I found dirty knickers in my husband's car
Q. I found dirty underwear in my husband car and they aren't mine I don't known what to do? Dirty females underwears in my husband car? Im confuse I don't know what to do....
A. 16 January 2012: Im sorry your husband has womens dirty knickers in the car, and you find them, he then tells you not to be nosey???? I would pack his bags for him and put them in his car, and let whom ever he is seeing deal with him. You dont deserve to be treated ... (read in full...)
My husband's drinking is making me uncomfortable
Q. Im concerned about how often/much my husband is drinking. He is a big guy so it takes a lot to get him drunk and even if he does get drunk he is ok, not nasty or silly or anything. But I think im worried if this will continue when we decide to have ...
A. 10 January 2012: Hi
alcohol dependant is just a polite word for acoholic hun, and if it is bothering you then you need to sit him down and discuss it with him. He may feel that with a drink he is more popular, or a more fun person to be around.Some people c... (read in full...)
Has my break up given me an eating disorder?
Q. I'm 32 and have 2 children. I split up with my partner on the 9th December. Was quite a bad break up and since then I just don't have any appetite what so ever.....I just push food around my plate and barely eat anything. Typical daily example is a ...
A. 31 December 2011: Hi
It's no wonder your not eating properly. Prozac in its self gives you less of an appetite, may I suggest you ask your Dr to change your anti-depressant to 20mg of amitriptyline. It is also a relaxant as well as an anti-depressant. Your bre... (read in full...)
She's a lesbian, but I can't stop thinking abut her!
Q. I had a friend she was a lesbian. We spent lots of time together and i started to get feelings for her. And i presumed she had feelings for me because she'd hold my hand, snuggle up to me... all that kind of stuff. She even went to prom with with ...
A. 27 December 2011: Hi
Oh that fantastic, im so happy for you :) Have a wonderful new year. I hope your christmas was good too. x... (read in full...)
Once or twice a month I have a stronger scent that usual. Is this normal?
Q. Maybe once or twice a month I will have a stronger "scent" than usual. It's not like a sickening smell and it's not a bad odor..My boyfriend says it's just stronger than it usually is. All other days it's a very mild scent. Is this normal?? I wash ...
A. 11 December 2011: Hi
it's exactly that. Your hormones are playing havoc onvce a month, due to ovulation. So this makes your fluids a stronger smell, amd if he is going down so to speak, it will taste stronger. This is also the time of the month that you will... (read in full...)
I have three guys I'm considering. Who to choose? Please, as much advice as possible?
Q. So, there are these three guys... It's not just like I'm desperate for a boyfriend and I've narrowed it down to these three guys, I actually really like them all. So, Guy 1 is in my class at school. He is in my form. We've been in the same c...
A. 10 December 2011: Your still very young, and have all the time in the world. So just continue to be their freinds for now, and if it's meant to be you will end up with the right guy in the end :) Try to focus on your school work and not let boys be the main focus of ... (read in full...)
My wife's ex-boyfriend contacted her after 20 years of no contact. I am not sure what to think about this.
Q. My wife's ex-boyfriend (the one prior to me) contacted her after 20 years of no contact. I have been with my wife for 19 years. My wife did not tell me about this. I discovered it when I saw a strange number on her cell phone bill. I confront...
A. 5 December 2011: Hi
I think you may be jumping the gun a little here. I understand how you feel in regards to keeping it a secret, but maybe she knew how you would react so didn't want to upset you , when nothing is happening. Lots of women end up being fr... (read in full...)
Is it just that time has changed my attitude? Or could it be the promotion is affecting things?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years moved to another town a year ago for a job. We were living together and everything was great. The plan was that I follow him there once I get a job. It's been a year now and initially I missed him like crazy and I thought...
A. 3 December 2011: Hi
Sometimes when we have other things to keep us busy and foccused, we tend to do well on our own. It dont mean you have lost the feelings for your partner, just dealing better with the abcence of seeing him . I bet when you meet up again all ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose the trust of my b/f's daughter but I do think she pushes the boundaries!
Q. I'm in a relationship (for 6 years already) and my boyfriend has an 11 year old daughter. I'm very lucky in the sense that she loves me very much. We get along great and I feel she trusts me 100%. I, myself, does not have any kids of my own and ...
A. 15 November 2011:
11 and from a broken family, did you not know this when you got with your partner? I dont understand why you continued to be with this girls father if your not that maternal. She will at this age need stability with someone who CAN and IS w... (read in full...)
