He texts me with smiley faces. Does he want to pursue a relationship?
Q. So I met this guy who's really nice and very similar to me. I have known him for a few months prior. We both bluntly state that we are extremely attracted to one another. We had a really nice night talking and had some fun with making out and ...
A. 25 February 2012: HI
He probably wants to go dutch, so is saying nothing too expensive. I think it's great :) hope you get all this sorted out. Have a lovely eveing.
Mandy x... (read in full...)
He put pictures up on Facebook of his ex wives, am I right to be upset by this or am I over-reacting?
Q. My boyfriend has recently put a couple of photos of his ex wives on his phone, and his FB timeline. I was a bit shocked when I saw them. His explanation was that they were a part of his past and he wanted them there. I found this odd, I too have ex ...
A. 24 February 2012: HI
I find it quite strange, as it seems you both have sorted this out, and used our site to humour yourselfs, not get advice wether it be possitive or negative. Sometimes in life we hear things we dont want to hear and that is the truth. S... (read in full...)
I can't help but think that she is hiding the fact that its all become too much for her and she is struggling to end it
Q. Why does she blow hot and cold. She says she loves me but of late is very quick to tears. I can't help but think that she is hiding the fact that its all become too much for her and she is struggling to end it. She is supposed to be moving in with ...
A. 24 February 2012: Your very welcome :) x... (read in full...)
I can't help but think that she is hiding the fact that its all become too much for her and she is struggling to end it
Q. Why does she blow hot and cold. She says she loves me but of late is very quick to tears. I can't help but think that she is hiding the fact that its all become too much for her and she is struggling to end it. She is supposed to be moving in with ...
A. 24 February 2012: HI
so maybe all she needed then was a firmer but fair reassurance that your not going to be the same. I hope this continues to get progressively better for you both. I would add though also try to be YOURSELF now she has been informed of your ... (read in full...)
Will asking about his past open a can of worms?
Q. Hi there, I've been in a relationship for 6+ months, and all is going well. We are happy. We never talk about past relationships, we are both quite guarded people and are slowly opening up more over time. He has a lot of female friends. Which h...
A. 23 February 2012: HI
try not to over think here, because if you do you may never have that lasting relationship. I agree dont completely let your guard down, not just yet, but dont stop yourself from continuing your happy so far relationship either. untill you have... (read in full...)
I am jealous about my guy's other children!
Q. That's a long story but will try and make it plain and easy... I was in a relationship with a guy for 8 years and although I did not plan to have kids to him I always thought that I would end up admitting it was the best thing because that baby ...
A. 23 February 2012: Your very welcome.
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I am jealous about my guy's other children!
Q. That's a long story but will try and make it plain and easy... I was in a relationship with a guy for 8 years and although I did not plan to have kids to him I always thought that I would end up admitting it was the best thing because that baby ...
A. 23 February 2012: HI
I dont think you should worry yourself too much about this, He is with you, and you have a beautiful child together, his probably trying to balance his love btween them all and finding it hard. It will settle down and get into a ood routine ... (read in full...)
He put pictures up on Facebook of his ex wives, am I right to be upset by this or am I over-reacting?
Q. My boyfriend has recently put a couple of photos of his ex wives on his phone, and his FB timeline. I was a bit shocked when I saw them. His explanation was that they were a part of his past and he wanted them there. I found this odd, I too have ex ...
A. 23 February 2012: HI
the fact that they have JUST gone on there, and his been blatant and rude about it suggests he still habours feelings for these women. I dont think your over reacting at all. If he wants nothing else to say about it, and say's it's your pro... (read in full...)
I met someone else, so how do I let him down gently?
Q. I met this guy towards the end of last year but then we stopped talking, it just fizzled out. But about two weeks ago he contacted me again and we have been flirting and planning to go out with each other sometime. The thing is, I met this guy but I ...
A. 23 February 2012: HI
just be honest, say your flattered but you have now met someone, and that your happy. Wish him well and get on with your relationship. No complications just the truth.
Hoe this helps
Mandy x... (read in full...)
