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I ask for help & give it too. I'm pretty understanding but call a spade a spade, and never tell anyone to do things I wouldn't do myself. Life is complicated & we all need help from time to time. There's no shame in it.

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Am I allowed to tell him I don't trust him on his holiday?

Q.   I don't trust my boyfriend to go on a lads holiday with his 2 mates (one who is single and the other who is taken but has the mind of a single boy) because my boyfriend lied to me and cheated on me 2 years ago (hasn't done anything since). Am I ...

A.   24 April 2012: Hello. Well, obviously the cheating monsters have raised there ugly head again. Not your fault though, it's only to be expected as you had your trust crushed 2 years ago in the worst possible way. I put it to you, If your worrying about this, how ... (read in full...)

How do I flirt a little with this uber attractive customer?

Q.   I work at a Chickfila and occasionally there are attractive men that come through the drive thru. I have worked the drive thru every morning for 3 months and I had never seen this guy before. Now he has been coming through and he's just uber ...

A.   24 April 2012: Hey! I know EXACTLY how u are feeling. First of all, forget what could go wrong. Take the negativity away and try and see this as a great opportunity for you. You really like him, and he seems to like you, you know where he works so make yourself... (read in full...)

Had web cam sex with a girl I've just met.....is this wrong?

Q.   I just met this girl (last few days). Last night we were on skype video chatting, and one thing led to another and we ended up having mutual masturbation, cam sex or whatever you want to call it. Now I kinda regret doing it, I have never had s...

A.   24 April 2012: Hello. Ok. So you need to try & not get too hung up on it. What's done is done, you didn't kill any one. We all do things we wish we didn't do, that's life. Do even you like the girl you did it with? If so it doesn't mean all is lost with her. May... (read in full...)

How do I clear this mess up? Do I tell the guy that asked me out, that I have my eye on someone else?

Q.   Hello. Thanks for clicking. I will try and make this as quick as possible. A few weeks ago a guy came into a bar i work in (i will call him T). There was a chemistry, a connection, and it was great. He introduced himself to me, shook my hand, a...

A.   23 March 2012: Hey. I'm still thinking about what to do with T! I'm gonna try to do my best & clear this up. I really want to get to know T properly & other ppl shouldn't manage to spoil that especially when I had no idea about someone else being interested. It ... (read in full...)

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