How can I hug him first without making it too obvious that I fancy him?
Q. Hey Guys! I want to hug my best guy friend, he always hugs me first, and because I am caught off guard it's kinda awkward like his arms are around me but I'm sideways or My arms are squished up in between us, and he smells my hair, and sometimes I ...
A. 1 April 2010: Just put you hands around his neck and make sure it doesn't last to long, a few seconds is enough, and make sure you have a smile at the end, you don't want to look dreamy, or he might get the wrong impression.... (read in full...)
Should I wait until I'm finished with college to begin dating again?
Q. I'm a freshman in college and I'm going through my first breakup ever. Yeah, pathetic, I know, but even though I'm 18 I've only been in one relationship. He was the only guy I'd ever flirted with, kissed, held hands with, all of it. He was my first ...
A. 1 April 2010: You should just go with the flow, don't tell yourself to do anything, wait for the situation to occur and take it from there. You can't plan life, you don't know what will happen. And in the end things might work out and you won't end up in other ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend accusing me of cheating and I haven't done anything!
Q. Ok the last few days before school went on break my girlfriend is acting really annoying because ima be going out of town and singing at venues. she keeps saying ima be messing with girls and im going to forget about her. i dont get it i haven't ...
A. 1 April 2010: This obviously isn't exactly a stable relationship if your falling at the first hurdle, are you just looking for a reason to break up. And those questions, were probably like a test, to see your reaction, so she can work out if you will cheat. Shes ... (read in full...)
I have a gut feeling my boyfriend has the hots for my sister...
Q. I'm a bit worried about my relationship lately. me and my boyfriend been together for more than a year now, we cuddle, kiss, tell each other we love one another a lot but i think he has a thing for my older sister, i dont know why but its just the...
A. 1 April 2010: If you and your sister are so close, then maybe you should talk to her about it, but not in an accusatory tone, just a heart to heart, you seem like you have low confidence, so that might be a reason for paranoia. But if you talk to your sister she ... (read in full...)
What are the odds that her new relationship won't work out, and if she'll realize I won't lie anymore?
Q. i lied to my girlfriend for 5 months about hanging out with friends and then confessed and stopped lyin.she lied in the beggining of our relationship about her ex boyfriend for about 6 months and i forgave her. she wont forgive me and started lyin ...
A. 31 March 2010: The odds are zero, unless you actually prove to her your not going to lie, but if shes adamant then its going to be even harder, you just have to let her new relationship run its course and i don't think it will go far because it does seem like a ... (read in full...)
We're both new to this and now I'm confused about what he actually thinks!
Q. Me and my bf are both 16, we ve been going out for 4 months. Recently things have started to get alot more physical, previously when storys of other people we know doing stuff have come up he would say that they're too young. Last week he was lying ...
A. 31 March 2010: He probably thinks you guys are getting sexual (not neccesarily sex, but sexual contact), maybe he thought those people were to immature, or didn't want to give you the impression he wants to get physical if you don't want to.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend makes comments on other girl's Facebook photos and it is making me think I am not good enough for him!
Q. I need Help Boy Issues , basically my boyfriend says he loves me and he will talk to me and everything its going perfect theres just one thing bugging me.. this has happened a few times now, he will comment on other girls photos on facebook, things ...
A. 31 March 2010: I doubt that he's thinking 'why don't i go out with those girls?' there probably just friends he's joking around with. You shouldn't take it to heart so much, hes with you, he chose you, he doesn't want them hes just acting like a typical teenage ... (read in full...)
He hugs others but he just pats me on the head. What does this mean?
Q. So there's this guy, and we've become pretty good friends over the past few weeks, but I've noticed that he's different in his behaviours to different people. Sometimes he lashes out when people touch him, but he only tolerates it from a couple of ...
A. 31 March 2010: Well he obviously feels comfortable around you and rihannon, therefore only touches you two. He may like the other girl in a different way if hes constantly hugging her coz it shows he likes being close to her. Whearas a pat on the head is what you ... (read in full...)
Do I continue to hang out with him as a friend even although it kills me?
Q. I met a guy who goes to the same school that I do while on vacation with my friends last week. We hit it off and and by the end of the week, it felt like we'd known each other for years - we could joke freely and talk seriously with each other like ...
A. 30 March 2010: You have to think do you really want just a friendship and will you be able to cope with the duties (i.e him asking you for advice about his gf), will this friendship be good for you, or will it increase your feelings, you shouldn't cut him out but ... (read in full...)
I told her I like him, but she was all over him at the cinema!
Q. I went to the movies lastnight with my friend and this boy I really like came too. My friend and him were all over each other..... I am so mad what should i do? I mean I think I might love this guy and I talk about this all the time to her but it ...
A. 30 March 2010: Your only 13-15 you don't know what life is let alone love and if hes not acknowledging you then oh well theres plenty of other fish in the sea, you just pick yourself up and move on, as for your friend talk to her, for all you know she might be ... (read in full...)
Is it right that I should go back out with him?
Q. heyy, i broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago because i was all stressed and i didn't want that to effect anything .. we both stayed friends i text him this morning whilst he was on holiday to just ask how he was then he text back saying...
