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2 June 2013: I believe that everyone has a soul mate out there... the person that's meant for them. It's all about finding that person and going through all of the good times and bad times together (because it won't be great all of the time). Now with that ...
Are You Ready For Marriage?
No replies yet... 25 May 2013: Marriage is a serious commitment that one must truly decide if it's the best thing for them. With over 50% of marriages ending in divorce, many people don't want to take that chance and risk being hurt, having their family torn apart (especially if ...
Guys- Great Gift Ideas For Your Girlfriend!
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12 September 2012: It's difficult to make suggestions on what would be good gift ideas for the guys that are reading this article because generally a gift for say a 16 year old girlfriend, would be different from that of a 30 or 40 year old. It also depends on how ...
Interested In Attending A Speed Dating Event? Here's What You Should Know.
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16 August 2012: I personally never attended a speed dating event as a participant. I have, however, as a matchmaker hosted a few. I can tell you there are quite a few benefits that comes with participating in speed dating events. And I know many people who have ...
Is It OK To Have Sex Everyday?
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11 July 2012: Is it OK to have sex everyday? I heard, and and have been asked that question quite a few times in my professional career. Having sex everyday, like most things, has it's advantages and disadvantages. Advantage #1: -- It's a form of physica...
Create A "Plan-List" For Your Relationship In 2012!
No replies yet... 30 December 2011: Are you looking forward to 2012? Have you already created goals and resolutions for the upcoming year? I know that I have. I plan to offer lots of help and advice to more couples looking to have a good relationship. But I also must make a plan...
Ladies- What It Means When A Guy Says: "I'll call you" And Then...He Doesn't
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22 November 2011: Now, barring any reasons such as a family tragedy or any other personal situation that may prevent a guy from calling, a guy may not call because... #1. They just may not be that into you. I know this may hard to hear, and many women may not wa...
Need A Confidence Booster?
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31 October 2011: There are times in our lives that we humans get into a depressing mode which resulted from us analyzing our downfalls and what we seem to lack. It seems to become apparent to us one way or another- and we start to questions ourselves, or abilities, ...
Sexual Fantasies: Just How Open Should You Be In A Relationship?
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24 October 2011: Some time ago I was watching T.V. and I couldn't find anything that interesting on. As I bypassed many channels, I contemplated whether or not I should just turn the darn thing off. Then I came across the Tyra Banks show. The episode was about ...
The Package-Deal Relationship pt.2: When To Introduce Children
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20 October 2011: Are you currently involved with someone but have yet to introduce them to your children? Are nervous and unsure what type of response you may get from your kids or the person that you're seeing if you do introduce them? Well here's what you ...
The Package-Deal Relationship: Not Embraced By The Family?
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15 October 2011: Ideally we all want to have a family that will be o.k. with the person that we chose to have as partner. But what if someone in our partner's family has a problem with us? Will you become stressed out, confused, or even annoyed by that person's beha...
3 Ways To Recession-Proof Your Relationship
No replies yet... 15 October 2011: Are you feeling the effects of the current economy? Is your relationship suffering because of it? Well don't despair....there are things that you can do. 1. Be creative. Think of some low cost (or no cost) ways to put a smile on your partner's f...
Being Able To Change: Breaking Old Habits In Relationships
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15 October 2011: Sometimes it’s hard to break old habits. If you’re used to acting a certain way in a relationship (or life in general), changing your ways may seem difficult. However, if you’ve noticed that things aren’t going so well in your relationship, you may ...
Are You Making Time For Your Partner?
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10 October 2011: Do you focus your energy on something or someone which may take time away from you and your partner? Well if you highly value your relationship, you may need to make some changes. Situation#1: Work. If you’re a big time workaholic, then...
If Your Partner Is A Porn Watcher....
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9 October 2011: What do you do when you've discovered that your partner has been watching/hiding porn? This is a question that many women, in particular, want answers to. Here's my view on it... -First,you should have a talk with him. As hard as it may b...
The Role Of Respect In Relationships
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30 September 2011: How much do you respect your partner? Do you treat them less than what they're worth because of their gender? Do you not value their thoughts or opinions as much as you would say a family member, friend, or close counsel? Well if you disregard how ...
Does Size Make The Man?
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29 September 2011: I’d like to first thank Tennisstar88 for giving me the idea to write this article. Even though this is a sensitive topic to most men, my hope is someone will benefit from reading it. Enjoy! ------...