I've found out that I'm bi, from talking with this girl ... who has a girlfriend. Help?
Q. Hi agony aunts. Well I've recently found out that I'm bi.. Because of this girl. We met via twitter (we've like talked and skyped I know she's real don't worry...) and she only lives in the next state over. First we were friends, but now I really ...
A. 23 February 2012: HI
Just because you have bonded well with this women, and love her personality, and open up to eachother does not make you bi. It sounds like you are very alone and vunerable, and you made a great friend whom you connected extremely well wit... (read in full...)
Once a month, my feelings change drastically and very specifically, is this normal?
Q. I love my boyfriend. I love him so much but every month, about a week before my period is due I just lose all interest. I start questioning myself, him, our relationship, everything and I hate it because I know as soon as the week is out I'll hate ...
A. 23 February 2012: HI
Many women suffer mood swings like this, it;s were your hormones become unbalanced. I would speak with your Dr and maybe he/she can change the birth control for a different one, see if that works. In the mean time explain to your boyfrien... (read in full...)
He texts me with smiley faces. Does he want to pursue a relationship?
Q. So I met this guy who's really nice and very similar to me. I have known him for a few months prior. We both bluntly state that we are extremely attracted to one another. We had a really nice night talking and had some fun with making out and ...
A. 23 February 2012: I think a bottle of wine is a nice jesture, nothing too fancy, just a simple rose wine would surfice. With the line of work his in, it would be a great way to unwind. :)
Mandy x... (read in full...)
We're over. Should I try to make things right so there's no tension?
Q. Hey everyone, so I have a small issue. Well, it all started in December. My ex and I were still dating but... We were very distant. We hardly ever got together and I wanted to break up with him, but I didn't know when or how. I never loved him, ...
A. 23 February 2012: wow... you call the guy a looser, you say you never love, you say he has no future, and also there is other guys you want to see, and you EVEN WANTED to break up with him.... no wonder why he didn't want to spend money on you, or get intouch. People ... (read in full...)
How do I get through to my wife that we are over?
Q. So around 10days ago, i posted a question about myself and my wife, but we have since separated as a result of constant fights over what was so pointless and petty. But, she will not just let me be, i ask her and tell her that things are over,...
A. 23 February 2012: HI
It's going to be hard for her to just let go, you may have argued a lot, but if you love someone so much you will always think you can make it up and start again. The best thing you can do is keep telling her that it's not ever going work bet... (read in full...)
Is it really "no big deal" for married women to have crushes on other men?
Q. I would really be interested in hearing from married women on this one. What does it mean when your wife seems to be very smitten with a husband of a couple we are becoming friends with? Do I have a right to be upset? Or, should I just relax and ...
A. 23 February 2012: HI
I WOULD FIND THIS UNEXCEPTABLE BEHAVIOUR. How Would your wife feel if the boot was on the other foot? I for one would not like it if my boyfriend/husband or whom ever I was with, was treating me in this way. I know some people can be natur... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he called after he kept asking for my phone number, email?
Q. I hit it off with this guy. We spent a large majority of time talking, and everything was great. Although a weird thing that came up before things got a bit heated, was that he mentioned he might have an STD, that he got tested, but hasn't heard of ...
A. 23 February 2012: Your not stupid, he just caught you at a vunerable time, just try to be a little more cautious next time :)... (read in full...)
Label-less relationship
Q. Kinda long, hope you bear with me... I met a long-time female acquaintance whom I haven't seen for years in a party. We got to talking and updating each other. She's already married, while I was in a long-term lesbian relationship. Sh...
A. 23 February 2012: your very welcome :)... (read in full...)
Label-less relationship
Q. Kinda long, hope you bear with me... I met a long-time female acquaintance whom I haven't seen for years in a party. We got to talking and updating each other. She's already married, while I was in a long-term lesbian relationship. Sh...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
sounds like she is bi-curious and thats all. The hot and cold vibe is probably the day's she feels randy and adventurous, she will want your attention, the days she dont she would rather call you a friend and not be seen as a possible... (read in full...)
