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Known as Loveguru23 on Twitter- or simply "the love doctor", I'm a Relationship Expert that has helped many people get the relationships of their dreams. Contact me today to find out how I could help you!

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How To Tell If You've Found Your Soul Mate

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2 June 2013: I believe that everyone has a soul mate out there... the person that's meant for them. It's all about finding that person and going through all of the good times and bad times together (because it won't be great all of the time). Now with that ...

Are You Ready For Marriage?

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25 May 2013: Marriage is a serious commitment that one must truly decide if it's the best thing for them. With over 50% of marriages ending in divorce, many people don't want to take that chance and risk being hurt, having their family torn apart (especially if ...

Guys- Great Gift Ideas For Your Girlfriend!

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12 September 2012: It's difficult to make suggestions on what would be good gift ideas for the guys that are reading this article because generally a gift for say a 16 year old girlfriend, would be different from that of a 30 or 40 year old. It also depends on how ...

Interested In Attending A Speed Dating Event? Here's What You Should Know.

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16 August 2012: I personally never attended a speed dating event as a participant. I have, however, as a matchmaker hosted a few. I can tell you there are quite a few benefits that comes with participating in speed dating events. And I know many people who have ...

Is It OK To Have Sex Everyday?

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11 July 2012: Is it OK to have sex everyday? I heard, and and have been asked that question quite a few times in my professional career. Having sex everyday, like most things, has it's advantages and disadvantages. Advantage #1: -- It's a form of physica...

Create A "Plan-List" For Your Relationship In 2012!

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30 December 2011: Are you looking forward to 2012? Have you already created goals and resolutions for the upcoming year? I know that I have. I plan to offer lots of help and advice to more couples looking to have a good relationship. But I also must make a plan...

Ladies- What It Means When A Guy Says: "I'll call you" And Then...He Doesn't

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22 November 2011: Now, barring any reasons such as a family tragedy or any other personal situation that may prevent a guy from calling, a guy may not call because... #1. They just may not be that into you. I know this may hard to hear, and many women may not wa...

Need A Confidence Booster?

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31 October 2011: There are times in our lives that we humans get into a depressing mode which resulted from us analyzing our downfalls and what we seem to lack. It seems to become apparent to us one way or another- and we start to questions ourselves, or abilities, ...

Sexual Fantasies: Just How Open Should You Be In A Relationship?

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24 October 2011: Some time ago I was watching T.V. and I couldn't find anything that interesting on. As I bypassed many channels, I contemplated whether or not I should just turn the darn thing off. Then I came across the Tyra Banks show. The episode was about ...

The Package-Deal Relationship pt.2: When To Introduce Children

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20 October 2011: Are you currently involved with someone but have yet to introduce them to your children? Are nervous and unsure what type of response you may get from your kids or the person that you're seeing if you do introduce them? Well here's what you ...

The Package-Deal Relationship: Not Embraced By The Family?

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15 October 2011: Ideally we all want to have a family that will be o.k. with the person that we chose to have as partner. But what if someone in our partner's family has a problem with us? Will you become stressed out, confused, or even annoyed by that person's beha...

3 Ways To Recession-Proof Your Relationship

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15 October 2011: Are you feeling the effects of the current economy? Is your relationship suffering because of it? Well don't despair....there are things that you can do. 1. Be creative. Think of some low cost (or no cost) ways to put a smile on your partner's f...

Being Able To Change: Breaking Old Habits In Relationships

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15 October 2011: Sometimes it’s hard to break old habits. If you’re used to acting a certain way in a relationship (or life in general), changing your ways may seem difficult. However, if you’ve noticed that things aren’t going so well in your relationship, you may ...

Are You Making Time For Your Partner?

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10 October 2011: Do you focus your energy on something or someone which may take time away from you and your partner? Well if you highly value your relationship, you may need to make some changes. Situation#1: Work. If you’re a big time workaholic, then...

If Your Partner Is A Porn Watcher....

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9 October 2011: What do you do when you've discovered that your partner has been watching/hiding porn? This is a question that many women, in particular, want answers to. Here's my view on it... -First,you should have a talk with him. As hard as it may b...

