| Latest articles: How To Tell If You've Found Your Soul Mate
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2 June 2013: I believe that everyone has a soul mate out there... the person that's meant for them. It's all about finding that person and going through all of the good times and bad times together (because it won't be great all of the time). Now with that ...
Are You Ready For Marriage?
No replies yet... 25 May 2013: Marriage is a serious commitment that one must truly decide if it's the best thing for them. With over 50% of marriages ending in divorce, many people don't want to take that chance and risk being hurt, having their family torn apart (especially if ...
Guys- Great Gift Ideas For Your Girlfriend!
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12 September 2012: It's difficult to make suggestions on what would be good gift ideas for the guys that are reading this article because generally a gift for say a 16 year old girlfriend, would be different from that of a 30 or 40 year old. It also depends on how ...
Interested In Attending A Speed Dating Event? Here's What You Should Know.
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16 August 2012: I personally never attended a speed dating event as a participant. I have, however, as a matchmaker hosted a few. I can tell you there are quite a few benefits that comes with participating in speed dating events. And I know many people who have ...
Is It OK To Have Sex Everyday?
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11 July 2012: Is it OK to have sex everyday? I heard, and and have been asked that question quite a few times in my professional career. Having sex everyday, like most things, has it's advantages and disadvantages. Advantage #1: -- It's a form of physica...
Create A "Plan-List" For Your Relationship In 2012!
No replies yet... 30 December 2011: Are you looking forward to 2012? Have you already created goals and resolutions for the upcoming year? I know that I have. I plan to offer lots of help and advice to more couples looking to have a good relationship. But I also must make a plan...
Ladies- What It Means When A Guy Says: "I'll call you" And Then...He Doesn't
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22 November 2011: Now, barring any reasons such as a family tragedy or any other personal situation that may prevent a guy from calling, a guy may not call because... #1. They just may not be that into you. I know this may hard to hear, and many women may not wa...
Need A Confidence Booster?
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31 October 2011: There are times in our lives that we humans get into a depressing mode which resulted from us analyzing our downfalls and what we seem to lack. It seems to become apparent to us one way or another- and we start to questions ourselves, or abilities, ...
Sexual Fantasies: Just How Open Should You Be In A Relationship?
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24 October 2011: Some time ago I was watching T.V. and I couldn't find anything that interesting on. As I bypassed many channels, I contemplated whether or not I should just turn the darn thing off. Then I came across the Tyra Banks show. The episode was about ...
The Package-Deal Relationship pt.2: When To Introduce Children
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20 October 2011: Are you currently involved with someone but have yet to introduce them to your children? Are nervous and unsure what type of response you may get from your kids or the person that you're seeing if you do introduce them? Well here's what you ...
The Package-Deal Relationship: Not Embraced By The Family?
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15 October 2011: Ideally we all want to have a family that will be o.k. with the person that we chose to have as partner. But what if someone in our partner's family has a problem with us? Will you become stressed out, confused, or even annoyed by that person's beha...
3 Ways To Recession-Proof Your Relationship
No replies yet... 15 October 2011: Are you feeling the effects of the current economy? Is your relationship suffering because of it? Well don't despair....there are things that you can do. 1. Be creative. Think of some low cost (or no cost) ways to put a smile on your partner's f...
Being Able To Change: Breaking Old Habits In Relationships
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15 October 2011: Sometimes it’s hard to break old habits. If you’re used to acting a certain way in a relationship (or life in general), changing your ways may seem difficult. However, if you’ve noticed that things aren’t going so well in your relationship, you may ...
Are You Making Time For Your Partner?
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10 October 2011: Do you focus your energy on something or someone which may take time away from you and your partner? Well if you highly value your relationship, you may need to make some changes. Situation#1: Work. If you’re a big time workaholic, then...
If Your Partner Is A Porn Watcher....
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9 October 2011: What do you do when you've discovered that your partner has been watching/hiding porn? This is a question that many women, in particular, want answers to. Here's my view on it... -First,you should have a talk with him. As hard as it may b...
