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Which are the main reasons to suffer from a headache? Any Advice?

Q.   Which are the main reasons to suffer from a headache I have having one all week anytime I get my scarf out it gets worse I feel like sand in my eyes and a bit down and depressed because of other reasons, family problems, job.. any tips?...

A.   19 November 2006: Thanks you're real kind I will visit the doctor this week cheers xxxx... (read in full...)

Is my husband really "just friends" with his ex?

Q.   Before I married my husband, he had a seven year reletionship with an older woman. Now they talk on the phone often enough(at least once a week)and for twenty-thirty minutes at the time. My husband says that they are just plain friends, but I feel t...

A.   16 November 2006: I understand your feelings I would ask him to reduce contact at 1 a month at fist and then to 3 months at leats he's got a psycholigical dependence on this relationship and if something goes wrong he could move back to her be careful about the way ... (read in full...)

I felt like his texts mean he's pulling away... Am I right?

Q.   I'm going to try and summarise my situation as much as possible. met 7 months ago. He found my number and starting texting me. we live 8 hours drive away from each other. He was warm and exciting and text me 5/6 a day, telling me what hes' ...

A.   16 November 2006: His way of acting looks to emotinal and little self controlled I think he achieved his goal of having you after him so he lost interest it is up to u to try ti make it workbut I do not recommend too much effort, contact him if you feel like talking ... (read in full...)

He's over 50 and I'm a lot younger. Why does he come so quickly?

Q.   My boyfriend is quite a lot older than me and when we have sex it does not last that long because he cums really quick, about a minute after entering me. Is there something wrong with him or is this perfectly normal for a man of a certain age over ...

A.   16 November 2006: I know a boy who had the same problem at 19 I think he should go to urologist... (read in full...)

Standing by your man... Love or stupidity?

Q.   How do you know when standing by your man is love or stupidity?...

A.   15 November 2006: your time is yours and nobody can tell you how to spend it if you nvest some time it's ok if it gives u nothing in exchange give up and look for a new interest ;)... (read in full...)

I can't flirt to save my life! Tips please!!

Q.   Can anyone give me any good tips on how to be good at flirting? I can't flirt to save my life. In fact my flirting is almost like (though not as bad as) Ross' in Friends when he tries to flirt with the pizza girl....

A.   15 November 2006: Smile smile and smile, try to wink an eye from time to time only as a hello cheer up, look in the eye 2 seconds, look smart and move your head a bit when toaking so u look interested in the other's opinion... never cross your arms, toauch the ... (read in full...)

He bought my best mate a bday card and didn't get me anything! He makes me feel small! Help!

Q.   my boyfrend bought my best mate a bday card and didnt get me n e ting 4 my bday cz he sed he was skint! i just feel reli upset nd i dont knw if i shuld say n e ting! nd he always says tings like hw is ex or these gals are always askin him 2 go out ...

A.   15 November 2006: I think you should ask him why he behaves like this and to correct his behaviour if he doesn't you will have to dump it or it will hurt your self steem I used to go out with a boy like this and darling i do not recommend it to last long if he goes ... (read in full...)

I don't know what to do with my life, or what I want!

Q.   I don't know what I want for myself in life. I don't know how to make myself happy. Please someone help me as I don't want to end up in 20 years time, married with kids and still unhappy, because it's not fair on them....

A.   15 November 2006: I think you need to relax, if you get too much self pressure you won't like anything and you won't know what you want ok? do things you enjoy and try to do your best a work then all will show up to be ok good luck ... (read in full...)

It hurts to masturbate - any tips?

Q.   hi i would like to try to masturbate but every time i try it really hurts and im not sure why, i would really like to try it, all my mates have and they said it felt great and that i should try. i tried to slip my finger into my vagina and it re...

A.   14 November 2006: go to http://www.sexinfo101.com/pw_erogenouszones.shtml or www.teenwire.com and just read info about it I do not think getting ur finger in will help you... (read in full...)

Do guys with girlfriends still look at and comment about other women?

Q.   Is it normal for guys to look at other womean even if they have a gf? Or is it just a guy thing when they are with there buddies? Im just asking cuz one of his buddies told me that he was looking and commenting on other woman but i dont know if i ...

A.   14 November 2006: if he does his macho bastard comment in front of you them comment on a guay in front of him ... (read in full...)

I think my ex is the one for me, but he just wants to be friends. Would this be a mistake?

Q.   is it ok to be friends with your ex bf? especially when you know that he is the one for you? We had the perfect relationship nothing never went wrong. One day out of the blue he said that he didnt love me and that he didnt want a relationship at ...

