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Why cant I seem to leave this guy behind?

Q.   I've been texting with a guy I met at uni years ago. The thing is we ended up having cybersex, I didn't really have fun but I thought maybe we could date sometime go put or something, the thing is he is not willling to and appears and disappears in ...

A.   28 September 2010: Thanks... I didn't post sexual photos though he may have pics from my facebook... yes I feel cheap and yes I feel down and yes I feel I need attention and thought maybe I could change this guy an turn him into a date or boyfriend, I feel quite ... (read in full...)

His cousin raped me yet he blames me for him cheating on me

Q.   i have no idea what to call this i am so confused and have been through alot u can say from my bf. the beginning was good he treated me very good up until he found out about my past. I had kept a dark secret from him. I was raped by his cousin b...

A.   20 December 2009: I Think u shpuld get away from this family as soon as possible... (read in full...)

I told my net lover I'm a larger cup-size and now he wants to meet me

Q.   Hey guys, Im 24 and i met an amazing guy in a chatroom and we hit it off right away.We had great chemistry from the start.Although it was all cybersex i didnt even realise he'd fall for me the way he did. He writes me the most romantic messages...

A.   20 December 2009: I think he won't mind tell him... (read in full...)

Should I recommend her to divorce???

Q.   My best friend suffered a lot cos her husband cheated on her and passed onto her a sexually transmitted disease. Now she's found somebody and they ocasionally have sex and she's thinking about divorce as her husband never apologised and doesn'r ...

A.   7 December 2009: Yes the problem is cheating started like a sort of revenge and made her realise she's not happy with her marriage, I'm worried she may repent if she goes on with the cheating and ends up in divorce, sometimes I feel she's a bit selfish for getting ... (read in full...)

Flirting by text and now he has stopped. I don't know if he is in a relationship.

Q.   I came across a class mate from uni in facebook and he and I added each other as friends, he asked me for my mobile and started to text me funny messages about how cool, pretty etc... I was and stuff, then he started asking me for details about my ...

A.   12 September 2009: Hello dear friend I want to thank you for your sensible advice and for taking the time to think about my issue I think your completely right and I will follow your recommendation ... (read in full...)

Why do I feel guilty about having fun sex?

Q.   I'm a 19 year old girl and came out of a 2 and half year relationship in about May of this year. The other night I spent the night with a guy I have known about a week, he is a friend of a friend. We get on really well and he's great and good ...

A.   11 September 2009: I think it was right for you to have sex then, you felt like it and you're not in a relationship so what's the point in getting so nervous after it, if you had safe sex then it's ok, maybe what happens is you just notice you prefer to have a long ... (read in full...)

Why do I feel guilty about having fun sex?

Q.   I'm a 19 year old girl and came out of a 2 and half year relationship in about May of this year. The other night I spent the night with a guy I have known about a week, he is a friend of a friend. We get on really well and he's great and good ...

A.   11 September 2009: I think it was right for you to have sex then, you felt like it and you're not in a relationship so what's the point in getting so nervous after it, if you had safe sex then it's ok, maybe what happens is you just notice you prefer to have a long ... (read in full...)

Can I make my period come sooner or later?

Q.   I'm going on vacation with my best friend on the 24th and I'm susposed to get my period then which will be horrible ... so is there anyway I can make it come sooner or later ?...

A.   13 July 2009: What's the problem abou having the period while being on holiday??? I'ts something natural babe just relax and have some ibuprofen if you have headache or pain that doesn't allow u to go out, eat light things if you feel like not eating to much and ... (read in full...)

Is it good to be friends with a married colleague?

Q.   I met a colleague at work, he was cute and cool to me he told me he lived alone and had a son who lived in another city. He flirted a bit with me and I thought he maybe was divorced or something so I did try to know him better, he looked really ...

A.   27 June 2009: Thanks so much for your advice it was cool to feel interest from a cute bloke but circumstances show the situation very much as you describe it to me. Fortunately we are to be awaya for a long time due to summer holidays and work reasons so it w... (read in full...)

He called me a selfish bitch because I don't want to have sex

Q.   So I told my boyfriend that I don't want to do anything sexual with him mainly because it makes me feel uncomfortable. Well he gets mad at me cause I told him earlier I was going to gave him my virginity but I realize I wasn't ready. He called me a ...

A.   3 June 2009: I think you should break up with him and try to find sombedy who cares and cna wait until you're ready love... (read in full...)

I went to his house, did not want sex, he insisted, I feel violated, should I?

Q.   i kinda have this friends with benefits thing but i hardly see him these days as i wanted more than just sex. Anyway, i went round his the other night and we chilled for a bit but then i decided to go without having sex, for the reason i said ab...

A.   3 June 2009: I think you feel raped cos you have been raped indeed, I think it's difficult to set limits when you get off and so on and it's easy to feel confused but if you tell sombody to stop and they don't then it's a rape don't feel guilty about it it's ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a girl who's cheated on me at least 3 times

Q.   i am since three years i a relationship with a girl i love to bits. but during that time i know of at least 3times she cheated on me(was during the first one and half years) she confessed parts after i caught her the first time, then did it again...

A.   16 May 2009: I think you should try to move on from her maybe you can start dating friends without her, having a llok at other girls as friends and when you're ok you can undestand she has to be dropped by you ... (read in full...)

Can I date my best friends ex?

Q.   I’m in love with my best friends ex boyfriend, they broke up 6 weeks ago after a 22 month long relationship, and can I date him or not????? I have been her friend for 19 months since we started high school together. She was dating him since Gr.9. ...

A.   16 May 2009: I would fell betrayed by you but if you like the guy so much mebe you could ask for her blessing Anyway you're to loose your friend if you go on... (read in full...)

Was I too nice?

Q.   I met a wonderful girl on the internet, and after only sending eachother a couple of e-mails, she gave me her mobile number. We started texting eachother frequently and we got on great, then when we spoke on the phone and things got even better. We ...

A.   1 May 2009:  Apart from my previos advice I think you should consider this lady's family situation and to be a bit shelfish yourself and think that maybe you can find a gil who hasn0t got this kind of responsabilities and can devote more time to you and your ... (read in full...)

Was I too nice?

Q.   I met a wonderful girl on the internet, and after only sending eachother a couple of e-mails, she gave me her mobile number. We started texting eachother frequently and we got on great, then when we spoke on the phone and things got even better. We ...

A.   28 April 2009: I think she hasn't made up her mind about if she really wants to have a relationship or not I think u should talk to her about your feelings and try to notice... (read in full...)

Ideas on how to make more friends?

Q.   I would like to make some more friends because most of my friedns are working away at the moment and the only entertaining thing left for me seems to be families and watching movies as well as working at home. Any ideas would be welcomed ...

A.   28 April 2009: Yes I think it is a good idea, I tried with a gym but I ended up talking just a bit with some people my class but not too much. It is not that I am shy but it gets difficult to me to open myself to closed or long time made gangs or friends than... (read in full...)

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