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writes: I have been with my current g/f for about 5 months. I now have an ex apparently tryin to get back in the door. I haven't had any major issues with my current gf but some things have come up recently. She went out with her gf's while I watched her son and didn't return until 4 30 am. She goes to friends house for hours while I stay home and clean and stuff. The sex is ok, but the sex with the ex was great! The ex is 7 years younger and broke it off b/c she wasn't sure about bein a "step mom" b/c I have a son. There was some drama between my sons mom and my ex at the time. I still find myself thinking about my ex at times but care about my current live in gf too...what do I do?
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reader, jackyl +, writes (7 December 2006):
jackyl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the replies so far...any other advice because I am at a loss about what to do...I still care about my ex (as well as my current gf) but it feels like the current one is kinda taking advantage of me...thanks again in advance
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (5 December 2006):
 I think u should move away with your son and concentrate on him and ubeing ok for a time then you can start thinking about exes new girls and stuff
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006): Going back to an "ex" is never a good idea. The relationship ended for a reason. Move on. She should too.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006): Well it seems like your current gf is using you and repaying you back in the form of being your roommate and allowing occassional sex, while attaching the title of "girlfriend" to it.
The thing is, aside from sex, was your ex any better than your current, or was she in many ways similar? If you and your ex can benefit each other aside from sex alone, then I say go for the ex. Though I would still suggest you to leave your current girlfriend just because she doesn't seem like she is being very considerate of you in the first place - that is even if you don't have someone to go to if u break up with your now gf.
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