The Role Of Respect In Relationships

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30 September 2011: How much do you respect your partner? Do you treat them less than what they're worth because of their gender? Do you not value their thoughts or opinions as much as you would say a family member, friend, or close counsel? Well if you disregard how ...

Does Size Make The Man?

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29 September 2011: I’d like to first thank Tennisstar88 for giving me the idea to write this article. Even though this is a sensitive topic to most men, my hope is someone will benefit from reading it. Enjoy! ------...

Why It’s Important To Keep Your Relationship Exciting

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29 September 2011: Throughout my professional career I've come across many people that were lacking excitement in their relationship. Many of them have experienced some form of it in the beginning of their relationship- but they all seem to ask me the same ...

Two Ways To Make Your Relationship Better

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29 September 2011: There are many relationships that are slowly destructing because of lack of two simple things...communication and action. If your partner presents a problem to you, and you want to keep your relationship strong, then you should do the following: ...

Three Ways To Know That Your Ready For A Relationship

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25 September 2011: Are you ready for a serious, committed relationship now…really? Well if you truly believe that you are, make sure that you have the below tips covered. 1. You’re maximizing your opportunities. If you want to find a mate, then you have to put your...

How To Approach A Girl...The Right Way!

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24 September 2011: Now I've written numerous articles relating to this topic. But in this article I'm going to focus more on the approaching aspect of meeting a woman. And I'll do it on the form of frequently asked questions. Question 1: How do I approach a girl?...

What Women Want Most From A Guy

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5 September 2011: In a continuation to my series of articles on developing "Swagger", I feel it's necessary recap, include, and conclude with these 8 tips. If there's anything additional ladies that you feel is worth mentioning, don't hesitate to add your thoughts in ...

How To Create Great Conversations On A Date

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3 September 2011: To have a successful date, you must have great conversation. Conversation creates chemistry. Leaving out just one of these tips, can end a conversation quickly or be the cause of “date destruction”. Here are the top five conversation tip...

Guys: How To Have The "Swagger " Walk

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31 August 2011: So we've covered how to talk and present yourself in from of women, so the last thing I'd like to share is how to have a swagger walk. Enjoy! --------------------------------------------------------------- When it comes to attracting a ...

Get a lady just by changing the way you talk!

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29 August 2011: The way you carry yourself, dress, talk, or even walk can either attract a potential mate, or repel her. In other words, you need to develop some “swagger”. So when you decide to approach a woman of your interest, you need to do the following: ...

Guys: How To Develop "Swagger" To Attract More Women Part 1

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27 August 2011: The way you carry yourself, dress, talk, or even walk, can either attract a potential mate or repel her. In other words you need to have some swagger. So to avoid being rejected before you even say a word, you need to do the following: 1. Carefu...

Create A Checklist For Your First Date

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20 August 2011: So you landed the date that you wanted with the person that captured your interest. How should you plan it to make sure things go well? Make sure you set up a simple checklist. Here's what you can include: #1. Choice of Clothes and Accessorie...

Guys: Create A "Plan-List" For A Romantic Evening

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16 August 2011: In many situations, being spontaneous is encouraged. However if you want to have a great romantic evening, planning is essential. Creating a "plan-list" can actually spark intimacy if it's done correctly. Here are some things you can include on y...

Ladies: Do You Think ALL Men Are The Same?

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14 August 2011: Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a ...

How to Meet The Man Or Woman Of Your Dreams

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14 August 2011: If you want to find the man or woman of your dreams, you have to put yourself in the environment where they work or hang out. For example, if you want to meet a lawyer, go down to your local courthouse during lunch hours- and hang out at the ...

Guys: What To Do If You're Suffering From Erectile Dysfunction

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13 August 2011: Erectile dysfunction (ED), also known as impotence, is a condition that affects an individual’s ability to achieve or sustain erection during intercourse. The most common reasons for this are: stress, poor nutrition, lack of rest/exercise, or it’s ...

The Top 3 Fears That Prevent Successful Relationships

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8 August 2011: Do you have a fear that prevents you from getting into- or maintaining a good relationship? Well it’s not as uncommon as you may think. There are actual terms for these conditions. Such as… 1. Pistanthrophobia. Also known as the fear of trusti...

