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51-59,
*chweg
writes:After five and a half years my girlfriend has finally cut the cord. our only real problem was my baggage which i never dealt with. we tried living together but my issues prevented this from working. we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together and were trying for kids. we were even engaged for three months. we both believed in us but ultimately my issues destroyed us. she has jumped straight into another relationship with a man that could be my double. and i am finally dealing with my issues. she is willing to be friends at some point. am i wrong to believe that once i have taken these very important and overdue steps that we still have a chance. would i have the right ? she always said she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me and that is all i wanted. is it wrong to belive in a future with her ?
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (16 July 2007):
 Hi there babes,
If you have dealt with your issues hun, then I don't see why not, you just have to show her that you have put the past behind you and are able to start your life again...
You were engaged I don't think she has forgotten about you yet babes but she obviously had a hard time with you it must have been hard for her to understand and deal with too...
Let her know you love her and that you have now dealt with all the issues in your past, you may have to give her some time to work this out but what have you to loose ay hun,
She has started a new relationship so you do have to tread carefully babes,
Good luck
Love Donna xx
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (16 July 2007):
 I wouldn't say it's wrong for you to believe in a future with this girl, but don't hold on to a false hope. It'll do more damage in the long run.
Can you talk to her and ask her if once you have your issues sorted, there would be a chance for your relationship to try again?
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