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... Send *anniepeg a private message | | | *anniepeg's profile:I am 34, married a second time. My son is 9 years old and 2 cats. He keeps me busy. My hobbies are movies, recreational games like xbox games, darts, badminton and dear cupid of course. I used to play the piano but stopped. I have been here for 6 years. Every year I see myself change. Every day is a surprise, an opportunity for growth while some days are just coasting along wondering what the point is. My relationship views are a mix of traditional values and modern, open minded ones. I still believe in long term monogamy as it feels right to me. Other than that I feel there are too many rules in a relationship that I would like to get rid of. Dearcupid is a source of my learning about relationships. I am too young to form a conclusion of what love is. I guess I will grow old with this site.
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I'm concernd about the size of my penis?
Q. My current girlfriend, who had sex with one person before told me that he had a small penis, but she later told me that it was 6 inches, which I certainly don't consider small. She also told me that having sex didn't feel good at all with him. She ...
A. 20 March 2010: You both have average sized penises, yours is thicker. Size and how good the sex is are 2 different issues. You worry too much about numbers. The vibrational frequency between the two sexes makes the sex feel good (paraphrased from another DP uncle, ... (read in full...)
Has he already lost interest so early on?
Q. So, I'm a little confused about a guy I have been dating. We've only been on 3 dates and I know it's still VERY early in the dating stages but I can't help but wonder what his intentions are. For instance--he is a great guy, VERY gentlemanly and ...
A. 20 March 2010: The relationship hasn't begun yet. You are sure you want to be with him while he still wants to get to know you better. Just have to assume everything is fine if he's planning the next dates. Guys can be extremely frustrating but if you can be ... (read in full...)
Is this relationship with an older woman worth continuing?
Q. A few weeks ago, I met a woman in my town and we had a sexual encounter. Since then, we have been seeing each other on a regular basis on the premise of nothing more but just fun together. I hadn't had sex for about 2 years until I met her but after ...
A. 20 March 2010: I am a 29 yr old single mom. I like older guys. There are times when I am pressured by society's standard to have a family in the future but on other days I am just fine with raising my boy alone. I feel pretty content with having a boyfriend coming ... (read in full...)
How do I get my fiance to understand my libido is increasing?
Q. so lately my libido has been increasing, where i want to have sex at least once if not twice to three times daily, but my fiance has been stressed about work and his libido is going down. he gets annoyed when i paw at him for sex but becomes angry ...
A. 20 March 2010: You don't have to let him know you are masturbating. May I ask you if you are satisfied every time you have sex? It's not that your libido is increasing, maybe you didn't orgasm deeply enough? How long does one session last? After good sex you ... (read in full...)
What's the most important thing in a relationship?
Q. Love is really confusing. I've never experienced it, maybe that's why I can't get my head around it. What's the most important thing in a relationship? I know different people will have different opinions but I'm curious. The majority of us have ...
A. 20 March 2010: I can't single out just one thing that's the most important. Being in love in all different stages in a relationship keeps a couple together. Doing special things to remind each other of the love. Before we get to that let's say don't rush into a ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do anymore, should I move on?
Q. hi everyone i live with my boyfriend and think that he is really immature because i just caught him watching porn in the living room when i went to sleep. we haven't had sex in like a week and everytime I try to make love to him, he rejects me and ...
A. 20 March 2010: Don't move back in. Keep your hair curly. He's not immature, he's a jerk and he doesn't know what he wants. No he doesn't treat you like a toy since he doesn't even play with it, he treats you more like a housemaid. It's not you, he may be having ... (read in full...)
How do you convince someone that you want them and won't leave them for anyone else?
Q. Been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years now. She lives with her parents and i live on my own so we only see each other about twice a week. We had an argument last night over the phone about nothing really. So today we had a long chat to patch ...
A. 19 March 2010: If you look at her as someone you want to spend your life with. Do the following. Be concerned about her well being, her ambitions in life, her secret desires. Ask about you and her in the future, marriage, kids, houses, etc. Be good to her family ... (read in full...)
He insists that I send him nude photos and that I talk dirty, but I'm not that kind of girl!
Q. im in a relation ship with this guy. He is a sweet guy for the most part but 2 things he always wants me to send him a nude pic and i really don't mind that much but he is always asking and the second reson is he wants so talk dirty over text all ...
