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2 June 2013: I believe that everyone has a soul mate out there... the person that's meant for them. It's all about finding that person and going through all of the good times and bad times together (because it won't be great all of the time). Now with that ...
Are You Ready For Marriage?
No replies yet... 25 May 2013: Marriage is a serious commitment that one must truly decide if it's the best thing for them. With over 50% of marriages ending in divorce, many people don't want to take that chance and risk being hurt, having their family torn apart (especially if ...
Guys- Great Gift Ideas For Your Girlfriend!
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12 September 2012: It's difficult to make suggestions on what would be good gift ideas for the guys that are reading this article because generally a gift for say a 16 year old girlfriend, would be different from that of a 30 or 40 year old. It also depends on how ...
Interested In Attending A Speed Dating Event? Here's What You Should Know.
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16 August 2012: I personally never attended a speed dating event as a participant. I have, however, as a matchmaker hosted a few. I can tell you there are quite a few benefits that comes with participating in speed dating events. And I know many people who have ...
Is It OK To Have Sex Everyday?
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11 July 2012: Is it OK to have sex everyday? I heard, and and have been asked that question quite a few times in my professional career. Having sex everyday, like most things, has it's advantages and disadvantages. Advantage #1: -- It's a form of physica...
Create A "Plan-List" For Your Relationship In 2012!
No replies yet... 30 December 2011: Are you looking forward to 2012? Have you already created goals and resolutions for the upcoming year? I know that I have. I plan to offer lots of help and advice to more couples looking to have a good relationship. But I also must make a plan...
Ladies- What It Means When A Guy Says: "I'll call you" And Then...He Doesn't
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22 November 2011: Now, barring any reasons such as a family tragedy or any other personal situation that may prevent a guy from calling, a guy may not call because... #1. They just may not be that into you. I know this may hard to hear, and many women may not wa...
Need A Confidence Booster?
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31 October 2011: There are times in our lives that we humans get into a depressing mode which resulted from us analyzing our downfalls and what we seem to lack. It seems to become apparent to us one way or another- and we start to questions ourselves, or abilities, ...
Sexual Fantasies: Just How Open Should You Be In A Relationship?
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24 October 2011: Some time ago I was watching T.V. and I couldn't find anything that interesting on. As I bypassed many channels, I contemplated whether or not I should just turn the darn thing off. Then I came across the Tyra Banks show. The episode was about ...
The Package-Deal Relationship pt.2: When To Introduce Children
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20 October 2011: Are you currently involved with someone but have yet to introduce them to your children? Are nervous and unsure what type of response you may get from your kids or the person that you're seeing if you do introduce them? Well here's what you ...
The Package-Deal Relationship: Not Embraced By The Family?
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15 October 2011: Ideally we all want to have a family that will be o.k. with the person that we chose to have as partner. But what if someone in our partner's family has a problem with us? Will you become stressed out, confused, or even annoyed by that person's beha...
3 Ways To Recession-Proof Your Relationship
No replies yet... 15 October 2011: Are you feeling the effects of the current economy? Is your relationship suffering because of it? Well don't despair....there are things that you can do. 1. Be creative. Think of some low cost (or no cost) ways to put a smile on your partner's f...
Being Able To Change: Breaking Old Habits In Relationships
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15 October 2011: Sometimes it’s hard to break old habits. If you’re used to acting a certain way in a relationship (or life in general), changing your ways may seem difficult. However, if you’ve noticed that things aren’t going so well in your relationship, you may ...
Are You Making Time For Your Partner?
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10 October 2011: Do you focus your energy on something or someone which may take time away from you and your partner? Well if you highly value your relationship, you may need to make some changes. Situation#1: Work. If you’re a big time workaholic, then...
If Your Partner Is A Porn Watcher....
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9 October 2011: What do you do when you've discovered that your partner has been watching/hiding porn? This is a question that many women, in particular, want answers to. Here's my view on it... -First,you should have a talk with him. As hard as it may b...
The Role Of Respect In Relationships
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30 September 2011: How much do you respect your partner? Do you treat them less than what they're worth because of their gender? Do you not value their thoughts or opinions as much as you would say a family member, friend, or close counsel? Well if you disregard how ...