Can I leave home and be OK with my Girlfriend? I'm scared to do so, but I am sick of the fights at home.
Q. Im only 17 years old and i believe that i am gay. It may be a phase but so far i really don't think it is. Recently my parents and I had a disagreement with it all and they make me feel like Im nothing when I know Im better then what they think i ...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
you have to understand, some people are homophobic, and although this is not right it sometimes cant be helped, its how they were brought up. Never the less its awful you are made to feel like this just for being you. I would not leave home, beca... (read in full...)
I am jealous about my guy's other children!
Q. That's a long story but will try and make it plain and easy... I was in a relationship with a guy for 8 years and although I did not plan to have kids to him I always thought that I would end up admitting it was the best thing because that baby ...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
no your not a bad person your only human, your bound to feel a little jealous at times, but they were here first so his going to have more of a bond with them, in time as your child starts to grow he will also get a very strong bond with tha... (read in full...)
Why don't men want to talk on the phone?
Q. I'm finding this so common with men I meet now, they refuse to talk on the phone. I met a great guy, we went out on 2 dates and had a blast together but we only communicate via text. At one point, I gave him a call but he didn't answer. When I heard ...
A. 22 February 2012: sounds a little suspicious to me! maybe his married? I mean yeah many men dont do the phone thing like us girls, but never to answer his phone , and only communicate by text and not hardly either, hhmmmm I would let this one go.
Mandy x... (read in full...)
As a young couple, how can we start our sex life in a good way?
Q. hi, I'm 24 and my girlfriend Is 20, we've been togueter about 2 month now, and we have a great , fun and sincere relationship. the problem Is , neither of us Is experienced with sex, I've only had one previous experience and she had one too. ...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
It's great your reading up on this matter, which means to me you are a very thoughtful and caring partner.
In your particular situation ( her shyness of her body )I would suggest lighting a few scented candles, this gives off little light... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he called after he kept asking for my phone number, email?
Q. I hit it off with this guy. We spent a large majority of time talking, and everything was great. Although a weird thing that came up before things got a bit heated, was that he mentioned he might have an STD, that he got tested, but hasn't heard of ...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
being in the music industry myself I know only too well how a young guy acts, and I mean ACTS, this is a man who will meet a different girl every week, string you a line or 10, make you feel like you have just entered a movie, tell you what... (read in full...)
I ran from my ex girlfriend! Did I do the right thing?
Q. Hello. I had an encounter with my ex, on a city bus. Now, she's the dumper. I'm scared of her, as she lied to me, and such. Anyways, I got off the bus, and, I find out she got off at the same stop. Now, I attend the same school as her (But, thankf...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
youwish is spot on here, dont let her make you feel you have to run, confront her and tell her it's been over for a while and you dont want her in your life EVER, IT WILL BE THEN you can truely be happy with your life and move on from this.
... (read in full...)
Did my g/f perform oral on me just to make me feel better?
Q. Hello everyone I have a question about what has happened earlier in the day. She came over to my house and well things got heated and I was performing oral on her which I love to do but she likes to finish off herself which I don't like. An...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
well I can tell you many men would love their partner to finish themself off as you out it , infront of them, her giving you a BJ at the same time was for both of you not just her, why is she now upset though? im a little lost with how you ... (read in full...)
Whatever happened to amicably breaking up??!
Q. Hi guys. I have posted on here before recently. I have had a horrible time recently. Me and my bf broke up in December after I had a miscarriage in November. Basically he wasn’t really there for me and I was really going through it and I pretty much ...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
Dont be disheartened, you will get through this and one day let someone else into your heart.
But for now NO I would not sign the house over to him, his trying to be mean and manipulitive to get you so angry you just give in and do j... (read in full...)
Why was I bleeding after anal sex?
Q. My hubby and I have been having anal sex for about 5.5 years and I have never bled as badly as I did last night. A lot of online articles talk about fissures and friction but after anal there was as much blood in the toilet as if I had my period? ...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
This is not the page you should be asking that question on, you need to log into nhsdirect.co.uk or better still go to your Dr's A.S.A.P!!
