I went as far as losing my virginity to him but he doesn't seem to want a relationship with me. What's happening?
Q. My problem is sorta complicated. I'm 17 and there is this boy i have strong feelings for, i might even love him. I have done things for him that i wouldnt normally do wit any one my past boyfriends. This boy lets say his name is John is not my ...
A. 16 October 2006: Well virginity is important but not something really relevant for your future darling if you lost your virginity to a man who doesn't appreciate you then it was worth losing it and finding out before you get in a serious relationship or marry... (read in full...)
What do you say if a guy calls you a hottie?
Q. if i guy tells you your hot! whats the best way to compliment him back? ...
A. 16 October 2006: You laugh and say 'You would like me to be hottie wuldn't you? I'm sorry but.... even if I was you wouldn't turn me on darling I get horn about brains not dickheads...
good luck... (read in full...)
She doesn't seem to want to know us when she is hanging around with her other friend!!
Q. my best friend and I are both 16. Lately, things have been getting weird with us because she started hanging out with this other girl. My other friends and I notice that when this girl is around, my friend more or less ignores us or goes off with ...
A. 16 October 2006: There's nothing you can do darling but for doing as if you didn't care and don't stand up for her or the group will ditch you and you'll end up alone looking for new friends do not phone her again and act naturally if she goes and talks to you but ... (read in full...)
He has started acting how he did before we got together and I can feel myself slipping backwards!
Q. i need help... i'm good mates with me ex ... but i can feel myself wanting him back. we are good mates still...but he's been different with me recently.. hes knows what makes me laugh and smile so he's started using this to make me laugh. he fli...
A. 16 October 2006: Sorry to say but you should move on as it was hard to break the 1st time it will get worse the second unless you really sure u want him back u should beware and consider why you broke up and know you still have men around who could trust and love ... (read in full...)
He has started acting how he did before we got together and I can feel myself slipping backwards!
Q. i need help... i'm good mates with me ex ... but i can feel myself wanting him back. we are good mates still...but he's been different with me recently.. hes knows what makes me laugh and smile so he's started using this to make me laugh. he fli...
A. 16 October 2006: Sorry to say but you should move on as it was hard to break the 1st time it will get worse the second unless you really sure u want him back u should beware and consider why you broke up and know you still have men arounf who could trust and love ... (read in full...)
I'm in a long distance relationship and I ended up kissing another girl....I've been given a second chance but I don't know if she will go back to the way things were!!
Q. I met my girlfriend over a year ago. We broke up about two times. But got back together. Its a long distance relationship, but I go too see her when I can. Only 3 hour train ride away. I got her a ring and told her I love her. She said it back. We ...
A. 16 October 2006: I think you may consider that maybe distance is affecting your relationship it is hard to be alone in a different town you should have shown more commitment now try a move towards more affectionate behaviour it is not always her who has to kiss you ... (read in full...)
The masturbation equation
Q. Ladies. do all women masturbate and do you like it when men masturbate?...
A. 13 October 2006: Yes we do and we have a lot or fun a friend of mine a doctor told me about the thing at first I though it was non sense and tried for a go but it's quite good and I practise from time to time it is good to have an orgasm when you feel like it
I... (read in full...)
Do men generally wear engagement rings?
Q. Is it true that men don't usually wear their engagement rings? ...
A. 13 October 2006: In Spain couples sometimes wear wedding rings before marriage as a symbol of comitment in the Basque country they have special white silver or platinum double rings with sort of string in the middle I think it is a beutiful symbol, anyway if your ... (read in full...)
When is the best time to get pregnant?
Q. is there a certain time of the month you can pregnant?or things you can do to help?...
A. 10 October 2006: People say it is the presvious days before your period some women feel specially horny at this time
good luck... (read in full...)
How do I get my wife to allow me to fulfill my fantasy??
Q. How do I go about fulfilling my fantasy of watching another guy do my wife? We do roleplay this, but I wonder if she would ever actually do it for me. ...
A. 2 October 2006: I think the answer is NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO if she really loves you but maybe you can buy the Spanish book Lulu's Ages by Almudena Grandes and then ask her if she would like to so the things in the book, you have some to choose, yours included
good luck... (read in full...)
To Spit or Swallow? What is normal thing to do?
Q. I need help! When people say "Spit or Swallow" when giving head, what is the normal thing to do? Isn't spitting rude, but swallowing pretty disgusting? Help!! xXxXx...
A. 2 October 2006: I would ask him to wear a condom... (read in full...)
Who the heck does this guy like...me or this other girl?
Q. i have liked this boy for 2 years a while ago we found out he liked my mate and she told our other mate that she liked him then i found out from some boy recently he has stopped talkin to her and has started talkin to me more and now im not sure how ...