The Art Of Communcation

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3 August 2011: Communication is the key to every successful relationship. Your ability to connect with your partner verbally or non-verbally (body language) can show whether your relationship has the potential of moving forward, or if it's headed for disaster. ...

Ideas to keep the romance alive..

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3 August 2011: Are you lacking romance in your relationship? Are there any work problems getting in the way? If you've talked about it with your man and you haven't noticed any significant changes, you may have to take some initiative. Here's what you can do:...

Ladies: What You Should Know BEFORE You Have SEx With The Guy That You're Dating

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31 July 2011: Have you recently started dating someone, got into a new relationship, or just plainly unsure when it's the right time for you and your partner to have sex? Well there are a few things for you to consider before you do: - Do you know what Oxytoc...

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Ladies: Do You Think ALL Men Are The Same?

Q.   Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a ...

A.   1 October 2011: Hi Cheers, Thank you for your positive comment- and also for taking the time to read my articles. Enjoy the rest of your day! Cheers! :^)... (read in full...)

Ladies: Do You Think ALL Men Are The Same?

Q.   Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a ...

A.   18 September 2011: I apologize anonymous reader for replying to you so late. I wish I would've noticed your comment a lot sooner. It seems as though you've been through some bad relationships with guys, but I can tell you that NOT ALL men are like what you've d... (read in full...)

Suffering from ED - at 21?

Q.   I've been experiencing somewhat of a problem for a long time now. Right now, I'm a 21 year old male, in great physical condition. I'm dating a girl from one of my classes. She just flew out to China for study abroad, and will be gone for a whole...

A.   23 August 2011: Well you may want to read the article that I've written for men suffering from ED in the articles section on this site. I think a lot of the information will be very beneficial for you. Also I think that it really is a confidence issue. Confiden... (read in full...)

How do I get to know her?

Q.   i recently saw a girls picture and i dont know what struck me at the first glance. it was love at first sight. i tried almost everything to know her and get closer to her. i recently met her on facebook and few of her friends are also friends to me ...

A.   22 August 2011: O.k. slow down tiger. :^) IF you do have the opportunity to talk to/meet her and you confess your love to her, you'll scare her off quicker than you met her. Start slow. Say something like...you think she's attractive, and you would really like to ... (read in full...)

How to Meet The Man Or Woman Of Your Dreams

Q.   If you want to find the man or woman of your dreams, you have to put yourself in the environment where they work or hang out. For example, if you want to meet a lawyer, go down to your local courthouse during lunch hours- and hang out at the ...

A.   22 August 2011: That's great to hear Madalo! And hey, at least you took a chance to land your dream guy. Now you wouldn't have regrets of not taking a chance- or thoughts of "what if" as you get older. And this is for those that are afraid to take the initiat... (read in full...)

Create A Checklist For Your First Date

Q.   So you landed the date that you wanted with the person that captured your interest. How should you plan it to make sure things go well? Make sure you set up a simple checklist. Here's what you can include: #1. Choice of Clothes and Accessorie...

A.   22 August 2011: Chigirl, I must have been tired yesterday when I posted my comments. I left out an important word. :^) Let me correct myself on this comment by saying that it's important to know WHEN and WHEN NOT TO touch. Thanks again for your comment!... (read in full...)

How to Meet The Man Or Woman Of Your Dreams

Q.   If you want to find the man or woman of your dreams, you have to put yourself in the environment where they work or hang out. For example, if you want to meet a lawyer, go down to your local courthouse during lunch hours- and hang out at the ...

A.   22 August 2011: By the way Madalo, I meant to say "things will not progress further than a glance". I believe in my response earlier I put "things will not further than a look". My apologies for my error. :^)... (read in full...)

How to Meet The Man Or Woman Of Your Dreams

Q.   If you want to find the man or woman of your dreams, you have to put yourself in the environment where they work or hang out. For example, if you want to meet a lawyer, go down to your local courthouse during lunch hours- and hang out at the ...

A.   22 August 2011: Hi Madalo! Thanks for your comment. I'm sorry you couldn't land your dream guy in college. But there's a lot more that goes along with that opportunity. There's attraction, if the person's single, interested in talking to you, and if they respond ... (read in full...)