Does Size Make The Man?
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29 September 2011: I’d like to first thank Tennisstar88 for giving me the idea to write this article. Even though this is a sensitive topic to most men, my hope is someone will benefit from reading it. Enjoy! ------...
Why It’s Important To Keep Your Relationship Exciting
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29 September 2011: Throughout my professional career I've come across many people that were lacking excitement in their relationship. Many of them have experienced some form of it in the beginning of their relationship- but they all seem to ask me the same ...
Two Ways To Make Your Relationship Better
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29 September 2011: There are many relationships that are slowly destructing because of lack of two simple things...communication and action. If your partner presents a problem to you, and you want to keep your relationship strong, then you should do the following: ...
Three Ways To Know That Your Ready For A Relationship
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25 September 2011: Are you ready for a serious, committed relationship now…really? Well if you truly believe that you are, make sure that you have the below tips covered. 1. You’re maximizing your opportunities. If you want to find a mate, then you have to put your...
How To Approach A Girl...The Right Way!
No replies yet... 24 September 2011: Now I've written numerous articles relating to this topic. But in this article I'm going to focus more on the approaching aspect of meeting a woman. And I'll do it on the form of frequently asked questions. Question 1: How do I approach a girl?...
What Women Want Most From A Guy
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5 September 2011: In a continuation to my series of articles on developing "Swagger", I feel it's necessary recap, include, and conclude with these 8 tips. If there's anything additional ladies that you feel is worth mentioning, don't hesitate to add your thoughts in ...
How To Create Great Conversations On A Date
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3 September 2011: To have a successful date, you must have great conversation. Conversation creates chemistry. Leaving out just one of these tips, can end a conversation quickly or be the cause of “date destruction”. Here are the top five conversation tip...
Guys: How To Have The "Swagger " Walk
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31 August 2011: So we've covered how to talk and present yourself in from of women, so the last thing I'd like to share is how to have a swagger walk. Enjoy! --------------------------------------------------------------- When it comes to attracting a ...
Get a lady just by changing the way you talk!
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29 August 2011: The way you carry yourself, dress, talk, or even walk can either attract a potential mate, or repel her. In other words, you need to develop some “swagger”. So when you decide to approach a woman of your interest, you need to do the following: ...
Guys: How To Develop "Swagger" To Attract More Women Part 1
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27 August 2011: The way you carry yourself, dress, talk, or even walk, can either attract a potential mate or repel her. In other words you need to have some swagger. So to avoid being rejected before you even say a word, you need to do the following: 1. Carefu...
Create A Checklist For Your First Date
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20 August 2011: So you landed the date that you wanted with the person that captured your interest. How should you plan it to make sure things go well? Make sure you set up a simple checklist. Here's what you can include: #1. Choice of Clothes and Accessorie...
Guys: Create A "Plan-List" For A Romantic Evening
No replies yet... 16 August 2011: In many situations, being spontaneous is encouraged. However if you want to have a great romantic evening, planning is essential. Creating a "plan-list" can actually spark intimacy if it's done correctly. Here are some things you can include on y...
Ladies: Do You Think ALL Men Are The Same?
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14 August 2011: Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a ...
How to Meet The Man Or Woman Of Your Dreams
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14 August 2011: If you want to find the man or woman of your dreams, you have to put yourself in the environment where they work or hang out. For example, if you want to meet a lawyer, go down to your local courthouse during lunch hours- and hang out at the ...
Guys: What To Do If You're Suffering From Erectile Dysfunction
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13 August 2011: Erectile dysfunction (ED), also known as impotence, is a condition that affects an individual’s ability to achieve or sustain erection during intercourse. The most common reasons for this are: stress, poor nutrition, lack of rest/exercise, or it’s ...
The Top 3 Fears That Prevent Successful Relationships
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8 August 2011: Do you have a fear that prevents you from getting into- or maintaining a good relationship? Well it’s not as uncommon as you may think. There are actual terms for these conditions. Such as… 1. Pistanthrophobia. Also known as the fear of trusti...
