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... Send *anniepeg a private message | | | *anniepeg's profile:I am 34, married a second time. My son is 9 years old and 2 cats. He keeps me busy. My hobbies are movies, recreational games like xbox games, darts, badminton and dear cupid of course. I used to play the piano but stopped. I have been here for 6 years. Every year I see myself change. Every day is a surprise, an opportunity for growth while some days are just coasting along wondering what the point is. My relationship views are a mix of traditional values and modern, open minded ones. I still believe in long term monogamy as it feels right to me. Other than that I feel there are too many rules in a relationship that I would like to get rid of. Dearcupid is a source of my learning about relationships. I am too young to form a conclusion of what love is. I guess I will grow old with this site.
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Can all women cum?
Q. Hey everyone me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now but i have some questions. For any women out there, can ALL women cum? and if so, is an orgasm more exhilirating or just as with or with out cumming... ...
A. 11 March 2010: For women, orgasms are more like ripples of waves (sometimes small, sometimes big and crashing) compared to men's which are more explicit. So if you ask me did I cum, I would be so consumed at the moment I wouldn't care to count how many orgasms I ... (read in full...)
Should I try to make it work with my husband or should I finally leave and start a new life?
Q. I've been married for 4 years, and I have a 3 yr old son with my husband. He is a great, amazing, cute, hardworking man. About a year and half ago i started seeing this other guy, started off as a little adventure, but became very serious, and now ...
A. 11 March 2010: I think you should realize what went wrong that made you want to cheat, start a new life and not look back. At the same time be realistic about what kind of relationship you are really having with the new guy. If it's the second choice you are ... (read in full...)
I don't think I could be just her friend as I like her too much.
Q. One, before anything else... i suck at dating... Two, sorry for writing too much... but its because of #1 I've met a girl last December and we've been dating since January. It seems to me she was of the caring and loving kind. So as we started t...
A. 11 March 2010: I don't think kissing on the 5th date is too early but I believe I should wait for the guy to take the initiative. You may be slow to warm up but she has to be patient. Now the mystery is gone, she seems needy and you feel no incentive to chase. ... (read in full...)
How do I end this affair? And should I tell my wife?
Q. I'm a married to a lovely wife with 2 fantastic children. I never thought cheating on my wife,never. But last January i met a single woman during a work project, we have a chat and we exchanged our phones. till there i was doing my job, nothing was ...
A. 10 March 2010: If no one else knows about the affair, no. You end this affair by not contacting her anymore. Tell a therapist, a male, please, not your wife. A therapist will help you deal with your guilt. Your wife will make you feel guilty for the rest of your ... (read in full...)
Can all women cum?
Q. Hey everyone me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now but i have some questions. For any women out there, can ALL women cum? and if so, is an orgasm more exhilirating or just as with or with out cumming... ...
A. 10 March 2010: First I will tell you I prefer fingering over oral.
Orgasms vary in degrees. There a mild orgasms, the ones that relaxes me and release tention. There are painful, embarrassing orgasms, the ones that make me shake, and make me frantically try to m... (read in full...)
I don't know if I can wait 3 years...
Q. I'm 17 years old and live in the UK. I met a friend online a year ago, he lives in saudi arabia and is the same age as me. we have been in a relationship for just under a year. i love him a lot and the feelings the same, but we are not going to meet ...
A. 10 March 2010: Set each other free. You are going to run into temptations a lot these 3 years. There is no guarantee he will be living in the UK after his studies. Relationships that remain more than 3 years are rare at your age anyway. End it before it becomes ... (read in full...)
He said I have issues keeping in touch!
Q. my bf has stated that i have an issue with keeping in touch. He mentioned that its hurtful when I don't call for atleast once or during acouple of days to intiate contact by phone. This has been going on since we've started dating and its been ...
A. 10 March 2010: You really feel that someone here would scold you? Is that because your boyfriend scolds you? Hmmmmm, red flag.
I don't know how you guys work this out. Does he call you even when you don't initiate the calls? Or does he just wait and sulk even you ... (read in full...)
Been with him for 10 years and want to get married...
Q. I need Help, I have been with My Boyfriend Almost Ten years, and I have hinted to Him For awhile that I want to Get married. He has a son that I just adore and He is know asking his dad why we are not married. I feel that it is Time for us to Get ...
