Should I pursue this beautiful girl who has a boyfriend? Wait and see what happens? Or run?
Q. I have been talking to this girl for a couple months. She is really nice and it seems like she likes me. The way she talks to me in person and when we text seems like she does. Its just really flirty.The thing is I did not start the flirting. She ...
A. 29 February 2012: Flirting with eachother as just the same as cheating, yes its hitting on her. I would just stay friends, no flirtting.
Mandy x... (read in full...)
I really want to change my promiscuous ways! Please help!
Q. I was a very promiscuous girl, from 18-24. I would sleep withguys (oral sex mostly) without knowing them that well, it was REALLY easy to get me in bed. I couldn't form lasting relationships b/c of this. I didn't want to be with a guy i slept ...
A. 27 February 2012: HI
I think you have very low self esteam, you think by letting these guys get what they want you will be in their good books, and maybe have a chance of a relationship. I think you cover this fact by saying its all about the mystery. stop kid... (read in full...)
Is he just scared of being gay or is he just messing with my emotions for fun?
Q. Hi, im not sure if im just going nuts or what but i swear my best friend is screwing with my head. he knows im gay and he knows im in love with him, but he has a girlfriend who he is on and off with constantly. when we're just chilling out o...
A. 27 February 2012: HI
He doesn't hate everything gay, he just hates the fact his getting feelings towards you and doesn't want to be gay. His struggling with his emotions, but thats his problem to be cheating behind his GF back is very wrong, and to use you ... (read in full...)
He stopped contacting me after things got sexual, now we are talking again but is he ever going to ask me out again?
Q. Why would a man pull back when you get physical with him? I have been dating this guy and I know that we are not exclusive ..but I did some sexual things with him. I noticed that he texted me less after that. He used to text and say good morning ...
A. 27 February 2012: HI
you have only been on four dates, and already had some sexual activities with him, I think your better off leaving this guy be, he got what he was after, just learn from this, and dont be so eager in future ( nervous or not) talking about yo... (read in full...)
Can someone explain these boys to me?
Q. Heyya :) There are three boys in the year above me, and I walk home with them sometimes, and wait outside school with them and see them around school alot too and we talk. All of us are good friends. Right over time I have grown to like one of t...
A. 27 February 2012: HI
you have many years of dating ahead of you, so these 3 boys are playing games. dont bother with them, and I agree dont get involved with twins.Just concentrate on doing well with your gcse's, boys come and go your lifes education dont.
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I think I'm in love with my male best friend
Q. Hey, so, I'm a seventeen year old guy, living in the UK, and in short, I think I'm in love with my male best friend. I've known Ryan for about ten years. We've been best friends since first school, and we played together all the time. Around thr...
A. 27 February 2012: HI
Are you sure that you are gay? or is it because you two are so close, your mistaking these feelings for love? Its sounds like he could be struggling with his sexuality, which is why he may have been crying in the night. Its all very tricky a... (read in full...)
Should I pursue this beautiful girl who has a boyfriend? Wait and see what happens? Or run?
Q. I have been talking to this girl for a couple months. She is really nice and it seems like she likes me. The way she talks to me in person and when we text seems like she does. Its just really flirty.The thing is I did not start the flirting. She ...
A. 27 February 2012: HI
I would not even go there....she is a player, its NOT ok when men are players, and its NOT ok when women are. Your worthe more than that, and deserve to be with a girl who is not a two timing flirt. She obviously rates herself. Even your fri... (read in full...)
My mother is constantly reminding me of my age and the fact that I'm single. I just want her to stop and to leave me alone.
Q. I will be turning 26 this year and I'm single. Personally I'm ok with that. I figure as long as I'm living my life and enjoying what I do, the right guy will come along. I'm not in a rush But my mother on the other hand is constantly remin...
A. 27 February 2012: HI
Lol your mum sounds like she is missing her youth, and so jealous of yours. your still young, blimey im 39 this year, 3 kids, single, and I feel just as young if not better as when I was 26. You still have years ahead of you yet to settle d... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a 10 month break....how do I cope with this?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years. The first 4 years were long-distance. It was very hard, but we all got through it. We have been together when we were 19 years old and 18 years old. We are each other first love. We saved money du...
A. 27 February 2012: HI
Its always very hard and takes to very strong and committed people to handle a LDR. I think when you planted the thought of seeing other people for a year, opened a door in his mind, maybe a break for 10 months will do you both good, I wouldn... (read in full...)
Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix? Any thoughts?
Q. OK here's a question up for debate, not asking for help just your views on the subject. Random I know lol. DOMINATRIX Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix woman/man. ( for anyone who dont know what that is, it's where someone...
A. 27 February 2012: I guess from reading your views there is still a very long way to go for these kind of women to be excepted into our society as hard workers instead of prostitutes, I dont agree with selling your body, or porn films, I find it to be degrading on ... (read in full...)
Is it fine to casually date two women before choosing whom I want to be with? Does that make me a player?
Q. After a tough break up last year, I've been only getting out to start dating now. I met one lady at start of February, I've met her 4 other times now, even cooked her breakfast. I met another girl two weeks ago, that wouldn't work out. I met another ...
A. 27 February 2012: HI
you said you cooked breakfast for one, does this mean you had an eventful night? if so then dating another girl would be wrong. there is nothing wrong in dating a couple of people, as long as there is no sexual contact, or kissing invo... (read in full...)
I had to leave my daughter with my ex in order to get out of the relationship and now it is so difficult to get to see her, is my ex's behaviour normal?
Q. i was with my ex for a year and half. we went through a lot together. we had a baby girl few months ago. i eventually realised that i have no friends left due to him alienating them all and few family members too. he always kept hold of my bank ...
A. 27 February 2012: May I suggest you go to the poice a.s.a.p tell them everything, and how scared you were that if you took your daughter away from him you didn't know what he would do. You can get legal aid who are great. You must have been in a very difficult ... (read in full...)
Every conversation with husband turns into an argument!
Q. My husband of four years is a generally nice and kind man but has very firm views about things. I have tried over the years to put my views forward on things that I am not happy with in the relationship but my views are always walked over or ignored ...
A. 26 February 2012: HI
I think you should talk to him when you know his in a good frame of mind, and tell him how this is making you feel. But if he wont budge on this I fear your only other option is to leave him. you cant live your life being treated as a chi... (read in full...)
Every conversation with husband turns into an argument!
Q. My husband of four years is a generally nice and kind man but has very firm views about things. I have tried over the years to put my views forward on things that I am not happy with in the relationship but my views are always walked over or ignored ...
A. 26 February 2012: HI
I think you should talk to him when you know his in a good frame of mind, and tell him how this is making you feel. But if he wont budge on this I fear your only other option is to leave him. you cant live your life being treated as a chi... (read in full...)
I want my LDR b/f's family to accept us but I don't think they do
Q. Hello everyone. I'm writing this on my phone so I'm sorry for any mistakes. I've been in a long distance for four and a half years now. We've met before. Last year, we both told our families. Our friends already knew. Anyways. Last Chri...
A. 25 February 2012: HI
he seems very happy with you and the relationship you both have. Dont let his family spoil it because of their insecurites. His mother is just trying to stir things up because she dont want to see her son get hurt. I am in not saying i... (read in full...)
Is it possible my boyfriend is too interested in my mom?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been dating this guy for about 10 months now and recently I'v noticed something peculiar. Whenever he meets my mom, he really 'looks' at her when her back is turned. He even asked me about my parents sex life once when we wer...
A. 25 February 2012: HI
Usually your gut instinct is the right one to go by. In this instance I think your right to be concerned, however I doubt your mother would be best pleased. Sometimes a young man WILL find the mother very attractive, not to blow my own ... (read in full...)
I know this isn`t working but I still love him
Q. I have been with my Boyfriend for just under four years now. We have been living together for a year and a half and we are now renting out first house together. But things have been going wrong in the relationship and i am thinking i should move on. ...
A. 25 February 2012: HI
You have GOT to find the strength to move on, or you will spend the rest of your days with a man who is clearly cheating on you. He has no respect for you because once you forgive a cheater they will always abuse that trust. YOU ARE wort... (read in full...)
Broke it off with my LDR , but I want him back
Q. Hi everyone. I need some help guys. I'm in a long distance relationship of 2 years. I live in Thailand but my bf lives in the US. We had a fight a couple days ago and he called me a bitch. my response was: your such a bad liar! I told him we shoul...
A. 25 February 2012: HI
Give him a little longer to calm down, and get his mind back into focus, if he loves you enough he will get in touch, if not then he was not the guy for you. He should not have called you a bitch in the first place, so why should you be t... (read in full...)
Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix? Any thoughts?
