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writes:Please I am need of desprate assistance Yesterday my girlfriend came over to my house to study she was already mad at me because she is thinking I cheated because Long story short I didn't cum the day before and I told her "I'm gonna cum ok" she thought she heard "I'm gonna cum again" so she flipped and thought I was cheating Later in the day we got into a huge fight things were getting physical but it got better she apologized and so did I and we made upThen my brothers came home and my oldest brother started yelling at me saying why I ate all his chili. My girlfriend was outside and the window to the kitchen was open and she swears to god she heard my brother say I cheated when I was talking to him. He never said that ever all he was saying was chiliYet my girlfriend absolutely believes he said cheating so much do she would probably kill for itWhat makes it worse is that we recently found out my dad is cheating on my mom which makes me feel horrible and my girlfriend tries to say that I'm just like my dad nothing but a cheater and I know I am notPlease help anything to make this right. Anyone? Reply to this Question
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reader, YouWish +, writes (18 January 2012):
 Boy, with girlfriends like this, who needs enemies?? You said a fight over cheating was getting "physical"? Was she hitting you and slapping you?? Abuse is abuse. No one has the right to put their hands on another.
Not only does she have major trust issues, but she turns a traumatic, painful time in your life into an excuse to hurt you more.
There's nothing you can do to make this right, because it's not your problem. You can't appease someone like this. Tell her that it's not working out between you, and that it's over.
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (18 January 2012):
 she seems paranoid to say the least. Alot of women or men go through this phase. its vunerable place and scary, however if she does not change this attitude you wont be together for very long. And as for your dad cheating she is just trying to paint you with the same brush which is very unfair to you because its a cop out or a damn right out lie. Really you have to say to her you either trust me or you dont, because without trust their is no relationship same thing with communication. she either has to accept that your not cheating or shell catch you out or fate will land where it will and if she cant face this, within time you will get fed up of telling her your honest and you will either cheat on her for real or you will just plain break up with her cause your not that type of guy to cheat. am i right or what. hope this helps aphex xx
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (18 January 2012):
Advice: Run. Run far away from this one.
She clearly has issues that you can't even begin to explain and you too just aren't going to work (at least based on what information you've given me).
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