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writes: I wrote last week about my husband texting another woman while we were apart we are now back together but I can not get them out off my head he said nothing happened but i dont think i can trust him on this she has changed her number and we havent had a phone bill this month i asked him a lot off questions but he woundnt talk about it every time his phone goes or he text someone i keep asking him who it it I feel sick all the time I carnt sleep, eat, I even went out and and got a mobile phone and a sim card I only wish I had thought off this before then I could off found out who she was, I need to no I have been on a lot off site that people wrote but with no joy I even ask the man in the shop if he could tell me but he couldnt i realy need to know who she is I dont wont to do anything silly but I need to no can anyone help? please I need to no
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reader, Bubblewrap +, writes (13 December 2006):
Hi i'm in a similar situation i found out that my Husband of 3 months has been texting a girl for the last 5 months, he said that nothing has happened physically but i am not sure if this is true or not.
He keeps insisting that he has not cheated on me and doesn't think he has done anything wrong, but in my eyes he has still been deceitful as he was hiding the messages from me.
I don't want this to be the end of our 8 year relationship, but i also want him to know that he cannot get away with this sort of behaviour.
I have told him that he needs to be 100% honest with me if there is to be the slightest chance of us working things out, and i have to trust him a certain amount to beleive him, which will be hard.
Trust will take a while to come back but i feel that if i don't ever trust him again our relationship is over, and i don't want that to happen, but i also don't want him to think that he is ok to do this again.
I have made the descion to beleive him this time but if anything of the sort happens again it will be over as hard as it is to admit it, i am not waiting around for somebody that wants to be with somebody else. i am worth more.
Just want you to know you are not alone.
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (6 December 2006):
 I think it is maybe a cyber contact only and he probably did it for fun, do not worry it's probably nothin howeever if u find out it was sex involed then decide if u want to drop him or go counselling together I know people who only talk and just that so maybe it is a hint of communication not working or him having a depression and wanting to feel young and sexy again though it is not your fault he's gor a mid forties crisis I understand u feeling awful and sent u a huge hugh and a keep calm advice
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