A. 8 March 2010: You are basically his mother now. If you leave then you are telling him I don't want to be part of this family because daddy decides not to marry me. As a 10 year old he's not going to understand and would assume you don't love him enough to be his ... (read in full...)
First relationship is a bit confusing and compicated!
Q. Well, I'm in my first 'proper' relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for around 5 months now and we are both virgins. My boyfriend is a few years older than me and i was suprised when he told me he was a virgin and i have mixed feeling ab...
A. 8 March 2010: You need to eat well in order to function sexually. You need all kinds of vitamins especially zinc, potassium, and selenium. This is essential for both men and women. Being a virgin is not a big issue. Everybody has to start somewhere. Men and women ... (read in full...)
He keeps putting off the wedding
Q. Pls advice. I've been with my fiance who propossed to marry me on the 4th year of our relationship (we now on the 6th year). We decided to abstain from sex 'till we get married because of our religion. We love each other but not earning much, ho...
A. 8 March 2010: He could be gay. I am not saying this just because it's an obvious. I had an experience with a gay man who is catholic who wanted to get married due to family pressure to hide his sexuality. I am sorry if I am wrong. But be happy that you won't get ... (read in full...)
Should I be in this relationship when I can't stand to be touched
Q. About 4.5 years ago i was seriously hurt by a crazy ex. Sex was abuse, and it was cruel, and as soon as i could escape i did. I moved to a different city, sacrificed my friends, my job, my life and developed an eating disorder. My way of handling ...
A. 8 March 2010: Thank you rcn, I hope you would be online whenever abused people asks questions about intimacy. For the original poster, I just want to add that you might want to find a tantric healer. You might learn to associate gentle touch with peacefulness and ... (read in full...)
Should I continue losing weight, or leave?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We just had a son 4 months ago and we finally moved in together about a month ago. Everything seemed perfect..we get along great and work as a team. We have a lot of fun together and joke around a ...
A. 8 March 2010: Men and women lose attraction to each other. These things are not discussed among couples because the causes remain a mystery. I think having a child definitely changes things. He looks at you as a mother, not like a sexual figure anymore. However ... (read in full...)
Inappropriate touching from an uncle.
Q. My uncle touches me inappropratly he always touches my bum and boobs and it makes me sick! I am 16 by the way. I'm a really shy person, i know i should tell someone but i don't know who to tell and it's so embarrising. The only person i would ...
A. 8 March 2010: I'll tell you a real story. There was an immigrant family from Eastern Europe. They came to the US to make a better living. They were poor so their son had to earn money in a candy store. He earns $100 per week and the family was happy. When he ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my boss's wife
Q. I'm 29 yrs old unmarried female. My plight is that I wanted to be in good books of my boss so, for that I became friendly with his wife. We became good friends but, over the period of time I realised that I liked her a bit more and we got into ...
A. 7 March 2010: I seriously think that if you want happiness you should move to more liberal countries. I know you have your job there but I would rather die than not have a chance of loving who you want to love. 29 years is a lot of repressing your desires.... (read in full...)
Can all women cum?
Q. Hey everyone me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now but i have some questions. For any women out there, can ALL women cum? and if so, is an orgasm more exhilirating or just as with or with out cumming... ...
A. 7 March 2010: Women do want to scream, and it's possible. Just because you don't scream like that doesn't mean it can't happen for a woman.
Listen to Lily Allen's song, Not fair.
Theres just one thing that's getting in the way you just aren't good in bed it's... (read in full...)
Inappropriate touching from an uncle.
Q. My uncle touches me inappropratly he always touches my bum and boobs and it makes me sick! I am 16 by the way. I'm a really shy person, i know i should tell someone but i don't know who to tell and it's so embarrising. The only person i would ...
A. 7 March 2010: That's all your father said? That's not a very constructive response. He sounds like he couldn't believe it and doesn't want a confrontation. If that's the cause you have to rely on your own. If there's a family gathering and your uncle has to be ... (read in full...)
Can all women cum?
Q. Hey everyone me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now but i have some questions. For any women out there, can ALL women cum? and if so, is an orgasm more exhilirating or just as with or with out cumming... ...