The Role Of Respect In Relationships
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30 September 2011: How much do you respect your partner? Do you treat them less than what they're worth because of their gender? Do you not value their thoughts or opinions as much as you would say a family member, friend, or close counsel? Well if you disregard how ...
Does Size Make The Man?
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29 September 2011: I’d like to first thank Tennisstar88 for giving me the idea to write this article. Even though this is a sensitive topic to most men, my hope is someone will benefit from reading it. Enjoy! ------...
Why It’s Important To Keep Your Relationship Exciting
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29 September 2011: Throughout my professional career I've come across many people that were lacking excitement in their relationship. Many of them have experienced some form of it in the beginning of their relationship- but they all seem to ask me the same ...
Two Ways To Make Your Relationship Better
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29 September 2011: There are many relationships that are slowly destructing because of lack of two simple things...communication and action. If your partner presents a problem to you, and you want to keep your relationship strong, then you should do the following: ...
Three Ways To Know That Your Ready For A Relationship
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25 September 2011: Are you ready for a serious, committed relationship now…really? Well if you truly believe that you are, make sure that you have the below tips covered. 1. You’re maximizing your opportunities. If you want to find a mate, then you have to put your...
How To Approach A Girl...The Right Way!
No replies yet... 24 September 2011: Now I've written numerous articles relating to this topic. But in this article I'm going to focus more on the approaching aspect of meeting a woman. And I'll do it on the form of frequently asked questions. Question 1: How do I approach a girl?...
What Women Want Most From A Guy
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5 September 2011: In a continuation to my series of articles on developing "Swagger", I feel it's necessary recap, include, and conclude with these 8 tips. If there's anything additional ladies that you feel is worth mentioning, don't hesitate to add your thoughts in ...
How To Create Great Conversations On A Date
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3 September 2011: To have a successful date, you must have great conversation. Conversation creates chemistry. Leaving out just one of these tips, can end a conversation quickly or be the cause of “date destruction”. Here are the top five conversation tip...
Guys: How To Have The "Swagger " Walk
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31 August 2011: So we've covered how to talk and present yourself in from of women, so the last thing I'd like to share is how to have a swagger walk. Enjoy! --------------------------------------------------------------- When it comes to attracting a ...
Get a lady just by changing the way you talk!
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29 August 2011: The way you carry yourself, dress, talk, or even walk can either attract a potential mate, or repel her. In other words, you need to develop some “swagger”. So when you decide to approach a woman of your interest, you need to do the following: ...
Guys: How To Develop "Swagger" To Attract More Women Part 1
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27 August 2011: The way you carry yourself, dress, talk, or even walk, can either attract a potential mate or repel her. In other words you need to have some swagger. So to avoid being rejected before you even say a word, you need to do the following: 1. Carefu...
Create A Checklist For Your First Date
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20 August 2011: So you landed the date that you wanted with the person that captured your interest. How should you plan it to make sure things go well? Make sure you set up a simple checklist. Here's what you can include: #1. Choice of Clothes and Accessorie...
Guys: Create A "Plan-List" For A Romantic Evening
No replies yet... 16 August 2011: In many situations, being spontaneous is encouraged. However if you want to have a great romantic evening, planning is essential. Creating a "plan-list" can actually spark intimacy if it's done correctly. Here are some things you can include on y...
Ladies: Do You Think ALL Men Are The Same?
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14 August 2011: Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a ...
How to Meet The Man Or Woman Of Your Dreams
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14 August 2011: If you want to find the man or woman of your dreams, you have to put yourself in the environment where they work or hang out. For example, if you want to meet a lawyer, go down to your local courthouse during lunch hours- and hang out at the ...
Guys: What To Do If You're Suffering From Erectile Dysfunction
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13 August 2011: Erectile dysfunction (ED), also known as impotence, is a condition that affects an individual’s ability to achieve or sustain erection during intercourse. The most common reasons for this are: stress, poor nutrition, lack of rest/exercise, or it’s ...
