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Known as Loveguru23 on Twitter- or simply "the love doctor", I'm a Relationship Expert that has helped many people get the relationships of their dreams. Contact me today to find out how I could help you!

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How To Tell If You've Found Your Soul Mate

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2 June 2013: I believe that everyone has a soul mate out there... the person that's meant for them. It's all about finding that person and going through all of the good times and bad times together (because it won't be great all of the time). Now with that ...

Are You Ready For Marriage?

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25 May 2013: Marriage is a serious commitment that one must truly decide if it's the best thing for them. With over 50% of marriages ending in divorce, many people don't want to take that chance and risk being hurt, having their family torn apart (especially if ...

Guys- Great Gift Ideas For Your Girlfriend!

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12 September 2012: It's difficult to make suggestions on what would be good gift ideas for the guys that are reading this article because generally a gift for say a 16 year old girlfriend, would be different from that of a 30 or 40 year old. It also depends on how ...

Interested In Attending A Speed Dating Event? Here's What You Should Know.

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16 August 2012: I personally never attended a speed dating event as a participant. I have, however, as a matchmaker hosted a few. I can tell you there are quite a few benefits that comes with participating in speed dating events. And I know many people who have ...

Is It OK To Have Sex Everyday?

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11 July 2012: Is it OK to have sex everyday? I heard, and and have been asked that question quite a few times in my professional career. Having sex everyday, like most things, has it's advantages and disadvantages. Advantage #1: -- It's a form of physica...

Create A "Plan-List" For Your Relationship In 2012!

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30 December 2011: Are you looking forward to 2012? Have you already created goals and resolutions for the upcoming year? I know that I have. I plan to offer lots of help and advice to more couples looking to have a good relationship. But I also must make a plan...

Ladies- What It Means When A Guy Says: "I'll call you" And Then...He Doesn't

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22 November 2011: Now, barring any reasons such as a family tragedy or any other personal situation that may prevent a guy from calling, a guy may not call because... #1. They just may not be that into you. I know this may hard to hear, and many women may not wa...

Need A Confidence Booster?

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31 October 2011: There are times in our lives that we humans get into a depressing mode which resulted from us analyzing our downfalls and what we seem to lack. It seems to become apparent to us one way or another- and we start to questions ourselves, or abilities, ...

Sexual Fantasies: Just How Open Should You Be In A Relationship?

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24 October 2011: Some time ago I was watching T.V. and I couldn't find anything that interesting on. As I bypassed many channels, I contemplated whether or not I should just turn the darn thing off. Then I came across the Tyra Banks show. The episode was about ...

The Package-Deal Relationship pt.2: When To Introduce Children

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20 October 2011: Are you currently involved with someone but have yet to introduce them to your children? Are nervous and unsure what type of response you may get from your kids or the person that you're seeing if you do introduce them? Well here's what you ...

The Package-Deal Relationship: Not Embraced By The Family?

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15 October 2011: Ideally we all want to have a family that will be o.k. with the person that we chose to have as partner. But what if someone in our partner's family has a problem with us? Will you become stressed out, confused, or even annoyed by that person's beha...

3 Ways To Recession-Proof Your Relationship

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15 October 2011: Are you feeling the effects of the current economy? Is your relationship suffering because of it? Well don't despair....there are things that you can do. 1. Be creative. Think of some low cost (or no cost) ways to put a smile on your partner's f...

Being Able To Change: Breaking Old Habits In Relationships

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15 October 2011: Sometimes it’s hard to break old habits. If you’re used to acting a certain way in a relationship (or life in general), changing your ways may seem difficult. However, if you’ve noticed that things aren’t going so well in your relationship, you may ...

Are You Making Time For Your Partner?

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10 October 2011: Do you focus your energy on something or someone which may take time away from you and your partner? Well if you highly value your relationship, you may need to make some changes. Situation#1: Work. If you’re a big time workaholic, then...

If Your Partner Is A Porn Watcher....

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9 October 2011: What do you do when you've discovered that your partner has been watching/hiding porn? This is a question that many women, in particular, want answers to. Here's my view on it... -First,you should have a talk with him. As hard as it may b...

The Role Of Respect In Relationships

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30 September 2011: How much do you respect your partner? Do you treat them less than what they're worth because of their gender? Do you not value their thoughts or opinions as much as you would say a family member, friend, or close counsel? Well if you disregard how ...