A. 19 March 2010: He's horny and he wants an outlet. Tell him you are not ready to talk about these things yet you are still young. So the masturbating is his private business, he should not give you the burden of releasing his sexual tension. ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 19 March 2010: The whole question was worded wrong. Here's why I would have asked it:
"My wife and I had experimented with sex with multiple partners for years. I was tired of it but she continues this swinging lifestyle. I want to settle down and have kids and ... (read in full...)
Should I come clean and take my punishment?
Q. I cheated on my husband in a moment of passion, I am such a bad person and regret it, what should I do? I work as a bartender and this older guy that stays after closing time as a friend (we recently have had a couple break-ins/robber...
A. 18 March 2010: You can say all you want about how you regretted what you did. Fact was you enjoyed what he did to you, in the moment of passion as you said. You felt desired in a naughty way. Cheating is wrong. What is done is done. Your attitude towards what you ... (read in full...)
Would you date a sociopath knowing how handsome many of them are?
Q. I ask, because a lot of women say they prefer bad boys to so-called nice guys. Is a bad boy someone who who has a harley, wears a leather jacket and sleeps around, or is it a sociopath? Would you date a sociopath knowing how confident and ho...
A. 18 March 2010: I wouldn't date a sociopath. I only found out what a sociopath is after having a relationship with one. A sociopath gives women a feeling of 2 unique people against the world, partners in crime; while a nice guy tries to conform to social standards ... (read in full...)
Would I be imposing if I went to the funeral?
Q. I've been with my BF for about 7 months. I've met his family and we're quite serious. I met his grandmother last week and I've just found out that she died yesterday. My BF told me about her funeral and then said 'you're welcome to come.' Was...
A. 18 March 2010: I wouldn't go. Just send your condolences. If you want to support him call him every night to check up on him. My boyfriend's (of 1 1/2 years) brother died. I don't know his family well. I asked for a copy of the eulogy written by his daughter, it ... (read in full...)
Do I forgive him for hitting me because I love him?
Q. i am in a relationship since past 4 years and my boyfriend hits me time and again sometimes he has reasons and sometimes he dosent have any reason. we both love each other a lot and thats d reason why i keep forgiving him? i really dont know what to ...
A. 18 March 2010: There is never a reason for hitting. I know that certain cultures are okay with men hitting their women as long as there are no bruises and on sensitive parts of the body. For most people here, any kind of hitting is wrong. It doesn't matter if he's ... (read in full...)
His behavior is making me unsure of myself.
Q. So there's this guy that I've known for about a year. We dated for a short time last year, but he ended the thing, because he claimed he had feelings for other girls. We had a good time when we dated, cuddled etc. Nothing sexual, though I felt his ...
A. 16 March 2010: He's probably thinking you deserve better and what do you see in him. Also he had to work harder to earn your love because you look like a model while you can just get any guy. It creates the imbalance that he might resent in the future. If you ... (read in full...)
Are my husband's lies a cause for alarm?
Q. Why does my husband lie to me so much? Sometimes it is about important things, in which case he usually tells the truth after words. Sometimes, though, I lies about other general less important things. IE: Once he made the comment that, “Oh, well ...
A. 16 March 2010: Since you are just talking about this one: everyone likes girls in bikinis, I would try to tell you what happened here. We all like to judge people in general, but to say we are doing the same things that people in general do, insults our ... (read in full...)
Can I ever trust my wife again...after her affair?
Q. I found out my wife was having an affair at the early stages by accident. That was 3 weeks ago. I was shocked and heartbroken - my world collapsed, partly due to the fact that she told me that she did not feel anything for me anymore after I ...
A. 16 March 2010: Nothing happens by accident. Married couples can't go through the good without the bad. It sounds like she failed her duty to love you and cherish you.
She's taking advantage of you. She feels her affair was justified. Striving to be a better man ... (read in full...)
Is this true?
Q. My girlfriend's mum told me... a woman sleeps with a man, has an orgasm and thinks shes in love. The man just thinks he had a wonderful night. Is that true?? ...
A. 16 March 2010: This is a little bit generalising here. It sounds like you are talking about one night stands, and not actual, serious relationships. Of course, female brains and male brains are wired differently. What she said was true, mostly for inexperienced ... (read in full...)
