My fiance treats his sister the same as he treats me! I doubt anyone would be able to tell who he is actually in a relationship with!!
Q. My fiancee has a very close relationship with his sister if we are all together no one would be able to tell who is the sister and who is the girlfriend. I get very jealous as eveything he does with me he does with her and 9 out of 10 times when we ...
A. 27 June 2007: I think u're a bit jealous but just to check ask some friends to tell u if u think this behaviour they have is normal I have an older brother and we do not do the things he does with his girl u know, it's nothing to do but we're not very closed to ... (read in full...)
Should I confess to my husband about my risque past?
Q. Ok im a 20 year old female and im married and today me and my husband were talkin about how many sex partners weve had over the years and what not, and i told him that ive been with 12 men but that was a lie. you see me and him starting dating when ...
A. 24 June 2007: well if he asked u you maybe u should not pretend u were virgin when u married but to get into details which have hurt u enough by now ans which could undermine your relationship is not a very good idea from my point of view but It's up to u if you ... (read in full...)
My brother cheated on his wife and now I am afraid to date incase it happens to me
Q. Okay, I have this thing... I am absolutely terrified of men! My older brother cheated on his wife and left his children, and since then I have been paralyzed when it comes to dating. I figure, man that was my brother and I thought I knew him, what ...
A. 24 June 2007: m brother in law cheated on my sister and after lots of quarreling they both assumed their part of responsibility and have made up for it, I think unfaithdfulness is not the worst thing which can happen to a couple and they sometimes cam make up for ... (read in full...)
He's going holidaying with another girl and I feel left out
Q. my boyfriend is going travelling for 6 months with another girl... ive been with him for 2 years and truly beleive he'll be the guy i marry..hes wanted to travel long before i met him and a few months ago he was like im going to book travelli...
A. 24 June 2007: I do not like him doing this to u he's so mean and morevover going with a girl I think u should drop him dear u can try talking to him but I think it's going to be complicated so maybe u should gat distant
good luck... (read in full...)
Was he just trying to get back at me?
Q. hey cupids, i like to get some advice from the males today please, (females welcome too) apologies as its long winded! i dumped my ex bout 3 years ago id been divorced the year before so wanted to play the field (didnt cheat on him) he has always ...
A. 24 June 2007: I think u're right to think this is a mess when indeed it is the only way to know what'a going on is to talk to him but it's complicated as he may take ventage or your love feelings getting back to you just to have sex and so on I recommend to relax ... (read in full...)
Am I considered a slut if I gave one guy a blow-job and kissed another who has a girlfriend, both in the same week?
Q. I am so confused!! In the last week i gave a guy a blow job and made out with another guy who has a girlfriend! I dont really try these things but i like both of these guys and they came on to me. Would i be considered a slut?...
A. 18 May 2007: ur too young for sex, it's not just a game men can try to use u up if ur so open minded or liberated so take care or in a a month u'll get an easy-girl reputation darling, so not panic just slow down, men r double sided most time they tell u it's ok ... (read in full...)
He says he likes me more than a friend but I don't particularly find him physically attractive although he has a terrific personality!
Q. ok i really really like my friends personality, hes just like me, we have so many things in common and get on so well, we can talk for hours. thing is hes told me he likes me more then a friend and im confused as i honestly dont find he physically ...
A. 8 April 2007: I agree with soulsister if you do not like him so much you should not force it or you maybe will closind the door to a real love realtionship so be friends and that's cool enough love... (read in full...)
I started to have sex a month ago, now I've had 6 guys and feel I just can't say no!!!!
Q. I had never had sex until about a month ago. now I have already had sex with six guys and it's almost like I can't say no anymore .. and I cant stop . What do I do ?...
A. 8 April 2007: I think you have to give yourself a rest and maybe ask a tutor for counseling, better if it's a girl so she can understands you better, there is nothing wrong about enjoying sex but you have a responsability towards yourself, your mental and ... (read in full...)
I keep finding girls things in his apartment, am I over analysing here or is he cheating on me?
Q. I hope I'm not being incredibly naive about this but could this all just be a bunch of coincidences? My b/f just moved into his own apartment (Feb '07) and the people who lived there previously left some stuff there. He has friends over a lot and ...
A. 3 April 2007: I think u are right something is obviously going on and the only thing left to do is drop him or investigate and find out anyway you'll get over it it doesn look easy to me dear, be prepared to drop him... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems to be getting lazier and I just feel used by him.
Q. Okay, i am having a huge problem and i really need some advice on. I have been dating this guy for a little over a year, but in the past few months he has got lazy. When he is at my house or when im at his, he always says " hey babe, can you go get ...
