I need ideas on how to keep my jealousy under control!
Q. Hi there, I'm hoping you can help me out here! I'm in a 9-months-and-counting long-distance relationship with a girl quite a bit younger than me. By long distance I mean, an hour drive and I only get to see her on weekends (this is very hard on ...
A. 19 September 2006: Be unfaithful... then u'll worry about not being discovered hahha it's a joke dear try to relax and enjoy your love life
good luck
sorry about spelling
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I need ideas on how to keep my jealousy under control!
Q. Hi there, I'm hoping you can help me out here! I'm in a 9-months-and-counting long-distance relationship with a girl quite a bit younger than me. By long distance I mean, an hour drive and I only get to see her on weekends (this is very hard on ...
A. 19 September 2006: Be unfaithful... then u'll worry about not besing discovered hahha it's a joke dear try to relax and enjoy your love life
good luck... (read in full...)
Should I marry someone I am not in love with?
Q. Hello Agony Aunts and Uncles, My question is.....is it ok to settle with someone that you love but are not in love with?? I am debating as to whether marry my man, who is extremely good to me......however, I do know that I am not in love with ...
A. 19 September 2006: Well I think U R NERVOUSSSSSSSSSS about the weddin' he's nice and ok butterflies in your stomach are a teens' remembrance g'on darling it's ok anyway if it doesn't work u can divorc
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He's my boss, he's married and i love him
Q. i am 23 years old girl in love with my boss. He is married and has 2 kids. He's ready to leave his family for me. We are so much in love that we want to be together as soon as possible. We kissed each other passionately and that resulted in sex. Now ...
A. 19 September 2006: I think you just get horny about the situation not the man, think it over as it is high responsability to break up a family fof changing your mind about being entangled with a musch older man who has to give half his salary or more to his splitted ... (read in full...)
Should i wait for him to love me
Q. Should I wait for him? The man I hope to spend the rest of my life with is still not ready to move on with our relationship. His wife left him 3 yrs ago and we got together within weeks. He only wants me there when his kids are around. He hasn't ...
A. 19 September 2006: Send him to the gutter there're plenty of boys willing to meet you
good luck
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Things are going wrong between us young lovers... do you think she will want to stay with me?
Q. I have had a real hard time with my girlfriend for the past couple weeks. We've been dating for 2 years now, and I think this all started though because she started hanging around her friend more who likes rap music, goes to parties, and is ...
A. 17 September 2006: I think you should ditch her, it's hard but you deserve fun and love
good luck... (read in full...)
I went away and my boyfriend has gotten my mate pregnant!
Q. hi, ive just been on holiday for 2 months to celebrate my mom and dads engagment party. when i came back i found out my best friend was pregnant with my boyfriends baby. they said sorry and my boyfriend said he still loves me and keeps sending me...
A. 10 September 2006: Think if you want to forgive him or not though please do not talk to your best friend again, take your time ok? no need to hurry think that if you drop him they will end up together, I think you shoul forgive him if you kove him still if not let ... (read in full...)
Is there somebody for everybody? I'm 36 and never had anyone to call my partner. What's wrong?
Q. Is there somebody for everybody? Or is this just a fairy tale? What's wrong with me? I've kissed my share of frogs but no one turned into a prince. They all remained amphibians, happily jumping around in the mad. All my friends are married with...
A. 10 September 2006: concentrate on being nice to yourself and have lots of intresting things to do, the rest is not important you'll see how things happen on their own naturally
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First night out with and we had sex...now I think I'm pregnant! Should I tell him?
Q. I met this guy when i went back home this summer and on our first night out we slept together, later on we realised that we had been chatting on the internet for over a year and we both know a lot of things about each other so that made me feel ...
A. 10 September 2006: Well I have to tell you this... if you want to have the baby then tell him if not shut up but honestly I think he has the right to know though if you don't eant to have the baby and he wants it will mean deep shit
good luck... (read in full...)
My dad has just adjusted to my older bf...but now im pregant!!
Q. I recently wrote in about me and my 27 year old boyfriend. My dad is just coming around to the fact but now im pregnant. What should i do? Please help, any advice welcome. ...
A. 10 September 2006: I agree with the others tell your dad, he loves you and he will help you dear, plus a baby means responsability but it's a good thing luf
good luck... (read in full...)
Is he telling the truth??
Q. Why would a guy i like, that my best friend dated, say that he had sex with her but didn't cum? What should i do because my best friend only told me that she gave him a blow job so... i dont know if he is telling the truth...
