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2 June 2013: I believe that everyone has a soul mate out there... the person that's meant for them. It's all about finding that person and going through all of the good times and bad times together (because it won't be great all of the time). Now with that ...
Are You Ready For Marriage?
No replies yet... 25 May 2013: Marriage is a serious commitment that one must truly decide if it's the best thing for them. With over 50% of marriages ending in divorce, many people don't want to take that chance and risk being hurt, having their family torn apart (especially if ...
Guys- Great Gift Ideas For Your Girlfriend!
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12 September 2012: It's difficult to make suggestions on what would be good gift ideas for the guys that are reading this article because generally a gift for say a 16 year old girlfriend, would be different from that of a 30 or 40 year old. It also depends on how ...
Interested In Attending A Speed Dating Event? Here's What You Should Know.
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16 August 2012: I personally never attended a speed dating event as a participant. I have, however, as a matchmaker hosted a few. I can tell you there are quite a few benefits that comes with participating in speed dating events. And I know many people who have ...
Is It OK To Have Sex Everyday?
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11 July 2012: Is it OK to have sex everyday? I heard, and and have been asked that question quite a few times in my professional career. Having sex everyday, like most things, has it's advantages and disadvantages. Advantage #1: -- It's a form of physica...
Create A "Plan-List" For Your Relationship In 2012!
No replies yet... 30 December 2011: Are you looking forward to 2012? Have you already created goals and resolutions for the upcoming year? I know that I have. I plan to offer lots of help and advice to more couples looking to have a good relationship. But I also must make a plan...
Ladies- What It Means When A Guy Says: "I'll call you" And Then...He Doesn't
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22 November 2011: Now, barring any reasons such as a family tragedy or any other personal situation that may prevent a guy from calling, a guy may not call because... #1. They just may not be that into you. I know this may hard to hear, and many women may not wa...
Need A Confidence Booster?
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31 October 2011: There are times in our lives that we humans get into a depressing mode which resulted from us analyzing our downfalls and what we seem to lack. It seems to become apparent to us one way or another- and we start to questions ourselves, or abilities, ...
Sexual Fantasies: Just How Open Should You Be In A Relationship?
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24 October 2011: Some time ago I was watching T.V. and I couldn't find anything that interesting on. As I bypassed many channels, I contemplated whether or not I should just turn the darn thing off. Then I came across the Tyra Banks show. The episode was about ...
The Package-Deal Relationship pt.2: When To Introduce Children
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20 October 2011: Are you currently involved with someone but have yet to introduce them to your children? Are nervous and unsure what type of response you may get from your kids or the person that you're seeing if you do introduce them? Well here's what you ...
The Package-Deal Relationship: Not Embraced By The Family?
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15 October 2011: Ideally we all want to have a family that will be o.k. with the person that we chose to have as partner. But what if someone in our partner's family has a problem with us? Will you become stressed out, confused, or even annoyed by that person's beha...
3 Ways To Recession-Proof Your Relationship
No replies yet... 15 October 2011: Are you feeling the effects of the current economy? Is your relationship suffering because of it? Well don't despair....there are things that you can do. 1. Be creative. Think of some low cost (or no cost) ways to put a smile on your partner's f...
Being Able To Change: Breaking Old Habits In Relationships
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15 October 2011: Sometimes it’s hard to break old habits. If you’re used to acting a certain way in a relationship (or life in general), changing your ways may seem difficult. However, if you’ve noticed that things aren’t going so well in your relationship, you may ...
Are You Making Time For Your Partner?
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10 October 2011: Do you focus your energy on something or someone which may take time away from you and your partner? Well if you highly value your relationship, you may need to make some changes. Situation#1: Work. If you’re a big time workaholic, then...
If Your Partner Is A Porn Watcher....
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9 October 2011: What do you do when you've discovered that your partner has been watching/hiding porn? This is a question that many women, in particular, want answers to. Here's my view on it... -First,you should have a talk with him. As hard as it may b...
The Role Of Respect In Relationships
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30 September 2011: How much do you respect your partner? Do you treat them less than what they're worth because of their gender? Do you not value their thoughts or opinions as much as you would say a family member, friend, or close counsel? Well if you disregard how ...
