex girlfrie...
A. 24 May 2011: HI
well he did ask you if ou were ok about this. if he had any intentions of getting back with her, my guess is he wouldn't have told you about her wanting to meet up. Why dont you suggest to him that you all make a day of it, get some mutual f... (read in full...)
Is it ok to have sex with my professor?
Q. hi, so my problem is that I'm in a relationship with my professor at college I'm only 20 and he is 42...we meet up 3 times a week in this apartment .However, we didn't have sex until now although that we have been together for 4 months because ...
A. 24 May 2011: HI
I bet your not the only student he is abusing his role with. He is your PROFFESSOR, which means he has abused his career and will loose his job if this were ever to surface.
If he actually cares about you, he would wait untill you ... (read in full...)
Found naked pics of a guy on my wife's camera. I'm not sure how to handle this...
Q. My wife and I are married 4 years this summer. Everything seems to be great, my problem is something from the past. I just bought my wife a new laptop and digital camera last Christmas. Her old camera she had when we met and was about 5 or 6 yea...
A. 24 May 2011: Hi
I would print the pictures out, and leave them on the table. Be very calm, and just say I dont want excuses just the truth, Im not angry im very very hurt. then just sit back and watch it unfold. you will know if she is lying to you, and... (read in full...)
What constitutes a pedophile?
Q. Is a person considered a pedophile if they just have sexual thoughts about children and teenagers much younger than them? Or do they actually have to sleep with a minor to be a pedophile?...
A. 24 May 2011: HI
thinking about a minor in such a way is the begining of a pedophile, one minute getting thoughts, then the next its not enough to satisfy you , so then they change to watching young children play, to then switch to the worst thing ever whic... (read in full...)
Why am I so entranced by this freak?
Q. I've been talking to this guy I met online for about 2 years now. I like him so much and I am not sure why. He's not the nicest guy, for example, he refused to come see me for the longest time until I basically gave him an ultimatum. He also places ...
A. 24 May 2011: HI
im afraid you have a case of you like the treat em mean keep em keen type of guy. The thrill of that bad boy keeps you interested in him. either put up with it or dont, there is little else you can do. but if your strong enough tll him to s... (read in full...)
How do I deal with a husband who ignores me?
Q. How to deal with a husband who ignores his wife for a period of 2 months now? Basically, we did not consumate our marriage as I am working abroad and my husband is in our home country. My husband was my ex-boyfriend, but when I went on emergenc...
A. 24 May 2011: Hi
I would end this farse of a marriage straight away, and as you have not consumated your vowels, the marriage will be void, unnuled. This man has no concideration for you what so ever. Move on a be with a man who will appreciate you.
... (read in full...)
In love with my cousin, but I have a boyfriend too
Q. i had a crush on my cousin since i was a child..until he told me he loved me..we had sex two days after he told me how he felt.i really ,really love him.but i also have a boyfrend..nd besides both our families will not approve if we decide to ...
A. 24 May 2011: Hi
BEING COUSINS WILL MAKE THIS VERY DIFFICULT
and as you say your family will not approve. You already have a boyfreind, and this is totally unfair you cheating on him. If you have these feelings for your cousin, then you should break up wit... (read in full...)
My ex has moved on but I cant seem to!!
Q. So me and my ex have been broken up for about two or three months. I have not spoken a word to her since I left her house after saying it was over. She told me she had feeling for a friend of hers and they have now been dating for a while now. I ...
A. 24 May 2011: Hi
Im sorry to say, but just let her go. Your bound to have all these feelings rushng back , its only natural, your back in your home town which you spent your time with her. She clearly fell out of love with you and moved straight on to so... (read in full...)
What's up with this girl?? does she like me?
Q. Long story short. I met this girl with whom I'm befriended —if you could say that, actually I got the chance of meeting her through a friend of mine who's her friend too, now we 'all' hang out together— who's 'shy', like me. Before we were official...
A. 24 May 2011: Hi
that has got o be the LONGEST long story short in history lmao :) this girl is WAY in love with you, what are you waiting for??? go get her be brave and just go for it. you will look back on this one day and laugh about it together x... (read in full...)