Why It’s Important To Keep Your Relationship Exciting
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29 September 2011: Throughout my professional career I've come across many people that were lacking excitement in their relationship. Many of them have experienced some form of it in the beginning of their relationship- but they all seem to ask me the same ...
Two Ways To Make Your Relationship Better
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29 September 2011: There are many relationships that are slowly destructing because of lack of two simple things...communication and action. If your partner presents a problem to you, and you want to keep your relationship strong, then you should do the following: ...
Three Ways To Know That Your Ready For A Relationship
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25 September 2011: Are you ready for a serious, committed relationship now…really? Well if you truly believe that you are, make sure that you have the below tips covered. 1. You’re maximizing your opportunities. If you want to find a mate, then you have to put your...
How To Approach A Girl...The Right Way!
No replies yet... 24 September 2011: Now I've written numerous articles relating to this topic. But in this article I'm going to focus more on the approaching aspect of meeting a woman. And I'll do it on the form of frequently asked questions. Question 1: How do I approach a girl?...
What Women Want Most From A Guy
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5 September 2011: In a continuation to my series of articles on developing "Swagger", I feel it's necessary recap, include, and conclude with these 8 tips. If there's anything additional ladies that you feel is worth mentioning, don't hesitate to add your thoughts in ...
How To Create Great Conversations On A Date
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3 September 2011: To have a successful date, you must have great conversation. Conversation creates chemistry. Leaving out just one of these tips, can end a conversation quickly or be the cause of “date destruction”. Here are the top five conversation tip...
Guys: How To Have The "Swagger " Walk
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31 August 2011: So we've covered how to talk and present yourself in from of women, so the last thing I'd like to share is how to have a swagger walk. Enjoy! --------------------------------------------------------------- When it comes to attracting a ...
Get a lady just by changing the way you talk!
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29 August 2011: The way you carry yourself, dress, talk, or even walk can either attract a potential mate, or repel her. In other words, you need to develop some “swagger”. So when you decide to approach a woman of your interest, you need to do the following: ...
Guys: How To Develop "Swagger" To Attract More Women Part 1
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27 August 2011: The way you carry yourself, dress, talk, or even walk, can either attract a potential mate or repel her. In other words you need to have some swagger. So to avoid being rejected before you even say a word, you need to do the following: 1. Carefu...
Create A Checklist For Your First Date
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20 August 2011: So you landed the date that you wanted with the person that captured your interest. How should you plan it to make sure things go well? Make sure you set up a simple checklist. Here's what you can include: #1. Choice of Clothes and Accessorie...
Guys: Create A "Plan-List" For A Romantic Evening
No replies yet... 16 August 2011: In many situations, being spontaneous is encouraged. However if you want to have a great romantic evening, planning is essential. Creating a "plan-list" can actually spark intimacy if it's done correctly. Here are some things you can include on y...
Ladies: Do You Think ALL Men Are The Same?
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14 August 2011: Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a ...
How to Meet The Man Or Woman Of Your Dreams
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14 August 2011: If you want to find the man or woman of your dreams, you have to put yourself in the environment where they work or hang out. For example, if you want to meet a lawyer, go down to your local courthouse during lunch hours- and hang out at the ...
Guys: What To Do If You're Suffering From Erectile Dysfunction
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13 August 2011: Erectile dysfunction (ED), also known as impotence, is a condition that affects an individual’s ability to achieve or sustain erection during intercourse. The most common reasons for this are: stress, poor nutrition, lack of rest/exercise, or it’s ...
The Top 3 Fears That Prevent Successful Relationships
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8 August 2011: Do you have a fear that prevents you from getting into- or maintaining a good relationship? Well it’s not as uncommon as you may think. There are actual terms for these conditions. Such as… 1. Pistanthrophobia. Also known as the fear of trusti...
The Art Of Communcation
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3 August 2011: Communication is the key to every successful relationship. Your ability to connect with your partner verbally or non-verbally (body language) can show whether your relationship has the potential of moving forward, or if it's headed for disaster. ...
Ideas to keep the romance alive..
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3 August 2011: Are you lacking romance in your relationship? Are there any work problems getting in the way? If you've talked about it with your man and you haven't noticed any significant changes, you may have to take some initiative. Here's what you can do:...