A.   14 November 2006: no, it's a good start... (read in full...)

Do guys with perfect relationships still look at and comment about other women?

Q.   Is it normal for guys to eye and comment other woman with there buddies when they have girlfriends and there relationship is perfect? ...

A.   14 November 2006: yes definitely them all and no oding is consider a sign of being homosexual and not part of the macho men... (read in full...)

My long distance lover type guy won't let me come to his city!

Q.   my not really a boyfriend more of a lover type guy is very sweet and attentive. it's a long distance relationship. he comes to see me on average every 5 weeks from late friday night to early sunday morning. we always have a great time (i know i do, ...

A.   14 November 2006: Find out by your own means maybe he has another relaionship or is married ... (read in full...)

Will sperm rot teeth?

Q.   my question is; my girlfriend thinks that my sperm will rot her teeth. is this true? ...

A.   14 November 2006: no ideas I think it doesn't contain acid do I think no they say it has fructose which is good for health ciao... (read in full...)

Will I lose him if I'm honest about my wild past.

Q.   i have a loving bf everything is fine we are planning to get married soon but the problem is i had a wild past and i havent told him abt it,he knows it but not everything, should i be entirely honest wth him?i do regret i was like this be4 i cant ...

A.   14 November 2006: u should tell in case he finds out by chance after you mary and then deep shit or divorce try to be honest and do not exageratte just put him in the picture ur not a saint but u love him very much ... (read in full...)

Standing by your man... Love or stupidity?

Q.   How do you know when standing by your man is love or stupidity?...

A.   14 November 2006: Depends on the situation though the line between love and stupidity is not always well defined... (read in full...)

We've been having unprotected sex and I may be pregnant!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 months. We've been having sex w/o a condom. There was probably about 3 or more time when he didn't pull out. I haven't been feeling the same. My breasts are sore. I am very tired and I get ...

A.   14 November 2006: I normally get those symptoms before my period but u may be pregnant yes have a test soon... (read in full...)

I'm dating him but he's spending the night with his baby's momma!

Q.   I dont understand. I have been talking with this guy for a few weeks, he is over every night and we talk every day getting to know eachother. i have a 3 yr old he has a 5 month old. well he says there is now feelings for the baby momma but yesterday ...

A.   13 November 2006: sorry but I see deep shit about this all I think that he's going to far and near to cross the line if he goes on this way it is up to u if u wanna fight this man back but the fight looks long and dangerous talk to him think it over and if u think ... (read in full...)

My bf's daughter and daughter-in-law always tell him about their periods! I think this is so weird! Opinions?

Q.   my boyfriend which is older and has a daughter that is 34 yrs. old and married with a child. she always talked to her father in her teenage years about her monthly period because her mother was ill. her mother was confined to the house so i don't ...

A.   13 November 2006: I normally make such a comment and it doesn't matter to me if my father is present or not,I think i something natural and you can normally talk about it , we normally feel down or tired at that time so she may be asking for her daddy to care and be ... (read in full...)

I can't decide what I want to do about my ex! Please help@

Q.   How can I expect to move on if I don't know what I want? I broke up with my guy 6 weeks ago, loved him to bits, we were sex buddies for another month, then he got a girlfriend. He seemed a little confused as he can't seem to decide whether he wants ...

A.   13 November 2006: Ok darling do not panic you'll get out of it but first u need to follow some steps. 1.Anytime u think of him go and do something, ironing, showering, phoning a friend(not to talk about him), go shoppng, sing..... 2. cut down on internet contact,... (read in full...)

I'm falling for someone else and can't bring myself to end it with my current bf!

Q.   I dont know what to do. I'm in a bit of a rut with my current boyfriend. I've been with him since I was only 15 and I'm now 19. I feel like I've out grown the relationship and hes done some things in the past that i cant get over. The problem is ...

A.   13 November 2006: I think that you feel as if your losing your youth because of having a mate since that young and u're tempted to experiment and try new ways but please take care and think it over slow as you may lose the person you really go for just ago with ... (read in full...)

I want to know if he fancies me. How can I find out?

Q.   hi im 16 and im friends with this boy. I wanna know if he fancies me without asking him. But how do u know when a boy fancies u? i mean he flirts wiv me, pokes me, pushes into me gently... but he doesnt seem to notice me in the corridors or he ...

A.   13 November 2006: I think you should ask him to have a coffee together and talk about it tell him u'd like know him better as u consider him interesting and nice, and see waht happens but please go slow... (read in full...)

What do I give my rich boyfriend for his birthday?