A. 30 September 2006: Yeah talk to the boy ask him to go for a coffe with you and relax it is not important at least your life doesn't depend in such iddle things if it works and you feel like it it' s ok if not just move on
it seems to but it's not important at all ... (read in full...)
Do men just get a kick out of playing stupid mind games?
Q. I've never been very good at starting relationships it always seems to go wrong. A short while ago I made eye contact with a guy and this continued for about a month. I assumed he was interested. He eventually spoke and asked for my phone number. ...
A. 30 September 2006: I think he want to reassure his sex appeal by using you or trying a picking up tecnique when he looks at you ignore him of pull him a funny face, is he tells people you gave him your number just say it is not true that he's an idiot
it seems but ... (read in full...)
Should I worry about having a penis that is 5 inches?
Q. I am 21 year old and my penis size is 5 inches !Should i worry about it ? ...
A. 30 September 2006: I would prefer not very large than too large dear I think foreplay and caring is far more important
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What does "pulling" mean..other than the usual usage?
Q. What does "pulling" mean..oher than the usual usage...
A. 30 September 2006: I think it means to have some kissing, hughing and touching gently somebody you fancy and you've just met or taken an intersest on normally in a pub or a night out with friends, not a formerly arrange date but something spontaneous whether if you ... (read in full...)
I'm inexperienced about relationships that involves divorce. Any advice for me?
Q. My boyfriend has been through a divorce before he met me. He also had a daughter with his ex-wife. This fail relationship hurted him very much, which I feel changed his view on marriage and child. I was thinking about it, and started to get worry if...
A. 30 September 2006: I think it is going to work darling it is sure he has really thought about it and really wants to try and marry you dear. I do not think your baby is the second,he is to be the second baby it's to be his first baby with you the one he's chosen to be ... (read in full...)
He can't stop staring at other women, what does this mean?
Q. my fiance has a really bad staring problem. even if he just hears a womans voice on tv it gets him checking her out. i'm not ugly. and he's not great looking! can you tell me what it might mean? we are engaged and i'm thinking of calling it off. he ...
A. 30 September 2006: Dear my dad stares at anyone and he's been married to mi mum for 50 years, some people like staring it0s not always to do with sex just with curiosity or gossip
I wouldn't care at all
love... (read in full...)
He wants to have his fun--but wants me to wait for him. I need him to make a decison now! How do I tell him this?
Q. My boyfriend and i broke up a week ago.We dated for a year and a half. He now talks to me..we are still friends...and tels me about all the parties hes going to and all of the girls he plans on sleeping with. on the other hand he tells me that maybe ...
A. 29 September 2006: I agree with helpful girl darling she is right you also have to think if being friends will prevent yu from moving on which wouldn't be ok
love
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My seperated guy hasn't contacted me and I wanna know-what the hell is going on?
Q. Hi I have been going with this fella and i have a question before about him! He is separted from his wife and he has a child and two step children we have been getting on ok or so i think! i haven't heard from him since monday and i don't know...
A. 28 September 2006: Call him and text him if he doesn't answer he is nt intrested or the is ashamed of himself, maybe married darling quite likely happily married according to his wife's views, try to find out just to know but don think it is that he is so nice and in ... (read in full...)
Sex was painful for me and he wouldn't stop! Was this rape?
Q. my boyfriend in i were having sex and towards the end i asked him to stop because it was uncomfitable and painfull. i have always found penitration uncomfitable and some time painfull he said that he was at the piont of no return when we talked ...
A. 28 September 2006: I suppose. though I so not know, it is not a legal rape but a very and hard sexual problem you had with your couple and personally he should have stopped and ended by his own means masturbating ir whatever men usually do. Anyway DO NOT FORGET ... (read in full...)
She's a totally different person since she's left for school
Q. My girlfriend is away at school, and we don't get to see each other that much, only a couple times a month. It seems to me she's distant at times, never returning my calls or AIMs, but she always has time to go out with her roommates to shop, party, ...
A. 28 September 2006: I think she's taking you for granted and that's no good dear... you need 2 people to build a realtionship I have been to college in England and Spain and it's all teh same dear she's trying to experiement univerity life and there you need your ... (read in full...)
Should I pursue her or stop wasting time ?
Q. Well, I'm a senior in high school and I like this girl who is a freshman in college. Thing is, she is home for the fall term and possibly then some. We got pretty close this summer but I never asked her to go out with me; I took her to my high ...
A. 28 September 2006: KISS HER AND ASK HER OUTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
SHE'S TELLING YOUUUUUUUU WHO'S THE SENIOR?