You are very right to be alarmed. Firstly anal sex has always been a questionable sexual activity,... (read in full...)
Would you be put off a guy who said his son was "just a baby I made"?
Q. I'm dating a man who is a lot older than me, and he has a son who is a year younger than i am . He hasn't had much contact with his ex wife since they got divorced 23 years ago. He also hasn't seen his son much since his son was three years old. He ...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
I WOULD RUN AND RUN VERY VERY FAST!!!!!! It dosen't matter how bad things were with them in regards to his son, what sort of man say's " its just a baby I made?/?
This is definately not a man I would start a relationship with, our very r... (read in full...)
I don't want to die without trying anal sex, so is it cheating if I hire a prostitute as my wife refuses to do this?
Q. Just something that I've been thinking about: My wife and I have been together for years. Like any other couple, we have boundaries and red flags in sex. Anal sex is a red flag for her. But I can't get it off of my mind! I don't want to die wit...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
of course its cheating!!
Did you not explain to your wife before you married her
that this is something you want to try?
If you feel more strongly about trying anal sex with your wife than the love you both share, you will end up a lonely... (read in full...)
Oral sex saved for a special occasion?
Q. My boyfriend has been asking me to give him oral sex for a little while, and I finally brought up the courage to do it for him the other day. It was spontaneous and romantic and everything I imagined it to be. Since then, He has asked me a coupl...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
he will only resent them days if you hold back. And so would I if my partner said that to me.....
If you want something for special occassions like birthdays/christmas, why dont you suggest an new postion from the karma sutra book, or a... (read in full...)
He texts me with smiley faces. Does he want to pursue a relationship?
Q. So I met this guy who's really nice and very similar to me. I have known him for a few months prior. We both bluntly state that we are extremely attracted to one another. We had a really nice night talking and had some fun with making out and ...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
I would hold back your feeligs for a little while, you told him once your falling for him, so dont mention that again unless he does. other than that its sounds like he likes you too :) texting good night with smiley faces every night, i... (read in full...)
My friend finally knows I love her but she doesn't feel the same. Now what?
Q. I've liked this girl for a long time, we dated a like a year ago in school, but it didn't work out cause of school. We've been friends since, I've tried to rekindle dating but she's either always seeing some jerk or she tells me she only see...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
I think you need to cut your losses here, she has made it clear many times she wants nothing but friendship,you cant make someone feel what they dont im afraid. just being nice to her, joining her group, or anything else for that matter w... (read in full...)
My girlfriend will ruin my life if I leave her. How do I get out of this?
Q. My girlfriend is completely obsessed with me. If I leave her she will ruin my life. I think the only way to make her fall out of love with me is to tell her that im convinced that im seriousely gay even though im not. What can I do that will make ...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
Im taking a wild guess here, but is she always by your side? over excited when with you? and wanting to know your every single movement? if so this is going to be a tricky situation to get out of, simply saying your gay will definate... (read in full...)
I can't help but think that she is hiding the fact that its all become too much for her and she is struggling to end it
Q. Why does she blow hot and cold. She says she loves me but of late is very quick to tears. I can't help but think that she is hiding the fact that its all become too much for her and she is struggling to end it. She is supposed to be moving in with ...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
please dont end it with her, she is obviously very scared of a repeat of the last relationship. Its not just her she is thinking about its her child too. just be there for her, let her know what ever she decides you still love her and that... (read in full...)
Fiance called off our wedding and there was no warning! Help!
Q. Yesterday, my fiance called off our wedding. I never before believed the people who say 'It came totally out of the blue'. 'Surely', I used to think 'there must have been signs. Arguments, tensions, disagreements, pressure. Things that led ...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
YOU WILL make it through the end of the day, talking like that wont get this resolved.....I can only imagine the hurt your going through right now, and I understand why you feel you cant speak to anyone( as his asked you not to ) BUT you ... (read in full...)
Will asking about his past open a can of worms?