Should I try to contact her one last time or just say bon voyage?
Q. Hi everyone! So here's the deal, my ''ex'', and I met over an internet game, at first we really didn't care for each other - I thought she was a terrible player, in turn she thought I was an asshole. But then as time went by we kind of grew on ...
A. 10 November 2011: I hear you and I really feel where your coming from, I have been through a traumatic life myself, And I have been hurt emotionaly on more than one occassion. I dont normally talk about myself on here but as I can connect with you here I will tell ... (read in full...)
Should I try to contact her one last time or just say bon voyage?
Q. Hi everyone! So here's the deal, my ''ex'', and I met over an internet game, at first we really didn't care for each other - I thought she was a terrible player, in turn she thought I was an asshole. But then as time went by we kind of grew on ...
A. 6 November 2011: yes it looks that way hun. I would let her go her merry way, you have a whole life ahead of you, and in that life you WILL find ther perfect one for you. xx... (read in full...)
A 24 year old dating a 17 year old?
Q. I have a question about a 24 year old dating a 17 year old. I'm 24 and 7 months, and I do have a crush on a 17 year old highschooler. I'm wondering is it ok to get to know her and become close friends? I know I can't have sex, but would casual ...
A. 5 November 2011: I would question why you feel a girl at such a young age appeals to you? because she is so young she may appear to act older but most girls will not want to be in anything serious, and will often change her mind. Even if you say she is not like most ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my lesbian girlfriend to take it easy on me during sex without telling her I was a virgin before her?
Q. Girlfriend is on a quest to sexually open me up. She doesn't like to use lube although she can be real rough during sex. I really really love her and she says she loves me....we've been together two years n being intimate for a yr and a half. We ...
A. 5 November 2011: sounds like to me she dont even want to be a lesbian, i think its a case of she was ruffed up and is taking her anger out on you. EVEN if she thinks she is the male in this relationship, not ALL men treat you like crap. I would tell her to P..... ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend teases me about having sex but then doesn't follow through
Q. I am a 19 year old virgin guy and I have a great girlfriend though she isn't a virgin oh well. One thing i am haveing a problem with is that she teases me and then when we are about to have sex we stop and she says sorry to me. We were about to have ...
A. 30 September 2011: If she is tense she will be tight, maybe if you both just have an eveing of just being yourself relax, and let it happen without the background motive of are we are we not ....there is so much more to making love than just the obvious, kissing, ... (read in full...)
What type of men am I dealing with?
Q. Hello, I was wondering if anyone had some insight into what type of personality or type of men I am dealing with in my life. My husband has cheated on me behind my back for 5 years with other women. When confronted by me about it he verbally abus...
A. 30 September 2011: HI
Firstly I hope your concidering leaving this male shovenist pig?? He has clearly been brought up by his fathers standards of women should be treated like doormats!!! Im sure there was a day when womens rights came in to account? that we ... (read in full...)
I thought I was pregnant and needed some empathy from DC but I didn't get it!
Q. Dear cupid, you have done an excellent job and I am happy to be connected to this page. However, when I enquired if I could be pregnant(anonymous, 30 yo, fingered,?preganant),I needed an answer with some empathy. Your response was correct but ...
A. 19 August 2011: HI
Im so pleased your outcome was a good one for you :)
Not everyone will have an answer to give you that will help and make you happy, sometimes people will say things and can be blunt, but it really dont mean they dont care or understand w... (read in full...)
I caught my husband in bed with another woman.
Q. i saw my husband on bed with another woman may 13 2011 his friends gve me the hint and help me open to reality, the worst day of my life. i hate him now and we have a child. a very beautiful child. i want to teach him a hard lesson??? tell me how?...
A. 19 August 2011: HI
Sadly for you to try to teach him the hard way will only push you further apart, as tic for tac never accomplishes anything but more heartache. Tell him you need time apart to think about things as his broke your trust for him.You have a c... (read in full...)
My girlfriend teases me about having sex but then doesn't follow through
Q. I am a 19 year old virgin guy and I have a great girlfriend though she isn't a virgin oh well. One thing i am haveing a problem with is that she teases me and then when we are about to have sex we stop and she says sorry to me. We were about to have ...
A. 19 August 2011: HI
some women may find it hard knowing se will be your first, because as we all now your first you never forget. Maybe she is worried too, that maybe she dont do it for you and your first expeirence could be a let down. Try not to even think ab... (read in full...)