A. 7 March 2010: Yes all women can come. Clitorally and vaginally. Our bodies our designed for that kind of pleasure. The stuff you see in porn where women are screaming, are real. They are not faking. Not all men can make women come though. ... (read in full...)
I need to take things slower but he sees it as neglect
Q. My bf and I have been going out for 8 mos,I'm getting divorced (separated more than a yr ago) and I have a son.Well, we see each other 1-3 times a week and mostly all day Mondays, we txt about 100 txts daily between both of us, and I call every ...
A. 7 March 2010: No. His perfectionism is annoying. He's the one who's inconsiderate. It's not necessary to say I love you all the time. It's true that every day is a new day, our feelings can change. But he's smothering you and it's making it hard for you to love ... (read in full...)
I worry my penis wont measure up
Q. i just wanted 2 ask any girls out there that have had a guy or more in the past that had a gigantic dick, what happens in the future when u find someone u fall in love with that just has a 6 or 7 incher? does it mean that since u already had ...
A. 7 March 2010: Your girl is not lying. I kind of like it when guys feel they are not that big so that had to work harder to please us. Most of times it's true. I saw in porn movies that guys with big cocks are so proud they let the women do all the work, and can't ... (read in full...)
I think I had unrealistic expectations of what a relationship should be
Q. I'm currently in a relationship with a girl (I'm 17 and shes 16, I'm a junior she's a sophomore)l that I do really like but lately things just haven't been working out. I think I may have found the exact reason why... This is actually my firs...
A. 7 March 2010: If I were your girlfriend, I would tell something's off with you. I won't be too surprised you wanted to break up. Go do what you have to do and explore the world. ... (read in full...)
Inappropriate touching from an uncle.
Q. My uncle touches me inappropratly he always touches my bum and boobs and it makes me sick! I am 16 by the way. I'm a really shy person, i know i should tell someone but i don't know who to tell and it's so embarrising. The only person i would ...
A. 6 March 2010: I don't understand why you keep letting your uncle in your house. If my uncle touched me just one time, he'll be sure I won't ever see him again for the rest of my life. Better be alone than to spend time with someone taking advantage of your need ... (read in full...)
Is there a chance for us to be together again
Q. My relationship of 6 years ended in September. We have a two year old son and run a business together. We get on very well and are the best of friend but he said he doesn't love me the way he feels he should. He was having strong feelings for ...
A. 6 March 2010: He's acting like a coward. Life would be so much simpler if he stays with you. The business will go on as usual, he doesn't have to schedule time to be with his kid. He has to understand and accept that all relationships would lose its spark. Both ... (read in full...)
I live with my boyfriend and find having his child once a week is hard
Q. i have been seeing my boy friend for over a year i have now moved in to his house, he is in the army so he is away in the week and i am on my own i am happy and i did know that when i moved in that it would be like this,my boy friend has a little ...
A. 6 March 2010: For a man, seeing you every week, taking you out to dinner, and being committed to you means doing a lot. Compared to other man, he's not abusive, alcoholic, or cheating. There are men who are more available, but have other set of problems, such as ... (read in full...)
I don't want to love him anymore and he doesn't want to love me.
Q. I've been with this guy for exactly 1 year and 6 months today. I'm crazy about him. But that’s the problem. I don’t want to love him any more and he doesn’t want to love me. We've got into random fights our entire relationship, and about a year...
A. 6 March 2010: Sounds like you are both addicted to the highs and lows, and the intense emotions in the relationship. This must be written in an emotional outburst and you contradicted yourself a few times. Your writing style probably describes your personality as ... (read in full...)
Husband thinks I'm cheating on him but I'm not!
Q. I recently got a new job and my husband was very excited for me. i am a broker for a shipping, trucking company and in the office it is just me and an older un attractive guy that is my boss. My husband came to my work to have me sign some papers ...
A. 6 March 2010: I wouldn't do anything to prove myself. No means no. You already talked too much. Let him torment himself with those thoughts. He is doing this to himself. Don't take part in it and give energy to it. ... (read in full...)
He's having an emotional affair with this girl... help!
Q. My boyfriend and I have had a very rocky relationship but i thought it was getting better, 4 months after we started dating he cheated on me... because it was so early in the relationship i forgave him... now... a year and two months later he says ...