Ladies: What You Should Know BEFORE You Have SEx With The Guy That You're Dating
No replies yet... 31 July 2011: Have you recently started dating someone, got into a new relationship, or just plainly unsure when it's the right time for you and your partner to have sex? Well there are a few things for you to consider before you do: - Do you know what Oxytoc...
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Ladies- What It Means When A Guy Says: "I'll call you" And Then...He Doesn't
Q. Now, barring any reasons such as a family tragedy or any other personal situation that may prevent a guy from calling, a guy may not call because... #1. They just may not be that into you. I know this may hard to hear, and many women may not wa...
A. 14 May 2012: Hi Tsahpina. Thanks for providing your thoughts.
I don't think what you wrote is a fair assessment of all men. Sure there are some men who are jerks... there are even some who are downright liars. But that's not ALL men. Your solution for the ... (read in full...)
Ladies- What It Means When A Guy Says: "I'll call you" And Then...He Doesn't
Q. Now, barring any reasons such as a family tragedy or any other personal situation that may prevent a guy from calling, a guy may not call because... #1. They just may not be that into you. I know this may hard to hear, and many women may not wa...
A. 12 May 2012: Hi Cheers! I'm glad you enjoy reading my articles. :^)
It's not uncommon for guys to try to play things cool and ultimately end up missing out on woman that could've been good for them. Many of them don't realize that they have to strike while th... (read in full...)
Am I ready to date?
Q. I am a 16 year old boy and i have loved or should i say liked so many girls in the past but it all ends up as a mess, some of them i did not even tell them, i just carry it along until i see the next one, but now i have seen the girl i love most and ...
A. 16 December 2011: You're way too young to be losing your mind or stressed over this situation. You have plenty of time to think about dating- and/or if you should tell a girl that you love her. But make sure you have everything right with your school work. And ... (read in full...)
Pretty girl....
Q. HEY.... a problem.. this girl from India is THE most beautiful person you'll find in the world. Brown eyes, Silky straight brown hair, fair skin, perfect height, pinky cheeks and rosy red lips. HA the problem is 36 guys out of 41 in our class have ...
A. 16 December 2011: Wow 36 out of 41 guys have a crush on this particular girl?? She must be stunning. :^) But don't let that stop you from approaching her. Go to her with confidence, compliment her, introduce yourself, and if all goes well, you'll get her number. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has Asperger's and has had a setback. How can I help him?
Q. Hi i don't know if anyone can help but i'm just looking to talk to someone really, my boyfriend of over a year has Aspergers syndrome (on autistic spectrum) many of you may not understand what it is, it's very difficult for him but also myself and ...
A. 15 December 2011: I can't relate to having Asperger's syndrome- but I can relate to having my many moments of depression. All you can do is continue to be there for him.
Try to be a positive figure/influence in his life, and he will love and appreciate you so m... (read in full...)
What are your thoughts on single parents, is the child affected?
Q. okay so... i found out im pregnant, 14 weeks gone, and the dad basicly said, if i didnt get rid, hed never have anything to do with me again.. of course i didnt get rid and he wants nothing more to do with me... we argued and havent spoke at all in ...
A. 11 December 2011: Well first of all let me say I'm sorry to hear about your mom and also your real father's passing. I can definitely relate- as I also have a mother who has passed away. What I can also relate to is the fact that I've come out o.k. in a single parent ... (read in full...)
Missing communication in my relationship....very long!! Please help me
Q. There's a lack of communication between me and my boyfriend. It's not that we don't talk, but it's always the same things all the time - what we're doing, how we are, school, jobs, friends, etc. I could say all those things with just a mere ...
A. 11 December 2011: O.k. first, I want to start with the fact that he doesn't take the relationship seriously. With him not doing so, I think could be the underlined reason for your lack of communication, spending time together, etc. If he really was "into you"- and ... (read in full...)
How do I ask for her number since its the last time I'll see her?
Q. Quick answer plz? Me and this girl in college have been playin the eye contact game for a week and mondayis the last day I will c her. How do I ask for her number since it may be the last time tht I see he r?...
A. 11 December 2011: Quick answer... Just Do It. In other words just take a chance. Don't allow fear or doubt creep into your mind. And if she's not interested, at least you can say, "hey, I've tried". As opposed to later wondering "What if..." As in, "what if I did ... (read in full...)
Why do I always end up in the 'friend zone'?
Q. I just don't get it. Why am I never good enough to be anything more than a friend with a woman? I've tried everything I could possibly think of. From making my feelings known to holding back and really trying to get to know someone before trying ...