Q.   heyy my boyfriends birthday is in a few days and i have know idea what to get him we've been oen out 6 months but he has a lot of money and i know his gifts going to be really good for my birthday whats some sweet ideas for his birthday that arnt ...

A.   11 November 2006: Take him to a spacial place so that you always remeber it yeah... and do something special too Like a walk a night out dancing or just kiss etc... good luck... (read in full...)

Can't stop thinking about him and it's driving me insane! Help me!!

Q.   ppl i need your help so so much. im at uni, 18 years old, not bad looking. back in may i met the most amazing guy ever!!!!!! i have never ever felt the same about anyone before. he moved to america when we had been together just 3 months. I ...

A.   11 November 2006: I agree with Charly and I would ad have a look around and you'lk find another interesting man who will help you to be happy and so on u'll forget it real soon ... (read in full...)

She dumps all her problems on me and I'm sick of it! Any tips on what I should do?

Q.   Hey guys. I have a 'friend' that rings me everynight telling me her problems. The thing is, it takes up my whole night and I don't want to tell her because how can I say that to someone who has rang me for advice. I'd introduce her to dearcupid...

A.   11 November 2006: do not answer the phone everynight darling you need some time for yourself, tell her a boy or all your family is to spend the night theere so she can stay, tell her you are ill or something leave her good nice mesages on the ansaphone when she is ... (read in full...)

Should I shave 'down there' before my bf and I take things further?

Q.   okay, so this is my question. my boyfriend and i have been at second base, but were not going further than that right now. and i was just wondering, should i shave *down there* or not, or how much or something. please help. 3 ...

A.   11 November 2006: it's not necesary no need just if you feel like it a if you shave it will hurt when growing and if you really want it out go to a beauty shop and have it done with wax little scissors advice is also good ciao... (read in full...)

Just found out she had a wild past, before she found religion and God. How do I deal knowing about this other life she had?

Q.   I need help to come to term with gf's past. She had 2 different lifes if i can say that. In younger age, lots of partying, fooling around and things. Then discovered God, became very religious and she just hates that other period now. Only found out ...

A.   10 November 2006: aids and std test if everything is ok then go for it be happy together that's my view... (read in full...)

We had sex and now I don't think he'll ask me out again! I feel terrible..what should I do?

Q.   I have a problem..well to start off i'm 16 and I had sex with this one guy that i'm like in love with now and I have a feeling he doesn't want to ask me out because he already "hit it" so why bother. Well i feel terrible and I don't know what to do. ...

A.   10 November 2006: I think he did it to get u jealous talk to him then his girlfriends by right is you and he's trying to get you upset ohterwise get far from such a cranky... (read in full...)

What do I say and do during sex? Never had any experience with this yet...any tips?

Q.   what am i sposed 2 do and say during sex!? i mean i know im hardly going to strike up a big convo lol but still im a virigin so i have never experiance so i am unsure! i am also 17 incase anyone wnated 2 know...x...

A.   10 November 2006: ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhgggggggg yes yes there there ahgggggggggggggg... (read in full...)

I have fallen for my ex bf's brother! Should I pursue this or is this just too crazy to keep thinking about?

Q.   I have some emotional baggage that I'm not sure how to deal with, and I hope people here can help me. Almost two years ago, I broke up a serious relationship with a man who was also my best friend. I had my reasons and though I struggled with it ...

A.   10 November 2006: I think u should try it shouldn't be a problem if you ended in good terms with the other guy, c'on your an adult and not a teen go for it... (read in full...)

We had sex and now I don't think he'll ask me out again! I feel terrible..what should I do?

Q.   I have a problem..well to start off i'm 16 and I had sex with this one guy that i'm like in love with now and I have a feeling he doesn't want to ask me out because he already "hit it" so why bother. Well i feel terrible and I don't know what to do. ...

A.   10 November 2006: I agree with Nic, and I would add it is risky to have sex witha man who has a girlfriend as he will try to continue having bith things at the same time or go back to the safest option to have permanent sex or affect(girlfriend, I would recommend ... (read in full...)

My fiancee was killed 7 years ago and I can't move on from the loss..any advice?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have a major problem and I have no idea how to handle it. My fiance, the love of my life and very best friend was killed in a car accident 7 years ago. Since then I have moved on and have now been with a man that knew my fiancee ...

A.   10 November 2006: I'm sorry about you but you should try to move on however hard it seems, try to no stay in the house thinking but go nto a gym or social club, try to be entertained all day so you do not have the time to thik about the past and I think your dead ... (read in full...)

Why am I being treated like this?

