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writes: my ex went to uni this october after a week he came back and broke up with me then a month later he got a new girl, it was my birthday the other day he sent a card and in it said wen i cum back at xmas we can talk coz ive had a rough time with there being three deaths in last 2 months. But wen he cums back im not sure what he wants to talk about and i dont know how to be around him, help! how shuld i handle it? sumone said i shuld remain happy and if he wants sumthing to happen hell make the move is this true? is he going to talk to me about that? i dont know what to think, to be honest i want sumthing to happen, im actually getting all worked up though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2006): Don't meet up with him unless you want things to go further. It was over once so let it be. He will mess with your head. He obviously hasn't found better so he is back to see how things are. No way, tell him to push off.
Take care
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (6 December 2006):
 unless your completely all right and thik you wont break down after ir definitely NO take care it takes time to get better and this can make you go back miles of your progress to recover I would not recommend as u mey be oversensitive cuz of the deaths too, I think you must care only about u and to make him feel a good person after dumpin' u is not necesarily part of the process but to be with your real friends and family, take care people can be so mean tryinf to wash up their bad feelings about themselves
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reader, rachael123  +, writes (5 December 2006):
 Hi, well i had a similar situation actually and i aswell was so worked up i couldnt eat!. But what you have to consider is this. Why did he break up with you? ESPECIALLY is he knew there has been deaths in the family. what sort of man would do that? and do you really want to go back there?If he is at uni also and you did get back together you would have to trust him 100% can you after what he has done?if he really loved you would he not have been loyal to you?i dont want this to make you feel sad but im sure you have moe self respect that this. tell him to clear of he had his chance. hope this helps, rachael!x
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