Does Size Make The Man?
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29 September 2011: I’d like to first thank Tennisstar88 for giving me the idea to write this article. Even though this is a sensitive topic to most men, my hope is someone will benefit from reading it. Enjoy! ------...
Why It’s Important To Keep Your Relationship Exciting
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29 September 2011: Throughout my professional career I've come across many people that were lacking excitement in their relationship. Many of them have experienced some form of it in the beginning of their relationship- but they all seem to ask me the same ...
Two Ways To Make Your Relationship Better
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29 September 2011: There are many relationships that are slowly destructing because of lack of two simple things...communication and action. If your partner presents a problem to you, and you want to keep your relationship strong, then you should do the following: ...
Three Ways To Know That Your Ready For A Relationship
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25 September 2011: Are you ready for a serious, committed relationship now…really? Well if you truly believe that you are, make sure that you have the below tips covered. 1. You’re maximizing your opportunities. If you want to find a mate, then you have to put your...
How To Approach A Girl...The Right Way!
No replies yet... 24 September 2011: Now I've written numerous articles relating to this topic. But in this article I'm going to focus more on the approaching aspect of meeting a woman. And I'll do it on the form of frequently asked questions. Question 1: How do I approach a girl?...
What Women Want Most From A Guy
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5 September 2011: In a continuation to my series of articles on developing "Swagger", I feel it's necessary recap, include, and conclude with these 8 tips. If there's anything additional ladies that you feel is worth mentioning, don't hesitate to add your thoughts in ...
How To Create Great Conversations On A Date
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3 September 2011: To have a successful date, you must have great conversation. Conversation creates chemistry. Leaving out just one of these tips, can end a conversation quickly or be the cause of “date destruction”. Here are the top five conversation tip...
Guys: How To Have The "Swagger " Walk
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31 August 2011: So we've covered how to talk and present yourself in from of women, so the last thing I'd like to share is how to have a swagger walk. Enjoy! --------------------------------------------------------------- When it comes to attracting a ...
Get a lady just by changing the way you talk!
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29 August 2011: The way you carry yourself, dress, talk, or even walk can either attract a potential mate, or repel her. In other words, you need to develop some “swagger”. So when you decide to approach a woman of your interest, you need to do the following: ...
Guys: How To Develop "Swagger" To Attract More Women Part 1
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27 August 2011: The way you carry yourself, dress, talk, or even walk, can either attract a potential mate or repel her. In other words you need to have some swagger. So to avoid being rejected before you even say a word, you need to do the following: 1. Carefu...
Create A Checklist For Your First Date
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20 August 2011: So you landed the date that you wanted with the person that captured your interest. How should you plan it to make sure things go well? Make sure you set up a simple checklist. Here's what you can include: #1. Choice of Clothes and Accessorie...
Guys: Create A "Plan-List" For A Romantic Evening
No replies yet... 16 August 2011: In many situations, being spontaneous is encouraged. However if you want to have a great romantic evening, planning is essential. Creating a "plan-list" can actually spark intimacy if it's done correctly. Here are some things you can include on y...
Ladies: Do You Think ALL Men Are The Same?
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14 August 2011: Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a ...
How to Meet The Man Or Woman Of Your Dreams
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14 August 2011: If you want to find the man or woman of your dreams, you have to put yourself in the environment where they work or hang out. For example, if you want to meet a lawyer, go down to your local courthouse during lunch hours- and hang out at the ...
Guys: What To Do If You're Suffering From Erectile Dysfunction
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13 August 2011: Erectile dysfunction (ED), also known as impotence, is a condition that affects an individual’s ability to achieve or sustain erection during intercourse. The most common reasons for this are: stress, poor nutrition, lack of rest/exercise, or it’s ...
The Top 3 Fears That Prevent Successful Relationships
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8 August 2011: Do you have a fear that prevents you from getting into- or maintaining a good relationship? Well it’s not as uncommon as you may think. There are actual terms for these conditions. Such as… 1. Pistanthrophobia. Also known as the fear of trusti...
The Art Of Communcation
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3 August 2011: Communication is the key to every successful relationship. Your ability to connect with your partner verbally or non-verbally (body language) can show whether your relationship has the potential of moving forward, or if it's headed for disaster. ...
