I tend to get a rash after shaving my pubic area, any tips to avoid this?
Q. Please help! I have noticed that when i shame my pubic area that i tend to get a rash afetr which is really painful and itchy does anyone have any tips or could tell me why this happens?? ...
A. 7 December 2008: By one of the more expensive razors,like Gillette fusion.I think thats a good one. Exfoliate the area regular and see what happens. It happens to loads of girls even with waxing. Welcome to the world of women x... (read in full...)
We've been going out but he says he doesn't want a relationship!
Q. Hi, I have dated my friend now for 4 months. We talk everyday and go out very frequently even though we both have very demanding careers. The problem is that he has refused to define what the relationship is. He keeps saying he isnt ready for...
A. 3 December 2008: Hi there, in my experience men usually tell the exact truth about how they feel very early on and then girls tend to ignore it or not really hear what they are saying cos its not want they want to hear. I'd start to detach myself emotionally from ... (read in full...)
Is my husband a serial cheater? Or just a man who made a mistake?
Q. Just two weeks ago, my husband of 16 years told me that he received oral sex from a woman he worked with at a Christmas party 8 years ago- in her car. This woman apparently only worked there for a period of a month or two before getting transfer...
A. 3 December 2008: Hi there, it really depends on how much torment you can stomach worrying about this situation. I would go to councelling and see what happens. Do you believe thats the whole story cos i get the feeling you think he's lying by omission and its not ... (read in full...)
Controlled and abused...
Q. How do I decide if I need to stay in the relationship I'm in when I feel like I'm being controlled and somewhat abused? ...
A. 30 November 2008: Hi, You phrase your question in an interesting way i feel. How do i decide if i need to stay in a relationship where i'm controlled and abused. I would say why on earth do you NEED to stay in a relationship that makes you feel bad about yourself. ... (read in full...)
Should I knock this relationship on the head and move on?
Q. I've been dating a woman that lives with her partner. He is seeing someone else and does not sleep a home 5 out of 7 days per week and when he does, he sleeps on the couch (so she says). The woman I am dating says that she wants to end their 20 yr ...
A. 30 November 2008: Hi there, you dont say how long you've known each other for which would give me more of an idea about your chances. Usually it seems that if the person doesnt leave their partner within the first 6 months its statistically unlikely they will ever ... (read in full...)
How Do I Convince Him????
Q. Okay, here goes...I'm used to doing the answering, but I am feeling troubled right now, and there are so many wise Aunts out there, I've decided to reach out... I am in a LDR, very long 3,000 miles. We have visited each other and fallen in love. I...
A. 29 November 2008: Hi there, Obviously i dont know your partners financial situation,but is there any way he could keep his home if he came to the states and married you? You could tell him to try it for 6 or 12 months and if he doesnt like it,you could go to his ... (read in full...)
Seeing his ex behind my back, can I ever trust him again?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We are both 25 years old (The age on my profile doesn't update for some reason). We recently broke up because I found out by going through his computer that he has been seeing his ex behind my back for ...
A. 29 November 2008: Hi honey, in my opinion from what youve said,the reason you've had insecurity issues with him is because on an instinctive level youve always felt he was untrustworthy,and guess what? You were right. If you were with a guy who you really could ... (read in full...)
How long should I leave it before I message him again?
Q. Dear Cupid, Please help im not sure what it means/am having trouble reading the signals. I went on a date on sat night with someone that i met online. The date seemed to go well, he said that he enjoyed it, walked me to the car and the end...
A. 27 November 2008: dont text or call him,you just come across as desperate. Let him get in touch with you and when he does let him take the lead and wait for a while till you have sex. good luck x... (read in full...)
Does he want me back or is he playing mind games?
Q. My boyfriend finished with me a month and a half ago. I was desolate, and did the whole begging him to get back with me thing, which I now regret, but I was in a very bad way. He was reasonable and gave me a straight answer about why he was ...
A. 24 November 2008: Hi honey, I dont think its agood idea to see so much of your boy if hes finished with you and you're still in love with him. How can you be friends with someone you're still in love with? Its like you're torturing yourself. If you want to know where ... (read in full...)
Does he want a relationship or is he just playing me around?
Q. ive met a guy who ive gone on about 4 dates with. he seems to like me..but my only problem is i cant really work him out. im always the one that has to initiate text conversations and ask him 0ut on dates..but when i do hes always really sw...
A. 24 November 2008: Hi honey,if you want to know where you stand with him its easy to find out. Next time you see him say i've really enjoyed myself blah blah but i'm leaving the ball in your court this time and see what he does. Put the spotlight on him and see if he ... (read in full...)
I like goth clothing, is goth believing in the devil?
Q. Hey, I'm a christian. I like goth clothing. Just the way they look, dress. Can I dress goth? Is goth believing in the devil. I want to know more about goth. Any advice?...
A. 13 November 2008: i was a goth in the 80's and it was all about the music. goths in my experience are usually very nice people,so just go for it x... (read in full...)
Very Confused!! Should I stay with this man?
Q. I was married, but unfortunately that wasn't going too well. Then I met this man how for the first time made my heart sing. We got together and we fell madly in love, when I got a flat of my own with my kids, he moved in. My man has always h...
A. 12 November 2008: hi honey, my heart goes out to you. i was in a similar scenario to you 12 months ago. my fellas background was very similar to yours. one day i woke up and thought thats it! i've just had enough and left. hope you end up feeling the same. if he ... (read in full...)
What should I do to make him say he loves me?