Should I try to contact her one last time or just say bon voyage?
Q. Hi everyone! So here's the deal, my ''ex'', and I met over an internet game, at first we really didn't care for each other - I thought she was a terrible player, in turn she thought I was an asshole. But then as time went by we kind of grew on ...
A. 19 August 2011: HI
go with what your heart tells you is a common saying, so on this occasion I would say go with what your mind is teling you, if you feel she is tagging you along o some mind game then she is not the one for you. Your still young and have ple... (read in full...)
Cheated on my husband and am riddled with guilt but do you think this other man loves me?
Q. hi i am married to a wonderful man for the past 23 years and now have cheated on him for the very first time. it is hard as i am riddled with guilt.i have been seeing a friend of ours for almost a year before we called it off.our friend is also ...
A. 20 July 2011: HI
First of all you have both done the right thing this time by calling it a day, nobody wants to intentionally break up a family.
You say this friend is very much like your husband? then maybe you are trying to find the old husband in y... (read in full...)
Why do my nipples burn with great pain?
Q. Right, so long story short, I have been trying to conceive with no luck for just over a year. Periods have always been messed up. I'm not using any contraception. I have missed 7 periods in a row in the past and my doctor thought in the early months ...
A. 5 July 2011: Ok let me just put your mind at ease right now....
it is NOT anything serious, cancer does not cause pain !! it is more like an allergy, or ruff pressure on the nipples. IF you are concerned here is not the place you will get an answer to sooth the ... (read in full...)
Why do my nipples burn with great pain?
Q. Right, so long story short, I have been trying to conceive with no luck for just over a year. Periods have always been messed up. I'm not using any contraception. I have missed 7 periods in a row in the past and my doctor thought in the early months ...
A. 4 July 2011: HI
Do you have an ill-fitting bra that is causing pressure on your nipples (some bras have seams that run right across the nipple...I have no idea why this is!). It could be as simple as your bra causing chaffing on your nipples; chaffin... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend ashamed of me?
Q. Well ive been with my girlfriend for about 3 years, it's weird she never brings me around her house, never wants to have sex It comes to a point were I have to literally ask her if we are ever gonna have sex or not.. Its sad She broke up with me...
A. 3 July 2011: Hi
After 3 years of being together and still not been intimate with eachoter, is no wonder your upset and confused, I mean yeah dont rush into anything but this is taking the buiscuit!!! This pathetic excuse of a woman is using you for somethin... (read in full...)
Why would my ex say all those things if he's over me?
Q. Your Open Question: Why would he say all of that? am so hurt:(? My ex boyfriend asked to be friends 6weeks ago cos he's moved on. But I said I couldn't cos I still love him. Last night. We spoke again and told me to move on and find ...
A. 3 July 2011: Hi
He cares for you,but dont love you anymore, he just wants you to be happy and move on rather than hurt yourself anymore by thinking things will change. I think you should take his advice and move on, try to keep yourself busy, and st... (read in full...)
Does the ring signify anything?
Q. Hello... I saw this girl with a simple and very thin silver ring on her left hand on the ring finger, it has no design and its a simple ring. She is on her 20s, and wears no other rings..what does the ring mean? Would it mean something else i...
A. 26 June 2011: HI
It could mean many things.
1) wedding ring
2) virginity ring ( some girls wear this so people will know she is saving herself for a husband)
3) she just likes wearing the ring on that finger
4) she dont want a relationship right now, ... (read in full...)
I think my man is gay but not sure. What do you think?
Q. when we first got together i just knew he was my husband sex was never an issue but everything changed when we moved n together he was super controlling we argued everyday we only had sex once a month n if i wanted more sex he would say i was ...
A. 26 June 2011: HI
It's possible he suffers with depression, or maybe he has been riddiculed before about his sex life or size of his manhood? but the biggest mistake you made was accussing him of being gay just because he was just not that into sex. You seem... (read in full...)
What is wrong with me? Two months now. Will I ever get over my ex?
Q. What is wrong with me? when will I get better? I loved my ex boyfriend so much. He was so nice and sweet. I was so happy with him. But he broke up with me saying he doesn't want a relationship. Two months later he rang me saying he wants us to be f...
A. 25 June 2011: Hi
what a complete and utter jerk he is, f**k buddy!! who does he think he is a don?? That alone should have been enough for you to have gotten over him, to think this man has no respect for women. I dont think you should rus int another ... (read in full...)