The Art Of Communcation
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3 August 2011: Communication is the key to every successful relationship. Your ability to connect with your partner verbally or non-verbally (body language) can show whether your relationship has the potential of moving forward, or if it's headed for disaster. ...
Ideas to keep the romance alive..
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3 August 2011: Are you lacking romance in your relationship? Are there any work problems getting in the way? If you've talked about it with your man and you haven't noticed any significant changes, you may have to take some initiative. Here's what you can do:...
Ladies: What You Should Know BEFORE You Have SEx With The Guy That You're Dating
No replies yet... 31 July 2011: Have you recently started dating someone, got into a new relationship, or just plainly unsure when it's the right time for you and your partner to have sex? Well there are a few things for you to consider before you do: - Do you know what Oxytoc...
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How do I ensure that I can become more than just his true friend? I'd like more to develop between us.
Q. I met a guy 4 years ago..we had some mutual friends and we joined same tuitions so we became friends. I started loving him. he is very understanding. We used to not talk a lot. After 2 yrs i came to another city and joined a new school, even he came...
A. 13 August 2011: Trying to pursue something more than friendship when you start off as friends can be tricky. And if the feelings are not mutual, it could potentially ruin a friendship.
If he has already mentioned to you that he's not ready for a girlfrie... (read in full...)
I'm concerned about my boyfriend's feelings for his female friend and her constant presence in his life..
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8mo now and I'm having some worries about his life-long female friend. At first I didn't worry about her so much, but I have been picking up some signals that he may have some lingering feelings for her ...
A. 13 August 2011: You have every right to be concerned. If the feelings are mutual on her end, then it could cause problems. Trust is very important in a relationship. And if you can't trust your boyfriend, then it makes no sense for you two to be together.
Let h... (read in full...)
I don't want to get hurt again -- help me with this potential relationship
Q. It is long but it is interesting. Please give me 5 minutes. It is the 6th month in USA. I guess I have done good in the new country. Have a job, doing course work, have one best friend and know how to communicate effectively with people as I am i...
A. 12 August 2011: I'm sorry that you've been hurt and rejected so often in the past. But understand...
1. It's a numbers game. The more women you meet and approach the closer you are to finding love. When I use to sell cologne at a mall some years back, my boss tol... (read in full...)
It's amazing when I'm with him but I don't want my heart broken
Q. About a month ago I was set up with my friends brother. He,s funny, cute and really romantic. we,ve been meeting up every other day and when i,m with him i feel amazing. You see i never had a proper relationship before and even though we,re not ...
A. 12 August 2011: Let him know how you feel. Tell him that you're interested in him and would love to pursue something more, but you want to know where he stands. Tell him that you're looking for something more than just sex, but if that's all that he's looking for ... (read in full...)
How do I keep it strictly friend and not fall for him?
Q. since i was 16 (im now 23) i've know this guy from college called simon. we are really good friends, if not best friends. we've managed to stay in touch even though we went to different universities. he's always been there for me and i trust him ...
A. 12 August 2011: Well you could start by not having sex with him. Oxytocin is a powerful hormone in humans, and it can cause emotional attachments. Which is the reason he hasn't stopped texting you. If you keep it up, you'll start to feel strong feelings for him as ... (read in full...)
We started out dating properly now he only wants me for sex
Q. hi everyone i met my fwb we started dating properly for a couple of month at the beginning of the year now he only wants me for sex what made him change his mind do you think thank you...
A. 12 August 2011: Because he's now friends with benefits...that's all that he's looking for from you. Even if you two started out dating in the beginning, you can't blame him for only wanting one thing. That's why you have to be extra careful who you choose to have ... (read in full...)
The Top 3 Fears That Prevent Successful Relationships
Q. Do you have a fear that prevents you from getting into- or maintaining a good relationship? Well it’s not as uncommon as you may think. There are actual terms for these conditions. Such as… 1. Pistanthrophobia. Also known as the fear of trusti...
A. 11 August 2011: Hi Odds! Thank you for your well written, and thought out answer. I appreciate your comments- and agree with many things that you have said.