The Top 3 Fears That Prevent Successful Relationships
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8 August 2011: Do you have a fear that prevents you from getting into- or maintaining a good relationship? Well it’s not as uncommon as you may think. There are actual terms for these conditions. Such as… 1. Pistanthrophobia. Also known as the fear of trusti...
The Art Of Communcation
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3 August 2011: Communication is the key to every successful relationship. Your ability to connect with your partner verbally or non-verbally (body language) can show whether your relationship has the potential of moving forward, or if it's headed for disaster. ...
Ideas to keep the romance alive..
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3 August 2011: Are you lacking romance in your relationship? Are there any work problems getting in the way? If you've talked about it with your man and you haven't noticed any significant changes, you may have to take some initiative. Here's what you can do:...
Ladies: What You Should Know BEFORE You Have SEx With The Guy That You're Dating
No replies yet... 31 July 2011: Have you recently started dating someone, got into a new relationship, or just plainly unsure when it's the right time for you and your partner to have sex? Well there are a few things for you to consider before you do: - Do you know what Oxytoc...
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Three Ways To Know That Your Ready For A Relationship
Q. Are you ready for a serious, committed relationship now…really? Well if you truly believe that you are, make sure that you have the below tips covered. 1. You’re maximizing your opportunities. If you want to find a mate, then you have to put your...
A. 3 October 2011: I admire your free-thinking mentality. And ultimately many people do think for themselves, come up with their own conclusions, and make their own decisions. The only thing I can do is provide suggestions. Whether they choose to take my advice or ... (read in full...)
Ladies: Do You Think ALL Men Are The Same?
Q. Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a ...
A. 1 October 2011: Hi Cheers,
Thank you for your positive comment- and also for taking the time to read my articles. Enjoy the rest of your day!
Cheers! :^)... (read in full...)
Three Ways To Know That Your Ready For A Relationship
Q. Are you ready for a serious, committed relationship now…really? Well if you truly believe that you are, make sure that you have the below tips covered. 1. You’re maximizing your opportunities. If you want to find a mate, then you have to put your...
A. 30 September 2011: O.k. Well first, thank you anonymous reader for your comments. I appreciate you taking time out to express your thoughts on this subject. Now, I agree that when you meet someone, it shouldn't be like a job interview, but it is somewhat similar... (read in full...)
Three Ways To Know That Your Ready For A Relationship
Q. Are you ready for a serious, committed relationship now…really? Well if you truly believe that you are, make sure that you have the below tips covered. 1. You’re maximizing your opportunities. If you want to find a mate, then you have to put your...
A. 30 September 2011: That's great to hear. And you and Tennisstar both provided some very good comments. Enjoy the rest of your day!... (read in full...)
Three Ways To Know That Your Ready For A Relationship
Q. Are you ready for a serious, committed relationship now…really? Well if you truly believe that you are, make sure that you have the below tips covered. 1. You’re maximizing your opportunities. If you want to find a mate, then you have to put your...
A. 29 September 2011: After looking back at my recent comment I just want to apologize if I came off a bit defensive, and like a "no it all". The fact is, I don't. No one does. But all I could do is provide information to the best of my knowledge that I feel could help ... (read in full...)
Is he lying or cheating?
Q. We've been together 1 year. I have access to his Facebook account and it looks fairly ok (one thing from January had me a little spooked). I checked out another "social site" and his profile said "Looking for a Relationship" (among other things ...
A. 29 September 2011: Trust is VERY important in a relationship- and it seems as though this guy really could be trusted. I believe he probably didn't get around to changing his status when you saw it...that happens. Especially for those who are on some social ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to find a nice guy whom I also find attractive or what am I doing wrong?
Q. I am feeling alone and confused about what kind of guy to go for.........I have been divorced now for 5 years from a guy I was with for 13 years and have found the dating world a confusing disaster...... My ex didnt want or wasn't ready to have ...
