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writes:Hey. This guy iv been seein 4 abt 8-9 weeks now has just moved house (down the road from me) and now he seems kinda distant from me. B4 he moved he was tellin me how much he likes me and was guna try but now hes moved (been there abt 1 week) hes been funny with me like....not callin/textin me as much or seein me as much just like hes cant b bothered. i asked him and he sed its cause hes been rly busy with the move and rly tired from wrk. iv also asked him 2 b 100% honest with me and to tell me if hes not interested in me anymore but he says im being paranoid and its just cause hes been busy with his new house and soon things will get back to how they were. i just miss how he was with me. iv given him soo many oppotunities to tell me hes not interested but he says he is! thats y im soo confused! is he just stringing me along or what? im gettin quite down cause i do like him a lot! xx Reply to this Question
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (19 November 2006):
 I THINK UR RIGHT men never want to confess until they're completely involved and backed up by another girl b carefulas this seems the case I will have distance and look arounf 4nw guys just in case
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reader, mcbirdie +, writes (19 November 2006):
 I would relax, if I were you. I just moved house myself and I can tell you that it is ten times more stressful and tiring than people think it should be. He will be very tired, and finding it hard to get into a rhythm with his new place. If he has told you that he is tired and working hard and will be back to normal soon enough, then I do suggest that you back off and give him some space.
If you find that in a few weeks, things still aren't the way you want them, then have a conversation with him. But I think if you continue to ride him so hard during a time that is already stressful, then he will start to see you as being another element of stress in his life, and too needy.
Respect that if he didn't want to be with you he would tell you. Give the poor man some breathing room until he is settled.
Best of luck to you.
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