What should I get my bf for our first Christmas together?
Q. I want to get my boyfriend a gift for Christmas and I want it to be special because this is our first Christmas together. We have been dating for about 4 months and I don't know what to get him. I need help, what do you suggest?...
A. 8 December 2006: Weekend out in a Spa or something... (read in full...)
The guy I like likes me but won't break up with his GF for me!
Q. Okay, so there is this guy that I dated about this time last year, lets call him Eric. He is really really sweet, but I broke up with him to be with my ex, and we will call him Joe. And after me and Joe broke up, I didnt really want to go back to ...
A. 6 December 2006: he's so cheeky he wants it all ask him to make up his mind or dump him do not waste time witha liar... (read in full...)
I want to break up, but when I tried before he begged for me to come back! How do I do this once and for all?
Q. Hi, im 15 and gay and I have a boyfriend thats 16, he lives 90 minutes from me, i met him in july over th internet and then we met up and we been going out togther since. This was my 1st boyfriend (i had 3 girlfreinds before but i didnt love them ...
A. 6 December 2006: Tell ur engaged to somebody else, it normally works... (read in full...)
Should I talk to him about pics of his gal pal he has on his computer?
Q. Is there any problem with ur bf having pictures of his friend on his computer thats a girl? He has one folder of her bday pictures and she sent him her modeling pics. But this was before he met me and he still has it on his computer. Shes like the ...
A. 6 December 2006: Format his pc by ''accident'' then check if he keeps contact and decide what to do,please be cynical and enjoy... (read in full...)
I'm stressing out about what he's really doing online!
Q. Hey, everyone. I’ve been w/ my bf for 4 yrs now. He lives at home w/ his parents and so do I. He’s not the party type; he’s the type of guy that works and goes straight home and once in blue goes to his buddies house and hangout. He and I talk a ...
A. 6 December 2006: probably doin the idiot as most men but do not panic it's normal and a sign of needin to feel young and important but then it's you who's there and just that enjoy the time u have for a bath, shopping etc while he does the idiot on the net... (read in full...)
I am 19 with a 9 month old daughter and my partner just keeps bringing me down...
Q. Hi ,my problem is that my long term partner and me are not getting on. he picks on the littlest things and brings me down on them. we have a 9 month old daughter and i am very much in love with my partner but even though i have tried to be the ...
A. 6 December 2006: try to get him to counseling or be selfish and dump him u only have to cope with your own life which is hard enpugh to bring up a bay at 19 and stuff u need help and love not peple bringing u down... (read in full...)
I'm still in love with my ex and he talks to me about other girls!
Q. I am still in love with my ex-boyfriend. We dated in high school (my first love) and we recently got in contact again years later. The first night we were together, I felt the instant connection again and we ended up fooling around. The second ...
A. 6 December 2006: I think you should break off contact for a time so you feel strong enough to move on darling... (read in full...)
I am so lonely and sick of guys only wanting me for my nice body!
Q. Wow... drama drama drama.... I hate it.... me and my ex will never get back together and I realizie that now! But with everyone around me in a relationship its hard to always keep a smile on! I mean I do but its fake..... and I will admit I am still ...
A. 6 December 2006: I would pass of boys for a time and concentrate on working on my inner side and relaxin ... (read in full...)
My husband said nothing happened between him and the woman he texted, but I can't trust him!
Q. I wrote last week about my husband texting another woman while we were apart we are now back together but I can not get them out off my head he said nothing happened but i dont think i can trust him on this she has changed her number and we havent ...
A. 6 December 2006: I think it is maybe a cyber contact only and he probably did it for fun, do not worry it's probably nothin howeever if u find out it was sex involed then decide if u want to drop him or go counselling together I know people who only talk and just ... (read in full...)
I have a bf but I have drunkenly kissed other guys! Is this forgiveable?
Q. I have cheated a few times in my three year relationship with my boyfriend. I am 19 years old and have kissed a few other guys while being drunk and stupid. If I know in my heart that this was just stupidity and I love my boyfriend very much is this ...
A. 6 December 2006: well it was not serious it was just kissing but if u are not willing to commit let people go and life ur life as u want there's nothin' wrong with that if u'r sure this is the one then commit a bit it doesn't mean u have to marry ger pregnant an all ... (read in full...)
My ex broke up with me but wants to meet back up to talk...
Q. my ex went to uni this october after a week he came back and broke up with me then a month later he got a new girl, it was my birthday the other day he sent a card and in it said wen i cum back at xmas we can talk coz ive had a rough time with there ...
