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writes:i use to be able to go 4 are 5 mins now all i hav to do is just puyt it in my girlfriend and i cum,use to not b like this ,what can i do its starting to hurt our relationship Reply to this Question
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reader, unknown2u +, writes (16 September 2011):
Is it new? A guy with a new girl is going to shoot too quickly. Give it time, it works itself out.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (15 September 2011):
 I think your issue could either be psychological or physical. I recommend first seeing a Urologist to make sure everything is working fine physically. I also suggest that you work on pleasing your woman in other ways. Try adding a bit more foreplay into your sex life.
You may want to try Kegel exercises to help you last a bit longer. I cover this, and a few other tips in the article that I've written for men who suffer from issues such as yours here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/guys-what-to-do-if-youre-suffering-from.html
Send me a message if you'd like more information on this topic.
I wish you the very best! Keep me updated.
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reader, KittieS  +, writes (15 September 2011):
 Hi,It must be difficult for you, but a loving girlfriend will work with you.I'm not sure if you use condoms but maybe you could try a "thicker" version which will help you to last longer, also perhaps try sex a second time (depending on your recovery time) whilst your waiting you could spend some quality time pleading your girlfriend.Also you should see your doctor, talk it through with them it may be that you haveto go down the medical route for a while.Don't feel embarrassed or frustrated you and your partner should work together to resolve the slight hic-up in your relationshipWishing you luck
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