A. 3 April 2007: Try to take him to do things outdoors or to the gym, a weekend out a sunday picnic so that he gets happy and active help him enjoy life... (read in full...)
Would a guy waste time talking to a girl online if he just wanted to be friends?
Q. Okay so I recently signed up for an online dating site. I met this guy, we added each other to msn and have been talking everyday for about a month now. We have talked some days for 7 hours! We have a really good time talking to each other, and we ...
A. 3 March 2007: probably he'd testing it both ways to see if u can b a partner too and not just a friend... (read in full...)
My wife died..and I want to get close to her twin. Would my wife have wanted this?
Q. my wife passed away i want to get close to her twin would my wife want us to be happy...
A. 17 February 2007: I must say that If died and the 2 people I loved most that's to say my sister and my husband would get together as they live it would be absolutely ok for me and I would even like them taking care of each other and so on but if you realise she is ... (read in full...)
Three is definitely becoming a crowd! Do I hurt my ex or lie to my GF?
Q. My ex still needs my conversation but my GF isn't taking it well. Advice? I was living with a woman ten years older than I since i was 17. At 25, I lost physical attraction and left her for someone I had strong attraction too. I also moved 400 m...
A. 15 February 2007: I cannot say I like your attitude as you only care anout your feelings and now the problem seem only YOU you should tell the true to tem both and en of story yo fucked with the old girl until she was unatracctive and at first she probably helped u ... (read in full...)
Are successful relationships possible after the person has cheated?
Q. has anyone ever taken back a person who has cheated on them, and things had ended up good and happy?...
A. 15 February 2007: My friend's husband cheated on her and after a quareling and crisis period she forgave him as she considered she works too much to earn money for the family and tried to slow down her working rythm a bit, she also considered that divorced would en ... (read in full...)
My own insecurites are causing me to think he is judging me when I'm on top during sex!
Q. my boyfriend says he gets tired of being on top when we're having sex. But me being on top just feels awkward. I feel so vulnerable and judged. I know I probably shouldnt feel this way with someone I love and its not a question of can we be open to ...
A. 15 February 2007: I do not think he has the time for thinking so much about those issues when ur on top he's only thinking about sex and how much fun he's having that's sure so If you want to work your body go to the gym and so on sweety but sure he's not judging but ... (read in full...)
I asked him to the prom he said he had a girlfriend but he'll go as my friend the the girlfriend won't mind!!!! You reckon that's the truth?
Q. I asked a guy to prom as friends, but I like him as more than a friend. He said yes, that he'd like to. I kinda laughingly replied that I was surprised cause I was so sure that he had a girlfriend. He said he does, but that she won't mind if we just ...
A. 11 February 2007: He probably has a girlfriend and that's it or if he doesn't he doesn't want to comit, if u hold romantic feelings for him u should go alone or look arounf for new interests as it could hurt u very mugood luck and do nt waste marvellous time ... (read in full...)
Send a guy-friend a "f***-me-now" text when I was drunk... now I'm worried he'll take it literally!
Q. I'm in need of advice... I got really drunk the other night and i sent this guy a text saying i want to f**k him and the next morning he texts me saying "i can help you with that" and i read it haveing know clue what he is talking about so i look ...
A. 11 February 2007: Advice on this point is easy to follow
1.explain u were drunk and you absolutely repent it, invite him sober for a cofee or just phone if u feel safer on the phone
2. do not ever get drunk again in men's company only on little girls party ... (read in full...)
Why do men bed you and then tell you...they have a gf?
Q. Why do men lie to women and try to take them to bed you refuse and then they tell you they have a girlfriend and that they did not want anything but to be friends and then their upset girlfriend answers their phone when you phone to tell this guy ...
A. 9 February 2007: thanks for your nice answers I know there must be some lovely guy out there who's right for me and doesn't mind about waiting but it gets hard to find these bstards on the way that can only turn my spirits low
thanks to u all
love... (read in full...)
Why do men bed you and then tell you...they have a gf?
Q. Why do men lie to women and try to take them to bed you refuse and then they tell you they have a girlfriend and that they did not want anything but to be friends and then their upset girlfriend answers their phone when you phone to tell this guy ...
A. 7 February 2007: Well the fact is I did not go to bed though I was quite tempted I told him I'd rather know him better that's why he started to get nervous and in the end confessed he hada a girlfriend as insisted we could be friends so I that I told him about my ... (read in full...)
He constantly moans that women no longer admire him. I think this is very disrespectful to me...what do you all think?
Q. i believe my partner is very disrespecting to me,he constantly moans how awful he looks and women no longer look at him,i tell him how beautiful he is and i fancy him like hell and all that matters is how i see him.if he was happy with me would he ...