A. 10 September 2006: OK why worrying? if they do not date anymore it's crab, forget it think only if you like the guy for a relationship or not it's nt important, everyone has a past I think she wants to hurt your relationship maybe she's jealous or maybe not but it's ... (read in full...)
I passed wind and my boyfriend dumped me!!!
Q. My fella has finished with me because i accidently passed wind!I said i was sorry but he wouldn't listen,he said i was disgusting.I really miss him,what shall i do?...
A. 8 September 2006: he's an idiot find a new guy
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Is he really getting married or was he lying?
Q. A guy that I care about recently told me he was getting married it was only me and him around, he told me his wedding date but when I asked him her name or who she was he didn't tell me. Why is that? Is he really getting married or lying, should I ...
A. 1 September 2006: Well to be honest I think he wants to give you the sack if heas interested he wouldn't say he is to marry unless he considered you a slut sorry to say... (read in full...)
My fiancee is leaving me and I just can't seem to get on with life. Please help
Q. Hi there. I need help on how to get through what I'm going through. My wife-to-be is leaving me and I just can't seem to get on with work or life. Please help...
A. 31 August 2006: Do not panic, it is all for the best if she doesn't love you then she doesn't deserve you ok? Hold on you see that things will go on well and you'll find the right person dear love... (read in full...)
Whats wrong with ginger?!!
Q. Hi, I dont understand, my boy mate has ginger hair and he finds it really dificult to get girlfriends. but I dont understand it, I have been out with ginger boys, I love ginger hair :D so why wont other girls go out with ginger haired boys???...
A. 30 August 2006: I find ginger quite sexy can you introduce him to me???? serious I think sexy is a personality thing not to do with colour, maybe he is shy or not used to dating I wouldn't blame it on being ginger, many ginger men are absulutelly good looking ... (read in full...)
He said we could live together once he is retired
Q. Iv been having a relationship with a man for 3 years,he has never been married or has had kids.He works away during the week because he is in the RAF and he comes down to see me at weekends though i have spent some time at his house during the ...
A. 29 August 2006: I think he sounds sensible to me it is goo for your children dear and also for you emotional and economic independence, I think you'll have time to decide if he's adequate for you and your children so that you can settle together imagine your ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with him but what shall I do?
Q. what shall i do? im in love with this boy i met on camp hes was one of the leaders and hes my m8ts brother.Hes 18 and going 2 cambridge university and after my mates party i will never see him again its really strange because i keep having these dr...
A. 29 August 2006: do not worry ask him for his e-mail and phone and text him and sell e-mails, as you know his sister you'll see him on holidays and can even organise a trip to visit him so that he takes you out downtown to a cuople of places, I am sure you will meet ... (read in full...)
It went cold and just wants to be friends, what can I do ?
Q. I had been going out with this boy for 2 weeks and he ended it while i was holiday. he told my friends it wasnt working but we had only met up 1 since we had been together coz he was then ill and i then went to france for 10 days. At the start of ...
A. 29 August 2006: Leave it darling... he wants to have fredoom to be with other women, in france or in your place and not loosing ypu at the same time, this guy is not a good thing experience talks.. love... (read in full...)
I tried a move on him and he rejected me
Q. Please I need some advice, because I have totally made myself look like an "ass". Basically, I was going out with a man for many many years, and we broke up a couple of months ago. So, we decided to meet up for the first time ever since our break ...
A. 28 August 2006: DO NOT WORRY IT IS NORMAL
you were a couple for a long time it was smething automatic, say it to him you felt like kissing him as u used to and it happens, I think he is scared of trying again just that
be friends is an option if something has to h... (read in full...)
She did the breaking up and now she "changed her mind"
Q. Hi, a girl I was seeing for a month recently broke up with me. She said that she had "changed her mind" about being with me. However, several days after the break up, she texted me a message in the middle of the night that read; "I feel so bad about ...
A. 28 August 2006: I think you should consider why she broke up with you or why the relationship didn't work at all I think that not answering was a bit harsh, maybe you can be friends for a time and see what happens, but I think you should have a chat
good luck... (read in full...)
I like the girl my ex run off with, but im sure he just thinks im trying to wind him up!
Q. Last year my ex split up with me for another girl. I was so upset and it took me months to get over it. I havnt spoke to my ex since, and dont want to either, but the other night I got talking to his girlfriend and realised that I actually like her. ...