I feel like I came between them!
Q. Its been about two months..Im in relationship with my bf..but we were very close friends from about two years.. He had an ex who is now our good frn..I never had any problem with their friendship..bt nowadays I feel insecure coz she still likes him ...
A. 25 June 2011: HI
If you keep feeling insecure about the whole situation. then sit your partner down an tell him how uncomfortable its making you feel. I wouldn't like an ex hanging round my partner either friend or not, they were an ex for a reason, ... (read in full...)
Living in a foreign country and about to return home, my ex has asked if I can buy her some jewellery which she will pay for - shall I buy it? Should I tell my wife?
Q. Hi guys, I have been living in a foreign country for two years with my wife and plan to return to our home country soon. Yesterday, my ex surprised me with a call asking me to buy her some jewellery but made it very clear she would pay for it. I ...
A. 21 June 2011: HI
I think ( I hope lol ) I can speak for everyone and say you are very welcome .
And im glad you have decided NOT to buy, as I agree with sexlessinhuek she could say you brought it for her and stir up so much more.
xx... (read in full...)
To leave only to come back again
Q. I go to a university in chicago and im a junior in college. I am about to study abroad this spring and my boyfriend is going to study abroad this fall. We have been together for about a year now and see eachother regularly during the summer. Im ...
A. 20 June 2011: HI
I think it is totally doable! abscence makes the heart grow fonder. It's not like you wont see eachother at all, 4 months goes pretty quick especially when your going to be working hard. Writing love letters to eachother would be good too... (read in full...)
Who should I believe? Is he still with his ex?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been dating about a month now, The first week of our relationship, i hear rumors About him still together with his ex. My cousin shes friend with his ex, so i asked my cousin to ask the girl if she was still together with my ...
A. 20 June 2011: HI
It could be that this ex is now jealous his with you, but I find this hard to believe if he dont want anyone to know you are dating!! I would tell him to either let people know you are an item or leave you alone. Because he sounds very sec... (read in full...)
My family is causing trouble and stressing me out. Please help.
Q. i really need some friendly advice on what to do about my family. it all started when my younger brother went away with the forces. i dont live with my parents, i live on my own with my daughter, but while my brother was away i went round every...
A. 20 June 2011: HI
you realy are having a hard time of it all, when your family should be helping you get back on your feet. I cant see what you have done wrong other than saying you were trying to get pulled. I WOULDN'T HAVE SAID THAT MYSELF especial... (read in full...)
I know I should wait to have sex, but I think I'm ready.....is this the right choice?
Q. im 14 and like other teen girls i think about sex A LOT and i think im ready to have sex with my boyfriend but im scared of the pain or what could happen if we (Im) not carefull......you might think "oh all he wants is sex" not really i told him i ...
A. 20 June 2011: HI
I understand how your feeing, us women have quite a high sex drive at this age, even though we dont know the meaningg of it untill we try. However this would be a very BIG mistake at your age, and could damage your reputation and self est... (read in full...)
How do I deal with the fact my ex has moved on?
Q. About 3 months ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. We had a long distance relationship for about 8 months of it, and I finally broke it off because of drug issues/long distance insecurities/continuous fighting and a need for space. At the ...
A. 20 June 2011: Hi
im afraid this is a case of what you cant have you want more of. It's not because you still have unfinished buisness with him. You have finished your term, so now your not so busy with life, and you seem bitter that his moved on, maybe de... (read in full...)
Will he try and break it off again if we get back together?
Q. we got together. The week later he cheated. I didnt know. I was neglecting him cuz i missed my ex. So i believe thats why he cheated. I didnt know he cheated until i broke up with him for different reasons. Now....he wants me back....and he says hes ...
A. 20 June 2011: Hi
do you want to get back with him, regardless of his cheating? if so then agree to take it one step at a time, start from the begining with dating, and see how things go. BUT DONT DO ANYTHING WITH HIM untill your possitive he has changed for ... (read in full...)
Why cant she give me my space for more than a month?
Q. So my ex girlfriend broke up with me a little over 2 months ago and a month after the break up, she started dating someone...So that was when I decided to not talk to her until i was over her...A week after i told her that, she tried to contact me ...