Tempted to sleep around with a lot of men, as I have a high sex drive! Will I regret doing this?
Q. I would like some advice from fellow adult females. I have just got out of a long relationship and don't want to get into another one for a good while. I have a high sex drive and miss that aspect of relationships. At present, I am tempted to sleep ...
A. 16 March 2010: My experience is that once I wanted to experiment on sex, it's the men who got clingy. I guess that's how our opposite polarities work. Clingy women attract men who couldn't care less. I am vain, I don't regret anything I do. If I do, it's because ... (read in full...)
Terrified of my future, I feel lost!
Q. I don't want to go into detail because this is the internet and nothing is private. But I'm really worried about my future. I'm terrified that I'm not capable and that I'll never be a successful person or have a career. I'm worried that I j...
A. 15 March 2010: You are taking everything personally. No students like studying and be put in courses just because their parents paid for them. They are taking the anger out onto the teachers. To tell you the truth, no one likes efl because it makes them feel ... (read in full...)
Do all guys masterbate?
Q. This is just out of interest, but is it possible for a guy to reach 25plus without whacking off? ...
A. 15 March 2010: I have no need to lie. He couldn't cum jacking off, so that makes him a dangerous member in society.... (read in full...)
Should I continue neglecting my own feelings for my wife and child?
Q. i married my wife because we had a kid and i didn't want to be irresponsible, but i don't think i can do it anymore. It's almost 10 yrs now and words cannot described how i feel! I have try to be the husband that my conscious mind wants to be, by ...
A. 14 March 2010: Rcn, can you explain what expanding your boundaries mean? Or anybody else here who knows?
My guess is that you married young and deprived yourself the chance to meet more girls, to parties, etc?
I am just wondering what makes your wife so unlovabl... (read in full...)
How do I let her go without hurting her?
Q. I got a problem. funny redundant statement to start it off. im in love with a co-worker. problem is she has a boyfriend. she loves him. yet she tells me she loves being around me and it sucks too work when im not there. she leaves me notes in my ...
A. 14 March 2010: Stop letting her hug you. Whenever she talks flirty tone it down with humor. She says she's being used yet still happy? She can't be happy for long if you stop allowing her to be affectionate with you. Let her relationship run its cause. If you can ... (read in full...)
Good morning babe!!!
Q. I am in a long distance relationship .We have been together for 6 months. We fly to see each other every 4 weeks but talk and text almost every day. My problem is... usually we text each other good morning. Lately I have been recieveing 2 or 3 good ...
A. 14 March 2010: Maybe he didn't get your response so he's texting you over and over again? He thought it's insulting that you think he would make a mistake like that, or he's texting other women. I am not a texting person. If you don't like this method of ... (read in full...)
Will time apart help give us the answers?
Q. Hi all, There is of course so much more depth to this and so much that we have done and tried, but i will keep this as to the point as I can. My partner and i have been together for two years, living together for 6. He has some health issues...
A. 14 March 2010: I am experiencing the exact same thing. My boyfriend is stressed out. He had been going to the doctor ever since I met him and was suspecting multiple sclerosis, now herniated disc, and athritis. All of which could be psychosomatic in nature, ... (read in full...)
Do all guys masterbate?
Q. This is just out of interest, but is it possible for a guy to reach 25plus without whacking off? ...
A. 14 March 2010: I had an ex, he's 43, and never masturbates because he can't cum that way.... (read in full...)
Why would someone completely out my league want to be with me?
Q. The woman I have been dating is 1 year older than me, we have been together for about 2 and a half months, but I have been interested in her for about 5 months prior to us having a relationship. And I feel that she is the smartest, most beautiful, ...
A. 14 March 2010: I am not a model, but a want a man superior than me. My guess is that looks and success have nothing to do with how man would treat her. It's just like why celebrities like Kenny Rogers and Nicolas Cage would marry restaurant hostesses? It could be ... (read in full...)
Do you think he's just distancing himself to insure that emotions don't get in the way?
Q. I've been seeing a man the past 8 months casually. He has become a business client to me, but we've also been having casual sexual encounters when we have "meetings." A little business, a little pleasure. It's been fun. He would frequently text me ...