ED and overcoming it advise?

Q.   Do any guys have experience of erectile dysfunction and overcoming it? My boyfriend is in his early 40s. At the start of our relationship sex was great. He was really keen and adventurous. Then suddenly things changed after a few months. I noticed a ...

A.   22 August 2011: I've written an article about this very issue on this site and I'll repost it here for you and the other anonymous commenter who has someone that's suffering from ED. Hopefully you both find this information useful... Erectile dysfunction (ED), al... (read in full...)

Create A Checklist For Your First Date

Q.   So you landed the date that you wanted with the person that captured your interest. How should you plan it to make sure things go well? Make sure you set up a simple checklist. Here's what you can include: #1. Choice of Clothes and Accessorie...

A.   22 August 2011: Hi Chigirl! You bring up some great pointers. I in fact, agree with everything that you're saying- and I actually mentioned the importance of knowing when and when to touch in many of my comments. Thanks for providing your thoughts! ... (read in full...)

Married for 8 years, he is no longer interested in anything but work and money

Q.   My husband and I have been together for 8 years. When we first got together, we had sex all the time. After about a year it started dwindling away slowly and now we might have sex 2 times a year. When I ask him what is wrong, he says he has no ...

A.   21 August 2011: Wow that is an unfortunate situation. Though it may be true that his desire for sex may be dwindling, you have to remind him that you two are still married. And you deserve to be completely happy whether intimately, or basically, overall in the ... (read in full...)

Why can't I get women to be interested in me?

Q.   It's hard for me to express this accurately but I might as well try. Now you see my love life leaves something to be desired so to speak. I've been single for multiple years now and when I look back at previous relationships the truth is calling ...

A.   21 August 2011: Well you definitely need to change your overall image both physical and mental. There are so many pointers I would like to give you- but I may be writing until tomorrow. :^) So I'll be very brief. 1. Change your thoughts. You have to start thinkin... (read in full...)

I was hurt and now I hate women

Q.   I don't know if anyone here can really help me with this but here it goes. Im currently 21 and over the years I have grown to hate women despite being raised in a loving household with loving mother and sisters it just happened I felt this way about ...

A.   21 August 2011: Well you definitely need to read the article I've written for this site called "The Top 3 Fears That Prevent Successful Relationships". I think that you could relate to a few things I've mentioned. But I'm sorry that you've been through so much ... (read in full...)

How can teens delay teen sex?on how to avoid early sex

Q.   Please provide advice for teens on how to avoid early sex There are many pressures on teens and everyone wants to feel like they are like every one else. And not be different from friends. And so many people think they are successful if they can be w...

A.   21 August 2011: Well teen pregnancy is always a big issue. And often times the teens are not ready to care for the child. In this case they would have to grow up and mature a lot faster than they should, take on a lot of responsibility, even put a lot of that ... (read in full...)

Why couldn't I cum? Have I jerked off too much?

Q.   i lost my virginity on my futon, and i maturbated a few times last night and the night before that. and today i lost my virginity and i didnt cum! but i made the girl cum 3 times once where she squirted all over my futon but why didnt i cum! ...

A.   21 August 2011: O.k. I'm going to try to form an answer here... It's not uncommon for a guy to have a delayed ejaculation- or only have a bit of semen to come out after he has masturbated/had sex a lot in a short period of time. You may want to give yourself... (read in full...)

Does he want to be with me?

Q.   Hey im really unsure over this guy. We;ve been friends for years, had our ups and downs but everything pretty good now. I'm really confused though as i think he may want more than friends but doesnt seem to be doing much about it. It started ...

A.   20 August 2011: O.k. I think that it's very clear that he likes you. And from the making out, touching, etc., he is sexually attracted to you as well. You have to determine if you both are willing to take things to the next level- whether that's going to be ... (read in full...)

Crossed the limit with female work colleague

Q.   I had friendly relationship with a female work colleague. I was used to flirt her a little bit which was in a acceptable manner. Recently she shifted near my area and she invited me to her house to show it. I crossed the limit a bit and touched her ...

