My bf acts and may have to kiss on stage. How should I react?
Q. im in a loving relationship with a guy thats really passionate about life, music, drama ect.he studies drama at uni,we've been together for 2 years now, i really love him.the thing is im insecure about the people/girls he have to work with. The get ...
A. 5 November 2006: It's normal you don't like it but it's part of his work and u must respect it very much if you cannot cope with it maybe you should let him go but I think it's worth getting accustomed... (read in full...)
My bf acts and may have to kiss on stage. How should I react?
Q. im in a loving relationship with a guy thats really passionate about life, music, drama ect.he studies drama at uni,we've been together for 2 years now, i really love him.the thing is im insecure about the people/girls he have to work with. The get ...
A. 5 November 2006: It's normal you don't like it but it's part of his work and u must respect it very much if you cannot copr with it maybe you should let him go but I think it's worth getting accustomed... (read in full...)
Me and my bf hardly get to see each other due to working. What should I do?
Q. I just recently started my new job and its been hard on my boyfriend and I. We don't get to see too much of one another during the week but he promised we would spend the weekends together. And now hes too busy and has other plans. We have been ...
A. 5 November 2006: Well try to talk to him on the phone as much as possible and txt him, make him see you cate very much and do things together as often as possible try to reserve some time a day even if it's an hour to chat or go for a drink, some sex etc if work is ... (read in full...)
Should I take this guy back after he dumped me??
Q. hey, i was wondering if anyone can help me. i went out with this guy for about 3 months and then he dumped me and on valentine's day. my friend introduced him to one of her friends and he started going out with her about 2 weeks after he dumped me ...
A. 3 November 2006: Yes dear I undesrtand you like him still and I know because this happened to me that's why I'm scared of him hurting you very much maybe it is worth trying but a new start is good though if you wanna give him a go then to be friends is ok but I ... (read in full...)
He made me get an abortion - now he's gotten another girl pregnant and she's keeping the baby!
Q. I am confused! My fiance and i have been together for 2 years i got pregnant a year in to our relationship i was excited about it,however when i told him he was not so happy ,he wanted to get married before we had any children.He told me it w...
A. 2 November 2006: DUMP HIM... (read in full...)
Don't want Peter around me anymore but don't want to explain things to him. What can I do?
Q. A boy in my gang Peter caused problems between my ex best friend(Susan) and I as they started to try to go out in secret Which I do not know why meant my best friend started to be upset with me and his atittude to me(peter's) was very unkind. My ...
A. 2 November 2006: Thanks for answering yes the only problem is Ann wants him around and if I say it to her she will sort of tell him somehow and I feel bad about this as she has cancer though she is to recover for sure, I will probably tell him next time I don't want ... (read in full...)
I made eye contact with her and smiled. But now..I'm to shy to go up and talk to her! What should I do?
Q. der is dis 14yr old gurl i fancy. she goes to my skul. im 16. usually at lunch everyone leaves skul. on day bk i usually go past her. today i got da courage to make eye contact and smile. she smiled first. i den luked away as i went past. im jus too ...
A. 31 October 2006: Step on her foot and apologise then start to ask her about wher she gets the school bus cos she looks familiar to you, ask her if she's sb's friend/family as you know him/her investigate a bit and gooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo... (read in full...)
Don't want Peter around me anymore but don't want to explain things to him. What can I do?
Q. A boy in my gang Peter caused problems between my ex best friend(Susan) and I as they started to try to go out in secret Which I do not know why meant my best friend started to be upset with me and his atittude to me(peter's) was very unkind. My ...
A. 31 October 2006: Thanks for not answerin' I get the point this is an idiot kwestion I'll ignore him... (read in full...)
What will I get (?) for having sex with a 15 year old?
Q. can any one tell me wat i will get for having sex with a 15 gal rely need help plzs and i am 18...
A. 31 October 2006: Criminal libel... (read in full...)
His mates tease him about us and it's harming our relationship! What can I do?
Q. hey i have a real problem ok ive been out with this guy 6 times...and it hasnt worked out for more than a week because his mates keep making fun and saying crap like 'have you f**ked her yet?' and he didnt want that. ...
A. 31 October 2006: Leave him it's the best option if you talk to him and teh situation doesn't change u deserve respect and love, I've been through that and it's horrible
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He's in jail on 2 drug counts and wants to date me when he gets out! What should I do?