Q. Hi there, I've been in a relationship for 6+ months, and all is going well. We are happy. We never talk about past relationships, we are both quite guarded people and are slowly opening up more over time. He has a lot of female friends. Which h...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
the love you both share is obviously getting stronger, so now thoughts of him and his past relatonshions are eating up at you, this is natural, and yes I can see how you may wonder about it, if his often going out with his single girl/fri... (read in full...)
I know he is not having an affair, but I don't understand what is going on
Q. Hi, I have been in a relationship for just over four years now , I have been engaged and split , married and divorced with 2 kids one of them leaving home in sept for universaty my other son suffers from ADHD and autism . My partners sons to his ...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
I hear you, but you have to look at the bigger picture here, if your prepared to PUT up with this because his your first true love, then your life is never going to change, his set in his ways and made it obvious that if you want to leav... (read in full...)
My husband seems to be more interested in other activities that take him / his time away from me
Q. I've been married for almost eight years. We've had ups and downs but not quite like the down we are going through now. My husband seems to be more interested in other activities that take him / his time away from me. I do not think hes cheating as ...
A. 22 February 2012: thats what im talking about :D
keep us posted, and have fun, you deserve it.!!
Mandy x... (read in full...)
How to deal with my son's inappropriate actions?
Q. Normally I am a very proud father who tries to stay out of my grown kids business but after a recent family vacation / wedding I am disappointed in my sons actions. My son Ryan is 23 yrs old and has been dating his gf Jill (20) for alittle over a ...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
Im so glad you spoke face to face with your son, it's always better this way, as you say you cant see his reaction on the phone. im really pleased you have sorted this out now. Hope your next family get together is fantastic.
Mandy x... (read in full...)
What is the opinion on a 40 year old man who has never been married or engaged?
Q. I have a question for the ladies.. what do you think of 40 year old men who have never lived with a woman, been engaged, married, etc. would you question if they are boyfriend or better yet.... husband material? This conversation came up at work ...
A. 21 February 2012: or it could just be the guy dont like being touched.....
waiting for the right one;;;
doesn't want to grow up ( peter pan syndrome)
It does make me laugh though that everone always jumps to a conclusion of weirdo or something wrong with him... (read in full...)
What is the opinion on a 40 year old man who has never been married or engaged?
Q. I have a question for the ladies.. what do you think of 40 year old men who have never lived with a woman, been engaged, married, etc. would you question if they are boyfriend or better yet.... husband material? This conversation came up at work ...
A. 21 February 2012: or it could just be the guy dont like being touched.....
waiting for the right one;;;
doesn't want to grow up ( peter pan syndrome)
It does make me laugh though that everone always jumps to a conclusion of weirdo or something wrong with him... (read in full...)
16 year old girl sent pornographic video of herself to my boyfriend?
Q. So... I need some advice. My boyfriend is very nice looking and it isn't just me that thinks it, other girls also think the same. He talks to a lot of girls who he claims are just his friends he goes about talking to them through phone calls, text ...
A. 21 February 2012: HI
keeping the email was a wrong move,and as much as everyone is going to jump down my throat here, it could still be a innocent reason as to why he never deleted it....ok he first tried to deny that he'd seen it, because he was caught out and ... (read in full...)
Would most girls run away if they knew I had never been in a relationship at 27?
Q. I'm curious as to what you women would think about a 27 year old guy who has no relationship experience and never had a girlfriend because he has experienced nothing but rejection, bad luck and simply didn't attract any interest from girls at all. ...
A. 21 February 2012: HI
I dont think so, if anything it would be quite refreshing to be with a guy who They would be your first, no ex's to worry about. They may have a little think as to why you have never been with anyone, but its really no different as if a gir... (read in full...)
My girlfriend kissed one of our friends when we were on a break, I can't get over it?
Q. hi there, please give me some advice i'm so upset! long story short, we had been together nearly 2 years. me and my girlfriend broke up in november, i broke up with her because she told me to go and die and showed me no respect. we were trying t...
