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male
age
30-35,
*li1112
writes:Well I met my girlfriend online, and im only 17 but i already have gone to see her in South Carolina I live in New York and as you can tell I love her alot because only after 3 months of talking and writing to eachother i went down to see her. I mean it was great and we hit it off but now that i left she was really sad, she said that she was losing feeling but still wanted to be with me she confused me, i gave her a couple of days to clear her head and think of why she was losing feeling, meanwhile im like drowning in tears and pain waiting for a response but when she did call back she told me she missed me but the reason she felt like this was because, she felt sad because she was not used to this not being close to her boy friend, as you can probably tell im really in love and i told her that she should think about if im worth staying with, and f she really loved me to stay with me, but i dont know what to think, my question is, if she said she was losing feeling should i expect the worst or if she called back and told me that everything was alright now that she didnt mean anything she said should i keep doubting her, I feel like crap because everytime i talk to her its in my head that she doesnt feel the same anymore even though she tells me not to think about that, that everything is fine I frequently ask her and she tells me to stop asking her cuz its annoying but i cant help it its in my heart all the time and i really love her i just dont know what to think anymore.
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (27 July 2008):
 i felt the same to be honest my last partner i spent close to home with and it was amazing seng him maybe 70% of not 100%. i started a long distance relationship and i will be lucky if i see him 40 days of the year, thats not alot and it is depressing because all you want to do is give them a hug and a kiss and you cant..its a very hard thing to do, so can handle it others cant.im just getting into this routine and ive had my thoughts of can i do this can i not see him for the better part of the year? he encouraged me that it would be all fine and we would use all our holidays to be togther so we would always have something to look forward to together..maybe she cant cope and maybe it will end, if not what meeting arrangements do you have, how much do you contact each other. ask her if anything would make her happy and if she says no then it is over.. im sorry to say unless you can make arrangements to make each other happy this relationship will be going no where
hope that helps aphex xxx
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