A.   20 August 2011: Hey Kyle007! You provide some good key points in your comments for the question asker. From my knowledge though, I do believe sexual harassment is something that many courts are divided on. Many do feel that if it could potentially cause problems in ... (read in full...)

Crossed the limit with female work colleague

Q.   I had friendly relationship with a female work colleague. I was used to flirt her a little bit which was in a acceptable manner. Recently she shifted near my area and she invited me to her house to show it. I crossed the limit a bit and touched her ...

A.   20 August 2011: Well it's definitely possible that she spoke to her manager/co workers about it. And inappropriate touching is a form of sexual harassment. You need to work on reading body language better to judge whether a woman is into you or not. And under NO ... (read in full...)

How to Meet The Man Or Woman Of Your Dreams

Q.   If you want to find the man or woman of your dreams, you have to put yourself in the environment where they work or hang out. For example, if you want to meet a lawyer, go down to your local courthouse during lunch hours- and hang out at the ...

A.   18 August 2011: I wish I could've supplied this advice to you 20 years ago! :^) But thanks Kyle007 for your comment.... (read in full...)

He spent more money on his ex than he does with me, did he love her more?

Q.   did my partner spend more money on his ex because he loved her more? He was with her for a short time but furnished her house and paid her rent, got her a car and paid for her boob job. With me, he is not like that. ...

A.   17 August 2011: Well he may be carrying bad feelings and thoughts from the last relationship. If he thought..."hey I spent all of this money on my ex, and look at how it ended up." you may be feeling the effect of that. But money can't buy love. If he's taking y... (read in full...)

Texting a guy who already has a girlfriend.....is this wrong?

Q.   I know this may seem obvious and I'm sure most of you will right away say it is wrong and I shouldnt be texting him, but let me give you the full story and please reserve your judgement until then! I met a guy on Saturday night whilst out with ...

A.   17 August 2011: You could definitely put his relationship with his girlfriend in a difficult position if you continue to text/talk to this guy. Should his girlfriend find/read some of the texts, she may be wondering..."who is this girl that he's talking to?" and ... (read in full...)

How do I approach my supervisor and let him know I am interested whilst keeping everything private?

Q.   He everyone I could really use some sound, constructive and useful advice, I would be much obliged. I work with this guy who is one of my supervisors, I like him a lot and he befriended me on FB. Anyway my question is I need to approach this ...

A.   17 August 2011: Well generally I wouldn't recommend asking someone at work out. Because if it doesn't work out, you may feel awkward working around/for them. But if you must, and you'll probably do it anyway, then you may want to give it more time. Build up a ... (read in full...)

Anyone have experience with anorgasmia?

Q.   Hi I'm a twenty five year old male with a bit of a sexual problem. I am experiencing extreme problem with anorgasmia any time I am actually lucky enough to get with a girl. I have no problem getting erect and having penetrative sex but then after a ...

A.   17 August 2011: Well anorgasmia can be a troubling, annoying condition. But I think that it's all mental. But you should still see a doctor (like a urologist), just to make sure there are no physical reasons for your problem. Now... I believe the problem ... (read in full...)

How should I act on the next date?

Q.   Need some quick advice here. I was talking with one of my best friends and i told him i havent had a relationship in about a year and i told him i miss having someone i can be intimate with (not necessarily physically). Anyways, he suggested i meet ...

A.   17 August 2011: Well the next date SHOULD NOT be with your friends. Two's a company, three's a crowd, any more is a group. Dating should be between two people. You'll feel less awkward, you'll express more through conversation, and you won't have people eyes on you ... (read in full...)

How do I ask a girl out if I'm shy?

Q.   ok so I have never asked a girl out before and I have dated around 10 girls since i was in middle school and until now that i recently graduated high school.. some relationships were not serious and we were just fooling around i have not dated a ...

A.   17 August 2011: Well you definitely need to try to ask women out because you can't solely rely on them asking you...especially if the girl is shy herself. Then what happens is you both miss out on an opportunity to get to know each other- because no one is doing ... (read in full...)

My feelings have changed and sometimes I don't even want to be around him!

Q.   So...this is a tough one. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We have a great relationship, minus a few ups and downs that everyone is sure to go through. Recently my feelings towards him have changed. At times things are complete...