A. 6 February 2007: I agree with the others he may need to feel youg and good looking maybe he's seeing himself with a foot in the pensioner's club and feels depressed as he would like to have a cool look and sex drive but make him sure u are ok and won't chnage him ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my sick friend who is unpunctual and alwayswanting me to do things for her?
Q. My best friend suffers from cancer and she's recovering but she has always ben vey unpunctual and I never complain yesterday she was 30 min late and did not even bring the mobile with her so that I could contact her, I went back home and she started ...
A. 6 February 2007: yeah thanks it helps a lot I'll try to be late to or just meet her ony when I have more friends around so that I do not have to be alone so long in the street or a bar, though not I'm not jealous I'm happy she has more friends to hang around but I ... (read in full...)
I'm scared if I try to hold her hand she'll pull away... then everyone will be embarrased!
Q. i reli lyk dis gurl. she told me on dat she wud luv to get flowers n a card on valentines day as she never has b4. cud this be a hint 4 me? shes reli busy so we never get to meet. ive asked to go movies wid her n she said ye but durin holidays ...
A. 4 February 2007: u can just try and see what happens if ur going out then it would be normal thing to happen
good luck... (read in full...)
What do I get him???
Q. hi, Me an my bf have been together for a month and we are both 16. Valentines day is coming up! What shall i get him!?! He likes mini's (the cars 'mini'). He has calanders and posters an stuff up in his room cos he just really likes the look o...
A. 4 February 2007: you can rent a mini and go on a trip to sctoland ireland or wherever to have some funa nd stuff
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In order to support my kids, I have to work out of town. They hate me for this and only email when they need money. I'm hurting so much!
Q. im far away from my 2 kids, i love them dearly but i got no choice to be far from them, i have to work to support them for what they needs. the problem is they are now growing from my parents, and they hated me being far from them they dont even ...
A. 30 January 2007: I think you should make them see they are lucky by havin a mom that can stand up for herself and living and mantaining a family by her own means meaybe take them to the red cross or to charity organizations to see how other people and maybe obligue ... (read in full...)
The only time he tells me he loves me, is when he is drunk! Does he mean it?
Q. i am friends with a guy and lately have ended up sleeping with him a few times. I wasn't sure at first how much i liked him, was it just friends or did i like him more. When i asked him about it he just said he wanted to be friends, he wasn't ready ...
A. 29 January 2007: It means he is a drunkard plain as that u cam try to help him put of it but if he's not to be your man you better gaet away soon
love... (read in full...)
His gf accused me of messing with him, when all I did was try to tell him to stop texting me! What should I do?
Q. Boy I had dated and behaved like a pig started to communicate back with me on a friendship basis. I notice he has been lying to me for 1 year and sent him message back so he replies telling me he couldn't talk as gf in the house, I get upset and do ...
A. 29 January 2007: Thanks ur right I ask myself why I got in such shit I think I wanted to hurt myself in a subconscious way or something
thanks... (read in full...)
She wants to be with me and I want to be with her but her boyfriend found out and beat her up! Should I still go for it?
Q. hi, i have a freind i have only known for about a year, he's 39 (im 21) we met when we started work in the same bar. he started bringing his girlfreind (37) to work on saturday nights and after a few months his girlfreind asked me for my number. i ...
A. 28 January 2007: u should try to help her out of the situation but it's up to u a good person would help good luck... (read in full...)
After we had sex--I found out he injects heroin! Can I get HIV from him?
Q. hi ppl.this is a really serious question. I have just split with my boyfriend and yesterday i found out that while i was with him he was on heroine, and in fact has been injecting for 12 months. I had no idea about this!!anyway i had sex with him, ...
A. 28 January 2007: You probably do not have it but remind how serious it could be next time ur exposed, u should take a test just in case yo may need medication and treatment I have read some spanish articles and u can have a normal life for a very long period of ... (read in full...)
I fancied him then fancied his flatmate and then fancied him again and now fancy his flatmate, yet once again! what can I do?
Q. I dated this guy for 2 weeks and then finished with him as i really fancied his flatmate. I started dating his flatmate and we had a really great time and great sex for three weeks. I still see my ex at least three times a week at uni and it bought ...
A. 28 January 2007: Drop them both and take a fresh new starta after a relax period
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Whenever I go to make love to a woman, I can't get my ex out of my head! I still love her. How do I deal with this?
Q. Hi all. I'm having a hard time getting over my ex; we had a torrid affair for many years until she broke up with me 4 months ago. We've seen each other many times since and had sex on most occasions but I sense that the passion for her is not the ...
A. 28 January 2007: It is normal and will go away from your head as time goes by and you relax and get accustomed to the new situation
love... (read in full...)