Does Size Make The Man?

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29 September 2011: I’d like to first thank Tennisstar88 for giving me the idea to write this article. Even though this is a sensitive topic to most men, my hope is someone will benefit from reading it. Enjoy! ------...

Why It’s Important To Keep Your Relationship Exciting

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29 September 2011: Throughout my professional career I've come across many people that were lacking excitement in their relationship. Many of them have experienced some form of it in the beginning of their relationship- but they all seem to ask me the same ...

Two Ways To Make Your Relationship Better

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29 September 2011: There are many relationships that are slowly destructing because of lack of two simple things...communication and action. If your partner presents a problem to you, and you want to keep your relationship strong, then you should do the following: ...

Three Ways To Know That Your Ready For A Relationship

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25 September 2011: Are you ready for a serious, committed relationship now…really? Well if you truly believe that you are, make sure that you have the below tips covered. 1. You’re maximizing your opportunities. If you want to find a mate, then you have to put your...

How To Approach A Girl...The Right Way!

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24 September 2011: Now I've written numerous articles relating to this topic. But in this article I'm going to focus more on the approaching aspect of meeting a woman. And I'll do it on the form of frequently asked questions. Question 1: How do I approach a girl?...

What Women Want Most From A Guy

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5 September 2011: In a continuation to my series of articles on developing "Swagger", I feel it's necessary recap, include, and conclude with these 8 tips. If there's anything additional ladies that you feel is worth mentioning, don't hesitate to add your thoughts in ...

How To Create Great Conversations On A Date

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3 September 2011: To have a successful date, you must have great conversation. Conversation creates chemistry. Leaving out just one of these tips, can end a conversation quickly or be the cause of “date destruction”. Here are the top five conversation tip...

Guys: How To Have The "Swagger " Walk

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31 August 2011: So we've covered how to talk and present yourself in from of women, so the last thing I'd like to share is how to have a swagger walk. Enjoy! --------------------------------------------------------------- When it comes to attracting a ...

Get a lady just by changing the way you talk!

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29 August 2011: The way you carry yourself, dress, talk, or even walk can either attract a potential mate, or repel her. In other words, you need to develop some “swagger”. So when you decide to approach a woman of your interest, you need to do the following: ...

Guys: How To Develop "Swagger" To Attract More Women Part 1

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27 August 2011: The way you carry yourself, dress, talk, or even walk, can either attract a potential mate or repel her. In other words you need to have some swagger. So to avoid being rejected before you even say a word, you need to do the following: 1. Carefu...

Create A Checklist For Your First Date

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20 August 2011: So you landed the date that you wanted with the person that captured your interest. How should you plan it to make sure things go well? Make sure you set up a simple checklist. Here's what you can include: #1. Choice of Clothes and Accessorie...

Guys: Create A "Plan-List" For A Romantic Evening

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16 August 2011: In many situations, being spontaneous is encouraged. However if you want to have a great romantic evening, planning is essential. Creating a "plan-list" can actually spark intimacy if it's done correctly. Here are some things you can include on y...

Ladies: Do You Think ALL Men Are The Same?

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14 August 2011: Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a ...

How to Meet The Man Or Woman Of Your Dreams

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14 August 2011: If you want to find the man or woman of your dreams, you have to put yourself in the environment where they work or hang out. For example, if you want to meet a lawyer, go down to your local courthouse during lunch hours- and hang out at the ...

Guys: What To Do If You're Suffering From Erectile Dysfunction

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13 August 2011: Erectile dysfunction (ED), also known as impotence, is a condition that affects an individual’s ability to achieve or sustain erection during intercourse. The most common reasons for this are: stress, poor nutrition, lack of rest/exercise, or it’s ...

The Top 3 Fears That Prevent Successful Relationships

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8 August 2011: Do you have a fear that prevents you from getting into- or maintaining a good relationship? Well it’s not as uncommon as you may think. There are actual terms for these conditions. Such as… 1. Pistanthrophobia. Also known as the fear of trusti...

The Art Of Communcation

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3 August 2011: Communication is the key to every successful relationship. Your ability to connect with your partner verbally or non-verbally (body language) can show whether your relationship has the potential of moving forward, or if it's headed for disaster. ...