A. 6 December 2006: unless your completely all right and thik you wont break down after ir definitely NO take care it takes time to get better and this can make you go back miles of your progress to recover I would not recommend as u mey be oversensitive cuz of the ... (read in full...)
I suspect he is cheating - do I wait for proof before I leave him or go with my instinct?
Q. I am in a relationship with a guy and I believe he is cheating because of the hours he comes in. He does plumbing and uses that as his reason all the time, but something doesn't feel right. Should I follow my instincts and leave him, bearing in my I ...
A. 6 December 2006: investigate darling use your friend's and relative's net and then u decide... (read in full...)
He doesn't want kids with me all of a sudden - is he just trying to get out of marrying me?
Q. I have been engaged for 3 months now to a wonderful man. He has 2 young children from a previous marriage and now has decided that he doesn't want any more children. I am mid 30's never been married and have no children of my own. We had ...
A. 6 December 2006: I think he wants to prevent economical expenses to go up for him and well darling u will have to decide wether if to go on with him or to look for a fresh new start with a man withoout his ex life complications menacing him with doing so can help
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During sex or masturbation I don't feel any pleasure!
Q. When i masturbate i do not feel anything good. Why is this even when the opposite sex does it to me there is still no pleasure? whats wrong with me?...
A. 6 December 2006: definitely u do both things wrong ask for help:)... (read in full...)
I am still thinking of my ex gf even though I care about my current gf... what should I do?
Q. I have been with my current g/f for about 5 months. I now have an ex apparently tryin to get back in the door. I haven't had any major issues with my current gf but some things have come up recently. She went out with her gf's while I watched her ...
A. 5 December 2006: I think u should move away with your son and concentrate on him and ubeing ok for a time then you can start thinking about exes new girls and stuff
good luck... (read in full...)
Is cyber sex, online with different men considered cheating on my husband?
Q. is it cheating if you are going onto chat sites and chat to guys and talk to them in a sexual way. Sex with my husband is non existent and i feel its the only way i can get rid of my frustration. Yes i have tried to approach my husband to do ...
A. 5 December 2006: Well I think it is not cheating at all it's just having fun and you maybe get more turned on before intercourse with your partner so I think you can go on unless this affects your marriage or sexual life
enjoy... (read in full...)
I'm her 46 year old teacher, but I think I'm falling for my 16 year old student!
Q. The thing is: there is this girl - a student of mine. I notice things about her that I shouldnt: well I have always noticed things I shouldnt about various girls I am just.. well very aware of the female species lets put it that way. However with ...
A. 5 December 2006: I think you have idealised her as we sometimes do in a platonic way to some people, at your life point I think this could be to do with an idealisation of teen years and how you would like to go back to them and be completely happy and enjoy it very ... (read in full...)
My sister is my harshest critic! What can I do?
Q. My sister made very hard critics on my degree my work and love life which nearly meke me cry, I always try to be nice to her when she's down but I cannot stand her attitude, she pretends to control when I go to the gym or the clasees I attend, I ...
A. 5 December 2006: Thanks for your anwers I feel very down sometimes and I need to be cared for not to be treated mean or criticised until I want to cry I have listen to friends and relative's problems and shared my free time a lot and now I feel very sensible a bit ... (read in full...)
Took a morning after pill but is there still a chance I could get pregnant?
Q. i had unprotected sex during my period a month ago. I took the morning after pill the next day.my period is two days late.The doctor told me im pretty safe because i was on my cycle and i took the pill.What are the chances of me being pregnant?...
A. 2 December 2006: I think there are none ... (read in full...)
When I go out with my friend this cranky guy, Paul tags along and he's nasty to me. What can I do?
Q. I always end up going put with my friends and this cranky boy Paul always get to go out with us though he's been nasty to me in the past and because of we having common friends the other day I even end up having a coffee alone...
A. 2 December 2006: Sorry I posted half the message only The problem is this boy was nasty to me in the past acriticised me a lot and cause me to loose one of my best friends as we have friends in common he sort of phones them when we have planns so that Ann many times ... (read in full...)
I want to date her but she's only 15. Would it be wrong to start a non-sexual relationship with her?
Q. I'm 18 and in High School, and the girl I like is a Sophmore. She's only 15. I've never been sexually active and don't plan to start with a girl this young, so in a non-sexual relationship, would it be wrong to date her?...
A. 2 December 2006: I thik it's a ggod idea to date her, u sound a very reponsible and nice boy and I would like all mates your age to be like you
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I hate the rumors at school that I'm dating this guy, which I'm not! How do I stop this?