Q. OK here's a question up for debate, not asking for help just your views on the subject. Random I know lol. DOMINATRIX Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix woman/man. ( for anyone who dont know what that is, it's where someone...
A. 25 February 2012: aah yes but what about this...lol
you work in a bank, a man comes in to disscuss his accounts with you, as your the manager you take him into your office, but the man has a fantasy about being alone with a female manager in the bank, his se... (read in full...)
Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix? Any thoughts?
Q. OK here's a question up for debate, not asking for help just your views on the subject. Random I know lol. DOMINATRIX Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix woman/man. ( for anyone who dont know what that is, it's where someone...
A. 25 February 2012: I think she probably still is a lovely girl, just has a different veiw on life to others now. I dont think a job ( any job lol ) changes people too much. But I can see the point your making.
hhmm Not all men want to come to a climax though (... (read in full...)
Should I be more flirtacious or just find someone else?
Q. Hi everyone. So ive never been in this perdicament before, ive only ever been in one relationship and it was toxic, there was a lot of cheating lying and heartbreak for me. Im still not completely over it but I am trying to move on. I recent...
A. 25 February 2012: HI
I would just find somebody else, I think because your willing to stay up so late to talk with him it keeps him company, which is nice ( for him) tiring for you. If he sleeps through the day and works through the night, I cant see how anything... (read in full...)
What would you do if a guy texts you but never calls?
Q. What would you do if a guy texts you and never calls. He doesn't ask you out consistantly. For example this weekend he has not asked me out for a date. He doesn't ever call. I really like him though and when we go out we have a really good ...
A. 25 February 2012: HI
Some people just dont do well talking on the phone, and as technology has given us so many other ways to communicate, he chooses to text rather than talk. I find this frustrating at times as I like a good conversation from time to time... (read in full...)
If he wants sex he has no chance!
Q. *We made out a couple of weeks ago (drunk). Told me he had feelings. *I stayed at his place (didn't have sex) *It was awkward the next week in college oddly *He jetted off to France for a week (student exchange) where apparently he DID THINGS...
A. 25 February 2012: HI
I Think your a very smart cookie, who knows what is good for her and what is not. A wise descision :) to stear clear. However if you like him and want to give him the benefit of the doubt, you always have the choice to say NO, if he makes ad... (read in full...)
Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix? Any thoughts?
Q. OK here's a question up for debate, not asking for help just your views on the subject. Random I know lol. DOMINATRIX Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix woman/man. ( for anyone who dont know what that is, it's where someone...
A. 25 February 2012: Some really interesting views on this :)
So what if the woman then is a cop? she is in uniform, beats the crap out of some guy, he actually loves it, the end result his arrested, isn't she some kind of dominatrix BUT getting paid by the govermen... (read in full...)
He texts me with smiley faces. Does he want to pursue a relationship?
Q. So I met this guy who's really nice and very similar to me. I have known him for a few months prior. We both bluntly state that we are extremely attracted to one another. We had a really nice night talking and had some fun with making out and ...
A. 25 February 2012: HI
He probably wants to go dutch, so is saying nothing too expensive. I think it's great :) hope you get all this sorted out. Have a lovely eveing.
Mandy x... (read in full...)
Torn between boyfriend and home
Q. I really dont know what to do!!! I started uni in London 3 years ago and met a lovely boy who is now my boyfriend. We've been together for nearly 3 years and we live in a flat together in London that we rent from my grandmother. London has bee...
A. 25 February 2012: HI
I think your boyfriend is being very unreasonable with you. I can understand he will miss you and dont want you to go, but his being selfish, his not thinking about you just himself. If you are so unhappy here and missing home , ( after al... (read in full...)
Can someone's hugs show how they feel about you? :)
Q. Hello :) I'm friends with the boy I like and we always hug goodbye. Lately,his hugs have been different. When I hug him he holds me really tight and he grabs my head and pushes my head against his chest and puts his fingers through my hair. ...
A. 24 February 2012: HI
He likes you :) he really likes you infact. if it was just fiends it would be a quick hug, and a cheesy smile,but the fingers through the hair, and the head against the chest suggests he is smitten with you ( luurrvvees you ) :D
M... (read in full...)
Wondering if my marriage is based on a lie?
Q. hey aunts and uncles, im so fed up at the moment, my husband lies to me so much, little white lies but im thinking if he can lie about something so simple, what else can he lie about. So hes been going to a martial arts class twice a week, so...
