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Get a lady just by changing the way you talk!

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Article - (29 August 2011) 2 Comments - (Newest, 30 August 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, Daniel the love doctor writes:

The way you carry yourself, dress, talk, or even walk can either attract a potential mate, or repel her. In other words, you need to develop some “swagger”. So when you decide to approach a woman of your interest, you need to do the following:

1. Deepen your tone of voice. Studies show that most women are more attracted to a man that has a deeper tone of voice, than a guy who has more of a higher-pitched tone. Even if you’re not born with the voice of Darth Vader or Vin Diesel, you can still woo a woman with your sound. Here’s what you can do:

· Strengthen your vocal chords

· Try some voice lowering exercises

2. Communicate effectively. Forget pick-up lines…they never work. They come off a bit cheesy, and may easily repel a woman right off the bat. When you approach a woman, give her a compliment, ask her questions about herself - but be careful not to make her feel as though she’s on the hot seat. The conversation should also be balanced (which also means you shouldn’t talk too much about yourself). Find a common interest through your question asking so the conversation can flow more easily.

** You should also be aware of her body language. If she’s smiling, being playful with you, giving you a touch on the arm to make a point, leaning closer in your direction, then those are good signs that she’s interested. If she’s checking her watch, folding her arms, giving you short or abrupt answers, or yawning, then thank her for her time and move on to the next person of your interest.

So now you see just by changing how you talk can have a huge effect on how a woman perceives you to be. So get out there, have fun, and start attracting women today!

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A male reader, Daniel the love doctor United States +, writes (30 August 2011):

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Daniel the love doctor agony auntSounds good 5678bam. let me know how it turns out. By the way everyone, this is the second part of the article titled "Guys: How To Develop 'Swagger' to Attract More Women". I'll post part 3 soon. **

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A male reader, 5678bam United States +, writes (30 August 2011):

Sounds alright! I think I'll try that on a new lady-friend I have!

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