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writes: i thought that i was in love with my girlfriend of 5 months but since we split up a couple weeks ago, she had a one nighter and at first i was hurt but now it hardly bothers me at all, if i loved her should i still be feeling hurt or is this a sign that it was never love with her?
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reader, db930luvme +, writes (20 November 2006):
if you loved her it would of hurt you that she gave another man oral
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2006): My boyfriend and I recently got back together after a 4 month break. He broke up with me when he went travelling- thinking he wanted to be single, wasn't ready for commitment etc, but realised how much he missed me and loved me and lucky for him I took him back. During that time I slept with another guy and I know that my boyfriend had a couple of one-nighters also, but it doesn't bother me too much. I think it would be different if he had actually cheated on me, but as someone below said, it's about being able to separate sex from love. I was still in love with my ex when I slept with the other guy, so I can understand that sex doesn't really mean a lot if it's with someone who you don't love/hardly know. Do you think you would feel differently if she had actually developed strong feelings for somebody else?
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reader, shania  +, writes (19 November 2006):
 You would be jealous as hell if you still loved her...it would of cut you up like a knife but it didn't...You have moved on.
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (19 November 2006):
 I think you love her but you are able to separate sex from love and if at that time u have splitted theres no eason for u to feel jealous or betrayed
I think u probably love her anyway
ciao
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2006): I think if you were in love with your girlfriend, you would know the answer to this question. I think you have already moved on emotionally from her.
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