Ideas to keep the romance alive..

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3 August 2011: Are you lacking romance in your relationship? Are there any work problems getting in the way? If you've talked about it with your man and you haven't noticed any significant changes, you may have to take some initiative. Here's what you can do:...

Ladies: What You Should Know BEFORE You Have SEx With The Guy That You're Dating

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31 July 2011: Have you recently started dating someone, got into a new relationship, or just plainly unsure when it's the right time for you and your partner to have sex? Well there are a few things for you to consider before you do: - Do you know what Oxytoc...

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I was declared the most beautiful in my class. Why don't I have a boyfriend?

Q.   hi am a 20yrs, female never had a boyfriend,though i have been asked out but its not by the guys i want the ones i want never even notice me.i actually got my first peck recently from a guy i thought liked me but he just wanted sex so when he didnot ...

A.   28 April 2012: If in fact you have been nominated in your class as the most beautiful, then it can be intimidating for most guys to approach you... as BassChick said. But even though you didn't have as many boyfriends as your friends, just tell yourself... (read in full...)

Need help with premature ejaculation when masturbating is difficult

Q.   Hi, I suffer from premature ejaculation and hence find sex a bit crap. My wife and I are very stressed out with work/non sleeping kids/studies and we get to make love max once a week. However, I find it an anti climax as I only last so long in...

A.   28 April 2012: Thanks for your reply. When you're kegeling you're strengthening your pelvic floor/PC muscles which has many benefits including stopping premature ejaculation and increasing stamina. Just Google "Kegel exercises for men" and browse around th... (read in full...)

Our sex life is a shambles

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. I'm 20 and he's 23. In all other respects our relationship is great but it's just the sex life that is a mess. I'll give you a bit of background on our sex lives before we were ...

A.   27 April 2012: Wow. I'm sorry that your sex life is going this bad. I agree that your boyfriend confidence is probably low when it comes to being intimate with him, because you don't give him any positive indicators in bed. You also don't communicate with him ... (read in full...)

Need help with premature ejaculation when masturbating is difficult

Q.   Hi, I suffer from premature ejaculation and hence find sex a bit crap. My wife and I are very stressed out with work/non sleeping kids/studies and we get to make love max once a week. However, I find it an anti climax as I only last so long in...

A.   26 April 2012: I agree with a lot of what Aunt Honesty has said. I would also recommend that you spice up the environment. In other words, put yourself in a space where you'll be mentally ready for lovemaking with your wife. Play soft music, use candles, do a lot ... (read in full...)

Inspiration needed....

Q.   ok first of all i should say the admin that i am not suicidal. I just need some inspirational words from you aunts. I am in my early 30s. had two boy friends who cheated on me when i loved them with my heart and soul. last year I started doing a ...

A.   26 April 2012: Wow. I just noticed your question. And I don't know if your situation has changed by now. But hopefully it has. First off I'm sorry to hear about your situation. Sometimes in life, when it rains.. it pours. You'll encounter problem after pr... (read in full...)

How can I read the signs?

Q.   How can i tellers if a girl is showing a particular interest in me? Does she stare at you when she thinks you're not looking? Does she stand closer to you when it seem unnecessary? Does she start conversations with you out of the blue? The reaso...

A.   26 April 2012: Thanks for posting your question. There are a variety of ways women show their interest through body language. She may do all the things you've mentioned in your first paragraph... or she may play with (or toss around)her hair. She can cross he... (read in full...)

Has anyone felt like they are under a dark cloud? I need some light at the end of the tunnel!

Q.   Hello to who is reading this. All I can say is I'm just wanting to know if anyone is going through or has gone through this. I feel like I'm under a serious dark cloud right now, I'm NOT one to feel sorry for myself which I don't, but right now th...

A.   24 April 2012: Well first off I don't know if you're religious... but if you are, I would encourage you to trust in your faith and believe that things will be better. Secondly you have to believe in yourself. You WILL make it through the dark tunnel. Trouble won't ... (read in full...)

Crush on the guy at the grocery store, what do I do now?

Q.   Ok so a few weeks ago I went to a grocery store that I don't go to often, but I am really glad that I did. Because there I saw the most greatest looking guy working there. I went to the bathroom and on my way there, he smiled and said hi to me. ...