Q. Thers stupid rumours in my school about me n im sick of them! yesterday at school everything was fine and this morning i heard this boy fancies me and now everyone thinks were going out its really annoying all day people kept on asking "are you ...
A. 2 December 2006: Show u dont bother it was probably the boy who said u got off or somebdy jealous who did not want u to pick up with somebody else you could try holding hands and stuff with a friend of yours and see if there's new roumour ;) take it easy it's non ... (read in full...)
I have a bf but I have drunkenly kissed other guys! Is this forgiveable?
Q. I have cheated a few times in my three year relationship with my boyfriend. I am 19 years old and have kissed a few other guys while being drunk and stupid. If I know in my heart that this was just stupidity and I love my boyfriend very much is this ...
A. 2 December 2006: NOt really I have been drunk and not kissed or had sex despite the chances I had and it was not appropriate though forgiveness is up to you I have had girl mates who had kissed guys just for a go when clubbing despite having boyfriends, you have to ... (read in full...)
For 2 years, I've had a 'mirena' and I'm wondering..how safe are they?
Q. Hi there, i just wanted your advice on a matter pls, i had unprotected sex with my bf today, he ejaculated inside me for the first time and i know i have a high chance of becoming pregnant. However, for for 2years now Ive had a 'mirena'. That t...
A. 29 November 2006: My mon hada one and it works though she suffered uterous cancer and she says it was maybe caused by problems caused by these resort called DIU,similar to mirena, as it had moved and cause some injure which became an infection, I would recommend ... (read in full...)
Is dating guys from the internet a good idea?
Q. Is it a good idea to date guys on the internet if you find difficult to meet new people?...
A. 28 November 2006: Thanks a lot for your helpful advise It gets difficult for me to meet people and I've decided to try a date with an internet guy though I'm scared of many of the things u have mention and the necesity to be careful though all the boys I know are ... (read in full...)
He's left the country and I can't afford to call all the time, what do we do??
Q. my bf left the country, its extrenmely difficult to communicate wth him callin is too expensive i have tried all ways, nth works.he is terribly upset wth it what will we do?...
A. 26 November 2006: U can talk on the internet bias chat or live conversatoin by yahoo or even for free if you have a messenger program, emails are good and text messages are expensive but maybe u can afford 3 a week , it's really cheap compared with talking all day, ... (read in full...)
The guy I date won't leave the place he lives because--he lives with his current gf and her Mother! and he'd be homeless!
Q. i have this bf and i really like him as he like the male version of me we been together a month but the problem is he live with his other gf and her mum he says he wants to leave her for me but if he does he will be homeless also he good friends ...
A. 26 November 2006: Take him home until she finds another girl to mess around with, I THINK U'RE getting in deep shit if u go on with it take care
ciao... (read in full...)
Can you ever take back someone who has cheated?
Q. What are your thoughts on cheating? It's a long story so I won't go into too much detail right now. If someone cheats and then realises they have made a terrible mistake...have taken steps to try and put things right...begging for you to take the...
A. 26 November 2006: It's difficult but possible u have to take car not to take upt the issue as it will lead to further quarrel and so on it's to be very hard and u'll feel disilusioned but things are like they are darling
good luck... (read in full...)
Friendship problems...do I talk to him about it or just leave it alone?
Q. A friend keeps puting down my ex and my decision to go out with him in the past many times, also about my degree tough I have a Ph and work for uni, he also talks badly about my best friend who suffers from cancer and who is a nice person without ...
A. 26 November 2006: Yes I have set space between us withour quarreling or anything but I feel a bit down as it's defficult to keep having friends who undertand and respect u so I leave up and move on
thanks a lot... (read in full...)
He doesn't seem interested..so should I let go of this good opportunity and just date others or hang in there?
Q. A group of friends insists that one of their friends is after me, he takes time to talk with me when we meet by chance and texts me sometime but he has made no effort go out with me for a coffee or anything, moreover he's always talking about sex ...
A. 25 November 2006: Thanks I think it's good advice, the other day he told me about being horny all the time and something he know how to do to turn girls on by means of a coffee spoon I prntended not to be like a nun so I texted him '' oh yes in wales spoons are the ... (read in full...)
Mother wants me to date a boy of her choice! How do I deal with Mom?
Q. My mother keeps insisting I go out with a boy I cannot stand I always end up upset with her and now she's telling my sister to tell me off because of this fact, I am getting vey upset with my mother and Think she is a bit stupid in her behaviour, ...