A. 14 March 2010: If he's not married, tell him you noticed he's not smiling as often and ask him what's up. You are in some kind of relationship. It's all right and fair for you to ask so it won't be awkward every time you see each other, and you can either be ... (read in full...)
I want more but I can't have everything I want so what do I do???
Q. DEAR CUPID I have been messing around with this guy at work for a month now, when we first started out he told he was not looking for a relationship and also he said that I was going to catch feelings for him in a joking way but he was right, now I ...
A. 13 March 2010: Just because you have feelings doesn't mean you have to act on them. He knows what he's doing to you, making you all flustered then frustrated. When your feelings subside he's probably going to give you another dose of flirting chemical keeping you ... (read in full...)
I want to see a virginal vagina!
Q. Of all the porn that is there on the net, and in hard copy, i have seldom come across a photograph of a real virgin girl with her hymen intact. I am a male and from a conservative society, and am going to marry soon. The marriage is an arranged ...
A. 13 March 2010: You are not going to get any help here. When I was a girl I had no interest in looking into my vagina through the mirror. I doubt any girl would unless she's be sexually molested. No one sane in the world would take photos of a virgin vagina. There ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be her carer as her health worsens so I broke it off with her!
Q. I just ended a relationship with my girlfriend (we been together 2 years, had our ups and downs but shes a good person). She recently found out she has a serious heart condition and will probably end up in a wheelchair and dependant (her health has ...
A. 13 March 2010: Have you given up on the idea that people can heal by themselves? Have you researched on life giving plants like wheatgrass, rhizhome, or other kinds of alternative medicine? Do you believe in prayer and miracles? Have you engaged in helping her ... (read in full...)
I'm frustrated because during sex, he lasts a few minutes...is this normal?
Q. my boyfriend can hardly ever last long during sex and its getting really frustrating! today he finished in literally less than 2 minutes and we'd hardly gotten into it. is this like a medical problem or normal? i thought he would be able to control ...
A. 13 March 2010: I heard that marijuana actually slows down the climax and heightens the sensitivities. It may be different for everybody. It's normal for a guy to come quickly. Men who care for you would control his urge to come. Ask him to stop when he's about to ... (read in full...)
My husband's behaviour towards me infront of my son is really distressing me, what can I do?
Q. Hi I really need some help regarding my husband's behviour towards me in front of our son. It is really distressing me and upsetting me and I don't know whether to stay or leave or what on earth to do. Sometimes he makes me feel as though I am mad ...
A. 13 March 2010: Next time he calls you names and insults you, tell him he deserves better, he doesn't need to stay with you and put up with you.
This was 4 years ago. I told my abusive ex that he should look for someone smarter, more independent and motivated than... (read in full...)
My guy friend and boyfriend both compete for my attentions! How do I handle this?
Q. OK, I'm having a problem between my boyfriend and my best friend. They used to be quite good friends with each other before I got together with him... We all met at the same time at uni. But since I've started going out with him, my friend doesn'...
A. 13 March 2010: Hook him up with a girl he might like. I was in a situation like this, I became the third person. What I wanted was for them to find me a friend to make up for the loss and betrayal I was feeling. Sometimes people feel so stuck trying to compete for ... (read in full...)
Do I wait for him to break up with me or..should I dump him first?
Q. I'm not sure what to do about my boyfriend and I'm really stuck! First off, I'm 15 weeks pregnant and in a strange relationship with my boyfriend. He works out of town for periods of time. He's been gone since the middle of Jan. In that time...
A. 12 March 2010: He already broke up with you but you were still hoping things will be better after the baby is born. Men don't work like that. Do not count on the hope that the relationship would go back to where it used to be. You don't need to dump him. He ... (read in full...)
Who is the father?
Q. My lmp was on nov 10, 2009. I had an affair on nov 19,2009. Used a condom. first ultrasound On jan 17 i was 7 weeks. Second ultrasound on feb 24 i was 13 weeks. Do you think the other guy is the father???...
A. 12 March 2010: You ovulated on somewhere nov. 25. Your most fertile period: nov. 22-28. Some sperms can live up to 7 days in the uterus. If the condom didn't break the chances are very low for the other guy to be the father. This didn't bring you relief or did it? ... (read in full...)