My bestfriend confessed his feelings to my (sort of) girlfriend
Q. This may be a bit of a long read and for that I'm sorry. Basically, for the past 5 years I have been in love with my best friend, and after a lot of drama in the past 6 months we've finally decided to give it a go. We aren't public, because we ...
A. 24 May 2011: Hi
thats a lot clearer to me too. the short version to this would be, to keep this so called friend 'john' about as far away from you as possible. sounds like a right creep. He wants what you have in order to make himself happy, and is not taki... (read in full...)
He said I'm only with him because its free and he doesn't love me or consider me his girlfriend!
Q. me and my bf have been together for over a year now and at first everything was so great at first. cute tests, cuddling, i love yous, kisses. the works! but then i moved in with him 2 months later because my mom kicked me out...i knew it was too ...
A. 24 May 2011: Hi
How dare this so called man make you feel that your living on his time. What will it be next, your breathing his air and his paying for it? my guess is his taking advantage of you for far too long. Your son also does NOT want to have thi... (read in full...)
Should I try to contact her one last time or just say bon voyage?
Q. Hi everyone! So here's the deal, my ''ex'', and I met over an internet game, at first we really didn't care for each other - I thought she was a terrible player, in turn she thought I was an asshole. But then as time went by we kind of grew on ...
A. 24 May 2011: Hi
Sadly there is nothing more you can do. I think she may be angry because your so far away, and spending them two weeks together was amazing for her, but knowing it would hardly happen often, she has pulled herself away from you. and not in t... (read in full...)
I was unhappy about what I found on his phone and then he asked me to marry him!
Q. To be honest, I have been trying to stop my obsession with looking at my boyfriends text messages. I have problems trusting people and I explained that to him. Also I went about a year and a half to two years practically living on computer/text ...
A. 24 May 2011: Hi
This guy obviousy knows his been caught, but from what you have explained I dont think he would be the type of guy to do anything behind your back i.e sleep with someone. Unfortunately many guys get a buzz, turned on by sending and reci... (read in full...)
Husband hired a sexy escort to work for him!
Q. I really need some advice as I am in shock and don't know which way to turn. I dropped by my husbands office (he is 43) recently as he left his phone at home and walked in to find him drooling from his desk at his new receptionist as she was walking ...
A. 24 May 2011: Hi
I can see why you would feel so threatened. But to judge this women purely because of her past is not fair. Who knows why she did what she did, but im sure it was for a reason, not just so she could get laid. Your husband giving her a ch... (read in full...)
Is it wishful thinking that he likes me? Or could it be reality?
Q. dear readers i need help i know you probably get questions like this all the time...im falling for this guy and im unsure if he likes me back...can any one shed some light on my situation? okay the background.. i met him 5 weeks ago, i only se...
A. 24 May 2011: Hi
well why dont you call him and ask him out? his either going to yes or no, the longer you keep this to yourself, the more your going to go nuts lol..
And as far as other people telling you his a flirt, tell them to mind there own buisne... (read in full...)
How do you know when you're ready to move in with your girl/boyfriend?
Q. How long do couples date usually before moving in together?...
A. 24 May 2011: Hi
I would suggest spending a couple of weeks together first , so you can see what you are both like living together. And if it works out, and you both love eachothers company, then go for it. BUT it is a very big step, as others have said, on... (read in full...)
I Had Trouble Finishing During Sex, and I Don't Know Why.
Q. Today, I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time, and I think that I was very nervous; throughout foreplay, my legs kept trembling, and eventually my whole body started to tremble a little, much like shivering. Once we had actually started...
A. 24 May 2011: Hi
It's very popssible that in the back of your mind you still feel there could be a chance she could fall pregnant. However I think it was just the more you thought about it, the harder it was for you to ejaculate. The trebmling is a sign tha... (read in full...)
How can I get over my paranoid fear that my bf might be talking to this other girl? Should I take one last look at his phone?
Q. Due to past relationships, it took me around 10 months to trust my boyfriend fully. I was on his phone the other day, I was using the internet to check my bank account when I found myself on his facebook. I'm not usually one to snoop, but after a ...
A. 24 May 2011: Hi
I would just tell him all, and tell him how this is making you feel. Also why is he telling people what you are or not like? I dont think he would be doing anything other than talking to this, he obviously knows that trust is a big issue an... (read in full...)