Q.   Hi i am 40yrs old and feel my life is going nowhere fast. Ihave been married for 16yrs,but no longer feel any security with my husband. He does not support me in any situation that may arise, as 2 yrs ago i found out that he was relating every ...

A.   10 November 2006: I think you need family counselling and quite soon u havet to make yoir husband realise the situation is serious and that your family life is devsatated enough for their mum and sister to plsy gossip and talk mean about u who r trying to do your ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend thinks anything but FULL SEX isn't cheating. I disagree... please help us out!

Q.   What constitutes cheating? Is going to a strip club cheating? Is being very friendly with the opposite sex cheating? Is being flirtatious cheating? Is touching someone else cheating? Is having a secret crush cheating? Is having sinful thoughts of ...

A.   9 November 2006: Ok going to a strip club i not cheatin but getting time away from you both being together to se a prostitute dancin for me is an awafully disrespectful act I would only allow 3 times i'm sorry but I no not want that... (read in full...)

My boyfriend thinks anything but FULL SEX isn't cheating. I disagree... please help us out!

Q.   What constitutes cheating? Is going to a strip club cheating? Is being very friendly with the opposite sex cheating? Is being flirtatious cheating? Is touching someone else cheating? Is having a secret crush cheating? Is having sinful thoughts of ...

A.   8 November 2006: From me all u have mention is absolutely cheating darling you are absolutely right though full sex would be completely crosing the line... (read in full...)

She said she has skeletons in her closet but won't tell me what they are!

Q.   Pls Help !! Hi , I have an issue with the relationship i'm having. My girlfriend is 29 now, i'm 23 and we're thinking of getting married in a few years. I love her dearly and believe it or not, we were both phyisically virgins before we met about 1 ...

A.   8 November 2006: I think she'e trying to get your attention just playing around with witty sentences I think you should say 'i heve then too'' and forget about it ... (read in full...)

We broke up in August, she slept with 2 other guys, now she wants me back - did she cheat on me?

Q.   My ex-girlfriend has had sex with two (2) men since our break up (August 26th, 2006). She has now contacted me and says that she wants to make things work between us. Should I consider her sex with the other men as cheating? What should I b...

A.   8 November 2006: not factually but emotionally yes but u can talk and do things up yeah if you love her so much you can try... (read in full...)

He dresses in womans clothing when we have sex!

Q.   I met this guy 5 months ago and everything was great he told me he loved me after the 3rd day of knowing me . I thought that was scary but i was lonely and decided to start a relationship with him. He seemed so perfect always treating me to nice ...

A.   6 November 2006: I don't know why you are scared I think It is an strange fantady maybe you can tell him you want to practise a new one as you're tired of this one and that it doesn'r turn you on anymore if he gets violent then yeah you should be scared and try to ... (read in full...)

I don't know if I am ready. Am I ready?

Q.   hi im 19 and im still a virgin ive been seeing this guy for 3 months now and i know he wants to have sex but im just not sure, i really like him though! but i just dont know if im ready! help please?...

A.   6 November 2006: in this web http://www.teenwire.com/ you can find lot of info however I recommend you don't do it until u'r relaxed and sure u really want because you love that person and the other way round(which pityfully is not always the case) not because of ... (read in full...)

Should I be offended because he masturbates?

Q.   my husband works 12 hr days and sometimes our schedule are not the same he works 6pm til 6am and I work 2pm til 1030pm. and sometimes I come home and find a towl that I can smell his man scent on so I know that he has maturbated should I be offended ...

A.   5 November 2006: I do not think you should be upset at all, he is workimg all day and he is not unfaithful to you, if he just feels like relaxin' that way when you're not around and your sex life works ok I wouldn't be offended at all and I think you shouldn't feel ... (read in full...)

My bf acts and may have to kiss on stage. How should I react?

Q.   im in a loving relationship with a guy thats really passionate about life, music, drama ect.he studies drama at uni,we've been together for 2 years now, i really love him.the thing is im insecure about the people/girls he have to work with. The get ...

A.   5 November 2006: It's normal you don't like it but it's part of his work and u must respect it very much if you cannot cope with it maybe you should let him go but I think it's worth getting accustomed... (read in full...)

My bf acts and may have to kiss on stage. How should I react?

Q.   im in a loving relationship with a guy thats really passionate about life, music, drama ect.he studies drama at uni,we've been together for 2 years now, i really love him.the thing is im insecure about the people/girls he have to work with. The get ...

A.   5 November 2006: It's normal you don't like it but it's part of his work and u must respect it very much if you cannot copr with it maybe you should let him go but I think it's worth getting accustomed... (read in full...)

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