A. 28 September 2011: You're very welcome. :^)
I wish you the very best!... (read in full...)
Three Ways To Know That Your Ready For A Relationship
Q. Are you ready for a serious, committed relationship now…really? Well if you truly believe that you are, make sure that you have the below tips covered. 1. You’re maximizing your opportunities. If you want to find a mate, then you have to put your...
A. 28 September 2011: Believe me 19Reginna84, I know confidence plays a HUGE role in how people perceive you as well. And I'm sure you could recall me mentioning it in some of my articles/comments. I'm only talking about looks, because that's where the focus seems to be ... (read in full...)
Three Ways To Know That Your Ready For A Relationship
Q. Are you ready for a serious, committed relationship now…really? Well if you truly believe that you are, make sure that you have the below tips covered. 1. You’re maximizing your opportunities. If you want to find a mate, then you have to put your...
A. 27 September 2011: O.k that's a very fair opinion 10Reginna84. And as I stated before, there are quite a few women that I know that have good attributes and don't need to get all dolled up to attract a man. Make-up is a matter of choice. You can go for the all-natural ... (read in full...)
Three Ways To Know That Your Ready For A Relationship
Q. Are you ready for a serious, committed relationship now…really? Well if you truly believe that you are, make sure that you have the below tips covered. 1. You’re maximizing your opportunities. If you want to find a mate, then you have to put your...
A. 27 September 2011: First, thank you 19reginna84. I agree with your comments completely. :^) Hey Tennisstar! I miss you commenting on my posts/articles. :^) Let me just address your comments if I may.... 1. "Women don't need to be dolled up every single day they ... (read in full...)
Did I screw things up in asking her out?
Q. Hey everyone. there is this girl in my class that i really like. but since we just started uni. we dont know eachother, i sat next to her this afternoon and i began talking to her, i guess it was stupid though coz the first thing i said was hey how ...
A. 26 September 2011: She didn't necessarily turn you down. She just wouldn't have been open to seeing you THAT NIGHT. You complimented her which is a plus, and she said she would be open to seeing you on integration day. So when you see her, chat with her for a w... (read in full...)
I wish my b/f could have sex and kiss like my ex!
Q. I have been dating this guy for 2 years now. He's not a great kisser and the sex is pretty bad - he doesn't last. I have talked to him about the sex and kissing, even guided him through how I like it. But he slips back into the his bad kissing the ...
A. 26 September 2011: I know you're upset, but it's not a good thing to compare (even though it happens with a lot of people in different areas of a relationship) to your ex(s). You may end up feeling disappointed.
But anyway, since you've been together for some tim... (read in full...)
My FWB: I'm starting to like him and I want to know how or if I should let him know?
Q. Hello everyone I'm new to this and hopefully will get some advice ... I've been sleeping with this guy for about a year and half I guess we are friends with benefits. Even though he has said he likes me, and one time after sex he told me I was going ...
A. 26 September 2011: I agree with the two individuals that commented on your post. And this is a classic example of how Oxytocin affects sexual relationships. (For more info on this go to: ... (read in full...)
I can't have sex with my husband because his fantasy is his secretary!
Q. my husband fantasize his secretry so i am very upset when they are alone i feel they are involved in sex thats why i cannot have normal sex with my husband i am very upset what should i do...
A. 25 September 2011: Communicate with your husband and let him know how you feel. Trust is an important factor in relationships- so tell him that even though he fantasize about his secretary, you want to trust that it wouldn't go further than that. Because it's one ... (read in full...)
Should I call this girl who I think my husband had an affair with? He says he didn't cheat.
Q. Hello everyone! Well I need advice. I believe my husband has had an affair, over an 8 month period. I have asked him 3 different times, and he has denied any wrong doing. He became irate and said that men and women can be friends without having sex....