I just want to comment on some of your comments if I may...
I agree that we shouldn't believe that mos... (read in full...)
I feel our relationship changing, I don't know what to do about it
Q. Hi, Basically I am stuck in this situation because I always try to be the cool one. The one how never complains and keeps going on good terms with every one, but this time I feel sad. Sad despite I never show it and I am always laughing and smi...
A. 11 August 2011: I would say start off with option 2. And if things don't work out, then choose option 5.
There's something that's causing your relationship to change. So you should definitely talk to him to find out what's going on. Tell him you want that lov... (read in full...)
Flirting, laughing, conversations..do you think she likes me back and should I ask her out??
Q. Hi, I met this girl about a month ago and alot has happened since. This may be very long and I would much appreciate if you could answer with anything if you read the whole thing. First meeting: not much I was with my mate and she with hers. Th...
A. 11 August 2011: Well you're a bit young for things to be serious. But I realize that even during "puppy love", it's possible to develop some strong feelings. I think you should ask her (alone) straight up if she likes you- and if not then don't worry, I'm sure ... (read in full...)
Why is it easier for some people to find partners than it is for others?
Q. Why is it easier for some people to find partners than it is for others? After my most recent relationship broke down back in February, my ex girlfriend had herself a new partner within weeks of the split (they are still together to this day). I ...
A. 11 August 2011: Well I wish you the very best in finding the type of woman that you want. I know you'll be o.k. Just continue to be positive, and read as much as you can on the subject of women, dating, and relationships Good luck... (read in full...)
Why does he act like crazy? I love this guy , but I want to be treated seriously.
Q. Hey there. I recently wrote here about my bf, who told me not to talk to him without a reason. After few weeks, I stopped trying to contact him. And today he finally spoke to me. I was happy at first, that things may get back to normal. Yet he did ...
A. 10 August 2011: How old is this guy? Well in all actuality girls really do mature faster than guys (sorry guys- and I know, I'm one too)...even in relationships. So it's no surprise that he's acting this way.
The games that he's playing are really unnecess... (read in full...)
My Fiance has had many sex partenrs before me, how do I deal with it?
Q. Hello there, I am a 21 year old girl and I am currently in love with a wonderful guy who even asked me for my hand in marriage. He is 23 years old sweet, kind and always make me smile when I am around him. But the thing is... One day he aske...
A. 10 August 2011: Take it that he has some good experience and he could show you a thing or two in the bedroom- and/or treat your body better than someone with minimum experience.
And I know 11 to you may seem like a huge number, but compared to most people, ... (read in full...)
How do I overcome my shyness and worrying?
Q. ill get straight to the point; how do i overcome my shyness? im a big worrier i worry about everything, i get anxious easly and have no confidence in my self, i have had counselling befo when i was 16 im now 18, im always finding parts of my body...
A. 9 August 2011: Your shyness actually goes hand in hand with confidence. It's the flip side of the coin. But confidence is definitely important in today's society. And though it's a very deep subject, I think that I could provide some tips that I think would be ... (read in full...)
The Top 3 Fears That Prevent Successful Relationships
Q. Do you have a fear that prevents you from getting into- or maintaining a good relationship? Well it’s not as uncommon as you may think. There are actual terms for these conditions. Such as… 1. Pistanthrophobia. Also known as the fear of trusti...
A. 9 August 2011: You're welcome. And thank you for your comment. To answer your question... For the longest I believe that I related to a philophobic person the most. I (and I think many others have experienced it also) have been hurt in the past. But in many case... (read in full...)
Why is it easier for some people to find partners than it is for others?
Q. Why is it easier for some people to find partners than it is for others? After my most recent relationship broke down back in February, my ex girlfriend had herself a new partner within weeks of the split (they are still together to this day). I ...
A. 9 August 2011: That's great that you are a well spoken guy. And judging from your response, I could tell that you're intelligent- and a good learner as well. Both of those are good qualities to learning how to meet more women. But what you should know is that ... (read in full...)
Why is it easier for some people to find partners than it is for others?
