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writes: hi,ive just been on holiday for 2 months to celebrate my mom and dads engagment party. when i came back i found out my best friend was pregnant with my boyfriends baby.they said sorry and my boyfriend said he still loves me and keeps sending me roses and messages but i still dont no if sorry is enough?
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (10 September 2006):
 Think if you want to forgive him or not though please do not talk to your best friend again, take your time ok? no need to hurry think that if you drop him they will end up together, I think you shoul forgive him if you kove him still if not let them go together, but the only chance for you to get back is forgiveness, I think I would give him a chance still
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reader, Yos  +, writes (10 September 2006):
 DrPsych is right. An essential ingredient of friendship is trust. These two people are not trustworthy. I think the two of them deserve each other. And you deserve much much better.
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reader, #1Gunner +, writes (10 September 2006):
I think the comment below mine is perfect for this. If he really loved you he wouldn't have slept with your best friend and if she was your best friend she wouldnt have slept with your boyfriend. Either way you slice this one it is wrong. Sounds to me like you need to move on and find a new best friend and boyfriend.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (9 September 2006):
 1. She isn't your best friend...you sound like a nice person so get a best friend who you can trust.
2. He isn't your boyfriend...he is a sleaze bag who cannot keep his trousers up when your back is turned. Feel glad that you found out now, stop wasting your time on a cheater and find someone who treats you with respect.
Roses and text messages are just cheap ways to ease his own conscience. Sorry isn't enough because if you were to forgive him such a big relationship crime, who is to say he won't lapse in the future? I am so sorry you have had your trust betrayed by two people who are close to you but remember not everyone is like that - there are nice people out there who will be faithful and loyal to you.
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