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writes:What's the youngest age to fall in love? I'm 9 years old and i think that i've fallen in love with my friend's cousin who's 10. I've heard people say things like it's not possible to fall in love until you are an adult so now i'm confused whether i'm in love or not. My friend knows how i feel about her cousin but hasn't told him. Nor have i. Please help. Is it love or just a crush? I just love spending time with him and can't get him out of my head.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2007): I kind of know how you feel. I may not be as young as you, but I think you are crushing on him. I'm 14 and I am in a wonderful relationship with someone. We love eachother so much but I get told that i'm too young to be in love. I try to ignore them and make the moments last :]
I'm not entirely sure if you are in love right now at your age. What you have is a huge crush. Give yourself some time and you will know when you're in love. Enjoy being a preteen while it lasts. :]
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (23 July 2007):
 Well its unlikely that you fully know what love feels like, but that doesnt mean that you dont feel alot for him, not getting him out of your mind, is a sign of strong feelings. Maybe not love, but its just as important, and if you truly do like each other, it may grow into love, and first love is always the most important.
Awww! Bless.
:) xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2007): awww your not in love you just like him alot your too young to know what love is,what it feels like etc
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reader, GreenTea  +, writes (17 July 2007):
I think you don't really know what love is until you know what heartbreak is. And you wont know that your hearts been broken till its over.
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reader, chellepenn +, writes (16 July 2007):
You are not in love you just like him. Maybe think he is attractive or cute. You are too young to know what love even is.
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (16 July 2007):
 sorry to say but you are too young but the fact is i don't think anyone really knows what the right age tofall in love is. you are just having a big crush and i guess his the first aww you wil always remember your first crush i remember mine his name was from America and i used to go to church he came to England to visit and he was really good looking. just enjoy every moment of it someone ese will come along. goood luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): hey i am ten so i know how it feels, there will be many,many,many more boys so make the right decision. I like a guy too, and I have been with him alot. I can relate to your problem so much. hope this helps
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (16 July 2007):
 I gotta agree with the others that you may be a little young to fully understand love. Its most likely a crush that you have on your mates cousin
But overall i believe love is this complicted and i dont know when a person is truely in love
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): They say you're too young to be in love and it's true. Just enjoy the fact that you have a crush on someone, go with it but don't try and put labels on things. You have your whole life ahead of you.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (16 July 2007):
 Hi there babes,
Its very sweet you fancy your friends cousin, you enjoy getting to know him and doing things together which you have in common....As you get older there will have been loads of boys who have been in your life, just enjoy your youth because trust me it flys by....Be careful though your still very young.....
Hope this has helped you babes,
Take care
Love Donna xx
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (16 July 2007):
 I think you fancy the cousin. That doesn't make it any less important just because it isn't love.
I believe you can love someone at any age. At your age I think you are a little young and naieve to really understand what love is as there has to be certain physical attractions there that maybe you are too young to feel.
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