Q. I work at a jail in dc as a C/O and on my unit it's this sexy ass guy I use to see in the club when I use to go out he is in jail on a drug charge but the courts couldn't prove he was selling drugs so they have 21 days to let him go but any way when ...
A. 31 October 2006: Forget about him disaappear from his reach he is dangerous ... (read in full...)
Can I ever win her back?
Q. Help. I'm 35 and I'm so confused. I felt i was being neglected by my g/f whom at times didn't seem interested in me. I felt emotionally disatisfied and told her. Our love life was also non existent. She went away, evaluated our relationship and we ...
A. 31 October 2006: Try to stay friends and try to win her back slow... (read in full...)
Should I take this guy back after he dumped me??
Q. hey, i was wondering if anyone can help me. i went out with this guy for about 3 months and then he dumped me and on valentine's day. my friend introduced him to one of her friends and he started going out with her about 2 weeks after he dumped me ...
A. 31 October 2006: I would recommend not to be friends even he cannot have you back as the old toy he threw away on VALENTINE'S DAYYY!! he's a son of ''not a lady'' I would not even talk to him... (read in full...)
He said the female bartender was hot...while I was standing there. I am upset..what do you think?
Q. Hi--does anything think this was rude of my b/f? We were at a club one night with one of his buddies. We got the first round of drinks and then his friend asks my b/f--what do you think of the bartender--not loud or anything but obviously i am s...
A. 31 October 2006: WOW I think u shouldn't care a damn all men say that sot of things when talking together it's just a way of showing friendship to each other it's not to do with the boy not liking u
forget it... (read in full...)
My army guy deserted me years ago and now...he's back and wants to be with me! All these feelings are coming back..what should I do?
Q. i have a big problem when i was 16 i fell in love with an armyboy we would spend all our time together when he was on leave he was 3 years older then one week he never came back and stopped answering my calls i found out he had got married 6 yrs on ...
A. 31 October 2006: Try to save your mariage who can guarantee that your army bloke won't do the same thing again? I woul not forget what he did ... (read in full...)
What have I done wrong??
Q. Hello Just looking for some realistic and professional advice to my problem. If you can provide me with a solution(s) then it will be very much appreciated, thank you. I am a 41 year old male. My situation is very unique and complex to me bu...
A. 31 October 2006: I think you are really nice and that any lady would love to have such attention and patience from her couple but you must also understand she needs time and maybe she doesn't feel like having a relationship now you shpuld wait a bit for new contact ... (read in full...)
Does a girl prefer cuddle or kisses?
Q. Hi everyone just wondering if your spending time with a girl does she prefer cuddle or kisses?...
A. 31 October 2006: Both yeah but kissing all time gets tiring as we like talking you know....
love... (read in full...)
Why do I have to choose one of them?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months now and we are looking into spending our lives together very soon. My boyfriend is going oversea for six months to travel on his own, hoping to gain more experience in his life (which he truly lacks). He ...
A. 31 October 2006: Sorry to say I agree with your gay friend I think he's trying to protect you and loves you very much anyway nobody can ask you to choose I think you should think this over
ciao... (read in full...)
He is coming to stay with me for the weekend but is seeing some other girl
Q. Ok, The guy of my dreams is coming to stay at my house for the weekend. Neither of us are into flings, and he has told me he likes me, and i like him a lot.. he has made a move on me a few times before, and i have always said no, thinking i was his ...
A. 31 October 2006: I agree with stina it's a dangerous thing thinkit over maybe it is not the best time for you to have him around if he's seeing somebody else
take care... (read in full...)
Is he being selfish or really doesn't like my friends?
Q. hi this may seem silly but it hurts me. the thing is my friends invite me and my bf out everytime they are going out and when i ask my bf if he wants to go out he always makes up an excuse like on sat there. my friends had arranged to go for a night ...
A. 31 October 2006: I agree with Dr but I think that spending a night with your friends would help the relationship and his understanding of your personality thoug to ask him to go with them many times if he doesn't feel like it wouldn't be nice but selfish on your ... (read in full...)
Who do I choose-my wonderful new man or my husband who left me for another woman?