A. 28 August 2006: I think you should not worry about what that idiot boy thinks about you, have a good time, you owe him nothing if he is paranoic about you and her talking about him it tis not your business simply ignore him you're not Saint Theressa you're a ... (read in full...)
What do I wear to my homecoming do? "Red Carpet" is the theme. Any ideas?
Q. Homecoming is almost here!! What do i wear?? The theme is the red carpet......
A. 28 August 2006: Definitely something really sexy and comfy like Nicole Kidman in Oscar awards Night
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He used to want marriage and kids, now he doesn't? Do I leave him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together almost four years. He's 23, I'm 27. We have talked about marriage off and on for most of it, and we always talked about having one child (he certainly doesn't want more.) Now, he's declaring that he doesn't EVER ...
A. 28 August 2006: Well dear do not panic, he loves you still the point is you must find out if he's teasing you so you care more about him or if he really feels like never settling down with you, if you find out this is the situation and you decide not to cope with ... (read in full...)
I'm having sex with my third cousin. Is this wrong?
Q. Recently i have been having sex with my third cousin, it's been going on for the past month now, i really really enjoy it, and i feel like i love him, i cant get him out of my head. But when im not with him i think about the what ifs and get really ...
A. 27 August 2006: It is not important dear go on if you like the boy ... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex with my married cousin!
Q. dear cupid. I'm in desperate need of guidance. Since having unprotected sex with my cousin I'm worried I might be pregnant. He has a wife and four children that he lives with and another child that he has refused to see for 14 years. What do i do???...
A. 27 August 2006: I'm very sorry dear... I suppose your're young or that you just let yourself go in the wrong direction, where you drunk? TRY NOT TO DO IT AGAIN OK? Please have a pregnancy test, if you had sex with him in the last 72 hours you can still have the ... (read in full...)
How do you ask someone out? Tips needed!
Q. How do u ask someone out?. i am 17 and i have asked people out before and when they said yes id regret it, But there is a guy i am falling for hard, and i dont know how to ask him out, it is harder this time cause i know i like him alot. plea...
A. 27 August 2006: Try to find out something he likes doning and you like to, talk to him and say.. oh by the way I have tickets for this concert or we could go to watch that film or I love rugby there's a match but my friends don't go would you like to come? just do ... (read in full...)
Trying to decide between two guys...who do I pick?
Q. Hello, I need some help and advice. I have to decide between two men and I just dont know what to do. One is my ex. He makes my heart beat faster and when he touches me its like electric shocks go through me, ive never felt this with any...
A. 27 August 2006: I would go on with both for a time, no bed involved and try to find out which one could do as a good boyfriend, that means trustable, loving and of course sexy good luck... (read in full...)
Will my best friend say no if I ask her out?
Q. There is this girl i really like. She is my best friend and I think i love her but I don't want to ask her out incase she says no. What should i do?...
A. 24 August 2006: OHHHHHHHHHHHHH Sorry last part of the answer is:
1) If she says yes... perfect!!!!
2) If she says no say you're sorry and that her friendship is really important for you and you hope this won't affect it so much but that you REALLY would like to ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin at 38 years old...do I tell this to my new guy?
Q. I have just met the man of my dreams, but i dont know whether i should tell him i am a virgin at 38 as he might think i am some sort of weirdo or something or will he work it out for himself, also as he is thin i am over weight he has not mentioned ...
A. 24 August 2006: I would recommend you to wait a bit to study his behavour and decide if you would like to have sex with him or not, I told my first boyfriend about it and he seemed o idiot to me as he told me his friends-just met- thought it was weird, I broke up ... (read in full...)
Will my best friend say no if I ask her out?
Q. There is this girl i really like. She is my best friend and I think i love her but I don't want to ask her out incase she says no. What should i do?...
A. 24 August 2006: I think you should invite her to dinner and for a drink and talk to her and see what happens... (read in full...)
Me and my fiance are stuck in an expensive rut!
Q. Hi, Im with my fiancee over a yr now and lately im beginning to get bored and fedup of the same routine of doing things.We are both in our early 30s, with good jobs and fell in love very quickly when we met.She has a habit of wanting to stay ...
A. 24 August 2006: If you are a couple you should talk about it, tell her yo cannot afford it on your own as you would like to save up for a rainy day... if you're to be a couple you are to be responsible about each other's money, I think that to share a flat or rent ... (read in full...)
10 ideas for things to do tonight?