A. 25 September 2011: This is a really difficult situation. I agree with your husband comment, but the question that I have for you is how much do you trust your husband? Has he done anything in the past that raised suspicion or even caused you to lose trust? If so, then ... (read in full...)
So, how should I go about dating her without coming on too strong?
Q. Right, I've got a question on dating. As a junior in high school, I haven't much experience with this sort of stuff, though I'd really like to, and there's a new girl in the class below me. I've made her acquaintence, and she seems quite virtuous. ...
A. 25 September 2011: I think what you should do is first work on building up some confidence. Go in with the intent of just talking and getting to know her. I would also suggest that you read this article..it may be beneficial for you: ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin with a normal sex drive but the moment I meet someone I just freak out and my libido goes out of the door!
Q. Hi everyone, I have an ongoing, nagging problem that won't go away and it keeps getting bigger and bigger. I'm scared of having sex, even oral etc doing anything sexual with another person. This is long so bare with me, I'm going to get therapy t...
A. 24 September 2011: O.k. After reading your post, I think your situation is more psychological than it is physical. Even though the Asperger's may have an effect when it comes to being touched or having some sort of contact with an individual, I think you psyche ... (read in full...)
Ever since we had sex, I am an emotional wreck!
Q. So i am 16 and i am a junior, and I have been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months now. We are very much in love, and he is extremely special to me, so a few weeks ago we had sex for the first time. I ended up having to take a morning after pill ...
A. 22 September 2011: I wish you would've read my article on this subject (it's http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ladies-what-you-should-know-before-you-have.html ), before you became intimate.
But what is done is done. What you have to realize that Oxytocin (explain... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so stressed out sometimes?
Q. Mmmk, well .. i don't know why this is but .. I am always feeling stressed out about sumthing .. and i don't know what it is , like i will be on summer vacation .. and it is supposed too be relaxing, and such .. and i am feeling stressed out or at ...
A. 22 September 2011: I think you need to work on relaxing. When you feel stressed out, just stop and take a few deep breaths, and calmly try to figure out what it is that you're stressing out about. In this situation, I would advise you to start doing some basic ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to find a nice guy whom I also find attractive or what am I doing wrong?
Q. I am feeling alone and confused about what kind of guy to go for.........I have been divorced now for 5 years from a guy I was with for 13 years and have found the dating world a confusing disaster...... My ex didnt want or wasn't ready to have ...
A. 21 September 2011: It's perfectly fine to have some standards when it comes to meeting people. But what you have to realize is that NO ONE is going to live up to everything that you want- especially if your standards are set extremely high. In the same breath, I want ... (read in full...)
Why couldn't I get an erection?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for 2 weeks now andwe have been sexually active for 2 weeks strait and she is almost addicted to having sex with me which is fine cuz I usually want it just as much as she does but the other night we were hanging out ...
A. 21 September 2011: I agree with both the people that commented on your question. You really do need to just recharge yourself by getting some rest. In addition, be sure to take in a good amount of vitamins and antioxidants to help your body rebuild. ... (read in full...)
I can't stop the porn and masturbating habits! Help!
Q. I am addicted to porn and masturbating and I can't stop, I've tried many things but i just can't do it help please!...
A. 20 September 2011: I would advise you to wean off slowly. Try limiting the amount of times you masturbate to porn. Cut it down to a reasonable number of times a week and SEE A THERAPIST. You need outside, professional help to assist you with this issue. But I'm sure ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex but yet I feel so torn!
Q. I have some rather irrational feelings with regard to losing my virginity which I'm hoping someone can help me understand. When I stop and think that other people are having sex (for this purpose I'm referring to penis in vagina intercourse... sorry ...
A. 20 September 2011: I agree with what many of my fellow commentors are saying. I would also advise you to check out this article also. It may be very beneficial for you to read: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ladies-what-you-should-know-before-you-have.html Wish... (read in full...)