A. 11 December 2011: O.k. I'm going to tell you exactly what I told someone else on this site who had a similar issue.... It's obvious that you're continuing to be held in the 'friend zone' for a particular reason. What is that reason? It's hard to tell without not... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned by the lack of sex/intimacy in our relationship
Q. I am 34 and my girlfriend is 31. We have been seeing each other for about 10 months and i've been living at her place for 4. We are both very serious about the relationship and talk about a future together, house/kids the only trouble is i find that ...
A. 9 December 2011: I don't believe it's o.k. for individuals who are living together and talk about the future and kids not have a normal sex life. Baring artificial insemination and adoption, how does she expect kids to be in your lives without sex? Now don't get ... (read in full...)
Ladies- What It Means When A Guy Says: "I'll call you" And Then...He Doesn't
Q. Now, barring any reasons such as a family tragedy or any other personal situation that may prevent a guy from calling, a guy may not call because... #1. They just may not be that into you. I know this may hard to hear, and many women may not wa...
A. 7 December 2011: Hey Tennisstar88! No they're not arranged in any particular order.
And in response to point #2, as I mentioned, if a man is interested, he will make time (or find a way) to talk. But there are a few people that I've come across that work crazy ho... (read in full...)
Chronic ED for a guy in good health??
Q. Is it possible for a man to have a chronic erectile dysfunction, for 5 years,for psychological causes, what he does not know what are they? Its my husband, he is in perfect health, but we are unable to have sex,as he has no sexual desire, and when ...
A. 6 December 2011: I completely agree with what the other advisors has mentioned. And I believe that it would be best, first for him to see a doctor about this problem. Preferably a Urologist.
There are a list of reasons that were previously asked about/me... (read in full...)
How many weeks/months should you wait before having sex?
Q. I have been browsing the site for an answer to: when is it best to have sex for the first time in a new relationship? Most replies were about the date number ...(1st to 5th etc.) but what I would really like to know is a time frame: how many ...
A. 5 December 2011: Well the fact of the matter is no one can give you a precise time on when you should be intimate. I know couples who waited both weeks and months before becoming intimate and they're still together. And I know a few people that waited just as long- ... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong? Girls always just want to be "friends" with me.
Q. Ok simple problem....what am i doing wrongly with girls? At the moment i must have about 15 girls i have flirted with in the past and they have now decided that i'm "like a brother", "best friend" or like their gay best friend. Its pretty obvi...
A. 5 December 2011: Well it's obvious that you're continuing to be held in the 'friend zone' for a particular reason. What is that reason? It's hard to tell without not really knowing YOU. But just going based on what you put in your post, you obviously have to make ... (read in full...)
Ladies- What It Means When A Guy Says: "I'll call you" And Then...He Doesn't
Q. Now, barring any reasons such as a family tragedy or any other personal situation that may prevent a guy from calling, a guy may not call because... #1. They just may not be that into you. I know this may hard to hear, and many women may not wa...
A. 3 December 2011: Thanks Anonymous reader for your comments. I'm sure many women can relate to and agree with what you have to say.
And you're very welcome by the way for the article. I'm glad it was helpful to you. :^)
Best!... (read in full...)
I was cheated on, how can I get my confidence back to date again?
Q. hey all. I need your help again. As many of you May know that answered my questions many months ago i was having problems with a cheating girlfriend. well after much sole searching i finally managed to make her my ex though it has taken a lot to get ...
A. 2 December 2011: Well it's good that you're willing to the next step to getting over your ex- and that's meeting new people. One way to build up confidence, is to constantly assure yourself that not every woman is going to cheat on you. Let me put it to you th... (read in full...)
What could cause a mental block causing no erection?
Q. Do you know, what can be a mental block, for getting an erection? There is no explanations of my sudden loss of erection, now chronnically. ...
A. 2 December 2011: Well I would need a bit more information on what exactly you're going through. Have you experienced "mental blocks" before? Did this happen before or during intercourse?
Now assuming that you're a healthy male that frequently has strong erection... (read in full...)
Spark is gone after 9 years with GF. Troubled relationship!
Q. Dear Aunts, I have a big problem. I have been with my girlfriend for 9 years. When I met her I was a virgin. She was not. She even told me back when we first started dating that she didn't care if we were an item or not, she just wanted to have s...