A. 21 February 2012: HI
This is appauling behavour from her, an argument or not to say such an awful thing is so wrong. Simply clawing all over you and saying she loves you just dont sit well. Yet you got back together......only for her to disrespect you and hers... (read in full...)
My husband seems to be more interested in other activities that take him / his time away from me
Q. I've been married for almost eight years. We've had ups and downs but not quite like the down we are going through now. My husband seems to be more interested in other activities that take him / his time away from me. I do not think hes cheating as ...
A. 21 February 2012: HI
you say you used to go out with a girlfriend , but now your not because your still thinking about him and that your fear his enjoying the time your not there.......you have got to try and get a grip on this ( not trying to be mean ) :( try a... (read in full...)
How to deal with my son's inappropriate actions?
Q. Normally I am a very proud father who tries to stay out of my grown kids business but after a recent family vacation / wedding I am disappointed in my sons actions. My son Ryan is 23 yrs old and has been dating his gf Jill (20) for alittle over a ...
A. 21 February 2012: HI
yes I think thats best, give him a call and talk this through, it's easy for people who have not been in this situation to jump down your throat as to what your duties are as a father, but unless they have been in your shoes they really s... (read in full...)
I know he is not having an affair, but I don't understand what is going on
Q. Hi, I have been in a relationship for just over four years now , I have been engaged and split , married and divorced with 2 kids one of them leaving home in sept for universaty my other son suffers from ADHD and autism . My partners sons to his ...
A. 21 February 2012: HI
Ok I am clearer now on this situation, and can fully understand why your feeling the way you are. I think I would feel the same in this circumstances. Its been four years and still not much of a move forward. I personally would sit him down... (read in full...)
Why am I having so much trouble dating?
Q. Hi I'm 16 and for some odd reason I can't get a girlfriend I have good grades I'm not a nerd I play football I try asking them out and the always say "no" or "I'm not ready" then like a few weeks later there dateing someone else and or if they are ...
A. 21 February 2012: HI
sorry to hear your having a hard time :(
sometimes though we are just not everyones type, but hold on in there, because there is someone for everyone. Instead of asking a girl out, why not try to get to know her better first, find a gi... (read in full...)
Will asking about his past open a can of worms?
Q. Hi there, I've been in a relationship for 6+ months, and all is going well. We are happy. We never talk about past relationships, we are both quite guarded people and are slowly opening up more over time. He has a lot of female friends. Which h...
A. 21 February 2012: HI
I would just continue the way you are, if its not broke dont fix it!!!! if he had anything to hide he would not introduce you to them, and they warmed to you, which suggests there is nothing going on. maybe he dont want the same old same old... (read in full...)
I know he is not having an affair, but I don't understand what is going on
Q. Hi, I have been in a relationship for just over four years now , I have been engaged and split , married and divorced with 2 kids one of them leaving home in sept for universaty my other son suffers from ADHD and autism . My partners sons to his ...
A. 21 February 2012: HI
sounds like his scared of commitment, but I can also see where his coming from,you dont work and have debts to pay, you both have children so he probably does not want that burden, to be honest neither would I. Have you spoke C.A.B ( citize... (read in full...)
How to deal with my son's inappropriate actions?
Q. Normally I am a very proud father who tries to stay out of my grown kids business but after a recent family vacation / wedding I am disappointed in my sons actions. My son Ryan is 23 yrs old and has been dating his gf Jill (20) for alittle over a ...
A. 21 February 2012: HI
im all for letting your hair down and having fun, but your son completely over stepped the mark here. You sound like a very patient man, I think I would have hit the roof there and then if that were me. He obviously can not handle his drin... (read in full...)
My husband seems to be more interested in other activities that take him / his time away from me
Q. I've been married for almost eight years. We've had ups and downs but not quite like the down we are going through now. My husband seems to be more interested in other activities that take him / his time away from me. I do not think hes cheating as ...
A. 21 February 2012: Hi
it's so sad when a marriage hits a stagnant stillness. You were both pretty young when you married, and im guessing this is maybe why he is now trying to recapture some youth, along time,other activities suggest he needs this. I dont think he i... (read in full...)
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