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chazx
writes: I recently wrote in about me and my 27 year old boyfriend. My dad is just coming around to the fact but now im pregnant. What should i do? Please help, any advice welcome. Reply to this Question |
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (18 September 2006):
 you first tell your boyfreind if he does not know then you talk with your dad privately or with your partner up to you, and you explain to your dad your telling him this for 1 reason honesty and love, then you explain your boyfreind will be there always then brake the bad news! i would advice you tell him with your boyfreind ther as it looks better and it looks like he will be ther which no doubt he will but it looks that way to your dad as well as your boyfreind looking like a man whos stepping up to his responsibilities!
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (10 September 2006):
 I agree with the others tell your dad, he loves you and he will help you dear, plus a baby means responsability but it's a good thing luf
good luck
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reader, ariel +, writes (10 September 2006):
 Papa I know you're going to be upset
'Cause I was always your little girl
But you should know by now
I'm not a baby
You always taught me right from wrong
I need your help, daddy please be strong
I may be young at heart
But I know what I'm saying
The one you warned me all about
The one you said I could do without
We're in an awful mess, and I don't mean maybe
Please
Papa don't preach, I'm in trouble deep
Papa don't preach, I've been losing sleep
But I made up my mind, I'm keeping my baby, oh
I'm gonna keep my baby, mmm
He says that he's going to marry me
We can raise a little family
Maybe we'll be all right
It's a sacrifice
But my friends keep telling me to give it up
Saying I'm too young, I ought to live it up
What I need right now is some good advice
Please…..
By Madonna
That song came to mind while I was reading your post. Please tell your dad, don’t be afraid. He will probably freak, but that will be his first reaction. But sharing your problem with him will make dealing with it much easier. Its a shock but not the end of the world.xxx
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reader, #1Gunner +, writes (10 September 2006):
Wow your dad gave you an inch and you took a mile. I guess you both need to sit down with both of your parents and own up to what happened. They are probaly not going to be very happy. But what is done is done.
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (10 September 2006):
 Oh hun.
You need to sit your dad down and explain to him, please don't try to hide it from him. You have been honest with him so far and he may see it as disrespectful if you try to conceal it.
You say he is coming around to the fact of he age, so he seems like a reasonable enough man.
Just be honest with him, I think you should gain his support pretty quickly.
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