C'ON BE BRAVE... (read in full...)
I caught my 12 year old son masturbating. How should I handle this?
Q. i am a father of a twelve year old boy, and i saw him masturbating,and i blew up, what should i do?...
A. 26 September 2006: I think it is normal for a guy such age dear you shouldn't have stormed like that you should knock the door before you get in the loo or his room as teens need some intimacy or space, I thinkyou should talk to him in a friendly and nice way and to ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel that white women are more beautiful than black women like me? Do I need professional help?
Q. i am a single black woman and i have issues with beautiful women. my self image was destroyed a while back and now when i see that black women are not as beautiful as white women so basically what im saying is what could be wrong with me or do i ...
A. 26 September 2006: The colour is not important the important is you are beautiful inside however there are lots of beautiful black women like Naomi Campbell and normally the body structure of most black women is very balanced and sexy even if they are fat, I had a ... (read in full...)
Im married and work over seas, Ive fallen for someone else and am thinking of divorce, but feel pity for my child, what should I do ?
Q. I am a married guy working overseas away from my wife and kid. I met a girl who at first was my best friend but we eventually became lovers despite the fact I am already committed (she knows). I am suddenly thinking of divorce but I feel pity to my ...
A. 26 September 2006: Go to your country talk to your wife about your feeling too lonely and find out if you love her still then decide I think is is bada for a kid that their parents do not love each other than having married parents and an always away dad
good luck... (read in full...)
I would like to improve my self esteem, any help please!!
Q. dear cupid i am a 16 year old boy and i need help i would like to know if its possible to build my self-esteem as i am not confident in life and especially when talking to the girls i alwayz turn red and have had some critisim from girlz abo...
A. 26 September 2006: Imagine youre talking to your family or to a close friend, breathe deep and open your mouth to pronounce properly, talk slow and have some eye contact, dont cross your arms and stand rather than seat or stand straight on the chair, tp helps you to ... (read in full...)
How can I become less sensitive ?
Q. Is being a sensitive man a bad thing? I am sensitive to other peoples feelings and to my own, it's not over the top, and not very obvious until you get to know me well, but how can I become less sensitive? Thank you....
A. 26 September 2006: I think it is lovely that you are but beware of people who uses your quality to hurt you, they don't deserve you and you should ignore them all
love... (read in full...)
Can someone really change the way they view sex ?
Q. Do people change? My boyfriend has lead a promiscuous past and I can't seem to get over it. He says he loves me and wants to marry me, and I believe him, but isn't it just a change of circumstances? In other words, if he weren't in love, wouldn't he ...
A. 26 September 2006: I think the people who has been promiscous and leaves is less likely to do it again dear, you can be sure he loves you
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The photos on her camera were pretty devastating. I left and haven't spoken to her in 3 days. Am I overreacting?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been in a serious relationship for 2 1/2 years now. I am going to be 30 and she is 23. We have all along talked about marriage, kids, our age difference, etc. It never really mattered. I was really careful in the 1st year ...
A. 26 September 2006: Well I think maybe she didn't cheat on you honey most of my friends are guys and I promise I would never sleep around with any of them, however I wouldn't lie to you about going out with them if I did but you would have to understand that those ... (read in full...)
It was a no strings sex encounter, the fact I slept with someone doesnt make me a cheat right ??
Q. Before my boyfriend and I actually got together,we basically started with screwing each other.We both barely knew each other and so forth. From what i had assumed we were just messing. I slept with him and slept over his place 2 nights in a row ...
A. 26 September 2006: You did not cheat on any of the boys involved it0s good to see that some ladies are brave enough to live their sexuality as they will and that they're psychologically strong like you to cope with just sex
good luck... (read in full...)
How can I make my insecure boyfriend trust me? I am so sick of his bull!!
Q. Okay. I'm 21 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months. My past relationships I've been cheated on. Finally I found someone who doesn't cheat and I trust completely. One problem. He is very insecure. He makes stupid comments and asks ...
A. 24 September 2006: I think you should ask him to get profesional help if he refuses and goes in with such behaviour you should leave him
love... (read in full...)
My bf says its a joke that he is messing with other girls. Are people laughing at me for going out with him?
Q. hiya peeps keeep sayin my bf is messin rnd wid oder girls but wen i ask him he says he loves me n dat its jst a jk do u fink peeps r laughing at me 4 goin out wid him xx reply quick xx...
A. 23 September 2006: YEAH I agree with Toria another idea is to drop if u feel insecured and laughed at
good luck... (read in full...)
I gave my fiancee an ultimatum, fags or me. Am I being unfair?