I told a married man how I feel and now he has distanced himself from me
Q. Hi everyone. I am not sure if I did the right thing or not. I am a married woman and I recently told my married friend how I feel about him. It was just killing me keeping it inside because I thought he felt the same way about me and that there w...
A. 19 September 2011: Well it's always hard to tell a friend how you feel about them. And that alone may make them nervous, confused, or unsure on what they're supposed to do. If you add in the fact that they're married, it becomes even more difficult. You have to co... (read in full...)
I'm 34 and he's 23. How can I help him gain sexual confidence despite his erectile dysfunction issues?
Q. I recentely started to date a man, and we are having sex problem. I am 34-yr old woman, very attractive, nice body. I have 2 pre-teens. He is 23-yr old man, single. Very thin. I know that we are very attracted to each other, and very likel...
A. 19 September 2011: I think his issue may be a bit more psychological than physical. But even then, you wont know until you find out from him. I do think that he's attracted to you, he likes you, and he has the ability to get erect (as you could already tell when you ... (read in full...)
Please? How do I make his 21st a special occasion?
Q. My boyfriend is turning 21 this Sunday the 25th and I don't know what to do for him. We've been together for almost a year and I really want to make it a special birthday for him. I don't know if I should take him to a nice restaurant or cook for ...
A. 19 September 2011: Even though you haven't mentioned that you two are lacking romance in your love life, I believe the ideas from this article may be beneficial for you. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ideas-to-keep-the-romance-alive.html
Enjoy! :^)... (read in full...)
Never reached orgasm through penetrative sex!
Q. Hi everyone, I've slept with 3 men in my life. My current partner is 30 next month. I'm 22 years old and have always had a very active and healthy sex life. The problem is, I've never been able to orgasm through penetrative sex. I've tried all d...
A. 19 September 2011: I'm sorry that you feel helpless in this situation. But it's not uncommon for some women to not achieve an orgasm through penetrative sex. You may want to try rubbing on your clitoris for extra stimulation.
And if you're not going to tell you... (read in full...)
How To Create Great Conversations On A Date
Q. To have a successful date, you must have great conversation. Conversation creates chemistry. Leaving out just one of these tips, can end a conversation quickly or be the cause of “date destruction”. Here are the top five conversation tip...
A. 19 September 2011: You got it Tennisstar! And by the way, I mentioned to ask BEFORE or AFTER the date. If on the phone call before you're just setting up the date, then you may want to call a few days after. During the first initial date, you won't know everything ... (read in full...)
How long is too long a wait to say hello?
Q. I saw a girl at work who is amazingly beautiful. We saw each other in fact and shared a long intense stare before looking away. I desperately want to talk to her. She makes me feel nervous when we are in the same room together, but that feeling...
A. 18 September 2011: It's never too late to say hello. But you should definately approach her soon.
I would advise you to check out my comments on how to approach a girl this page: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-approach-a-girl-for-a.html
I think that ... (read in full...)
Is this girl flirting with me, or just being nice?
Q. I have a crush on a girl I work with. She has done a few things that make me think she might feel the same. I should highlight that she is very nice and friendly with everyone so I could be wrong. Anyway... She laughs at all my bad jokes, and r...
A. 18 September 2011: From what you've described, I'm actually leaning more towards a friendly vibe. Flirting would be a bit different. If you really like her, try asking for her number, invite her out to lunch, and show your interest in her. Give her compliments, find ... (read in full...)
Ladies: Do You Think ALL Men Are The Same?
Q. Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a ...
A. 18 September 2011: I apologize anonymous reader for replying to you so late. I wish I would've noticed your comment a lot sooner.
It seems as though you've been through some bad relationships with guys, but I can tell you that NOT ALL men are like what you've d... (read in full...)
Guys: How To Have The "Swagger " Walk
Q. So we've covered how to talk and present yourself in from of women, so the last thing I'd like to share is how to have a swagger walk. Enjoy! --------------------------------------------------------------- When it comes to attracting a ...