Should my boyfriend want to go off with his friends on a bank holiday?
Q. Okay, so this weekend is a bank holiday, my guy is off work Saturday and Sunday (he works a lot of weekends) and basically he has been invited to go camping with his two best mates. I’m pi***d off. I don’t have a problem with either of these gu...
A. 23 May 2011: Hi
Wow yes you are being very selfish here sorry but true. He wants to go on a weekend trip and your pissed off?yet you want to go scotland for a WEEK, how is that fair. I doubt he will ever move in with you if this is how your going to behav... (read in full...)
Whats wrong with me? Every guy I've dated they have broken up with me!
Q. Every guy I have gone out with has broken up with me and i dont know why! I try not to be so clingy, I try not to hug all of my guy friends all the time. I dont know what I do wrong. It seems as if I'll always be lonely :(...
A. 23 May 2011: Hi
maybe your just trying to hard to be nice all the time, saying yes to everything, and running around after them? there is nothing wrong with giving a freind a hug, male or femle, as long as its just that a hug, not a long lingering one. You... (read in full...)
My bestfriend confessed his feelings to my (sort of) girlfriend
Q. This may be a bit of a long read and for that I'm sorry. Basically, for the past 5 years I have been in love with my best friend, and after a lot of drama in the past 6 months we've finally decided to give it a go. We aren't public, because we ...
A. 23 May 2011: Hi
I agree that you should never snoop into peoples accounts, but your so called freind is no freind at all if he is going behind your back, given he knows the set up you and this girl have. I would drop him like a hot cake. This girl though i... (read in full...)
Why am I so sensitive when it comes to my ex?
Q. Why am I so sensitive? Any time I go through a break up it takes me ages to get over them. My most recent relationship only lasted 9 months, but we were very close and we were in love. We had to end the relationship back in September because she was ...
A. 23 May 2011: Hi
Your ex Gf obviously made a big impact ony your life, you shared many things together, and had many intimate times togeher. It will be hard to just forget these times, as before your finished with eachother you probally felt there was so m... (read in full...)
The way my husband acts I think he hates me!
Q. I have had some problems with my husband and the problem is sometimes I feel that he hates me by his actions, when we first met he was the type to go out and party, but me, I was a homebody and I still am to this day, when we got together he stopped ...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi
Well all I can say is if thats how his attitude is towards your marriage, even though you seem to be trying, then all you can do is let him go if thats what he wants. Holding on to him obviously isn't what he wants. Have you asked him what... (read in full...)
Her told her to go hide in the basement! Does he have a girlfriend?
Q. I am asking this question for a friend of mind and she was at this guy house whom she sorta likes and he was about to take her home when a car pulled up. He then quickly told her to go wait in his room and then he was like no, go in the basement. ...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi
or maybe he has a really strict father who does not like his son to be happy. Why not tell your friend to ask him sraight? she will know by his reaction if he is trying to think up something quick or not. It dont mean he has another women ne... (read in full...)
I have too much hair!
Q. Every since I was about 11 or so, I've been ridiculously hairy. Kids used to tease me about it but I wouldn't let it get to me. It wasn't until I reached high school that it really started to bother me. I have hair on my upper lip, chin and breasts ...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi
Shaving your chest is a definate no go, as this will make them grow back faster and stiffer. Have you thought about surgery? you can have hair permenately removed. I know this may be expensive, but if it's causing you this much distress... (read in full...)
He wanted to kiss me but I was too scared!
Q. Girls (or guys) I need help. I just went to my second date with a guy and everything was so fun, before he left, the only thing I've been able to say is "..eh...hug??". Like last time. MY GOD. And i'm seeing him again in a few days. On our fir...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi
what you scared of? if you like the guy kiss him already :) when you go out again just be brave and say " about that hug last time, sorry I was just a little shy. you could always show me that kiss now" and give him a cheeky little grin. Im... (read in full...)
5 months of dating and he won't introduce me to his family!
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months but he doesnt want to introduce to me his family.i have already introduce him to some of my family members.and i found out that he has a child from previous relationship bt he denies that.and the mother ...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi
This man needs to grow a set of jingles. He has child and you had to find out from someone else. But he may not have told you in fear his ex would get jealous and stop him from seeing his child.And as she gets on very well with the family h... (read in full...)