A. 30 November 2011: Well first, what you experience(d) with her is definitely emotional abuse. I always say that relationships are a preview of what a marriage is going to be like... so you have to ask yourself the question... could you deal with many more years of her ... (read in full...)
How can I get my G/f to feel sexy and realize how wonderful she actually is?
Q. how can i get my wonderfull girlfriend to feel sexy. She has low self image. To me she is beautiful and what she finds imperfections. I think that what makes her who she is. She always covers her self up. Says she is fat and unattractive. When we ...
A. 30 November 2011: You may want to try giving her a nice, slow, full body massage. More than likely she'll probably have on her bra and panties. The you can proceed to ask her how much does she trust you- and what you say, while you're continuing to massage her. If ... (read in full...)
How can I approach an attractive girl? Fear of Rejection.
Q. There is a girl in my class who in see at least twice a week who seems really polite and quiet but I don't know how to approach her. As I'm afraid of being rejected. She once approached me and a couple of friends and asked in a very polite manner ...
A. 30 November 2011: Well getting over a fear of rejection is never easy. But as the cliche goes, you'll never hit a home run (get a number or date) if you don't step up to the plate (if you don't try). And sure you may strike out a lot (get rejected), but even the ... (read in full...)
I have major trust issues because of my ex. How can I ensure I do not ruin things with my new guy?
Q. Hi there..last year i was very very heart broken. i found out that the guy i had been dating for the past year had been engaged to someone else abroad. he lied to me many times...i genuinely thought he was my soul mate. He has recently split up fro...
A. 29 November 2011: Well first of all I'm sorry that you experienced such heartbreak. Getting over an ex is never easy, especially when you've become involved with someone new right after- because you then start to compare.
What you have to realize though is that ... (read in full...)
How long would you wait for this woman in this situation?
Q. A question mainly for guys I guess - if you were in your late forties and rarely met a woman that you were attracted to and then met one that you got to know over several years and really, really liked her but circumstances were preventing you from ...
A. 29 November 2011: Well first let me say that office policies are different for many companies when it comes to relationships at work. But I feel that if the two people are grown, they can see whomever they want. HOWEVER... I usually advise against them, being that ... (read in full...)
It is possible for a man to be impotent with one woman but not with another?
Q. Is it possible, that a guy can't erection with his wife for years, but can get one with an other woman later on? My husband told me for several years, that he is impotent, but it has nothing to do with me. So , I just accepted to live in a sexless ...
A. 29 November 2011: I agree with Unknown2u. If he was healthy, the problem may've been psychological. He brings up some good points in regards to that.
It's also possible that he may have felt performance anxiety (where he thought that he wouldn't live up to your ... (read in full...)
3 great dates and now I havent heard from him in a week and a half....should I keep waiting?
Q. I went out on 3 great dates with this guy and it seemed like we were really hitting it off. He then went home for Thanksgiving, and I haven't heard from him in a week and half. I read in an advice column that one should just move on if a dude ...
A. 29 November 2011: Usually I would advise that if a person hasn't called you within 48-72 hours after the FIRST date (of course that's barring any personal reasons that prevented him from calling) then you should move on. But if you've been on three good dates... (read in full...)
I'm in a panic over his impotence. What would the average person do? Stay or go if their man is impotent?
Q. Would you stay with your husband, if he can't get an erection when you try to have sex, and he has no idea why? It started suddenly after a a huge argument, when he said, "I never loved you, I just stayed with you". Then 2 weeks after this, hi...
A. 28 November 2011: I completely agree with Candid Cally. Couples counseling is the way to go in this situation. That argument seemed to have dramatically changed your sex life- and played a role on his concentration and feelings for you in the bedroom. If you both go ... (read in full...)
I want to go to the gym but there are too many guys and I'm afraid they will stare at me
Q. dear cupid, i have really been wanting to go to the gym so many times its not far from where i stay and though there are not so many equipments a few of the ones i need are there but my only problem is that im shy the gym is mostly attended...
A. 26 November 2011: Well I think that you're going to have to work through your shyness- and understand that most people are at the gym for the same reason(s) you are. And though they may look, they'll be pretty much concerned with how they look. You may also want to ... (read in full...)
Ladies- What It Means When A Guy Says: "I'll call you" And Then...He Doesn't
Q. Now, barring any reasons such as a family tragedy or any other personal situation that may prevent a guy from calling, a guy may not call because... #1. They just may not be that into you. I know this may hard to hear, and many women may not wa...