A. 6 March 2010: You are his safety net. The marriage would not make the affair go away. Their relationship did not work out because you are still in the picture. Since you are the one always forgiving he would always come back to you. He appreciates you always ... (read in full...)
Will my trust for him ever be restored?
Q. Once trust has been lost do you think it's possible to regain it again? I constantly got hurt when I was with my boyfriend and left me with trust issues. Now its two years later and he seems genuine with me but I have a fear in the pit of my stomach ...
A. 5 March 2010: I suppose the trust issues have to do with cheating, or flirting with other women? And that you broke up and thinking about getting back together two years later? Your body is telling you something. You should really think twice before seeing him ... (read in full...)
Why do I love him so?
Q. My boyfriend and i dated for about a year and i loved him unconditionally infact i still do. In the second month of our relationship i found out that his ex girlfriend was pregnant with his child. He assured me that this happend before we go ...
A. 5 March 2010: Because true love is unconditional and it asks for nothing back. You get over him by thinking that your love will be invested in a guy who deserves it, and reciprocates it. Not everybody responds to your love. Holding on to your love is not ... (read in full...)
Is the LDR ruined or do I just need to give her a couple of days?
Q. Hi! I have been dating a women at long distance. She lives in Russia and I live in Hungary. I am 40, she is 28. I have a kid, 6 years old and she has an 8 year old. We have met three times (3 days each time). Recently, we agreed that we would meet ...
A. 5 March 2010: I don't think she is lying. Go ahead call her and say you miss her. Menstruation only hurts the first two days. I feel normal and happy again on the third day. It's the full moon isn't it? What a coincidence! She seems to have no problems with the ... (read in full...)
How can I give the best blowjob, when I hate doing it?
Q. how can I give the best BJ!!! the thing is i hate giving bj but i husband loves it.....and I'm willing to do anything for him can i have some advice on how I can give the best BJ thanks...
A. 4 March 2010: First step is your attitude. Do it to show you worship him. Go deep to show him how much you want him. Avoid touching it with your teeth. Lick his shaft, frenulum, balls, and yes, under it too. Hold his shaft, pull it downward and feel how big he ... (read in full...)
I told him I wanted a divorce because of his porn use, and he refused. What can I do?
Q. I need some advice on my marriage. This month i will be married for 4years, we have 2 children 2 1/2 and 10 years. I have caught my husband plenty of times where he will sit and watch porn on the internet and also masturbate to it and every now and ...
A. 4 March 2010: Men don't watch porn because there is something wrong with your sex life. They watch it because they are visual creatures. I myself like watching porn, so does my boyfriend. We watch it by ourselves and sometimes with each other. I have no issues ... (read in full...)
Thinking of giving up relationships.
Q. How can a woman stay off relationships forever? I'm considering that route. I'm really young at 21 to make such a decision, but I don't know. I'm attracted to men, both sexually and romantically. No attraction to women whatsoever. But there are ...
A. 4 March 2010: You are only 21 and came to conclude that you are give up on love, really? Are you ready to go to live in a convent?
You are using your "unattractiveness" as an excuse to avoid intimacy, at the same time wanting it.
No woman is ugly. Cosmetic... (read in full...)
I'm used to my girlfriend forgiving me after I abuse her, but this time she's fed up. What do I do?
Q. Hi everyone. I've been with this girl for 3 years now. We have a child together. I love her dearly and want to marry her. She does everything for me. She let's me want for nothing. We have the same religious background which is wonderful (first girl ...
A. 4 March 2010: A 12 year old bride will be perfect for you. She is pure, virgin, and too young to judge you. She will let you abuse her because she can't tell what's right or wrong. Worry that's illegal? Well in some countries it is legal. If every girl in the US ... (read in full...)
I show my wife affection but get nothing back in return...
Q. I'm a 32 year old man turning 33 this year. My wife is 28. We will be married 7 years on March 29th. We have our Ups and downs like in many other marraiges I hear about. We are now attending counseling because it has been a rough journey. On ...
A. 4 March 2010: If nothing improved after the 6 month separation you need to let her go. Your wife got what she wanted: a marriage. I imagine at the beginning you two enjoyed sex but after marriage she thought there is no more need. There is a joke about a bride ... (read in full...)