A. 24 February 2012: HI
trust is the foundation of a relationship, and if you haven't got it, its going to be a long bumpy ride. I dont think his having an afair, I just think his childish, and thinks his still 14, he still has a playground mentality, I think yo... (read in full...)
There is a sex tape of me out there and not just any sex tape a freaking party, public tape!!
Q. A few weeks ago I was at a party and drank alittle to much. There was this girl who was also a little drunk and shamelessly flirting with me and we ended up in one of the bedrooms and she was giving me head when some guy walked in. He laughed called ...
A. 24 February 2012: HI again lol
look you were both obviously over the drink limit, and so what, we all have been there at some point, some more than others.....dont beat yourself up over this. Put it down to experience, believe it or not ONE DAY you WILL laugh a... (read in full...)
Why is she flirting with me, if she has a boyfriend??
Q. There is this girl in my class that I have a crush on! Shes so pretty and has the most amazing personality! I just met her about a month and a half ago. We talk in class and we kinda flirt. Smile back and fourth and she will complement me when I do ...
A. 24 February 2012: HI
I dont think there was any flirting there at all, she was just appreciative, and grateful for your help at the time. She added you because she thinks your a good guy, not someone to flirt with. Flirting would have been more of " I owe y... (read in full...)
I had an abortion and am still grieving-but my boyfriend seems not to care, what should I do?
Q. I need some help to stop feeling angry with my bf about our abortion. I know readers might judge me for having an abortion, that's ok, I judge myself, I know I did the wrong thing, I feel guilty every day and regret my decision greatly. I'm trying ...
A. 24 February 2012: HI
unfortunately many guys wont register it's a baby unless they have actually seen it, and even when a baby arrives they want nothing much to do with it untill they start to speak ( more of a case of fun time, not waking up every two ours or ... (read in full...)
He was once a cheater, so what makes me any different?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months and I can honestly say without hesitation, I've NEVER loved anyone the way I love him. However, he has a past and it's affecting me and our relationship. Before I go any further, let me give you ...
A. 24 February 2012: When making the right choice for yourself, it's always going to be hard and take some time out for thinking. But only you can make the right choice for yourself,we can only give you our views and guidance. How you take that is again your choice. I ... (read in full...)
Is it taking advantage of a girl if you sleep with her because she's "easy"?
Q. So I know this girl who is really beautiful. Not only is she gorgeous but she's also "easy". You know what I mean by easy, right? She lets a lot of mates have their way with her. I mean, maybe she likes it too. If someone will get her a gift or buy ...
A. 24 February 2012: I think you are a nasty peice of work, You dont want a relationship with this girl. you just want a piece of the action. This girl has probably been through something traumatic in her life, so dont car about herself right now, and it's guys like you ... (read in full...)
Why did my ex call just to tell me I'm a nice girl?
Q. What did he mean by that? why did he call me? ? ? I loved my ex bf so much. We weren't just boyfriend and girlfriend we were friends aswell. We'd talk about everything and anything and could talk for hours on the phone and not run out of t...
A. 24 February 2012: HI
he probably wants the friendship back,but not the gf side just friends, and regrets what happened between you. so is letting you know you ARE a nice person and his not the only one that thinks so. Maybe he felt you were such great friends,... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and he's 27, plus I lied to him about being a virgin....how do I approach the sex situation?
Q. So i've been seeing this guy for a few weeks - we've met up about 3 times and i really like him, he seems decent and nice - baring in mind i usually have terrible luck with guys. The only issue is that hes just turned 27 and im 18 in a couple of ...
A. 24 February 2012: HI
Firstly you need to come clean with him about still being a virgin, He will not be upset that you are, just upset that you felt you had to lie about it. Most guys will be extremely happy that the girl they are dating is a virgin, because ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and he's 27, plus I lied to him about being a virgin....how do I approach the sex situation?
Q. So i've been seeing this guy for a few weeks - we've met up about 3 times and i really like him, he seems decent and nice - baring in mind i usually have terrible luck with guys. The only issue is that hes just turned 27 and im 18 in a couple of ...
A. 24 February 2012: HI
Firstly you need to come clean with him about still being a virgin, He will not be upset that you are, just upset that you felt you had to lie about it. Most guys will be extremely happy that the girl they are dating is a virgin, because ... (read in full...)