Ideas to keep the romance alive..
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3 August 2011: Are you lacking romance in your relationship? Are there any work problems getting in the way? If you've talked about it with your man and you haven't noticed any significant changes, you may have to take some initiative. Here's what you can do:...
Ladies: What You Should Know BEFORE You Have SEx With The Guy That You're Dating
No replies yet... 31 July 2011: Have you recently started dating someone, got into a new relationship, or just plainly unsure when it's the right time for you and your partner to have sex? Well there are a few things for you to consider before you do: - Do you know what Oxytoc...
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What Women Want Most From A Guy
Q. In a continuation to my series of articles on developing "Swagger", I feel it's necessary recap, include, and conclude with these 8 tips. If there's anything additional ladies that you feel is worth mentioning, don't hesitate to add your thoughts in ...
A. 17 September 2011: Hi Tennisstar88! Thank you for your comments. You've provided excellent tips coming from a woman's point of view. ... (read in full...)
How do I approach a girl for a date?
Q. so my best friends bad are playing at this pub tonight. the girl i really like is going to be there but she has a boyfriend who is a friend so i want to get her out of my head. i think that cause its a pub i could try and talk to girls and set so...
A. 16 September 2011: Thanks Jmtmj for your comment a few days ago. I'm sorry for replying so late, I literally just saw your comment this minute.
I'm very flattered that you've looked for an "approaching guide" from me in my profile area...and I promise I will pos... (read in full...)
He's my first, but all these other girls ...
Q. im 19/f and my boyfriend is 20/m we have been dating for nearly 4 months now, but to us it feels much much longer then that. We knew each other for 4 or so months before we even started dating, and back then, i fell for him the moment we met. ...
A. 13 September 2011: Well he shouldn't expect you to be great at sex, you're very inexperienced. Instead what he should encourage is more communication when you two are being intimate. Let him know what you like, tell him to tell you what he likes, and work on making ... (read in full...)
Why can't I last long during sex?
Q. 1.I am now 30. I have been suffering from haemorrhoids for the last eight yrs.And I found myself not satisfying my sexual partner. I ejaculate very soon. I can not stay more than few seconds. Do you think the hemorrhoids can be causes for my ...
A. 11 September 2011: I'm sorry you are experiencing this problem. Masturbation CAN have an effect on your stamina/how soon you ejaculate, and ability to maintain an erection.
I believe this article that I've written for this site (especially what I wrote for tip #2) ... (read in full...)
My horrible first time experience haunts me!
Q. So me and my gf has been dating for 9 months now...we have intercourse a while back...it was my first time but not hers...when we did it we didn't use a condom i came in 3 seconds...yes i have a horrible premature ejaculation...luckily i pulled ...
A. 11 September 2011: Start thinking about the 25 minutes that you've lasted. Start thinking more positive- and tell yourself that it was your first time...and also just a one time occurrence that you had prematurely ejaculated. ... (read in full...)
I have boyfriend blues. Not sure how? Need help to handle fact that he wants to go further?
Q. I was wondering what i should do in preparation if my boyfriend wanted to go down on me...? I mean i give him bj's even though i think its embarrassing and he wants to go down on me but.. idk how to feel about that....
A. 10 September 2011: Just try to relax- and see if that's something you would like. If you become extra tense and anxious before he even make an attempt, you won't enjoy it as much. So just take a few deep breaths and try to enjoy the pleasure. ... (read in full...)
What Women Want Most From A Guy
Q. In a continuation to my series of articles on developing "Swagger", I feel it's necessary recap, include, and conclude with these 8 tips. If there's anything additional ladies that you feel is worth mentioning, don't hesitate to add your thoughts in ...
A. 10 September 2011: Thanks Janniepeg for your comments. Especially on the listening topic. I appreciate you providing your two cents. :^)... (read in full...)
Did he fake it?
Q. Hey, I'm not very sexually experienced and am just a bit concerned about what happened a couple of nights ago. I've been dating a guy for a couple of weeks, and ended up sleeping with him on Wednesday night (a bit too soon, I know). We were w...