Q. Why is it easier for some people to find partners than it is for others? After my most recent relationship broke down back in February, my ex girlfriend had herself a new partner within weeks of the split (they are still together to this day). I ...
A. 9 August 2011: While it's true that some people may seem to have all the luck in meeting someone, you may just need to work on a few things to meet some more women. And if you meet the right person, the work may've been worth it. You're doing all the right th... (read in full...)
Little bit of panic 2 weeks later, can't get "up" Help!?
Q. so i'm 22 living in a small town in southern/central Canada and i got this new girlfriend recently! she's rocking my world, about to turn 20 herself, and the relationship has just been taking me off my rocker every turn we take, it's been a month ...
A. 9 August 2011: Well it may be a medical reason for everything that's going on. My advice to you is to get a second, third, or even fourth opinion from a doctor. I also believe stress could play a HUGE factor into your inability to perform. You may want to.. ... (read in full...)
How long should I wait to start dating other guys?
Q. I have recently broken up with my BF of 7 years. We had a split about a year ago that lasted 3 months. We decided to try again and I told him what I needed from him. In the beginning he was great and I was really convinced that he was going to ...
A. 9 August 2011: When to date after a breakup, usually depends on the person-and the severity of the break-up. If you feel comfortable right now with dating, then by all means, go for it. You mentioned that you two are not compatible...and it seems clear that he's ... (read in full...)
He was abusive and we broke up, but I can't seem to move on.
Q. This will probably be one of the most stupid questions you'll ever get - but here goes. I was in a relationship for two years with a guy, who I basically would have done anything for, I supported him, I gave him all the love he ever could have nee...
A. 8 August 2011: Well first of all love is not suppose to hurt. If HE loved you, he would've never even laid a finger on you- or came out his mouth disrespectful to you in any way. He doesn't deserve you. And you deserve someone who's going to treat you more ... (read in full...)
I want to bed my boyfriend's friend! What should I do?
Q. i love my boyfriend soooo much i have been with him for 6yrs. And he is the sweetest guy u will ever meet he does everything for i mean everything. But his friend is sooooo hotttttt i wanna have sex with him. what do i do?...
A. 8 August 2011: Keep that thought to yourself. and don't let your feelings for the other guy ruin the great relationship that you're currently in.
If you allow your feelings for the other guy to progress, you would start to feel bad, guilty, and you may end up t... (read in full...)
This bad feeling has come back How can I feel better when I know I'm ugly?
Q. I posted questions here before and they made me feel better for a while, by saying that everyone my age thinks they're ugly. But the feeling has come back again. I feel bad again because I realize that I actually am ugly. I have a big head and an u...
A. 8 August 2011: My suggestion to you is find some new friends. You also have to work on your confidence. I know that it could be difficult for you to think positive when everybody is giving you negative feedback. But surf the internet for confidence-builder ... (read in full...)
When is the right age to have sex?
Q. dear readers.. this is a sex question. everyone has different opinions on the right age to have sex right? it all depends on your values as a person, ie religion, gender, family, friends, boyfriend, etc.. just what ever makes you, you. so i ...
A. 7 August 2011: Sex is something that I think one should wait until they're fully mature to handle the responsibility. What age would that be? Well I would definitely say over 18. With sex comes emotional attachment also known as Oxytocin. Which is a hormone in ... (read in full...)
Older husband has ED, do I cheat?
Q. need help.my husband is older by 12 yrs..he has ED.i am only 33 even though we r married..do i stop hhaving sex cause he cant..i like having sex..our sex life has never been great anyway..so do i find me someone on the side just for sex or just stop ...
A. 7 August 2011: No. I wouldn't advise you to cheat. ED is a very embarrassing condition that affects many men- especially those who are of older age. Aside from pills, there are manual exercises that he could do such as kegals and reverse kegals. Letting him know ... (read in full...)
Am I reading too much into the actions of my ex?
Q. I'm not sure where I'm going with this question but, I feel I need some insight into a matter which I have allowed myself to be bothered about. This has to do with my ex whom I have been apart from for shortly over a yr. now after 8 yrs. together. I ...