A. 25 November 2006: Thanks for your advice it's very nice of you taking the time to answer, the true is I went out with hem 2 times ans I can't just stand him, It was a torture to keep listenig to him about his mean ex and stepmother,his lack of will to work because of ... (read in full...)
I feel sick, my breasts are tender, I'm always hungry...am I pregnant?
Q. i feel sick all the time my breast are tender and i still feel hungry after i eat but i have my period not like always its really light not spotting im bleeding but not like usual could i be pregnant? i took a test and it said no but i was pregnant ...
A. 25 November 2006: yes get a gp test... (read in full...)
Is there any possibility that I could be pregnant?
Q. Hi there i am 17, i have sex at least once a week every week, my boyfriend wears a condom every time, but just lately i have not been interested in sex with my boyfriend. I am also begining to worry that there may be something wrong with me because ...
A. 25 November 2006: could be yes go for a test... (read in full...)
Been thinking of a past lost love..does this mean I am falling out of love with my husband?
Q. Am i falling out of love with hubby? Moved Aboard 6 months ago with my hubby and daughter and are feeling a bit lost. I know we love each other but dont seem as close and now i am getting thoughts about a lost love am i falling out of love with...
A. 24 November 2006: We all think about the past and idelised lost opportunities try to move on and make the most of what u have or try to change it if u're not please maybe subsconcious is urgind u to reconsider ur feelings
take care... (read in full...)
When I'm alone..I'm horny! But with my bf..I don't want sex! What's wrong?
Q. I never want sex with my boyfriend. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and we started having sex after a month. The problem is I never want to have sex with, I'm not sure whether it's because maybe I'm not truly physically attra...
A. 24 November 2006: Maybe u get more pleasure from masturbation that's normal not to worry but try forelplay the way you mast and see what happens if it doesn't work look for sb who turns u properly
ciao... (read in full...)
I'm paranoid about this mark... was it lipstick on his collar?
Q. I am in a relationship with someone for about a year. I realize that i have insecurity and trust issues with him. Although in the past he has not given me any reason to not trust him, I developed a habit of looking through his cell phone to see who ...
A. 24 November 2006: I don't know if it helps but in spain ladies and ladies and men kiss both sides of the faces on the cheek, normally air around when we meet for the 1st time or after a long time and this has no sexual connotation at all, maybe it was just the case I ... (read in full...)
I like the gym reception guy but I suspect he might be gay!
Q. I like the boy in the gym reception and we flirt visually a bit and today I noticed him getting jealous because other boys were looking at me friendly though. I suspect this boy I like could be gay, I think he's lovely as he always cheers me up ...
A. 19 November 2006: Thanks the problem is I'm very shy but Ill try to get to get close and see
thanks a lot... (read in full...)
Is he or is he not interested? I'm confused by his lack of interest and distant behaviour!
Q. Hey. This guy iv been seein 4 abt 8-9 weeks now has just moved house (down the road from me) and now he seems kinda distant from me. B4 he moved he was tellin me how much he likes me and was guna try but now hes moved (been there abt 1 week) hes ...
A. 19 November 2006: I THINK UR RIGHT men never want to confess until they're completely involved and backed up by another girl b carefulas this seems the case I will have distance and look arounf 4nw guys just in case
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Her one night cheat doesn't bother me! Does that mean I am not in love with her?
Q. i thought that i was in love with my girlfriend of 5 months but since we split up a couple weeks ago, she had a one nighter and at first i was hurt but now it hardly bothers me at all, if i loved her should i still be feeling hurt or is this a sign ...
A. 19 November 2006: I think you love her but you are able to separate sex from love and if at that time u have splitted theres no eason for u to feel jealous or betrayed
I think u probably love her anyway
ciao... (read in full...)
Dating rules - are they right?
Q. OK this one is for the guys. I was reading an article about dating rules and it states that asking a guy out is a definite no no. I personally think that any rules are nonesense however as I'm too chicken to ask someone out so I'm unable/unwilling ...
A. 19 November 2006: Yes I think you can ask a boy out if you feel like it, it is not a problem in modern society... (read in full...)
Which are the main reasons to suffer from a headache? Any Advice?
Q. Which are the main reasons to suffer from a headache I have having one all week anytime I get my scarf out it gets worse I feel like sand in my eyes and a bit down and depressed because of other reasons, family problems, job.. any tips?...
A. 19 November 2006: Thanks you're real kind I will visit the doctor this week
cheers
xxxx... (read in full...)
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