A. 10 September 2011: It's definately not common for a guy to fake it, but it really does happen. So this situation is a bit difficult to answer. But I'll give it my best. :^) Besides premature ejaculation (because I don't know how long you two were intimate), you h... (read in full...)
My husband and I both have fantasies. How can I bring up my fantasy for his consideration?
Q. A few years ago my husband told me he had a dream of me having sex with a very large woman. We talked and for the first time I admitted to him I always wondered what it would be like and I get turned on watching lesbian porn. I told him how nerv...
A. 10 September 2011: Just sit down and talk with him. Tell him that you appreciate his patience in waiting for you to decide if that's something you really wanted to do. And express that you would really like to fulfill that fantasy.
Obviously he would be on board wi... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I'll lose him due to self-fulfilling prophecy
Q. Why am I so afraid to lose him? We seem to be doing so well, but I'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop (it's happened in every other aspect of my life, so why not in this relationship, too?). Every time we're together is bittersweet for ...
A. 9 September 2011: Well just know that you create your own reality. So even though in many cases I believe you should be a realist, you should also be (in large portion) an optimist as well.
Be the best person that you could be in the relationship, and don't wo... (read in full...)
My wife thinks I have a small penis!
Q. I have a troubling issue in my marriage. To get right to the point, it has to do with penis size and my wife's perception. I am about 5.75 by 5 around and I always thought fairly average. When my wife and I talk it is clear that she thinks ...
A. 9 September 2011: Even though you have an average size penis, there is no reason your WIFE (someone who is suppose to love you no matter what) is telling you these things. She is a bit of a size queen. And I agree with a lot of my fellow commenters points- and I ... (read in full...)
How do I approach a girl for a date?
Q. so my best friends bad are playing at this pub tonight. the girl i really like is going to be there but she has a boyfriend who is a friend so i want to get her out of my head. i think that cause its a pub i could try and talk to girls and set so...
A. 9 September 2011: First off I agree with jmtmj with a lot of what he said in his comments. And would like to give you my thoughts on your questions... how do i approach a girl? - Before you approach a girl you have to make sure that you look good (meaning your... (read in full...)
I asked her to meet me but now I don't know what to say!
Q. Guys please help me, there is this girl in my class that I love, I already told her how I feel and I told her that I want to be with her.. but she says she doesn't know what to do or how to react to this feelings I have. we get along but we don't ...
A. 8 September 2011: Wow. Ok first you're coming on too strong to her. This is the reason why she didn't really know how to respond/react. You'll be lucky if you didn't scare her away. Especially if you've asked to meet her alone somewhere.
If, by chance, you do h... (read in full...)
I lied to my online friend and I am worried she will find out
Q. Hi there,, I met a girl online a good couple years ago and we got on quite well, problem is, I lied about a lot - Including my age. I'm 18 now but according to my alter ego I should be 20. Now usually this wouldn't be a problem but after a while of...
A. 8 September 2011: You should've been honest to begin with. But you've made your bed, now you have to lay in it. Just come clean. The longer the lie goes on, the more she'll be hurt. Especially if you two grow to be a lot closer in the future. ... (read in full...)
She likes, would date me....BUT she still wants to have sex with other people!!!
Q. Ok, this is a WEIRD one. But maybe you guys can help. See, I know this girl who is sort of promiscuous. Yet she's hott. And sweet. And so we been out a bit. Never slept together or anything because believe it or not, I dont think people should do...
A. 8 September 2011: In other words she wants an open relationship. This situation is usually difficult to be in especially when one person wants exclusivity and the other person doesn't. Because of this reason I think you should not pursue anything more than a ... (read in full...)
What Women Want Most From A Guy
Q. In a continuation to my series of articles on developing "Swagger", I feel it's necessary recap, include, and conclude with these 8 tips. If there's anything additional ladies that you feel is worth mentioning, don't hesitate to add your thoughts in ...
A. 7 September 2011: Thank you Odds for your comments. Let me say though that I simply surveyed many, many women, relied on my experience as a relationship coach/matchmaker (in addition to growing up in a household full of women), and talked to a few close female ... (read in full...)
Is there hope he may still call after first date?
