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Why am I dreaming about being pregnant?

Q.   I have been lately dreaming about being pregnat...... Like one dream the other night, there was something happening but we all got rushed to aN evacutaion are because tgere was bomings but i found out i was pregnat i could fell its heart beat, like ...

A.   9 May 2011: Hi To dream that you are pregnant, symbolizes an aspect of yourself or some aspect of your personal life that is growing and developing. You may not be ready to talk about it or act on it. Being pregnant in your dream may also represent the birth of... (read in full...)

How I can explore my newfound sexuality without jeopardizing my relationship?

Q.   So I am 18 years old. I have been in a serious relationship for almost two years now. I know for sure that my gf is the one. The thing is that as a new found out lesbian and her being my first everything, I haven't been able to really figure myself ...

A.   9 May 2011: Hi You say that this girl is the one for you, but you want to try out other girls because she is your first everything? then she is NOT the one for you, or you wouldn't want to even think about what you could be missing out on!! I am a str... (read in full...)

I just want to change and move on and be happy, but I don’t know how to get there.

Q.   I'm 20, and feel awfully shity about myself... Thing is I've been through a tough time, up and down all the time. People say you never get over your first love and they're probably right. I always knew deep down it would never happen but it always s...

A.   9 May 2011: Hi You sound like you need to find who you are! you dont need anyone to be able to be YOU. I wonder if you were hurt by someone close to you as a child? and you feel you have to be the one to make everyone happy , for yourself to happy? Your r... (read in full...)

I’ll initiate sex, but by the time he is finally aroused, I lose interest. Any advice?

Q.   My husband and I have been together for 2 years, married for a little over a year, and I've since lost weight and feel better than I have in a long time. We live with my father, and I am the only one working currently. My husband is from another ...

A.   9 May 2011: Hi I am so sorry you seem to be in a rut at the moment, But if you read back what you wrote you will find your answers. Its seems to me that he feels less of a man because he is not working, and if your both living with your ill father on ... (read in full...)

I don't have confidence about sex!

Q.   I don't know how to voice my opinion well doing the deed. I also don't know how to take control. I can see that it is making my bf is a little bit disappointed that he has to do all the work. How can I, get more confidence and since he is my first ...

A.   9 May 2011: Hi You dont say weather your BF has said anything about this or not, or weather this is all your lack of experience? either way if this is your first time for everyting then I am sure he will understand. None of us are perfect when we fist sta... (read in full...)

Should I get back with my son's father after he cheated on me?

Q.   Should i get back with my son's father? He cheated and betrayed me several times and I'd given him a lot of chances. I found a new man through online and he indeed helped me forget about my ex; however, this ex is down on his knees begging and ...

A.   9 May 2011: Hi Please please dont go back to this man. You have a wonderful new relationship, and I fear this is the reason why your ex wants you back, because he does not want to see you happy. I know this ,as I was in a relationship like this for many year... (read in full...)

Should I give up on him? Or should I try a long distance relationship?

Q.   So theres this guy i really like him i think he likes me too.he would ditch his friends in class for me.and sit next me..and when i asked him to hook me up with his his cousin but i was only joking and every time i asked him he a smile on his face ...

A.   9 May 2011: Hi Yes he probally did ask you to ask out your friend for him, but to let you now how its feels when you like someone so much , yet they ask you to ask out your cousin for them. Its not a nic feeling :( I would suggest you dont play any more gam... (read in full...)

Does my partner have commitment issues? Should I just bide my time and see what happens?

Q.   Hey all, I need some advice...I've been with my partner now for just over a year, everything is amazing, great, etc etc...we have a long distance relationship - we live 50 miles apart. I have to do all the driving all the time to see my partner ...

A.   7 May 2011: Hi I actually think your man is being sensible. He has just moved into his new house, his own house for the first time. I know after living with my parents and getting my first house, I didn't want to have any commitments for a while. I needed ... (read in full...)

The challenge and the games or honesty and being myself?

Q.   I dont know why it never works out for me with the guys. Im actually really pretty and cute and funny a simple person i dont want much i forgive easily and i have a good heart. A month ago i met a guy i had a crush on from thr first day i met...

A.   7 May 2011: Hi Sadly I feel your fighting a lost cause :( this guy is obviously a player, he is not interested in your feelings, he is only interested in what he can get from you, no strings attached. He knows his tugging on your heart strings, keep em m... (read in full...)

I see him every day and it hurts so much that I have been told to stay away!

Q.   I became good friends with this guy we told each other everything. it then became something more, but we both had partners which was wrong i know. i broke up with my boyfriend because we weren't right for each other he never found out about the fact ...

A.   7 May 2011: Hi its no wonder you feel so hurt, but unfortunately this boy has decided where his heart is. He has told his girlfriend everything because he don't want to keep any secrets from her, or skeletons in the closet, and in his defense fair pla... (read in full...)

Did I inadvertently influence my brother to become bisexual?

Q.   My younger brother came out to me recently, telling me that he is bisexual. I really do support him, but I also am feeling overwhelmed by the situation. I feel I may have influenced him. When we were 12 and 15, I went through an experimental...

A.   7 May 2011: Hello :) The simple answer to your question is no. Everyone at some stage in their life has these thoughts, what it would be like with the same sex, some will experiment, while others will just keep them as a fantasy. You can not mak... (read in full...)

Why did the ex go out of her way to me jealous? Does this show she still has feelings?

Q.   Quick backstory: -Me (guy) and her (ex) are 20, dated officially for two months. -She broke it off, saying it seems as if I like her more than she does for me. (I was clingy, needy, insecure. She didn't say this, but it was 'part' of the underl...

A.   7 May 2011: HI :) After reading your post, I have 2 conclusions. 1) she wants to keep you on a distant string, so if all else fails she has you to fall back on . I don't think she was jealous, I think it was more of a anything you can do i can do bett... (read in full...)

I find guys over 17 years are more attractive to me than guys my own age. Why? Is this usual?

Q.   I'm always attracted to older guys. I'm 14 but i find guys over 17 years and beyond very attractive is there something wrong with me in not being able to like a guy my age? ...

A.   7 May 2011: Hello :) It is very common for girls of your age to be interested in older boys, some say you may be looking for an older boy because you need to feel loved, others will say because you want to seem more grown up yourself, so being with an ol... (read in full...)

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