A.   24 April 2012: Well the best thing to do is to make an effort and tell him you're interested in him. If you don't, there may be some time after that you would be kicking yourself for not taking a chance. If he really is what you say he is, and you truly do like ... (read in full...)

How can I make sure I last longer than 5 seconds when we do have sex?

Q.   I've been seeing this new girl for about a month now. She is super amazing, sweet, kind, funny and the hottest girl I have ever dated and I REALLY like her. We are taking things slow because her last relationship ended badly and I didnt want to ...

A.   24 April 2012: Well first off I think that you're a good guy in respecting her wishes not to have sex just yet. A lot of men in that situation would try to escalate things- and push for intimacy when things start getting hot and steamy. Now I think your iss... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants me to use dirty talk in the bedroom and I have no idea how to do it.

Q.   I'm quite embarrassed about asking this, but i have no one else to ask... i'v been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and we started having sex, but he never manages to finish 'if you know what i mean' and he told me he'll only ...

A.   22 April 2012: If you run out of things/places to say, just repeat what you've already said. Check for the trigger words that will excite him the most when you're dirty talking by watch his facial expressions, body language, and what he says verbally. And i... (read in full...)

I'm lonely with no friends, no boyfriend no job. Help!

Q.   Never felt so lonely. No good friend, no boyfriends, too many restrictions to have fun. Life's a mess. No money to spend to have fun. No job because you need to be 18 to get a job here. Need help. ...

A.   21 April 2012: Well you're still very young. And in time I believe you will have all the things that you've mentioned. You just have to find a way to stay positive up until then. I would also recommend that you look for a study buddy, join a school group, o... (read in full...)

In a relationship and I don't want to cheat but I want to fool around with other people! Do other people feel this too?

Q.   Hey everyone. So I love my boyfriend, we have been dating for almost 2 years and I'm pretty sure I'm gonna marry him when we get out of college and stuff (I'm 18, he's 20). But have any of you ever wanted to just fool around with other people? Just ...

A.   20 April 2012: You're not "Jacked up". It's perfectly normal for you to feel this way... especially since you're still very young. In a care-free perfect world, it would be great if you could mess around with other people then eventually live happily ever after ... (read in full...)

2 weeks into dating him I thought I was in love, but the feelings have faded! What should I do?

Q.   I first started dating this guy a month ago. Before we went out, I really liked him and was so happy when he asked me out. 2 weeks on and I suddenly believed we were in love. However last week the feelings started to fade a little and weren't so ...

A.   17 April 2012: That's interesting... only a short time into the relationship and your feelings are starting to fade? A quick question... Do you seem to get relatively bored when you're in a relationship? Or is it just this particular one? If it has happened a few ... (read in full...)

I'm overweight and meeting my LDR boyfriend for the first time, how do I prepare myself for rejection?

Q.   I've been in an LDR for about 6 months and next month, he's coming to my country to meet me. I'm very fat and from the very beginning, I made sure he knew that. I mentioned it and even sent him full-length photographs so that he knew exactly how I ...

A.   16 April 2012: I agree with So Very Confused. If you've sent pictures to him and he was happy with what he saw... AND told you that you look beautiful, then you do need to relax a bit. You also have to increase your confidence somehow. I've mentioned before to a ... (read in full...)

27 and never been in a relationship, how do I put my looks and shyness aside to meet a girl?

Q.   Hi, I'm just looking for dating advice for a very shy, confident-less person really, but I'll give you some back story. I'm 27 year old male living in a small UK town and i've never had a proper relationship, this is not from me being a 'playa',...

A.   16 April 2012: Well first off I think it's great that you're working on improving your health. Losing weight, and achieving your goal(s) weight wise will not only make you look better physically, but you'll feel better as well. And when you believe you look ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with my very depressed boyfriend?

Q.   My boyfriend hasn't been able to see his kids for three months now. His ex wife has done so much much mental damage to him to where he believes he is a terrible person, bad father and he is worthless. He has recently pushed me away, he won't hug me, ...

A.   15 April 2012: Well I believe he still cares about you... he's just mentally in a messed up space. You have done a lot- and quite frankly it's what I would've recommended that you do on your part by expressing how you're there for him. But unfortunately it's not ... (read in full...)