Q. So I recently met a guy at work, we flirted a couple of weeks, he asked for my number and invited me out. We went rock climbing indoors, it was fantastic but I broke a pretty bad sweat. We went to dinner after and the convo went well. There were no ...
A. 7 September 2011: O.k. well I don't think your smell was the issue. You both went rock climbing, to dinner, and even after that time he talked about how much fun he had- and hung out a bit with you in your house. I do think however that it's possible you ... (read in full...)
UPDATE What can I say to get a conversation going?
Q. Hello again, everyone. I posted a question on here on the 5th July this year. Briefly, I was running into a woman on the journey to work every day and did I think she was the most beautiful woman that I'd ever seen? Yes! The question I asked was, as ...
A. 6 September 2011: That's good news! You have a great success story! Continue to keep us all updated. :^)... (read in full...)
Sick of being second best......
Q. How do I deal with being second best? I'm second best when it comes to everything. My partner has a better ex. She was prettier and cooler and they only broke up because she cheated. He would never have left her had she not. I'm also second best...
A. 5 September 2011: Well what you need to do is build more confidence in yourself. Come up with a list of at least 5 things that makes you special- and what you really love about yourself and look at it often- especially when you're feeling down. Also read ... (read in full...)
After 8 months, he says he feels he loves me more as a special friend than a girlfriend
Q. So i've been going out with my bf for 8 months, and recently he told me that he didn't feel like that he loves me as a gf anymore.. and he said like, right now he still loves me but he feels like i'm more of a really special friend than a gf.. B...
A. 5 September 2011: In most relationships there's a period of time when things are a bit stale. The excitement seemed to have faded, and people are left wondering..."where did all the fun go?"
Here's two ways to get the fun back:
1. Show your creative side. W... (read in full...)
I'm bothered by my fiance's past
Q. Hello I need some help... I been with my fiancee for awhile now and we are due to be getting married here very soon. I been hurt a lot by many people... He's a wonderful guy and he's very open and honest with me about everything.... When we talk ...
A. 5 September 2011: Well just understand that whatever happened in the past...is the past. You're with someone who's a great guy- that you will eventually marry. So don't worry so much about the women that he was with previously. As long as he shows YOU the love, care, ... (read in full...)
I'm ready to have sex with him, but it's my first time...advice?
Q. Hey guys this is a really personal question and I hope you can help me with it I,ve been dating this guy for nearly two months. He makes me feel amazing and beautiful and like i,m the only girl in the world I,ve met his family and I think they...
A. 5 September 2011: Well it's good that you're aware of the safety of using protection. I think this article can help you out as well:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ladies-what-you-should-know-before-you-have.html
Hope this helps!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend makes me feel unwanted
Q. Ive been seeing my boyfriend for a few months now and he as started making me feel really unwanted, He means the world to me and I thought I did to him as well but lately he as been really different towards me, He seems to be spending more ti...
A. 5 September 2011: What I believe you should do is sit down with him and express how you feel. Communication is a very important factor in a relationship. And if there's lack of it, and/or you two are not on the same page on something, it can cause your relationship ... (read in full...)
Is this how things usually are? My new boyfriend rarely hugs, kisses and sometimes does not talk
Q. hi i am new to this site but i need some help... i have a new boyfriend who i have been seeing for 5-6 months now, but it feels like he does not like me the way he been saying and he barely hugs, kisses and sometimes barely talks to me. we do liv...
A. 4 September 2011: To answer your question from your title... no, things are not usually that way in relationships. In fact, in relationships (especially those that relatively new),a decent amount of affection is suppose to be displayed. What you should do is ... (read in full...)
Should I try to fix things? Or move on? I feel so insecure now that his attractive ex is trying to talk to him again
Q. hi, so my bf of a year and i live together, and i just kinda broke up with him. we are perfect, except for that we rarely have sex. i tried to get him to open up and he talked about how he doesn't feel he fits with me sexually. I know his ex and h...
A. 4 September 2011: Well the lack of communication is the biggest problem in your relationship. More specifically on his end. Generally what I would tell you is to find out what his fantasies are, and set up a day/night to act them out. But quite honestly, I don't ... (read in full...)
Everything reminds me of my ex!!