He was once a cheater, so what makes me any different?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months and I can honestly say without hesitation, I've NEVER loved anyone the way I love him. However, he has a past and it's affecting me and our relationship. Before I go any further, let me give you ...
A. 24 February 2012: I agree, once then maybe forgiven, more than that he will always be a cheater, they love the frill of the chase. The harder you play hard to get , the more he will want and fight for you, but when the novelty wears off, he will walk off!
Man... (read in full...)
What did he mean when he sent this message? I don't know how to respond...
Q. My boyfriend sent me a message saying " I don't know if you still love me like i love you, but i hope that you do ". Why would he say that, especially when i told him i loved him in the message i sent to him before that?. It's worrying me. I don't ...
A. 24 February 2012: HI
He sounds very much inlove with you, and as you stated worried that you may leave him for someone else. Im guessing your the younger one here? His bound to feel a little insecure, what with all the younger and more fitter men walking around. ... (read in full...)
Am I not attractive enough for him? Or is it just that he respects me a lot?
Q. I have always had high sex drive and that kind of makes me feel weird about myself. My bf has a seemingly low one cause he doesnt not ask me for anything physical. Normally I would be the one taking the initiative to cuddle with him. Recently, I ...
A. 24 February 2012: I think he is respecting you as a woman, and unlike alot of men feels that making love is something spontaneous between two people, not just because everyone else has a exected amount of how many times you should be getting it a week. Although if ... (read in full...)
There is a sex tape of me out there and not just any sex tape a freaking party, public tape!!
Q. A few weeks ago I was at a party and drank alittle to much. There was this girl who was also a little drunk and shamelessly flirting with me and we ended up in one of the bedrooms and she was giving me head when some guy walked in. He laughed called ...
A. 24 February 2012: HI
how awful for the both of you, but that said what's done is done, there's no turning back. If the girl wants nothing to do with you now its through total and utter embarrassment. You could right her a letter af a way of an apology BUT it will... (read in full...)
He put pictures up on Facebook of his ex wives, am I right to be upset by this or am I over-reacting?
Q. My boyfriend has recently put a couple of photos of his ex wives on his phone, and his FB timeline. I was a bit shocked when I saw them. His explanation was that they were a part of his past and he wanted them there. I found this odd, I too have ex ...
A. 24 February 2012: HI
I find it quite strange, as it seems you both have sorted this out, and used our site to humour yourselfs, not get advice wether it be possitive or negative. Sometimes in life we hear things we dont want to hear and that is the truth. S... (read in full...)
Should I take my ex back if she ever wants to come back?
Q. So me and my ex were together for 8 wonderful years. We started dating at 14 and ended at 22. We are also eachothers first real relationship and first sex partners. I always had my group of friends but she only ever wanted to be with me. She would ...
A. 24 February 2012: HI
I think it's great you have turned your life around for the better, I know you really love this girl but I would advise you not to back . She has had a different way of seeing things now, you were her first, so she never got to ( for a b... (read in full...)
He put pictures up on Facebook of his ex wives, am I right to be upset by this or am I over-reacting?
Q. My boyfriend has recently put a couple of photos of his ex wives on his phone, and his FB timeline. I was a bit shocked when I saw them. His explanation was that they were a part of his past and he wanted them there. I found this odd, I too have ex ...
A. 23 February 2012: HI
the fact that they have JUST gone on there, and his been blatant and rude about it suggests he still habours feelings for these women. I dont think your over reacting at all. If he wants nothing else to say about it, and say's it's your pro... (read in full...)
He texts me with smiley faces. Does he want to pursue a relationship?
Q. So I met this guy who's really nice and very similar to me. I have known him for a few months prior. We both bluntly state that we are extremely attracted to one another. We had a really nice night talking and had some fun with making out and ...
A. 23 February 2012: I think a bottle of wine is a nice jesture, nothing too fancy, just a simple rose wine would surfice. With the line of work his in, it would be a great way to unwind. :)
Mandy x... (read in full...)
He texts me with smiley faces. Does he want to pursue a relationship?
Q. So I met this guy who's really nice and very similar to me. I have known him for a few months prior. We both bluntly state that we are extremely attracted to one another. We had a really nice night talking and had some fun with making out and ...
A. 22 February 2012: HI
I would hold back your feeligs for a little while, you told him once your falling for him, so dont mention that again unless he does. other than that its sounds like he likes you too :) texting good night with smiley faces every night, i... (read in full...)
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