A. 7 August 2011: I don't know about the FB thing..but in regards to your ex...well it's clear that when things were peachy in his relationship with the other woman, he didn't bother to try to see you. What he was focused on was the wedding...and married life. But ... (read in full...)
We had crazy sparks and now I haven't heard from him. What's up with that?
Q. My mom and his aunt tried to set me and the guy up. His aunt asked if he was willing to call me and he agreed. We started off with txt msging and the next day he asked me if he could call me, i agreed. We hit it off pretty well and spoke for an hour ...
A. 6 August 2011: I don't know if he has gone through a bad breakup recently, but if not, there may be some other things that you should consider. Like.... 1. Maybe he is a bit scared. If he has been hurt in the past, he may feel things are moving too quick. So to... (read in full...)
What really turns a guy on?
Q. This question is Coming from a girl who has little experience with men.What really turns on a fella? Like what do most fellas get turned on by or what do they find sexy? ...
A. 6 August 2011: Well the truth of the matter is what one person may find sexy, another person may not. But I agree with dmartin's comments. I would also like to add...sex appeal, sweet, intelligent, and somewhat flirty. I think most guys would agree that a good ... (read in full...)
I need anniversary ideas for my guy
Q. My fiance and I have been together for 4 years (in a week). Last year on our anniversary we didn't do anything because money was tight and we were moving in together (we said that is our present to eachother), well...a year has passed, and now we ...
A. 6 August 2011: Well there are inexpensive ways to spend your anniversary.
Here's some things that you can do:
1. Plan the day. Set up a little picnic in the park (if it's near the water, that would be great), and feed each other small fruit. Then take him to... (read in full...)
Can a good man just make a mistake? Or once a cheater always a cheater?
Q. Long story short, my boyfriend of a year cheated on me with a one night stand. We got in a fight, I said really mean hurtful things I didn't mean and told him I never wanna talk to you again! Well the next night, he went out, got really drunk and ...
A. 6 August 2011: Well if he thought you were truly done with the relationship, then he hasn't really cheated. But it seems as though he really does care about you. And if you believe that overall he's a good man, then why not give it another shot. ... (read in full...)
My friend that I love tells me to find a girlfriend but I can't think of anyone but her
Q. There is a girl who is my childhood friend but her family went to another city when i was 11..i used to like her at that time.now after ten years i contacted her.and we do lot of chatting and phone calls now and i love her a lot now and i even told ...
A. 6 August 2011: Unfortunately it seems as though she doesn't feel the same way as you do. So if you continue to express to her how much you love her (in a beyond friendship type way), you'll not only continue to feel the sting of rejection, but you'll put her in an ... (read in full...)
Is he just not the right guy for me? Should I move on or wait around for him?
Q. Is he not right for me if we click, we always had chemistry but he recently broke up with his girl friend and we only talk once a week, we write to eachother....we still havent seen eachother in a year (since college) he says we shud meet up but it ...
A. 6 August 2011: You're welcome. I'm here to help! And thanks for the compliment on my pointy-nose smiley face. :^)... (read in full...)
We broke up agreed to stay friends, should I hang around or move on?
Q. me and my ex have split about 4 months ago it was a bad break up. but recently i found a lump and get really scared, and as i do still love him and feel i can tell him anything, i phoned him and told him. due to this we are in contact. we ...
A. 6 August 2011: O.k. well you never know what could happen in the future. But it's clear that right now your ex has clearly moved on...so you should too. Explore other options- and refrain from telling him about who you've met or dated. This puts him in an awkward ... (read in full...)
Why do people take an instant dislike to me ?
Q. Hey, well i was wondering why people seem to take an instant dislike to me, or simpley start on me for no reason what so ever. i currently have one friend, i have tryed to get along with other people but they seem to either t...
A. 6 August 2011: I'm so sorry that you're going through what you're going through. Unfortunately some people can be very judgmental or downright rude. And because you're in the age range of 13-15,you have to understand the kids around your age have not fully ... (read in full...)
Did I scare him off? is there a point in even hanging around him if he doesn't want a relationship?
