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writes:my husband fantasize his secretry so i am very upset when they are alone i feel they are involved in sex thats why i cannot have normal sex with my husband i am very upset what should i do Reply to this Question
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reader, Daniel the love doctor  +, writes (25 September 2011):
 Communicate with your husband and let him know how you feel. Trust is an important factor in relationships- so tell him that even though he fantasize about his secretary, you want to trust that it wouldn't go further than that. Because it's one thing to fantasize about someone...it's another to act on the fantasy. If necessary, you may want to get help from a marriage counselor to help you work out your issues.I wish you the very best in your relationship.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 September 2011):
 How did you find out about this fantasy? Did he come straight out and tell you or did you find out by yourself? Off course this is hard for you to accept and to deal with. You need to talk to your husband and tell him how upset this has made you. Be open and honest with him and together maybe you can both come up with a solution.
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