Q. My husband left me for another woman, I was devastated but eventually tried to move on and even began seeing someone else. Now my husband has left the other woman and says he@ll do anything to get me back! I am very confused and dont want to hurt ...
A. 31 October 2006: New wonderful man of course, enjoy darling
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How can I contructively deal with negativity?
Q. I am feeling abit down and frustrated with myself because of the way I let people treat me, mainly regarding my boyfriend but also a few of my friends. I was quite hurt by the way my boyfriend treated me on his birthday (he initially invited me to ...
A. 30 October 2006: Welfl I thinkyou need to sit down weep and then relax and go out shopping, to the gym with any fried or just alone, do things alone like going for a nice hot chocolate after a good walk or just listen to music, go on a trip with a friend or two if ... (read in full...)
I think he likes me
Q. there is a boy at my school who i really like.i think he likes me but am not really sure.we have never spoken .i allwys feel he is staring at me and we allways make eye contact and glance at eachother and he looks at me when we pass eachother.do ...
A. 27 October 2006: likes how u look just that unless he tries approximation just smile and pass
good luck... (read in full...)
My partner cheated via texts, so should I cheat with this other guy?
Q. Well, i have been with my partner for just over 3 years and we have a son together. last year i found out he had been texting my best friend for 5 months we nearly split up over it but i tried for the sake of my son. Since then i think i have fallen ...
A. 27 October 2006: I seriously agree with stina unless you both want an open relationship
good luck... (read in full...)
Why can't my fiancee understand why I love my kids more than her?
Q. I was married for 9 years, but split with my wife just over a year ago, we have 3 children together. I have been engaged to another girl for 3 and a half months and love her dearly. We live 300 miles apart and I live close to my wife and kids. I ...
A. 27 October 2006: Maybe ehe doesn't realise the situation as she doesn't have children and so on... she may be jealous and scared you go back to your family... try to promote her self steem and make her realise the situation or drop her if it's to hard to bear
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Sex buddies and friends, until Tuesday
Q. Ok, so I broke up with my bf 4 weeks ago after an on/off relationship of about a year. We were then sex buddies and friends, until Tuesday when he got a new girlfriend. But then the day after that he rang me saying he was lonely, came over and had ...
A. 27 October 2006: oooops he's a bit cranky darling he desserves ultimatum u or the nw girl or just throw him to the gutter
love ... (read in full...)
Should i flirt with him or not
Q. i really like this boy in school and he talks to me and he is single but should i flirt with him or not? ...
A. 27 October 2006: Of course go ahead... ;)... (read in full...)
Is kissing classed as cheating?
Q. Dear Cupids, If you are in a relationship do you see kissing someone else as cheating??...
A. 27 October 2006: Definitely... (read in full...)
Who should have the last say on this abortion?
Q. Hi there. If a couple is pregnant, married, and has the means to bring up the child well (financially speaking and in a good neighborhood with a good education, etc), and one partner wants to have an abortion and the other doesn't, what should be ...
A. 26 October 2006: I would say it is the woman's choice as it is her body but if the dad reakky wants the baby he can try to convince her that he will take care of the baby finantially and personally even if they broke up, I suppose they could even sign a conttract ... (read in full...)
My friend wants to revenge cheat on her husband and I'm encouraging it! Am I wrong to do this?
Q. My best friend isa doctor and she works a long time everyday, she earns a lot of money and has a little daughter and a civil servant husband, Her husband is very nice and takes care of the little girl but one night he was unfaithful and passed his ...
A. 25 October 2006: yeah I told her NOT to cheat as her marriage has worked very well till now and maybe he just slept around one night, I understand her feeling offended and down and that other men showing interest in her help her to feel better at this point however ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my brother and having sex with him
Q. I am a freshman at the university this year. This is the second year at the university for my brother Steve. Our parents decided to get us a two bedroom apartment for us to share. We have always gotten along really well and its been great. T...
A. 24 October 2006: Well I think it is not a good idea to do this again one of u 2 should be reponsible enough to stop it and move to a different flat renta room in your shared falt so u get the money for the other to get away, it is not right what u did consider it a ... (read in full...)
Does it mean anything when a lad gets a hard on thinking of you in your underwear???