Q. Ok this is a strange question and any answers i recieve i,ll be very grateful Last week I met a really nice guy he is a brother of a friend and he is just so amazing, sweet and funny.All through the week we,d been texting and getting to know ...
A. 5 August 2011: I don't think he used you if all you did was kiss. Maybe he didn't have the same connection to you as you had for him. But communication is key. Find out from him what he thinks about you- and if he would be interested in talking to you further. ... (read in full...)
Is he just not the right guy for me? Should I move on or wait around for him?
Q. Is he not right for me if we click, we always had chemistry but he recently broke up with his girl friend and we only talk once a week, we write to eachother....we still havent seen eachother in a year (since college) he says we shud meet up but it ...
A. 4 August 2011: Well speaking for myself (and I'm sure alot of guys), if I'm interested in a woman, I would like to speak to her more than once a week. But to comment on your situation...I think that he does like you...but not in the way that you think (at least ... (read in full...)
His penis is to large and he hates it making our sex infrequent, what can I do?
Q. I'm 26, my boyfriend's 28, we've been together for a month now. He's a lovely guy; kind, caring, decent. However, we've only had sex infrequently. Reason why? His penis is too large and he HATES it, absolutely HATES it; he says women should "...
A. 4 August 2011: O.k. I don't think that it should be painful for him during sex or masturbation if he's just too large unless there's is an actual defect or medical condition that he has. With that being said there are things that you two can do to help make sex ... (read in full...)
Does my supervisor like me? he has a wife
Q. Dear cupid, I am in love with my supervisor. He is 38 nd I am 31. It was all professional until I realised how sweet and how he never ever said no to my demands..I felt he trusted me. Then one time wen I looked at him..?stared maybe subconsciuosly, ...
A. 4 August 2011: Wow it sounds like you have a bit of a crush on your supervisor. :^) Which is fine..as long as it doesn't escalate. He has a wife, and you'll do damage to their relationship if you allow your feelings for him to progress. So have respect for his ... (read in full...)
Is this cheating?
Q. Is it cheating to make a profile on a dating site and chat to singles,with the intent of meeting? I cought my gf doing this and she said it was just to pass time, because she is at home all day doing nothing (I'm the only one that works). What...
A. 3 August 2011: Technically she hasn't cheated. Unless there is an intent and attempt to do more than typing- and saying hi (or being friendly). BUT...if she's in a relationship with YOU, then there should be NO reason for her to log on and chat with any guy...on ... (read in full...)
Does my ex-boyfriend still love me?
Q. Hi...I'm currently stuck and confused. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago. We've been together for 9 years. The reason why he broke up with me was because he said we are no longer compatiable and are interested in different things...
A. 3 August 2011: Thank you Denise! I agree with your comments as well. :^)... (read in full...)
Does my ex-boyfriend still love me?
Q. Hi...I'm currently stuck and confused. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago. We've been together for 9 years. The reason why he broke up with me was because he said we are no longer compatiable and are interested in different things...
A. 2 August 2011: Communication is the key to every successful relationship. So it's no surprise that you two broke up because of the lack of it. Obviously there was a turning point in your relationship to make him question if he wanted to stay with you. And that ... (read in full...)
There's one fantasy he wont share with me, was it okay to make the offer to him anyway if he changes his mind?
Q. You guys have always given me good advice. I have written in before. I am a 31 year old woman. I wrote in earlier about my husband wanting a strip tease for his birthday and wanting to have sex with my while I was bound up. I adore my husband...
A. 1 August 2011: Sure. It's great that you two have a good sex life. And communication is always the key to a successful (and intimate relationship). If you've offer the idea to him and he doesn't want to do it...don't force it on him. Your suggestions and ... (read in full...)
How can I prove my feelings for her and win her back?
Q. Bare with me on this guys, I know I sound like a complete idiot for what I've done but if anyone can give me advice then I obviously need to say what's happened in the past. I was with my girlfriend for 1 year and 4 months. It started well, th...
A. 1 August 2011: Wow. That's a lot of breakups. And yes she has good reason for not wanting to get back together with you. But there still may be a chance. The hardest thing you would need to do is convince her that you will not break her heart again. A phone call ... (read in full...)
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