Q. My boyfriend does not tell me that he loves me, apparently because he believes love is a strong word and only exists for married couples. He tells me he likes me very much but I don't feel comfortable with it. We have been going out for a month now ...
A. 12 November 2008: you cant really mean i love you after a month cos you dont know the person well enough. when guys say they love you after a few weeks they mean they really really likes you. he cant possibly love anyone after 4 weeks. my boyfriend told me he loves ... (read in full...)
Help! Decoding guy speak?
Q. I am interested in a guy I have spoken to several times at a local bar. But I can't determine if he is interested or just being nice. Last week for the first time I think I got the hint that he is interested. Before leaving last week he even made ...
A. 10 November 2008: hi there, yes, i feel the door is open for you if you wanna walk through,but be prepared to have the same done to you by this guy. x... (read in full...)
Am I so wrong for wanting to leave my husband and make a better life for me and my kids?
Q. I still care about my husband but I am ready to move on and better my life and the lives of my children. I have been with my husband 9 years now but for the last 6 years my husband has not worked and I have been the one supporting our family ...
A. 9 November 2008: hi, run for the hills girlfriend! dump this guy please. he's just a millstone round your neck dragging you down. don't you think you deserve better? think about the effect your marriage must be having on your children. do it for their sake at least. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has 2 kids but doesn't want one with me.
Q. I read the post about hating my boyfriend's kids. I am beginning to feel the same way as all these other posters. My bf of 7 years has 2 kids and one lives with us full time the other comes every other weekend. I have been through lots of drama ...
A. 9 November 2008: hi, i've not been in this situation myself but my friend is now. her man has 2 kids from a previous relationship and will not entertain the prospect and they have been together for years and she's in her early 40's. she has stayed with him knowing ... (read in full...)
Why did my friend betray my trust?
Q. I am so annoyed right now and need advice. Do you think it is ok for a so called best friend (a guy) to tell my other girl friend about the night me and him came close to sleeping together?? I am so upset about the fact he told her ALL of the ...
A. 9 November 2008: hi honey, of course you feel hurt and i'd feel the same. unfortunately this guy is far to immature for you to be messin with,that's obvious as he couln't keep his mouth shut. a gentleman never tells they say,and he's no gentleman. good luck in the ... (read in full...)
Am I in denial and this relationship is going nowhere?
Q. Been in a relationship for six years, engaged the last three years we had talked about marriage a few times and lately seems like the subject never comes around, we live in separate houses just 25 minutes away. He had mentioned that because I had se...
A. 9 November 2008: hi honey, my father was an alcoholic and he was a prolific liar so i'd have alarm bells ringing. i dont understand why you got engaged to then drift along for years without setting a date for the wedding. isn't that what being engaged is all about? ... (read in full...)
Why won't he show me where he lives?
Q. AM I HARD ON HIM I am 25 years old and I have been dating a 30 year olg guy for five months. The problem is that he doesn't want to show me where he lives. He knows where I live and he visits me every day. I feel like he is hiding somethin...
A. 9 November 2008: Hi there, of course it's weird and you're not giving him a hard time. I would make it my business to find out what he's hiding and the sooner the better. good luck x... (read in full...)
Please help I feel like my husband is cheating
Q. My question is my husband has been going out a lot lately and one night he was out till 430am in the morning he had to go to work so might as well say he spent the night somewhere his story does not match up, but i found a text message in his phone ...
A. 9 November 2008: my mother says that there's nothing open after 2am except legs. trust your gut feeling because it'll be right. he doesn't seem very good at deceit so it wont be long before you find some more evidence. you need to find out why he's doing this and ... (read in full...)
I just feel so used, hurt and basically broken.
Q. I am having a very hard time, two days ago something happened to me, which I just never imagined would happen. I had been with my boyfriend for only about six months. We got pretty serious straight away- not sexually but emotionally. He seemed to ...
A. 8 November 2008: you poor thing my heart goes out to you! apparently its quite normal for victims to miss or still hold feelings for their abusers,so please keep strong and dont contact him. i think you just miss the idea of him and all the times when he was ... (read in full...)
He wants to watch me having sex with another man! What does this say about him??
Q. My boyfriend wants to watch me have sex with another man. This is disgusting. Of course I won't do it. The question is, what does this indicate about a man's character, or even, future? [Added from the same user] Does my boyfriend's obsessio...
A. 8 November 2008: hi honey, a guy i used to work for was swinging with his wife and another guy,and his wife has just ran off and left with the other guy,lol. perphaps you should think about that. as for the anal thing,unless you have a clitoris up your rectum i'd ... (read in full...)
Should I tolerate his abusive behaviour?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months and we live together. For the first few months, everything was so perfect, and we still have a very close, intimate relationship, which is everything I have ever wanted. Very early on, my boyfriend told me ...
A. 8 November 2008: Hi honey, i left a man similar to what you describe about 12 months ago. I've never been more sure of anything when i say that he will not change without professional help, and maybe not even then. You will end a nervous wreck, treading on egg ... (read in full...)
What's going on I feel like he's playing with my head.
Q. Last nite i went to the pub with my mate, my recently ex bf was there, he says we will never get back but everyone tells me different yesterday, when he came over he would poke me in the ribs jokingley like he used to, gave me a kind of massage on ...
A. 7 November 2008: hi honey, he was probably just playing with you and if he got some no strings sex out of it then all the better for him. my guess is he knows you still have feelings for him. if he really wanted you back he would've asked you. sorry.... (read in full...)
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