I don't understand the dating scene...how do people meet people?
Q. I am 21, not bad looking, thin - UK size 8-10 - and I am never approached by men unless they are very drunk. I came out of a LTR about 6 months ago and am finding the dating scene very hard to understand. I don't understand how people meet people ...
A. 12 March 2010: The dating game is designed to strengthen the economy. Guys think the more they spend, the more possessions they have, the bigger the chances they are going to get laid. Most single men and women are so sexually starved that they meet wrong people ... (read in full...)
Young Male With Huge Sex Addiction Problem, Please Help It's Ruining My Life!
Q. Hi Everyone, ok well i need some help here i am an 18 year old male, and i have an extremely high sex drive, possible sex addiction problem, i just cannot get enough! most of the time i use pornography to satisfy the urges but it's still not e...
A. 12 March 2010: It's funny you are asking please SOMEONE help me out here? Dear Cupid is not going to refer a girl to you in your area.
You need to take care of your urges. Find the classified eds online or on the newspapers. Not all of them are hookers. Some... (read in full...)
Can all women cum?
Q. Hey everyone me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now but i have some questions. For any women out there, can ALL women cum? and if so, is an orgasm more exhilirating or just as with or with out cumming... ...
A. 11 March 2010: For women, orgasms are more like ripples of waves (sometimes small, sometimes big and crashing) compared to men's which are more explicit. So if you ask me did I cum, I would be so consumed at the moment I wouldn't care to count how many orgasms I ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my girlfriend hitting me?
Q. My girlfriend has started hitting me lately when we argue. Any feedback on what I should do is much appreciated. We have been dating for over a year. We rarely fought during the first year. However, recently we have started fighting more. W...
A. 11 March 2010: Her parents can be great people, and know something about her that you don't. You need to talk to them and ask if they could bring their daughter back to live with them for a while. She needs to do some healing on her own. Her parents may not have ... (read in full...)
She says she doesn't want anal, but she seems to want it.
Q. I spoke with my GF recently about fantasies we shared some. She has known for sometime I want to have anal sex, however, I absolutely respected her choice not to. Fine, not a huge deal, as a relationship is caring about your partner not forcing ...
A. 11 March 2010: Are you sure you can count on that look? My boyfriend always tried but I stopped him because it hurt too much. I let him go the whole way while I was relaxed but it still hurt. I asked him why he wants to do it and he said he thought it would bring ... (read in full...)
Should I try to make it work with my husband or should I finally leave and start a new life?
Q. I've been married for 4 years, and I have a 3 yr old son with my husband. He is a great, amazing, cute, hardworking man. About a year and half ago i started seeing this other guy, started off as a little adventure, but became very serious, and now ...
A. 11 March 2010: I think you should realize what went wrong that made you want to cheat, start a new life and not look back. At the same time be realistic about what kind of relationship you are really having with the new guy. If it's the second choice you are ... (read in full...)
Can all women cum?
Q. Hey everyone me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now but i have some questions. For any women out there, can ALL women cum? and if so, is an orgasm more exhilirating or just as with or with out cumming... ...
A. 10 March 2010: First I will tell you I prefer fingering over oral.
Orgasms vary in degrees. There a mild orgasms, the ones that relaxes me and release tention. There are painful, embarrassing orgasms, the ones that make me shake, and make me frantically try to m... (read in full...)
Can all women cum?
Q. Hey everyone me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now but i have some questions. For any women out there, can ALL women cum? and if so, is an orgasm more exhilirating or just as with or with out cumming... ...
A. 7 March 2010: Women do want to scream, and it's possible. Just because you don't scream like that doesn't mean it can't happen for a woman.
Listen to Lily Allen's song, Not fair.
Theres just one thing that's getting in the way you just aren't good in bed it's... (read in full...)
Can all women cum?
Q. Hey everyone me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now but i have some questions. For any women out there, can ALL women cum? and if so, is an orgasm more exhilirating or just as with or with out cumming... ...
A. 7 March 2010: Yes all women can come. Clitorally and vaginally. Our bodies our designed for that kind of pleasure. The stuff you see in porn where women are screaming, are real. They are not faking. Not all men can make women come though. ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: I wouldn't want to have a child with a gigolo either.... (read in full...)
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