A. 25 November 2011: If he only calls in hopes of being intimate with you, then you've made the right decision to break up with him. And I know it hurts- but you deserve to have a better relationship with someone that's going to love, and want to be with you completely. ... (read in full...)
I need some conversation tips!
Q. I'm a kinda shy guy,but i have a couple of female friends,i kinda find it difficult to start convesations..but there's this girl that is a friend to my friend(female)...we both belong to the same department in college.we only talk whenever she's ...
A. 23 November 2011: Well first of all you can't "get her to like you". If the chemistry is there (on her part), she will.. if it's not, she won't. You can however provide great conversation- which is something you're obviously seeking. A few pointers I can g... (read in full...)
Sexual Fantasies: Just How Open Should You Be In A Relationship?
Q. Some time ago I was watching T.V. and I couldn't find anything that interesting on. As I bypassed many channels, I contemplated whether or not I should just turn the darn thing off. Then I came across the Tyra Banks show. The episode was about ...
A. 23 November 2011: Good points. Thanks for your input Shadow Rose!... (read in full...)
If online dating fails to work, what other options are there?
Q. I've tried every sensible dating site in the last 16 months. Paid and free. I have had two dates in that whole time. I've had profiles reviewed and everyone has come back saying my photos are good, my profile is interesting and they don't ...
A. 22 November 2011: Well when you're using the online dating sites, the response rate is typically lower for guys on the male/female ratio. Generally women receive more responses than men- and when you send a greeting or message with your profile included, you're ... (read in full...)
Why are some men so selfish?
Q. Why some men so selfish?. My partner and i have 2 kids together he is 42 and i am 36. Our relationship is very dull, we never go out as a couple, we have little to no sex life to which i put down to him not having a sex drive. He never treats me or ...
A. 21 November 2011: I agree with what all of the other agony aunts are saying. But if he's not willing to compromise on anything, not willing to put in effort to make the relationship work, and he doesn't even view you as someone he's in a relationship with, then he's ... (read in full...)
Why are some men so selfish?
Q. Why some men so selfish?. My partner and i have 2 kids together he is 42 and i am 36. Our relationship is very dull, we never go out as a couple, we have little to no sex life to which i put down to him not having a sex drive. He never treats me or ...
A. 20 November 2011: I'm sorry you're experiencing these problems in your relationship.
I don't think that having an affair is the answer. I believe that if you have the urge to cheat, you're better off messing around with someone else as a single person. There's ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my boyfriend french kiss me?
Q. Now I don't want to force him into doing anything. I just thought that I needed to say that first so I don't get remarks about how rude it is to do that cause I agree but........my boyfriend kisses me, but we don't use any tongue action like "French ...
A. 18 November 2011: There's a variety of reasons he may not be into french kissing.
Such as:
1. He simply doesn't like doing it.
2. He doesn't know how to do it well. He may not want to disappoint you- and think you may not like the way he does it. And that... (read in full...)
Sexual Fantasies: Just How Open Should You Be In A Relationship?
Q. Some time ago I was watching T.V. and I couldn't find anything that interesting on. As I bypassed many channels, I contemplated whether or not I should just turn the darn thing off. Then I came across the Tyra Banks show. The episode was about ...
A. 15 November 2011: Thank you anonymous reader for your comments. I'm sorry that you can't really trust any guy. And I really don't know your history of relationships. But what I will say, if I may, that there has to be a lot of trust and communication amongst many ... (read in full...)
My fiance and I really want a baby, but are we ready?
Q. Hello everyone, usually when I find myself on this site I'm having a very depressing problem but now I'm just in a dilema. My fiance and I recently just moved out of a house we shared with room mates into an apartment so we could get along better ...
A. 14 November 2011: Well I can't speak on behalf of the women here. Well because one: I'm not a woman- and two: I don't know how they feel about this situation.
But what I will say is if the only reason you think you're ready to have a baby is because you saw a fe... (read in full...)
I'm willing to have an affair with my doctor, but how do I confirm whether or not he's really interested?
Q. ok so i just got surgery sept and my doctor has always been hot i've know him for 2 years now and now it seems like he likes me he kept telling me i looked and i just smiled so hard we talk about other things besides my health. i feel a strong c...
A. 14 November 2011: Well first of all, I'm not going to give you the best suggestions on how you can cheat with your doctor. And I don't think any other relationship advisor on here will either.