How do you initiate morning sex?

Q.   How do you initiate morning sex? I always notice my fiance has morning glory like any healthy man but I have never had morning sex with him as I have to wake up about 2 hours before him for work. He comes home for a week or so in a few days and I ...

A.   15 April 2012: Yes it's perfectly normal for a guy to have "morning glory". And it may excite him very much if YOU do something about it. You don't necessarily have to say anything in my opinion... just go for it. You can begin kissing him (or on him) while ... (read in full...)

What does foreplay actually consist of?

Q.   I read in Cosmo that the ideal foreplay time for women was 20 minutes. My question is, what does foreplay actually include? Is oral sex (cunni) considered foreplay? It can take a while for me to get turned on but i have to say i dont think i ever ...

A.   15 April 2012: Foreplay is generally a mood enhancer. And in many cases, it's also a mood starter. It is the prelude to the actual penetrative sex. And there's no set time for how long foreplay should take (or last) because it all depends on the individuals ... (read in full...)

I am healthy, but have erectile dysfunction, without a reason, what should I do?

Q.   I'm a healthy guy in my late 40"s. But I have some pretty disturbing problem, and I don't know what to do.So I have erectile dysfunction, and I have no idea why. I had a very high sex drive, but now, I have no wish to have sex at all, and when I ...

A.   6 April 2012: I agree with what everyone is saying. You definitely should get checked again... this time by a Urologist. And stress, diet, or lack of exercise can also be a contributing factor. Also as you age, regardless of how well you may feel physically, ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't want me

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me. He has no reaction to me wearing lingerie, he never touches me, there is zero foreplay. I have done oral, hand jobs, anything i can to please him but it is never reciprocated. I am not heavy set, have been told ...

A.   29 March 2012: Well what changed?? When did he begin to show a different side of himself? Usually there's a trigger in the relationship that can cause a good relationship to go bad. Whether that's boredom, an underlying frustration about something relating to the ... (read in full...)

How do I find the courage to approach and ask a girl out to the Prom?

Q.   I have recently tried to find myself a Prom date for my senior year. I have ahd the toughest time finding one because my old friend group fell apart and the few girls that I know have already been asked and the prom is still another month and a half ...

A.   28 March 2012: I completely understand that asking a girl out to go to a prom is a huge thing. And if you believe that you don't have good luck, or a decent amount of experience, it can be discouraging. But my advice to you is to JUST DO IT. Just approach a girl. ... (read in full...)

I like him. he's nice. I want to know him better.

Q.   I could do with some rleationship asking a guy out kind of way. I go swimming all the time and a lifeguard there I know from school. We don't ever talk in a full out conversation. But we both know who one another are. A week ago my friend came with ...

A.   25 February 2012: If there hasn't been a reply after the first initial contact, I usually would say "just move on". But it's a possibility that he may be shy- and you would just have to ask him out in person. He probably didn't know how to feel after reading your ... (read in full...)

What at the signs that differentiate between being friendly and flirting?

Q.   during a conversation with a stranger (for example, at a place of work), what are signs a guy is flirting as opposed to just being friendly? what do you consider the stereotypical "weather" conversation? what kind of things would you do/talk about ...

A.   25 February 2012: Many people have a difficult time interpreting what's friendly talk and what's flirting. For most there's a fine line. While others do it so naturally, their flirting get mixed in with their friendly nature. Some ways to tell if someone is flirt... (read in full...)

Should I leave him to find an attentive man?

Q.   frist i want to say i love my boyfriend we've been togther for 4 years now. but things are getting wierd . like sex between us is almost nonextint and if we do all he wants is for me to go down on him . and if i dont drop every little thing im doing ...

A.   25 February 2012: If you say you love him and you leave him without working things out, it's like you're just throwing 4 years away. Now don't get me wrong, he should be the one making more of an effort to fix the problems in the relationship. But what you need to do ... (read in full...)

I need ways to get over my best friend

Q.   Ok so here's my problem; Basically I think I may be in love with one of my best friends. He's a really lovely guy, hence we are great friends, but there's always been just a little something inside of me that wants more. I told him that I thought I ...