The way my husband acts I think he hates me!
Q. I have had some problems with my husband and the problem is sometimes I feel that he hates me by his actions, when we first met he was the type to go out and party, but me, I was a homebody and I still am to this day, when we got together he stopped ...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi
Why do you not like going out? it's not healthy to stay at home all the time, it can wear the toughest of people down in the long run.You say he made changes to his life with out you asking him, because he loved you thats why. he wanted t... (read in full...)
We run out of things to talk about!
Q. ok so my boyfriend is in New Mexico at the moment and i hate being away from him and we talk every night but he always wants me to come up with the topics. I HAVE RAN OUT OF THINGS. but he gets mad at me when i dont have anything and we just ended ...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi
You cant always be expected to to be the one to start off a conversation , and you need to tell him this. But you could always talk about a new film you would like to see together when you meet back up. or places you would like for him to t... (read in full...)
Friend planning on having unprotected sex!
Q. My friend is planning on having unprotected sex with her boyfriend and I'm seriously worried she'll end up preagant at 17 but she won't listen to me when I tell her to get on the pill of use a condom and I don't know what do to get her to listen? ...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi
You are a very good friend, It's rare these day's that freinds worry so much about eachother. But I agree with Odds here. Other than dropping a hint to her boyfriend there is little you can do, just continue to be there to support her if s... (read in full...)
Should I try again? The last time I asked her out she said she wasn't dating
Q. So I was in another city visiting some friends so we could go to a comic convention. I went to visit an old friend at work (we still keep in contact) and give her a gift I found her. She seemed so happy to see me. She kept hugging me and laughing ...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi
Go for it , ask her out again. Maybe the first time you asked her she was trying to get to know herself, coming out of a relationship can be difficult at the best of times. She did the right thing by not jumping into another just to be w... (read in full...)
In a long distance relationship but there's someone flirting with him - should I be worried?
Q. I've recently entered into a long-distance relationship with a chap from Britain. We're both very attracted to each other, and talk almost every day (we've known each other for a year, and have recently gotten quite close). I'm saving up to go out ...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi
Then Im affraid your going to walk into the wrong house. This man clearly loves the attention of lots of different women. You do live far away from him, and I am more than sure this guy is not being faithful. His already said to you that ... (read in full...)
I've been told I'm fussy, is that why I can't seem to get into dating?
Q. I need help understanding men. Recently I met a guy went on one date and realised it wasn't going to work and we weren't that compatible. So when he texts asking if I want to meet up again I say no because I'm busy and moving in a few months (which ...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi I am with you on this one. I cannot stand it if a guy dont get the hint when I dont reply, after he sends flirty texts. If you dont think there is anything in common be blunt, but nice at the same time . just say thank you for a great evei... (read in full...)
Whats the use of being married to this man?
Q. i ask myself every day whats the use,i'm married to a man that keeps telling me things will get better,but they never do,sex is almost never and when we do have sex it always leaves me drepressed because all the man does is get it hard stick it in ...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi
It sounds like his suffering with depression. And being alone with you would mean conversation, and he dont want to talk about anything which will make him feel worse, or inadequate. So asking for other people to tag along will give no ... (read in full...)
She won't give oral sex because its dirty
Q. I'm dating this girl, who has told me she'll do anything for me. However, she won't give me head because it is dirty.. meanwhile I give lots. How can I go about getting head and is it normal to feel bad for her reason? And I'm very clean, medically ...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi
It feels very porn style to many women doing this, also many women fear their partner wont pull out in time, therefore ejaculate in their mouth, which will put a lot of women off. Also some women cant stand anything touching the back of ... (read in full...)
Why am I so sensitive when it comes to my ex?
Q. Why am I so sensitive? Any time I go through a break up it takes me ages to get over them. My most recent relationship only lasted 9 months, but we were very close and we were in love. We had to end the relationship back in September because she was ...
A. 22 May 2011: Hi
I think it's a case of what you cant have you want it even more. I dont doubt you loved this girl, but your in another relationship already, so you have not given yourself enough time or space to get over her properly. If you still have thes... (read in full...)
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