A. 20 June 2011: HI
JUST SAY TO HER IT'S GREAT THAT SHE CAN SEEM TO GET OVER THE FACT YOUR NOT TOGETHER ANY MORE, BUT YOU CANT AND NEED MORE TIME TO DEAL WITH THIS. HER TEXTING AND PHONING IS ONLY MAKING IT MORE PAINFUL, AND IS PROLONGING THE SPACE YOU NEED... (read in full...)
Living in a foreign country and about to return home, my ex has asked if I can buy her some jewellery which she will pay for - shall I buy it? Should I tell my wife?
Q. Hi guys, I have been living in a foreign country for two years with my wife and plan to return to our home country soon. Yesterday, my ex surprised me with a call asking me to buy her some jewellery but made it very clear she would pay for it. I ...
A. 20 June 2011: HI
I would tell your wife asap, as keeping this a secret could cause big rows. And if you have a strong marriage and she dont feel threatend by this then I cant see a big deal in this, as long as your EX will pay you the money for it? Howe... (read in full...)
Is a lie at the beginning of a friendship just as bad as a lie at the beginning of a relationship?
Q. Do you think a lie at the beginning of a friendship is just as bad and damaging as a lie at the beginning? of a romantic relationship? We've been talking and hanging out for only a few months. I started lying to a friend before I knew her, liked...
A. 20 June 2011: HI
A lie is a lie no matter what relationship it is , friend,lovers,family. The only thing you can do is sit her down and explain why you felt the need to lie in the begining, maybe you felt she wouldn't like you as much if she knew the real... (read in full...)
Trying to blow off this girl. Any suggestions?
Q. i need a way to blow off a girl. i don't normally do these things. when im with a girl it is for the right reason which is love. so i intend to stay with her. among my guy friends i am the only one who is like that. the others just love girs for 2, ...
A. 19 June 2011: HI
letting her down gently would be a better word to use.
Just say to her It's really great seeing you again, but she didn't want to be in a relationship with you have moved on, and will find it hard to meet another girl if she is with you all ... (read in full...)
Husband verbally and emotionally abusive. What do I do?
Q. im 21 years old and met my husband half way through last year.. he was the most charming, handsome man id ever met and id prior had several really bad relationships.. when i met my husband, ive literally never been so happy in my life.. we were so ...
A. 19 June 2011: Hi
And im guessing that when you are both around other adults, his back to being loving and caring?
You need to get out of this marriage asap, this man has a very deep distressing past that will only be healed with proper counciling. I th... (read in full...)
How does a marriage survive if affection and sex have faded away?
Q. Is it very common ,that sex and affection dies down,after 25year of marriage? Does it matter,if you had a good marriage, with no big troubles with kids,or it is the same risk, 25 years is long for everyone? What happens,if people don't feel ...
A. 17 June 2011: HI
This is more common than you think, 25yrs is a long marriage and well done for getting this far . Somewhere along the line you have both got into a habbit, you know your both there for eachother so you have become reliant on this. You need... (read in full...)
Should I try to contact her one last time or just say bon voyage?
Q. Hi everyone! So here's the deal, my ''ex'', and I met over an internet game, at first we really didn't care for each other - I thought she was a terrible player, in turn she thought I was an asshole. But then as time went by we kind of grew on ...
A. 25 May 2011: Hi
I would count on her reading your letter, she wouldn't throw it away curiousity would get the better of her, and writing a letter is so much more personal, you would have given it everything you had, and if she dont reply, then at least yo... (read in full...)
Should I try to contact her one last time or just say bon voyage?
Q. Hi everyone! So here's the deal, my ''ex'', and I met over an internet game, at first we really didn't care for each other - I thought she was a terrible player, in turn she thought I was an asshole. But then as time went by we kind of grew on ...
A. 24 May 2011: Hi
Sadly there is nothing more you can do. I think she may be angry because your so far away, and spending them two weeks together was amazing for her, but knowing it would hardly happen often, she has pulled herself away from you. and not in t... (read in full...)
She's a lesbian, but I can't stop thinking abut her!
Q. I had a friend she was a lesbian. We spent lots of time together and i started to get feelings for her. And i presumed she had feelings for me because she'd hold my hand, snuggle up to me... all that kind of stuff. She even went to prom with with ...
A. 10 May 2011: Hi
It may be because she really knows YOU!! thats why you felt the need to be with her? Sometimes if we are feeling low, or misunderstood, we can take kindness as strong feelings, because were missing it in our life. I f she told you she dont fee... (read in full...)
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