Q. I gave my fiancee an ultimatum, fags or me. Am I being unfair? She is not really a heavy smoker, but is always craving for one. I feel guilty for making her do this, but she will be happier when she has finally quit for good....
A. 23 September 2006: It's very nice of you to worry but she is not a heavy drinker of a cocaine addict you should help and supprt her, ansd if she doesn't want to give up and you really love her u shouldn't drop her... (read in full...)
I saw my friend's boyfriend with another woman. Should I tell my friend? It was obvious they were very intimate.
Q. I travel a lot for business. I was out of town recently and saw a friend's boyfriend with another woman. They didn't see me (it was a dark, hotel bar). I doubt the other woman was a business associate or casual friend. It was very obvious that...
A. 23 September 2006: Definitely u must tell her dear, If I were her I would like to know, be tactful and say it was your impression, warn her to take care if she gets upset do no repent you're helping her
love and good luck
Astrid... (read in full...)
Why spend so long trying to get back with someone when you dont really want them?
Q. I just dont understand men, well one particular one anyway. Can anyone enlighten me? Why would someone spend weeks trying to get you to go back to them, being kind and doing nice things for you. Then say they want to be with you and want you...
A. 23 September 2006: I think he needs to feel he's never to be alone howevr nasty he is sound to me as sort of Oedipus complex where you, sorry to say, play the mother role
Please ditch him and find somebody nice who cares, if not ur better alone
love
Astrid... (read in full...)
I think a married woman at work might be falling for me. How can I let her know that I am into her?
Q. There is this woman at work that is married, however I believe she is very much into me. She sometimes flirts very heavy with me and then the next day or so she tones it down and acts like were nothing more than friends. She and her husband are live ...
A. 23 September 2006: I think she wants to feel sexy and that she could have sex outside marriage if she wanted, maybe she would even cross the line, maybe she has sexual or marital problems anyway I agree with the rest of advice this would mean deep sh*t, don't get ... (read in full...)
Taking birth control pills and antibiotics...should I abstain from sex to prevent a pregnancy?
Q. Hello, this is a health-type question maybe someone can help me with. I am currently three months into taking birth control pills, but I have to take antibiotics for the next 10 days. I know they can decrease the effectiveness of the pills. My ...
A. 22 September 2006: I would use condoms too just in case ... (read in full...)
My parents treated me badly as a kid and now my husband is doing the same! What is it about me that makes this happen?
Q. i am tired of listening the preach from my parents, they did this since i am 8 years old.all king of bad words i heard from them like i am a mother fucker, i am useless that they are just waisting their time and money feeding me, all of this word ...
A. 21 September 2006: I understand what you mean, I think you should go on a only girls trip with close friends have a coupl of drinks feel sexy and relax then think it over do u want to be with such a guy....? C'on you can live n your own means you're cool and not ... (read in full...)
I found out she had group sex with men and women, not worried she will cheat, just finding hard to deal with it!!
Q. I have recently begun going out with a girl whom I have known as a friend of friends for about five years. After we have been seeing each other about a month we got talking about our relationship histories and she told me that, in addition to her ...
A. 21 September 2006: Melanie Griffith is supposed to have done it to have been an alcoholic and a drug addict she is a model mum and a lovin wife if you really love her you should forget about it but if you cannot cope it is maybe an indicator of you not loving her ... (read in full...)
I hate college and want to go back to him
Q. I've started college after a 2 month relationship with my bf through the holidays, and things are really difficult. I hate college so much that I would walk right out of that door if i didn't know that I wouldn't be able to get a job without these ...
A. 21 September 2006: Well dear I know it is very hard but college i very important very very important your boyfriend shoud understand it and you should understand that the degree you choose is never what you expected and that is is to be hard to settle down in college ... (read in full...)
I need ideas on how to keep my jealousy under control!
Q. Hi there, I'm hoping you can help me out here! I'm in a 9-months-and-counting long-distance relationship with a girl quite a bit younger than me. By long distance I mean, an hour drive and I only get to see her on weekends (this is very hard on ...
A. 19 September 2006: Be unfaithful... then u'll worry about not being discovered hahha it's a joke dear try to relax and enjoy your love life
good luck
sorry about spelling
ciao... (read in full...)
I need ideas on how to keep my jealousy under control!
Q. Hi there, I'm hoping you can help me out here! I'm in a 9-months-and-counting long-distance relationship with a girl quite a bit younger than me. By long distance I mean, an hour drive and I only get to see her on weekends (this is very hard on ...
A. 19 September 2006: Be unfaithful... then u'll worry about not besing discovered hahha it's a joke dear try to relax and enjoy your love life
good luck... (read in full...)
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