A.   22 January 2012: Having a best friend of the opposite sex- or someone you're attracted to can sometimes complicate things. But if you're developing feelings for him and the feeling is not mutual, then you have to remind yourself that he doesn't feel the same way. ... (read in full...)

Should I go on this date or not?

Q.   I'm supposed to be going on a date with this guy this week. He asked for my number on facebook, so that he could call me to talk about the date, so i gave it to him, and he sent a message back saying " hooray ! " ( i think that was because he was ...

A.   16 January 2012: I think you should go on another date with him- especially if things went fine the first time around. And I don't get the impression that the guy you're dating is just messing around. He may genuinely like you, told his friend, and his friend may've ... (read in full...)

I feel I'm being pressured to move in with my boyfriend. I'm fine where I am!

Q.   Hey, I'd appreciate your perspectives on whether I should move in with my bf or whether it is ok for me to want to keep things as they are, as I feel I am being pressurised into something I don't want to do:( He's been asking me to move into his...

A.   11 January 2012: After reviewing what you wrote in your post, it seems as though he's one step ahead of you when it comes to your relationship advancing. But in my opinion, I think you really have to truly think things out. Not just if you'd like to live with him- ... (read in full...)

She is in pain during intercourse - what can I change?

Q.   Dear cupid.., I am 26 y/o and my girlfriend is 27 y/o, we are together for almost two years. Unfortunately our sex life is not very great. She tells me that she is in pain when we have intercourse. She used to get wet when we had sex but nowa...

A.   9 January 2012: Well first of all I think she need to go see a doctor. Just to make sure everything is in good working order. And if the pain thing is something that just started to happen, it could be a variety of reasons. For example... #1. It could be medical.... (read in full...)

Is my penis really that small? My wife seems to think I am lacking in that department.....

Q.   I need some advice on the classic "size" question. My wife has indicated that she thinks I am lacking a bit, or not average. This bothers me. I am about 5.8 x 5.1. However, when not erect, its about 2-3. From others perspective, is th...

A.   9 January 2012: I'm sorry to hear that your wife is not satisfied with your size. I don't know what the issues are in your marriage or in the bedroom, but if sexually your wife is not happy then there are things that you both can do... including seeing a ... (read in full...)

How do I get my boyfriend to do some foreplay?

Q.   Hi there, I was wondering what is the best sex position? How do I get my boyfriend to do a bit of foreplay before we have sex? He always gets a boner after like 5 seconds but i'm not ready as i'm not in the mood that quick! Any advice would ...

A.   4 January 2012: Talk to him. The best thing you can do is communicate with him and let him know how you feel when it comes to the two of you being intimate. Tell him what you want/don't want- and take it from there. It's not uncommon for a guy whom I'm assuming is ... (read in full...)

Are we ready for a threesome?

Q.   Hi! Want to know if you think we are ready for a threesome. We have been married for 6 years and have children. We both come from a conservative Middle Eastern background, we are not fully liberal but both are relatively open minded. W...

A.   4 January 2012: Well first of all you have to really come to a serious, mutual decision if engaging in a threesome is something that you both really to do. Because just talking about doing something and actually doing it when the time arrives, are two different ... (read in full...)

My younger man wont pull his weight!

Q.   OMG!! I really do not know what to do? My situation is cunning, baffaling and powerful. I am a 37 young African American Female who is a college graduate, hard working, intelligent, parent. Who tries to do the best in all situations. My problem is ...

A.   30 December 2011: Thanks for talking about your issue. Your situation is unfortunate... but not uncommon. There are plenty of men (and even some women) who don't want to help out when it comes to handling responsibilities... especially paying bills. I think ag... (read in full...)

How do I let go of him and move on with my life? or should I stay and fight for him?

Q.   Dear Cupid, So here it goes...a year and 1/2 ago, I met my soul mate...online. I know this sounds very cliche for this era, but it happened. What seemed to be attraction and coincidence, I soon found to be a connection deeper than I had felt bef...

A.   29 December 2011: No one can really give you a clear cut way for you to get over someone you believed was your soulmate. Because the truth of the matter is there will be times that you will still think about him. But somethings that may be able to help you in t... (read in full...)

How do I let go of him and move on with my life? or should I stay and fight for him?

Q.   Dear Cupid, So here it goes...a year and 1/2 ago, I met my soul mate...online. I know this sounds very cliche for this era, but it happened. What seemed to be attraction and coincidence, I soon found to be a connection deeper than I had felt bef...