Q. I'm bored, and at my Dad's place so can't hook up with friends. Begging for 10 ideas for things I can do tonight?...
A. 24 August 2006: This are my ideas they can be combined or done on their own
1. Call a friend and invite him round
2. watch a film
3. dance
4. have a hot bath
5.cook
6.practice a sport
7. listen to music
8. sing
9. write a list of things you want to change ... (read in full...)
I orgasm when I got the loo!! Seriously how can I can stop this ?
Q. Ok I need some serious help. About two years ago I started doing kegel exercises every day. Needless to say it really helped. I experience way, way better orgasms, and I can grab a hold of things a alot better. If you know what I mean. Now sometimes ...
A. 23 August 2006: Hello dear I think it's a good thing to have an orgasm I sometimes have orgasms when I sleep I sometimes feel multiorgasmic, I think you should enjoy and be happy... try to have a loo timetable, it is not impossible and go on you'll get it if not, ... (read in full...)
Boy moved on after I said no to sex. Depressed and feel down :(
Q. I have a problem dating men most times, because a boy I liked very very much asked me for sex on our second or third date while I keep telling him I liked him but that I preferred knowing them better to see if we could have a relationship and this ...
A. 17 August 2006: Thanks very much for your support I feel more relaxed now as I see there is still people who cares about feelings, I am going on a weekend trip to my best friend's house this afternoon as there are many festivals and parties there by the sea these ... (read in full...)
Should I just kiss him first or wait until he makes the move?
Q. Alright....This Adam Guy asked me (finally) if I wanted to be his "girl." Well, I said yes, of course. It's been about 1 week and 3 days and he still hasn't kissed me?? Should I kiss him first. There has been about 2 or 3 times when It could've ...
A. 17 August 2006: GO FOR IT! maybe he is shy or maybe he doesn't want to be rude c'on is not that hard love... (read in full...)
At 16 I was raped-is this why I am not into sex with my bf?
Q. ok.. i think i might be having a problem.. me and my boyfriend have been together for 1year and 5months and we have been living together for 7months and right now our sex life really isnt going anywhere.. he is all about sex but i have never been ...
A. 17 August 2006: Probably it hs to do with it somehow but you should also consider that maybe you don't feel like having sex with him at all, if he is not motivating you in other areas or life or traeting you like a perfectly normal person who just doesn't feel like ... (read in full...)
I am a virgin and my ex wants sex wih me
Q. My x boyfriend and me are still like really good friends and he wants to have sex... But Im still a virgin and Im affraid that it might hurt.. And I want to know if i should or not.? He told me that he doesnt want me to do stuff that i dont want ...
A. 16 August 2006: I think he is little concerned about getting your relationship back and to concerned about breaking you in, sorry to tell you but I think he wants to be the first to have sex with you and pretends to be tender by sayong he is not to obligue you in a ... (read in full...)
I am a virgin and my ex wants sex wih me
Q. My x boyfriend and me are still like really good friends and he wants to have sex... But Im still a virgin and Im affraid that it might hurt.. And I want to know if i should or not.? He told me that he doesnt want me to do stuff that i dont want ...
A. 16 August 2006: I think he is little concerned about getting your relationship back and to concerned about breaking you in, sorry to tell you but I think he wants to be the first to have sex with you and pretends to be tender by sayong he is not to obligue you in a ... (read in full...)
Ladies:- Being a toned guy would it be better to wear Briefs or boxers ?
Q. Lady's. im am an athletic build and my whole body is toned. would wearing briefs turn a girl off or would boxers be the best option?...
A. 16 August 2006: Boxers dear it's the best choice
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Hes still seeing the ex and is VERY much in contact! Should I stay or walk away ?
Q. I have known my partner as a friend for 4 years. We became an item on New Years Eve then at the end of January he called it off to go back to his ex. he was back in feb and we gave it another go. We were happy and got engaged in June, then went ...
A. 16 August 2006: Do you love him? ask yourself this question then if you like him tell him you won't allow more moves with his ex and that you'll leave him next time... anyway he doesn't deserve your love and commitment but leaving him would be like surender to his ... (read in full...)
Hes still seeing the ex and is VERY much in contact! Should I stay or walk away ?
Q. I have known my partner as a friend for 4 years. We became an item on New Years Eve then at the end of January he called it off to go back to his ex. he was back in feb and we gave it another go. We were happy and got engaged in June, then went ...
A. 16 August 2006: Do you love him? ask yourself this question then if you like him tell him you won't allow more moves with his ex and that you'll leave him next time... anyway he doesn't deserve your love and commitment but leaving him would be like surender to his ... (read in full...)
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