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It went cold and just wants to be friends, what can I do ?

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Question - (29 August 2006) 6 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2006)
A female United Kingdom, kat14 writes:

I had been going out with this boy for 2 weeks and he ended it while i was holiday. he told my friends it wasnt working but we had only met up 1 since we had been together coz he was then ill and i then went to france for 10 days. At the start of the holiday he text me saying he missed me n stuff but then he suddenly stopped texting me. the next text i recieved was him saying he was so sorry but can we just b mates.

i dont understand why he did this any ideas. what can i do about it now i rele like him i have never liked anyone as much.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2006):

I no u can really like sum from the off but the other person doesnt always feel the same, sorrry to say this i dont mean to hurt u, but he probly found sum one else while u was away, u sound young enough to pick yourself and get back out there girl, u could get a few more set backs before u meet mr right honey.

Keep ya chin babe

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A male reader, ogga +, writes (29 August 2006):

perhaps he didnt enjoy it or couldnt see being in a elationship with you because after all it was only two weeks, and he probably just didnt enjoy it or something, i dunno u'll have to ask him

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A female reader, shell26 +, writes (29 August 2006):

Dear confused, I think your asking the wrong people what you should do when the answer your looking for is with him. Just ask him why he changed his mind and if he still feels the same way then try to be friends. Just look at it this way atleast it was only 2 weeks cause if it was 2 years you would really be hurting.

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A female reader, Astrid Spain +, writes (29 August 2006):

Astrid agony auntLeave it darling... he wants to have fredoom to be with other women, in france or in your place and not loosing ypu at the same time, this guy is not a good thing

experience talks..

love

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A female reader, helpful girl United Kingdom +, writes (29 August 2006):

helpful girl agony auntthis is just a typicall boy they always mess you around. the best thing you can do when youve thought this through is be his friend, then adventually hell realise how great your getting on if you do get on great as friends then hell want you back. or maybe he just doesnt want to be in a ralationship yet and wants to get to know you properly first. you have 2 options and only you can decide which one to go for its rather stay friends with him and act like a friend to him. or ask him straight up and get the answer you want from him. think about it before chooseing which one your going to do.

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A female reader, bonnismiles +, writes (29 August 2006):

bonnismiles agony auntmaybe he no ready for a relaionship tell him how youfeel and see what he says there could be a few reasons why he has done this maybe he was scared of losing you and thought it would easie if he done that why dont you just come out and ask him cheersxx

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