Should I get back with my handsome ex...even though I don't trust him?
Q. My ex sent me a photo in underwear, he's really good looking and wants me back but he was so beasty to me in the past... he wanted sex from the first day and I refused so he told me he had just asked to check if I was a slut and then kept on asking ...
A. 22 January 2007: Yeah I'm going to follow your advice though it gets hard to think that somebody u really wanted to love u so much is so mean na keeps on moving the same way I would like to think he's different now,thanks for ur timE i quite like fords though they ... (read in full...)
Should I get back with my handsome ex...even though I don't trust him?
Q. My ex sent me a photo in underwear, he's really good looking and wants me back but he was so beasty to me in the past... he wanted sex from the first day and I refused so he told me he had just asked to check if I was a slut and then kept on asking ...
A. 22 January 2007: Yeah I'm going to follow your advice though it gets hard to think that somebody u really wanted to love u so nuch is so mena na keeps on moving the same way I would like to think he's different now,thanks for ur time... (read in full...)
She wants to be friends but should I still ask her out on a date for Valentine's Day?
Q. i want to ask this girl i really like out on valentines day. before i went on holiday i asked her out on msn, she said she just wants to be friend's right now. i went on holiday for 4weeks. now i'm back. suprisingly every girl who rejects me never ...
A. 21 January 2007: of course not u'll scare her and she will move on from u as a friend too, leave her alone give her space and then maybe she will come back
ciao ... (read in full...)
I need to know...how do you know if a girl is attracted to you?
Q. how do you know if a girl is attracted to you. I have talked to a few girls who I find attractive but look like they don't find me attractive. whilst ones who seem to flirt with me I don't find attractive or they could just be taking the piss. A...
A. 21 January 2007: ask her... (read in full...)
Is it normal to touch yourself when having an orgasm?
Q. IS IT NORMAL TO TOUCH YOURSELF WHEN HAVING AN ORGASM?...
A. 21 January 2007: Only if you like it... (read in full...)
He's an internet junkie - how can they be cured?
Q. my husband is an internet junkie and its going to split us up helllp please...
A. 21 January 2007: sned him to golf classes and pblige him to be there 3 ours a day so that he socialises u can also enrole hiking clasees or go on trips and excursions all over the weekend, sex imporvement maybe would catch his attention as a las resource throw the ... (read in full...)
My fiancee ran his hand down this girl's back at the bar he hangs out in... what does it mean!?
Q. What does it mean when you are out drinking at a bar with your fiance' that you are marrying in four months and you see him run his hand down another girls back as she is walking by? From top to bottom not touching her butt or anything? I know if a ...
A. 21 January 2007: Maybe he did it naturally without thinkin about it as he's accustomed to do it to u all the time, I wpouldn't be that mad at it, if he wanted to drop u he would
ciao... (read in full...)
Can a girl get pregnant on her period?
Q. Well me and my girl have been together for 18 months and last week on friday 3 days before her period was over i had decided to have unprotected sex with her and wanted to know if you can get preganant while on your period?...
A. 21 January 2007: It's not likely but drefinitely yes there's still a high range of possibilities that women can be ovulating at the same time independently from the blood discharge caused by the period as cycles are not regular, it used to be tought to be a ... (read in full...)
Torn between 2 women! Do I tell my ex gf 'thanks but no thanks'?
Q. I dated a friend of mine for about a month, then we decided we were better off as friends. So we moved on, and I started going out with this lovely girl who I absolutely love to pieces. But then today, me and the old girlfriend hooked up because she ...
A. 20 January 2007: Ok I boy has just done to me what u describe, went back to the old girlf and tells me loves me to pieces but he oesn't desn't want to feel like this cos he feel more obliged to be with the other one plus they sometimes have sex, it's the second time ... (read in full...)
Am I just his back-up girlfriend?
Q. Well i like this guy and everyone at school told me that he liked me to and he even asked me to the movies but i found out that he has a girlfriend in a city that is three hours away he told my friend that he liked me but basically using me as a ...
A. 20 January 2007: yes dear you have to drop him he's treating u mean ... (read in full...)
I want him to show me affection and not just during sex. I don't know what to do.
Q. hey. my boyfriend doesn't know how to show love or affection. he can't cuddle me or kiss me unless there is another reason. the only time i ever feel this real love and affection is when we are having sex. i know he isn't just with me for t...
A. 19 January 2007: I need love and affection 2 , I felt like that about aboy I dated I always hughed him and hold his hand sometime, try to cuddle him or embrace him while he wa talking on the phone while we toghether in the sofe but he was so cold.... he would never ... (read in full...)
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