A.   17 August 2011: Well you're just experiencing the normal bumps in the road in a relationship. It's the bad, annoying, or trying times (which includes loss of attraction- whether sexual or physical, things getting a little less exciting, etc) that gives you the real ... (read in full...)

I finally worked up the courage to tell him I loved him, but he didnt say it back. Is this something that will come in time?

Q.   I have started seein this guy for the past five months, before he has told me he loved me when there has been drink involved, although I had never said it back. When I finally plucked up the courage to tell him, he didn say it back. He told me he ...

A.   17 August 2011: When to say "I love you" is always a big question in relationships. The truth of the matter is, no one could tell you how you feel. It's good that you expressed it- I wouldn't dwell on it as much though. If he truly does have strong feelings for ... (read in full...)

He had been drinking a lot but said he wants to marry me one day.....did he mean it?

Q.   The other night my boyfriend was drinking a lot and we started a very in depth conversation about what is in store for our live and what we wanted out of it.... long story short he told me that he was going to marry me. That he wanted to marry me so ...

A.   16 August 2011: Why would you have a deep conversation with your man if he'd been drinking a lot? :^) Well they say a drunk person speaks a sober mind. Maybe he was telling you how he truly felt. Only time will tell. ... (read in full...)

Ladies: Do You Think ALL Men Are The Same?

Q.   Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a ...

A.   16 August 2011: Believe me, I know women can do/say bad things. But wether you're straight, gay, or bi, you have to keep your heart open and understand that not everyone is going to treat you bad. There are many wonderful people out there. You just have give them a ... (read in full...)

Ideas to keep the romance alive..

Q.   Are you lacking romance in your relationship? Are there any work problems getting in the way? If you've talked about it with your man and you haven't noticed any significant changes, you may have to take some initiative. Here's what you can do:...

A.   15 August 2011: I agree Mavuyi. The title of this article was supposed to have "ladies" written before it. Therefore it was intended for women. But I will post an article for the guys as well on how they could spice up the relationship on their end. Thanks again ... (read in full...)

The Art Of Communcation

Q.   Communication is the key to every successful relationship. Your ability to connect with your partner verbally or non-verbally (body language) can show whether your relationship has the potential of moving forward, or if it's headed for disaster. ...

A.   15 August 2011: Thanks for commenting Mavuyi. Communication is a skill that you could learn. All you have to do learn how. So just read books/articles on the subject, hire a relationship coach ;^), or attend seminars. You can make any relationship work if you put ... (read in full...)

I don't want my boyfriend to fall for this gorgeous contractor we might hire to work with us!

Q.   How can I be more trusting of my boyfriend? My boyfriend and I have a small business where we sub-contract web design work to others. We've recently been expanding the business and looking for new contractors. I found someone online who's int...

A.   15 August 2011: It's not uncommon for many people (not just women) to feel insecure about the opposite sex hanging, working, or being around their boyfriend or girlfriend. But trust is a rare gem in a relationship. And if he hasn't given you a reason to worry, then ... (read in full...)

Need help Advice Pls: How to break up and leave an Aries BF?

Q.   First, I am still in love with my aries Boyfriend. He's 36 and I am 28. We have dated for 1.6 years striaght but on and off for 2years. But we fight so much and pick fights over everything, and this is NOT new. We have broken up a few times in the ...

A.   15 August 2011: I think I should feel a bit disrespected that you're talking about my astrology sign. Just kidding. :^)I know that Aries people do have the ability to clash, could be argumentative, and we're sort of headstrong and sometimes confrontational, but ... (read in full...)

I'm worried I'm going to lose my FWB guy to a college girl

Q.   Hey,everyone I need an advice. I've been messing around with my FWB (friends with benefits) for a couple months with a guy I knew in high school. When we was both in school,I wasn't that interested in him because he was always quiet but I will ...

A.   15 August 2011: I don't think I could be any more clearer when I say be VERY careful when you have friends with benefits. Maybe I should hand out flyers with a picture of a caution sign, and right below it, it would have the letters FWB. :^) But seriousl... (read in full...)

Ladies: Do You Think ALL Men Are The Same?