A.   27 December 2011: Well it's not uncommon for some people to be unhappy in their relationship/marriage. But instead of working on the issues, many do seek companionship, love, and/or sex from outside sources. Therein lies your problem... You chatted online w... (read in full...)

What does his status mean?

Q.   my bf put up a status on fb for a few moments and went straight offfline again, and it worries me what he wrote.. "My fragile heart is been done so wroong... It seems like pain is been my only friend :'( " we're having no problems at the momen...

A.   21 December 2011: Well the best thing to do is ask him. But if you're not going through any problems right now, I doubt what he wrote had anything to do with you. Maybe there was a close friend or family member who hurt him emotionally in some way. If that's t... (read in full...)

Our sex life has stopped being fun, she says its because she is not comfortable 100%, any advice please?

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years, the relationship is going alright, however certain things are making me feel a little unappreciated, and I know this sounds selfish, but it's all to do with sex. For the first year, the sex was adventur...

A.   19 December 2011: Well, how is your relationship with her? Have you two had any recent problems, arguments, or issues that would cause her to be less intimate with you? If not, then something may be lacking in the bedroom (excitement, spontaneity, fun...), and/or ... (read in full...)

My wife's sister openly flirts with me and "accidently" walked into the bathroom wearing just her panties!

Q.   Do many young girls flirt (and more) with older men? My wife's younger sister has openly flirted with me many times and touches me and last summer she "accidently" walked into the bathroom wearing just her panties. Ever since I married her sist...

A.   19 December 2011: I think in many cases a person can be comfortable or feel close enough around someone whom their relative is married or in a relationship with- to the point where they may joke, flirt, or make fun of. BUT.... what your wife's sister is doing is ... (read in full...)

I feel so alone... Any ideas on how to make my life more meaningful and happy??

Q.   Hi everyone. I hope you can help me please. I feel so alone and I don't want to feel this way anymore. I'm a 33 year old guy, I got into a relationship when I was 21 and that lasted until just 2 years ago. I have never been the social type...

A.   18 December 2011: Well the first thing you need to do is work on building up your self confidence/ self esteem. My advise to you is to read self help books or articles that specializes in those areas. The next thing you should do is do something called a "one a d... (read in full...)

How soon is right to date after my break-up? I'm torn about what to do

Q.   Hey so I posted last week about a relationship problem that ended in a break up. We dated for almost 2 years. I was just wondering when you think is the appropriate time to start dating again would be. I don't want to jump into anything too soon...

A.   18 December 2011: It depends on how you're feeling emotionally. If you believe that you're ready NOW to start dating again, then by all means, go ahead and start dating. And depending on the severity of breakup, I believe it's best anyway to start moving forward- and ... (read in full...)

Does my husband need viagra?

Q.   So every time me and my husband have sex it only last like 4 or 5 min. And after that he can't seem to get it hard again, it sucks he can't go another round.. he's 31 so he's young , n I'm 23 and I never get pleased by him..what can I do to make it ...

A.   16 December 2011: I agree with the two previous advisors. And if he's lacking a good sex drive, it may be psychological or physical. So he should definitely go to a doctor- preferably a Urologist. But he has the ability to get an erection right? So I don't th... (read in full...)

Am I ready to date?

Q.   I am a 16 year old boy and i have loved or should i say liked so many girls in the past but it all ends up as a mess, some of them i did not even tell them, i just carry it along until i see the next one, but now i have seen the girl i love most and ...

A.   16 December 2011: You're way too young to be losing your mind or stressed over this situation. You have plenty of time to think about dating- and/or if you should tell a girl that you love her. But make sure you have everything right with your school work. And ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants me to use dirty talk in the bedroom and I have no idea how to do it.

Q.   I'm quite embarrassed about asking this, but i have no one else to ask... i'v been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and we started having sex, but he never manages to finish 'if you know what i mean' and he told me he'll only ...

A.   4 October 2011: It's o.k. don't feel embarrassed. :^) Dirty talking (amongst many other things) can add spark and/or excitement in the bedroom. And the fact of the matter is most guys have certain triggers from what a woman does or says to get them off. But I think ... (read in full...)

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