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writes:this may seem weird but i'm 20 and a virgin. When i masturbate i like to wear girls panties. Is this a really weird thing to do? should i be really embarrased by this and learn to stop doing it? Reply to this Question
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (29 December 2010):
 hi this is probably not something that will please future partners to know (sorry, just basing this statement on myself and my friends opinion on this) is doing it this way the only way that gets you off? if so, you need to be careful that this might become a habit that will hinder your sex life when you do get to have sex with a partner. if the panties don't always need to be involved then fine, carry on doing what makes you happy xx
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reader, auto +, writes (28 December 2010):
Ok ima chick so i know this. Do not tell your girlfriend she may be creeped out but whatever u do while masterbating is your own thing. Just dont walk up 2 a dude and tell him that.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (27 December 2010):
 This is a fetish which will disappear the moment that you get a girl naked. Trust me, they look a lot better in their underwear than you do. Its not that unusual but I wouldn't go mentioning it to people.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (27 December 2010):
 Fetishes are known for being odd. No fetish is logical, and it's a love it or hate it thing. Some have a fetish others will loose their appetite over, but that person again has a fetish someone else will wrinkle their nose over. Fetishes are extreme. They're supposed to be that way. If you have one then lucky you, you found what works for you. But be aware that fetishes are extremely personal, they are not to be broadcast to everyone you meet, if anyone at all. Once you meet someone truly special to you, someone you trust, someone who trust their own secrets with you, then you can tell that person about your fetish, without embarrassment.
You don't need to stop doing this. It doesn't harm anyone, it's not illegal, and it's what you enjoy. Do it and be happy!
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (27 December 2010):
 Suprise suprise you are not alone according to old stats 1 in every street wears womens under wear to masturbate catches the mess makes you feel closer to a women or just even the soft touch of the material. i myself think its quite kinky however if it makes you happy that is all that matters. to be honest that is not the weirdest fetish so dont worry. if you feel uncomfortable and dont like it then yes i would say stop. personally i dont see anything wrong with it as long as your happy. good luck aphex xx
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reader, needlesandpinsuh +, writes (27 December 2010):
It's not weird. Lots of people share this same fetish!! You aren't being a transvestite, but it would be fine if you were. Look up an Eddie Izzard fansite, or a hair metal site, or a.. I dunno... male danseur or figure skater site and see how many chicks dig the guys who "get in touch with their feminine side".
It isn't even necessarily that. It could just be you feel some delicate, female- presence when you entertain this fetish, or that you enjoy the feel of the fabric or fit... or whoknows. It's not necessarily feminine.
Enjoy what you enjoy. If you still feel embarrassed, you do know- no one sees you doing it, so relax! And hopefully find someone who is accepting of all your interests and interested by them as well.
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