A. 18 September 2011: Good points on how a guy should NOT walk. :^)... (read in full...)
How To Create Great Conversations On A Date
Q. To have a successful date, you must have great conversation. Conversation creates chemistry. Leaving out just one of these tips, can end a conversation quickly or be the cause of “date destruction”. Here are the top five conversation tip...
A. 18 September 2011: I totally agree that you should definately know at some point what the person's thoughts on religion and/or politics are. But in most cases, those topics are first-date ruiners. If one person disagrees with the other's views, it can be a disaster.
... (read in full...)
What Women Want Most From A Guy
Q. In a continuation to my series of articles on developing "Swagger", I feel it's necessary recap, include, and conclude with these 8 tips. If there's anything additional ladies that you feel is worth mentioning, don't hesitate to add your thoughts in ...
A. 17 September 2011: Hi Tennisstar88! Thank you for your comments. You've provided excellent tips coming from a woman's point of view. ... (read in full...)
Commitment phobic boyfriend
Q. I have been with my partner now for 12 months on and off (I am 47 and he is 50). We have had some lovely times together but I think he is a commitment phobic. Every few weeks he will start a row with me, usually over nothing, he has a jealous pe...
A. 16 September 2011: I'm sorry you were with someone who has commitment issues. I actually talk about this briefly in my article The Top 3 fears That Prevent Successful Relationships (check it here: ... (read in full...)
Why do guys stop contacting a girl?
Q. Why do guys just stop contacting a girl? If everything was going good. I used talk to a guy a lot on the phone, we never actually had a date, but our last conversation was when he rang me, and everything was good. He is single so am I. Then I phoned ...
A. 16 September 2011: Well just because you both are single, doesn't necessarily mean that the feelings that you may have for him are mutual. You two haven't been on a date, let alone made a commitment to see each other, and there's nothing more than phone conversations ... (read in full...)
I'm shy, I think she is too, but I want to ask her out
Q. alright, 3 part question here. There is this girl in my class at college who is really cute and i want to get to know her/ask her out, but a few things first. 1) im not really a super outgoing kind of person and tend to be kind of shy, how can i get ...
A. 16 September 2011: Well first I think you should build up more confidence. Think back to prior experiences (if possible) where you've succeeded in asking a girl out. AND START THINKING POSITIVE. Try to work past your shyness by just going in with the thought that you ... (read in full...)
How do I approach a girl for a date?
Q. so my best friends bad are playing at this pub tonight. the girl i really like is going to be there but she has a boyfriend who is a friend so i want to get her out of my head. i think that cause its a pub i could try and talk to girls and set so...
A. 16 September 2011: Thanks Jmtmj for your comment a few days ago. I'm sorry for replying so late, I literally just saw your comment this minute.
I'm very flattered that you've looked for an "approaching guide" from me in my profile area...and I promise I will pos... (read in full...)
I cum too fast and its hurting my relationship!
Q. i use to be able to go 4 are 5 mins now all i hav to do is just puyt it in my girlfriend and i cum,use to not b like this ,what can i do its starting to hurt our relationship...
A. 15 September 2011: I think your issue could either be psychological or physical. I recommend first seeing a Urologist to make sure everything is working fine physically. I also suggest that you work on pleasing your woman in other ways. Try adding a bit more foreplay ... (read in full...)
I feel bad that he's doing all the work
Q. Whenever me and my partner have sex it is always him doing the work. I always feel bad about it even though he has never mentioned it. I do try to take control but I have pain in my knees which makes going on top very unpleasant and painful for me. ...
A. 14 September 2011: Well the first thing I recommend that you do is build up more confidence within yourself. This can help you along way in and out of the bedroom. Then once you're ready to be intimate again, you can try various positions. I suggest reading the Kama ... (read in full...)
How can my wife and I regain our sex life after a long drought?
Q. For reasons I won't get into, my wife and I stopped having sex completely at some point in the past. It has been years now since we have had any sex or even kissed. We were separated for a while before getting back together. Now that we are back...