Q. does it mean anythig if a lad gets a hard on over thinking of you in your underwear?...
A. 24 October 2006: Likes you for sex it is sure now if you're interested you must work on the relationship and get him to fancy you all ways... (read in full...)
I still think about the other guy I like and it feels like I'm cheating on him!!!
Q. I really like these two guys but I am now going out with one of them, i still think about this other guy and it feels asthough im cheating on him,even though im not. But even when i go out with someone it only lasts for a month and then i dont know ...
A. 24 October 2006: Work on your current relationship and go slow just to make sur you really like this guy and have a coffee with the other one just to see if things could work then make up your mind and choose o leave any
good luck... (read in full...)
Should I wear make-up or no???
Q. Do guys who dislike makeup on women ALWAYS feel this way? (Hope some guy will answer.) This coming weekend am going to a fancy social event with a guy. I've been trying to get back together with him for awhile and at the moment we really seem to...
A. 24 October 2006: yEAH Soem make up will be right try it to be discrete and elgant so that he likes it better
good luck... (read in full...)
Do any of you see your exes as good friend?
Q. Hi everyone, could you see your ex as a friend?...
A. 24 October 2006: Can be friends for a brief conversation of no more than 20 minutes then we start talking about why we broke up or hurting each other a bit, it's difficult and makes you feel down, sensible, unable to focus on another person properly....
I do not ... (read in full...)
Does it mean anything when a lad gets a hard on thinking of you in your underwear???
Q. does it mean anythig if a lad gets a hard on over thinking of you in your underwear?...
A. 24 October 2006: It means he likes you sexually if you expect more from a relationship then you shuold make him wait a bit or make it clear to him, if you just want some fum you can follow his game, have phone sex and live one and so on... (read in full...)
Unsure I love my wife, but I fancy a work colleague. What do I do?
Q. Have been married 11 years and have a son who is 9. I have recently been having feelings that I no longer love my wife or even find her attractive anymore. I have told my wife that I am unsure whether I love her or not and she pursuaded me to ...
A. 24 October 2006: I think you should try a holiday with your wife and see how things go maybe youre stressed only or tired by routine, try to make it work and if it doesn't then you should do as Toria says yes
good luck
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He had sex with me and dumped me. Now he's getting cozy with me again! What should I do?
Q. Im 15 recently went out with a guy who i really liked and slept with him too. Except he dumped me a week after. I still like him and recently when weve been hangin out hes started cuddling me and gettin abit cosy with me. I dont know if he likes me ...
A. 22 October 2006: I wouldn't trust him becacuse he has done it before you shuold flirt and give him the sack when he's mental after you then he will know how to treat a girl look for a good boy to ang around and have a good time not this sort of guy who doen't ... (read in full...)
We split up but stayed friends...she asked to kiss me and we did now I'm confused!
Q. Hi all, i'm an 18 yr old male, i used to go out with a girl who is 17. however about 6 weeks ago we broke up for reasons. however we have stayed really good friends and stuuf, an today i went upto Cumbria to see her and we were sat iin the car ...
A. 22 October 2006: I think it's normal I have kissed my ex lots of times and we still keep friends and I refused sex after kissings as I knew we wanted different things and couldn't be together really.. in our case aa little distance and talking n the phone from time ... (read in full...)
I'm 21-she's 13. I fallen in love with her and I think she likes me. She's self-harming to get my attention! What should I do?
Q. Hi, I’m a 21 year old lad who has fallen deeply in love with a 13 year old girl! I asked for advice on here a couple of months ago, read what people said and tried it but with no success and now the situation has got worse! Some people sa...
A. 16 October 2006: C'on your 21 wait 5 years to have sexual relationships is not that much or be her friend only and have one night stands eith other girls or masturbate that's not too high a price is it? if you really love her you'll become friends
and future will... (read in full...)
I went as far as losing my virginity to him but he doesn't seem to want a relationship with me. What's happening?
Q. My problem is sorta complicated. I'm 17 and there is this boy i have strong feelings for, i might even love him. I have done things for him that i wouldnt normally do wit any one my past boyfriends. This boy lets say his name is John is not my ...
A. 16 October 2006: Well virginity is important but not something really relevant for your future darling if you lost your virginity to a man who doesn't appreciate you then it was worth losing it and finding out before you get in a serious relationship or marry... (read in full...)
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