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Married is better

Q.   Years ago before my wife and I were married, I sat at a restaurant with her and gazed into her eyes as she gazed into mine and we knew we loved each other. Not much later we got married. I have had many crushes, some flings and other adventures...

A.   15 September 2011: I totaly agree with you..What is tragic are the ones who fall inlove with our spouses and try and ruin it...As when you are married you are not looking for love we have it..Its those that dont just yet fall inlove with the ones who are not ... (read in full...)

I'm a reformed player and I'm completely in love with my ex, who has moved on with her life..

Q.   I am absolutely still in love with my ex girlfriend. We have been broken up for a year and 9 months. We havent spoken in about 4 months and our last conversation (by email) was civil at the begining, but grew very tense very quickly. This will pr...

A.   15 September 2011: Cheating has its punishments and you have now learnt from them.As soon as you met the one woman you truley loved your cheating ways had caught up with you..Its the trust thats gone its not because she can not forget you cheated..Its the trust that ... (read in full...)

How to keep a cheating husband interested

Q.   hello and im so happy to meet you my name is blondie im 48 years old im a mother and a grandmother i have 11 grand children now iv been in my marrige now for ten years but from the word get go i've always known there was something very wrong bu...

A.   15 September 2011: Being a loyal wife the husband should always be loyal in return..Marriage has vows..You stuck to your vows but he did not stick to his..Its not a game like some people are saying far from it..You just had enough of him letting you feel the way you ... (read in full...)

Last minute acceptance left no room for me?

Q.   My boyfriend was invited to a female friends birthday party he forgot to send the rsvp back in time. However he called her and she stated she did not have anymore space however she will make space only for him. Should I be mad that he is going ...

A.   15 September 2011: He should take you as you were both invited together in the first place..I feel its wrong he gose with out you...I am sure that he would not like it if the shoe was on the other foot..... (read in full...)

New Love - finally falling in love after an abusive relationship

Q.   Hello, I came out of a very nasty relationship just over a year ago, I spent six years being emotionally abused, nothing and I mean nothing was ever good enough about me or what I did. The abuse was constant resulting in me being a complete mess,...

A.   15 September 2011: You are afraid he will turn into what your last man was..But he wont..You are not used to finaly being treated the way you deserve with love and respect..Enjoy this happiness do not fight it and hold back..To hold back is making you unhappy and that ... (read in full...)

Can you be married and fall in love with another person?

Q.   Is it possible to fall in love with someone else when you are married?...

A.   15 September 2011: what another person told you here is true you must put those new feelings for your wife..You married for a reason to marry someone you must of been so inlove..The love for your wife is still there..What you are feeling for this new woman is more ... (read in full...)

I have feelings for my married friend. How do I handle them?

Q.   What do you do when you have fallen in love with your friend and he is already married and doesn't feel the same way about you? You have the same group of friends and see each other everyday. How do deal with this situation? It isn't easy for me ...

A.   14 September 2011: You answered your own question here that he dose not feel the same way about you.Plus he is married.You are not being fair to yourself torturing yourself having these one way feelings..He is being a friend to you and he is letting you know that he ... (read in full...)

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