Lost attraction for boyfriend and loving a guy with possibly too much baggage.
Q. Hey everyone, I wrote recently about my situation and now I have another question pertaining to it. To summarize, I am dating a man whom I do not love but who is a fantastic guy, treats me great, etc. It's just not there. Now, I've fallen for ...
A. 3 March 2010: You know he's going to have problems but you don't care. He's the opposite of your current boyfriend. Exciting, unpredictable, emotionally charged and that invokes passion in you. He will always be telling you his juicy stories. You might have a ... (read in full...)
She says the baby is not mine, but I am worried she is lying
Q. on Dec 02, 2009 I ejaculated on a females stomach. I went into the bathroom to get a towel and left the room for a few minutes. I received a call today 03/02/10 from this girl stating she is pregnant and is due on july 9,2010. my question is--is it ...
A. 3 March 2010: The baby is probably not yours but someone else who impregnated her in October 09. It's possible she fingered herself with your cum, but also possible that some cum went inside before you pulled out. If that's the case, the due date should be ... (read in full...)
Is great sex worth being cheated on and lied to?
Q. My girl's a liar and a cheat but she's so good sexually that I can't ditch her. She lets me do ANYTHING. Tempting? How am I supposed to go out and meet other girl that compare to THAT? Comparatively, every girl I meet is so boring sexually....
A. 3 March 2010: I understand what you are feeling. She is submissive in bed but not satisfied with you. I feel that she's more experienced than you are and you just go with the flow. Perhaps she was used to men who lead sexually and would expect you to know what ... (read in full...)
Everytime I get upset or sick she tells me to deal with it! What makes her this way?
Q. Hey, all. I've been with my current girlfriend for about 16 months (same girl as my last question). She's begun pressuring me pretty hard to get engaged, but I have one big (in my opinion, anyway) roadblock to that happening. In a nut-shell, I ...
A. 2 March 2010: Is she working? Is her job just as stressful? I don't like her screaming. She must have been frustrated a lot. What makes a person act like she's acting? I would say a person who doesn't know what real life is. Whenever you are going to disappoint ... (read in full...)
What do girls really mean when they say "size doesn't matter"?
Q. For just about the majority of my life, I've heard all about that "bigger is better" stuff. Well I'm pretty much 18 now and I'm convinced that I won't be growing down there anymore since it's been that way since I was 12. Mine is 4.5 inches lon...
A. 1 March 2010: Size does matter. If you don't want to get an answer you won't be satisfied with, don't ask it. I met a guy who was like 6'3'', but his penis was 4 inches, not even 4.5 inches when erect. He was so charming I couldn't find any insecurity in him. He ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he would have me sign a prenup. What do you think of this?
Q. My BF if self-employed and his business is booming. He's also very ambitious. He tells me a lot about his work and the other day was talking about a client of his whose wife 'cleaned up' when they got divorced. He's also got a friend who recently ...
A. 1 March 2010: Luckily, I am not a woman would fight for money after a relationship ends. I don't get vindictive and I believe in being fair. But if someone asks me to sign I would, just to prove that I have no problems with him getting the money he's worth. He ... (read in full...)
I have two men in my life, how do I choose which one?
Q. I am a 30 year old attractive and smart female. I was a former Ford model in teens and early 20’s, and after graduating college, I am currently a VP in pharmaceutical sales. How do I choose? Here’s some background on the men. Guy #1--We’ve ...
A. 28 February 2010: Guy 1. Sorry, my personality would match well with guy 1. I really believe you can fall back in love again. But you want to choose the easy way out. Guy 2 flatters you, make you feel good but it's guy 1 you need. So for 14 years your relationship ... (read in full...)
I keep looking at other women!
Q. Hey people ive got a problem, i currently have a girlfriend but every time im with her, i subconsciously look at other women's behinds or breasts?! i know its a bad thing but i dont do it on purpose! weve been together for about months now a...
A. 27 February 2010: It's only wrong when your girlfriend catches you drooling over them. Otherwise, looking at women satisfies your curiosity. It's healthy too. A woman's body is beautiful and soothing. You don't spend 24 hours a day looking at your girlfriend and she ... (read in full...)
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