What I will say is that if you really do value your relation... (read in full...)
He didn't get me anything for my birthday! Its the principle of it!
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 8 months and while of course it started off great we are going through some tough times.His family found out about me and dont exactly approve of me which is pretty big in my culture. and ever since ...
A. 14 November 2011: Dealing with family when it comes to culture, can be a little bit challenging- especially when you're not accepted. But I think what matters overall is how the two individuals in the relationship feel about each other, not the negative opinions of ... (read in full...)
My wife was sexually abused. No one else knows. Is it wrong to spill the beans?
Q. As the subject says, my wife was sexually abused as a child. She was also raped as an adult - possibly more than once. She just confided this in me, although I have suspected as much for a long time now. As a result, she is an alcoholic. She...
A. 14 November 2011: Well I don't think it would be your place to share her secrets with anyone, including her family. That's something that, when the time is right and of course under much encouragement to share (maybe with your support), she has to do on her own.
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I don't want to lose out on a loving relationship because of my insecurities
Q. I am a 26 year old male and finally starting to 'get out' more in terms if meeting new people and going on dates. I am, however, afraid of sex. I don't have a particularly immature attitude towards sex, and I want to wait to meet the 'right' person ...
A. 12 November 2011: It's perfectly fine to wait for the right woman. But you must also take action in meeting more women without letting your insecurity get in the way- otherwise you'll be waiting forever.
My advice to you is to start reading some confiden... (read in full...)
10 years younger boss: Is he trying to fight the fact that he may be attracted to me?
Q. I am 56 years old and I look good for my age. I work with a lot of guys, and I am friendly with all of them. But, my BOSS makes me feel uncomfortable. He avoids looking at my eyes... when I try to talk friendly with him, he repeatedly tells me t...
A. 12 November 2011: What do you tell him to make him say "we will never hang out together outside of work"? How is his tone? He may be fighting his feeling of attraction, and may be his ethics when it comes to dating/talking to a co-worker or employee. *And by him ... (read in full...)
Sick of being rejected when I try to chat up girls. Can you offer me any tips to help me improve?
Q. I'm 15 and about to turn 16... I suck talking to girls and I've gotten rejected before because I wear glasses and have lazy eyes. Any advice to how to boost my confidence and telling me how to talk to girls easier? Getting rejected for that reason ...
A. 12 November 2011: Now normally I wouldn't comment on something like this because I feel you're way too young to worry about talking to girls right now- and you should be focused on school. But if you're going to do it anyway, I hate to see you suffer in the process. ... (read in full...)
I'm asking about this one particular guy. Is he worth my time or not?
Q. Dating advice please : tonight was supposed to be my fourth date with this guy. On Monday he text me and asked me out for Friday. I said yes and We had agreed to meet around 6 or 7pm. (we both have the day off and we agreed to meet near where I woul...
A. 12 November 2011: I think the biggest problem with him is that he lacks common courtesy- and also pre-date etiquette (*as noted from the day you was suppose to meet him at the club). And if you didn't text him at 1PM that day of your meeting, when was he going to ... (read in full...)
Sexual Fantasies: Just How Open Should You Be In A Relationship?
Q. Some time ago I was watching T.V. and I couldn't find anything that interesting on. As I bypassed many channels, I contemplated whether or not I should just turn the darn thing off. Then I came across the Tyra Banks show. The episode was about ...
A. 12 November 2011: That's a well thought out answer Tennisstar88! Thank you as always for providing your comments! :^)... (read in full...)
Sexual Fantasies: Just How Open Should You Be In A Relationship?
Q. Some time ago I was watching T.V. and I couldn't find anything that interesting on. As I bypassed many channels, I contemplated whether or not I should just turn the darn thing off. Then I came across the Tyra Banks show. The episode was about ...
A. 4 November 2011: Thank you for the compliment KittieS! And I'm glad you enjoy reading my articles. :^)
I appreciate your comments on the topic as well- and I believe you bring up some very valid points.
Best! ... (read in full...)
Sexual Fantasies: Just How Open Should You Be In A Relationship?
Q. Some time ago I was watching T.V. and I couldn't find anything that interesting on. As I bypassed many channels, I contemplated whether or not I should just turn the darn thing off. Then I came across the Tyra Banks show. The episode was about ...
A. 25 October 2011: Thank you for sharing your comments Janniepeg. I appreciate your input! :^)... (read in full...)
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