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male
age
30-35,
*r poop
writes:hi my name is john and i am 14 years old and me and my girlfriend of 9 months recently broke up because i cheated with a female on the internet i cheated once before and she forgave me but i did it again and now she says she wants to be friends i have begged and pleade for her to come back to me i love her and dont know why i did it. Should i continue begging her or sholud i leave her alone
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reader, mr poop +, writes (30 July 2007):
mr poop is verified as being by the original poster of the question2 clear sumthing up all i did was send a female a message on the internet saying hi how r u doing
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reader, Uncle Trev  +, writes (29 July 2007):
It depends exactly what you mean when you say cheated. If it is cheating the way that one assumes then who can blame her for not wanting a relationship with you.
She is being more than reasonable still wanting to be a friend with you and you are lucky to still have her available in that capacity.
As for should you still keep begging?
Most definately no.
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reader, SleepingChrissie +, writes (29 July 2007):
 This is ridiculous. You should leave her alone. You are only 14 years old and cheating?!?! Cheating is wrong no matter what age. She shouldn't see you again because she is just setting herself and you up for failure. She has already taught you that it is okay to do it once. When you cheat on someone you lose all trust they had in you. If she did come back to you, she would always be suspicious of everything you do, even if you weren't lying. I hope you realize that the pain of her not coming back to you is nothing compared to the pain she felt when she found out you cheated on her.If you and her are in a "sexually active" relationship you are putting her at risk of bringing some STD to her. STD's are serious you will have to live the rest of you life with most STD's. No one wants one because they are so life threating. If you are "sexually active" and don't know what each STD's is or dose to you or what the symptoms are I suggest you ask your doctor, they will and have to keep it confidential or look it up online. If you want to look it up online try Webmd.Plus you've only been going out nine months, have you considered maybe she's not the person for you?
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (29 July 2007):
 Hi there babes,
I don't think talking to someone on the internet is actually cheating unless of couse this went futher, your only young babes, you have told her your sorry and you have tried begging, thats all you can really do, tell her you love her and would like to give it another go and leave the ball in her court if being friends is all she wants then give her her space show her you have changed and won't do it agin then who knows what will happen, chin up babes, and good luck
Love Donna xx
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (29 July 2007):
 I think you should leave her alone and let both of you get your heads around what has gone on. You have cheated on her TWICE mate. Put yourself in her shoes. You wouldn't feel to great now would you.
You need to give her time. Maybe she'll want to get back with you but by the sounds of it she doesn't. I would move on and try not to repeat what you have done.
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