Q.   Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a ...

A.   15 August 2011: Thanks for your positive comments Blonde30s. :^) I think you made some valid points as well. ... (read in full...)

I really don't want to be with somebody who treats me like this but am shocked and numb!

Q.   My boyfriend of 2 years and I are 35. When we dont agree on things I prefer to agree to differ but he gets verbally abusive and swears and calls me a f*ing idiot. I find that so offensive. None of his family swear. He gets angry when he dr...

A.   14 August 2011: I've always said that dating is a preview of a relationship, and a relationship is a preview of how things may be in a marriage. I'm not sure if you've ever thought about getting married to this guy, but I'd just like to know if this is the type of ... (read in full...)

How do I stop living in fear of my boyfriend emotionally or physically cheating on me?

Q.   How do I stop living in fear of my boyfriend emotionally or physically cheating on me and just be with him happily. He has never done anything to betray my trust, and every time I have had an issue, he explains it. But it's a huge strain and I hav...

A.   14 August 2011: If he has never done anything to betray your trust, then there is nothing that you should be worried about. Whatever happened in your past..is just that..your past. You have to learn to move on and work on loving and trusting the guy that you're ... (read in full...)

Sex feels a bit 'blah'....any advice?

Q.   I'm twenty years old and lost my virginity at 17, I've had 3 sexual partners but have probably only had sex around 40 times in total over 3 years. It's not that I ~dislike sex it's just a bit... I don't know, I don't see what all the fuss is about? ...

A.   14 August 2011: Well there are things that you could do to enjoy it more like... 1. Encourage more foreplay. Many times during intercourse the man usually gets off before the woman. Leaving the woman to think "is that all?". If you encourage more foreplay and ask... (read in full...)

Are people who look at porn more likely to cheat?

Q.   Hey, I'm interested to know-do you think people who look at porn are more likely to actually cheat on their partner? I'm asking because I know my bf of 1 yr watches porn videos online every 3-4 days. It used to get me down, but so many people have ...

A.   14 August 2011: Great question! That's actually somewhat debatable. In my opinion, I don't think so. Porn is more of a fantasy- and an escape from the norm or judgmental views from the real world for most guys. And yes many, many guys do watch porn. But you can't ... (read in full...)

I'm fed up of being let down all the time...

Q.   hi, I'm fed up of being let down all the time. me and my ex were together a year but broke up 4 months ago, what happened was that all the time he was with me he was with another girl to. when i found this out it broke my heart. since then i...

A.   14 August 2011: Well first you have to work on yourself before you even begin to start dating again. You're in a tough emotional place right now, and it would just be more difficult for you to deal with things if things doesn't go well on your next date...or in ... (read in full...)

He only had one large testicle. Should I be worried?

Q.   Hello my lovely agony aunts and uncles.. So I recently visited an old friend and we hooked up, the strange thing was that he only had one testicle (and it was very large). Before visiting him I had not seen him for over a year, and before this time...

A.   14 August 2011: Well the biggest(no pun intended) thing he has to worry about is Testicular Cancer. And if he's in doubt..he should check it out. :^) No but in all seriousness, there are a variety of reasons that he may have one testicle... 1. He could've ... (read in full...)

It started well. All of a sudden he just wanted sex and nothing more. How do I get him more interested in me as his Gf?.

Q.   hi people what is going on here im so confused and i really need your help i met a man at the beginning of the year called Z we dated for 9 weeks when we met then all of a sudden he just wanted sex and nothing more. he was with someone for years and ...

A.   13 August 2011: Ask him to give you a reason to stay. Tell him that you're not looking for just a sexual relationship with him, you want something more. If he can't give you that, then you're better off just being friends, and you're just going to have to move on. ... (read in full...)

How do I ensure that I can become more than just his true friend? I'd like more to develop between us.

Q.   I met a guy 4 years ago..we had some mutual friends and we joined same tuitions so we became friends. I started loving him. he is very understanding. We used to not talk a lot. After 2 yrs i came to another city and joined a new school, even he came...

A.   13 August 2011: Trying to pursue something more than friendship when you start off as friends can be tricky. And if the feelings are not mutual, it could potentially ruin a friendship. If he has already mentioned to you that he's not ready for a girlfrie... (read in full...)

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