Q. What is wrong with me? will I ever get over him? :(? I loved my ex bf so much. He was sweet, romantic and just lovely. He said he loved me too. But he broke up with me saying he didn't want a relationship anymore. I was devastated. We...
A. 3 September 2011: Well it's still relatively early for you to get over him. You're still fresh off the break-up. I think you should delay being friends with him for the time being. You need to "recover" sort of speak. The more you continue to be friends with him, ... (read in full...)
Would sending him texts at work put some spice back?
Q. Would like some ideas on how to put some spice back in the bed room we have been together 5yrs and got too small children so things have started getting a little boring was thinking about sending him texts at work or emails and see if that gets him ...
A. 1 September 2011: Hi! I think this article may help you out: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ideas-to-keep-the-romance-alive.html
Enjoy! :^)... (read in full...)
Does a low sex drive mean he no longer loves me?
Q. If a man no longer wants sex with his partner, is it because he no longer is attracted to her or is not in love with her anymore? Or can a man be in love and attracted to a woman but rarely want sex?...
A. 1 September 2011: Well there could be a number of reasons for his low sex drive in this case. And I think it may be becuase... 1. Lack of Interest. Interest is always a factor. And many times in relationships when that sex spark starts to fade, things become so... (read in full...)
Sex for two years and no orgasm! Help!
Q. Well I have a problem, I've just finally started to feel sexy an confident in sex after having it for 2 years. But I don't ever climax, its pleasurable and everything but i've not once cummed... is there somethign wrong with me? Also I dont fi...
A. 31 August 2011: What you're going through is very common- and many women tend not to climax during intercourse. But what you may need is extra stimulation (particularly to your clitoris). You may want to encourage more foreplay and allow the guy to use his tongue, ... (read in full...)
Get a lady just by changing the way you talk!
Q. The way you carry yourself, dress, talk, or even walk can either attract a potential mate, or repel her. In other words, you need to develop some “swagger”. So when you decide to approach a woman of your interest, you need to do the following: ...
A. 30 August 2011: Sounds good 5678bam. let me know how it turns out. By the way everyone, this is the second part of the article titled "Guys: How To Develop 'Swagger' to Attract More Women". I'll post part 3 soon. **... (read in full...)
Six years and he still won't set a date??
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years, we have been engaged for 6. We do not live together, in fact we only get to see each other maybe once or twice a week because of his work schedule. I love him so much and he says the same. But we ...
A. 29 August 2011: 9 years together is a very long time. And for someone to say just move on, would be a very difficult thing to do. But because you've been engaged for 6 of those years, it's something you should definitely consider. I think what you should do is... (read in full...)
Does Online Dating work for men??
Q. Hi all, So I have been trying to make sense of this... Does online dating really work for men? I ask this because I put up my profile on 2 sites (one famous paid site and one famous free site) and am very surprised to see absolutely no r...
A. 29 August 2011: As a former Professional Matchmaker, this is one of the complaints I use to hear from guys who tried online dating services. And I would say that a few responses out of many sent messages is usually the amount a typical guy can expect to get from ... (read in full...)
Do I risk the friendship by asking my friend out?
Q. I've liked my friend for a long time now and I was going to tell her/ask her out yesterday. The problem is I haven't seen her for a while before last night and I met this other girl during that time. She's pretty and fun and just a prospect. She'...
A. 29 August 2011: Well the good thing about dating a friend is that you know a lot about that individual- and becuase you're used to hanging around that person, things wouldn't be so awkward when you go on dates (well...maybe the first one :^)). BUT.... Be ... (read in full...)
Guys: How To Develop "Swagger" To Attract More Women Part 1
Q. The way you carry yourself, dress, talk, or even walk, can either attract a potential mate or repel her. In other words you need to have some swagger. So to avoid being rejected before you even say a word, you need to do the following: 1. Carefu...
A. 29 August 2011: Thank you all for your responses! O.k. Let me address your comments... To the anonymous poster- That's an interesting blend of ingredients. And hey, if it works great for you, then keep using what you're using! :^) To tennisstar88- On your ... (read in full...)
I fear I will never get pregnant. Am I being too pessimistic about this, despite my PolyCystic Ovarian Syndrone?