A. 14 September 2011: Well of course it's going to be awkward if you both have negative feelings and thoughts on the sex itself. And with her giving the comment that when you two kiss, it feels like she's kissing her brother, that doesn't help either. What you two have ... (read in full...)
My guy does all the work!
Q. I don't have much sexual experience i cant even give a hand job...me and my man have been dating nearly 2 months and he does all the work and i feel bad coz i cant do anything. How can I go further? can you give me any tips?...
A. 14 September 2011: Well experience builds over time. You just need to stay consistent and active with him. And there are some things that you can do in regards to the sex, but first you need to build up your confidence. My advice to you, is to read some articles on ... (read in full...)
Sex life going downhill and don't know what to do about it!
Q. I'm in need of some serious help/advice. I need to know how I can spice things up in the bedroom with my husband. Lately our sex life has gone down hill, he can't last like he used to and half the time he doesn't even seem interested anymore. For ...
A. 14 September 2011: I agree with what many of my fellow commentors said. And communicating in this situation should be the NUMBER 1 thing that you should do. You should always keep an open line of communication anyway with your partner, so you can have a good ... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong? Why can't I find the right guy?
Q. Dear Cupid, Recently I have broke up with my boyfriend for 5 years and i didn't want to be with him. I feel we are living to different lives and see that he doesn't really accept me for who i am and through out the relationship I always felt like...
A. 13 September 2011: I don't think that being friends with your ex right now is going to help you bounce back from you breakup. In this situation, what you may want to do is start avoiding him if he doesn't get the hint. You may need to erase text messages, get rid ... (read in full...)
He's my first, but all these other girls ...
Q. im 19/f and my boyfriend is 20/m we have been dating for nearly 4 months now, but to us it feels much much longer then that. We knew each other for 4 or so months before we even started dating, and back then, i fell for him the moment we met. ...
A. 13 September 2011: Well he shouldn't expect you to be great at sex, you're very inexperienced. Instead what he should encourage is more communication when you two are being intimate. Let him know what you like, tell him to tell you what he likes, and work on making ... (read in full...)
What Women Want Most From A Guy
Q. In a continuation to my series of articles on developing "Swagger", I feel it's necessary recap, include, and conclude with these 8 tips. If there's anything additional ladies that you feel is worth mentioning, don't hesitate to add your thoughts in ...
A. 10 September 2011: Thanks Janniepeg for your comments. Especially on the listening topic. I appreciate you providing your two cents. :^)... (read in full...)
How do I approach a girl for a date?
Q. so my best friends bad are playing at this pub tonight. the girl i really like is going to be there but she has a boyfriend who is a friend so i want to get her out of my head. i think that cause its a pub i could try and talk to girls and set so...
A. 9 September 2011: First off I agree with jmtmj with a lot of what he said in his comments. And would like to give you my thoughts on your questions... how do i approach a girl? - Before you approach a girl you have to make sure that you look good (meaning your... (read in full...)
What Women Want Most From A Guy
Q. In a continuation to my series of articles on developing "Swagger", I feel it's necessary recap, include, and conclude with these 8 tips. If there's anything additional ladies that you feel is worth mentioning, don't hesitate to add your thoughts in ...
A. 7 September 2011: Thank you Odds for your comments. Let me say though that I simply surveyed many, many women, relied on my experience as a relationship coach/matchmaker (in addition to growing up in a household full of women), and talked to a few close female ... (read in full...)
Ladies: Do You Think ALL Men Are The Same?
Q. Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a ...
A. 16 August 2011: Believe me, I know women can do/say bad things. But wether you're straight, gay, or bi, you have to keep your heart open and understand that not everyone is going to treat you bad. There are many wonderful people out there. You just have give them a ... (read in full...)
Ladies: Do You Think ALL Men Are The Same?
Q. Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a ...
A. 15 August 2011: Thanks for your positive comments Blonde30s. :^) I think you made some valid points as well. ... (read in full...)
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