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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My friend got close to me saying he wants to marry me. We got emotionally attached to each other very much and now due to his family problems he says he can not marry me. I tried to tell him how much it is hurting etc but he says he is sorry and asks me to forgive. Now he got engaged to some other girl chosen by his parents. I'm very much hurt and depressed. Please advice me what am i suppose to do now?
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 he is a grown man!! is he in a certain religion or ethnicity that his parents arranged his marriage? if not then he shouldnt let his parents do this. wat they are doing is wrong, and if he cant see this then maybe you should sit down and talk about it with his parents. did they know that you too were planning to marry yourselves? if u wanna talk about this more then email me and id be happy to talk this through with you xxx
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 Hi there babes,
This is hard for you I know, and probably just as hard for him, call him tell him is there anyway you could both talk to his parents about how you both feel about one an other...
If this is impossible then I am afraid your going to have to acept it with the hope he will get the strenght to go against what his parents want.......
You take care babes,
Hope it works out for you
Love Donna x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): im sorry to hear this but maybe you could tell him to talk to his parents and let them know how you feel about each other and how being enjaged to someone he doesnt love isnt a good thing ps back to me and tell me how it went
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reader, down to earth +, writes (16 July 2007):
 I THINK WHAT HIS PARENTS ARE DOING IS COMPLETELY WRONG.But if you think about it there is nothing you can really do i just think you should let it go i know you love him but there is really nothing more you can do.I really hope your going to be alryt if you ever need anyone to talk to you can always write to me.
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