Q. I am 30 years old and for the last two years I have been feeling extremely broody. I have two younger sisters who have three children between them, I adore my nieces and nephew and spend all my spare time with them but I feel so empty sometimes when ...
A. 27 August 2011: Well what you're going through seems to be very devastating to you- and you have every right to feel the way you feel. I know your condition can affect your ability to conceive, but there are numerous articles/websites on the net for people who ... (read in full...)
My wife's behaviour is making me lose respect for her
Q. Ever since I have married I have become miserable, as I feel like I got a bad deal, as I don't feel like my wife brings a lot into this marriage. She comes with a past which has made me a bit of an emotional wreck. Add to that she has messed up her ...
A. 26 August 2011: That's very unfortunate that you're going through a relationship/marriage that you're miserable in. It really shouldn't be that way. I think what you need to do is sit her down and have a long talk with her. Let her know exactly how you've been ... (read in full...)
Why is this guy avoiding me after one awkward conversation?
Q. So there's this guy at work who I thought I could be friends with. When we first met, he wasn't shy, but nervous, and really friendly. Although we never talked (other than during first introduction), he always looked into my eyes with a sincere ...
A. 26 August 2011: I'm curious to know what was/wasn't said during the conversation. Why was it so awkward?
But who knows what could be going on in his head after an awkward conversation. He may be avoiding you to prevent another one from happening. But if you two ... (read in full...)
I am dating an older woman,what issues could come up due to the age gap?
Q. I'm 25 and my girlfriend is 37. Why is it that I get criticism over the age gap from people who I see? I was in a local pizza takeaway joint when the guy behind the counter said "here's the pizza for you and your mum!" I've also had criticism...
A. 26 August 2011: Wow. I'm sorry to hear about the responses you're receiving from people in regards to your relationship with the older woman. Unfortunately some people can be very opinionated, and down right rude. Criticism is something that MANY people in age gap ... (read in full...)
Still trying to figure out how I can meet women!
Q. NOTE: This is a continuation of a previous question. Thank you for your help at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/tips-on-meeting-women-who-share-my-interests.html I'm still trying to meet women; I mean, I have friends, but due to their hours, ...
A. 25 August 2011: Hey anonymous writer, I believe this information could help you out: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-meet-the-man-or-woman-of.html
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I ask him why he doesn't want to have sex and he says "I don't know"
Q. My fiance (26) and I (21) have been together for about two years now. We got pregnant quite early in the relationship (unexpected) but our son is the best thing that has ever happened to us and he will be one in September. Any ways! The reason why I ...
A. 24 August 2011: Well I don't know him, but given the information you wrote about him in your post, he seems to really love you and your son. And he still dishes out compliments to you. So I doubt if he would be cheating (crossing my fingers) but I wouldn't rule it ... (read in full...)
I watch porn and masturbate most days. Should I reduce this?
Q. i am 19 and am watching porn nearly every day. I really enjoy watching it but feel as if i couldnt go a day without watching some. i do not neglect friends or anything for it but do normally watch it every night before bed. this also leads to ...
A. 24 August 2011: Watching porn in general is not unhealthy. But you may want to limit how often you watch and masturbate to it. It has the ability to desensitize and become addictive to many people. In I believe what you should do is only watch it a few times a ... (read in full...)
Guys: What To Do If You're Suffering From Erectile Dysfunction
Q. Erectile dysfunction (ED), also known as impotence, is a condition that affects an individual’s ability to achieve or sustain erection during intercourse. The most common reasons for this are: stress, poor nutrition, lack of rest/exercise, or it’s ...
A. 24 August 2011: Thank you for your comments! Yes, there are natural ways of doing things, you just have to seek out the information for yourself. I'm glad you found this information beneficial. :^) ... (read in full...)
Suffering from ED - at 21?
Q. I've been experiencing somewhat of a problem for a long time now. Right now, I'm a 21 year old male, in great physical condition. I'm dating a girl from one of my classes. She just flew out to China for study abroad, and will be gone for a whole...
A. 23 August 2011: Well you may want to read the article that I've written for men suffering from ED in the articles section on this site. I think a lot of the information will be very beneficial for you.
Also I think that it really is a confidence issue. Confiden... (read in full...)
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