A. 29 March 2010: If the feelings mutual then why not... (read in full...)
Should I wait until her boyfriend leaves to tell her how I feel?
Q. Ohk this will be a bit long but i could really use some advice.... Back in the day i was really good friends with a girl, and i fell in love with her. I just acted like her friend though and didnt want to push our relationship any farther than ...
A. 29 March 2010: You shouldn't be waiting for her boyfriend to leave, to start something coz it doesn't necessarily mean they've ended it. Its only been three, days thats not really a long period of time and you can't expect everything to go back to how it was. I ... (read in full...)
Why did she and her mother pick him over me? He's a manwhore!
Q. Alright one of my best friends decided to this weekend take me out for some fun and introduce me to some new people and a few new girls in hopes of boosting my social life and just helping me move past a few bad weeks. We had an awesome time. I met ...
A. 29 March 2010: From the 18th century to the 21st it has been proven women prefer the mysterious, inconspicuous unknown (mr darcy/shady grady) rather than what they theoretically believe is the perfect man sweet, smart, good looking i.e you. Some people are ... (read in full...)
Can I be forgiven for cheating? Do I deserve a chance to prove myself?
Q. This is what happened, i was with my now ex "Ladge" on and off for 2 years. We split and decided to become friends as we got on so well. We never loved each other but as she had a kid and enjoyed doing sports together we tried to keep a friendship ...
A. 29 March 2010: Why don't you try talking to her, telling her about your past relationships and how they've effected this one, how you feel, how she is the love of your life (im guessing) and how you would do anything for her. But do it quick, before she moves on!! ... (read in full...)
I think I should break things off but I'm just not sure how to.....
Q. So I have some major relationship problems. Firstly, we live in different states, 2000 miles a part. We have known each other for over a year now. I've met her a fair amount of times. And I'm going to keep this story sparse, but we argue all the ...
A. 29 March 2010: Why don't you write her a letter it makes sense because of the distance and letters are generally considered personal, but if she really is like gillian, then i think she'd miss out the sentiment part of it, and wouldn't really be to bothered about ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why do I still think about my ex and have feelings for him?
Q. I can't seem to get over my ex and don't know if I should try talking to my ex again. We broke up nine months ago and I still have feelings for him. He broke up with me and said it was because he was going to ruin my life. Its a little complicated ...
A. 29 March 2010: I think your finding it hard to move on from your ex because the relationship didn't naturally come to an end, but got cut short, while you liked him, so you still have those flutters towards him. You are right in wanting to move on, because it ... (read in full...)
Why do my close friends always seem to like the guy I like?
Q. Maybe it's my taste in guys, maybe it's a curse, I don't know. But it seems like every guy that I like one of my close friends would like him. I've liked only a few guys since becoming a freshman, but it seems every guy I pick, one of my friend...
A. 28 March 2010: You can't really get over it, your probably good friends because you have the same taste, and i guess in men to. Why don't you just tell them first, so next time one of them can stand back.... (read in full...)
Am I being old fashioned? Is sex is necessary when it comes to relationship?
Q. i had a bf,a very first bf. he asked for sex.when i refused immediately he cursed me and said i'm boring and old fashion. i talked to my friend.they said it's my fault for reject his offer. she said it's normal to have sex when they're in relat...
A. 27 March 2010: If you feel like you want to have sex then do so when your ready and not just because the people around you are. And he doesn't seem like a good boyfriend if he calls you old fashioned and boring, because your not ready for sex. Its not meant to be ... (read in full...)
I feel so deflated since she broke up with me
Q. Okay... so this is a really embarrassing question for me, but It's been bothering me for a long time. Here's the story... I was with a girl, who I fell in love with. She told me how her ex boyfriend had sexually abused her, and I respected that. ...
A. 27 March 2010: Controlling people don't really see the effect of their work but see what they want, you should just forget about her. As for lifting yourself up, try talking to girls when you go out to a club with friends or something it might not lift you up but ... (read in full...)
Some time has gone by, and he asked me out again...
Q. What does it mean if a guy asks you if you have a boyfriend? I was seeing this guy casually on and off for about a year (and also sleeping with him), and then one day during the end of last October we had a misunderstanding that caused me to get ...
A. 27 March 2010: I think thats his slick way of finding out if your available without him needing to make the next move. Try finding out if he has a girlfriend then if you do go to the movie, his body language towards you should reveal all.... (read in full...)
We has sex and now he is not answering my text messages. Do I play it 'cool' or chase him?
Q. i have known this guy for a few weeks now, i have met with him only once and fell imidietly attracted to him... we spent the night together and i didnt sleep with him... after 3weeks i herd from him again wanting to catch up, so we did and had an ...
A. 27 March 2010: There maybe a possibility he thought of it as a 1 night stand thing but you could try just calling him like unwind said. But play it cool and keep it casual he might not have such a high opinion of you as you do of him and you don't want to look to ... (read in full...)
He is friends with his ex and says he feels like a father to her daughters, .... but shouldn't this be a closed chapter in his life?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. Before that he was in a long relationship(9years)with a woman who has got 2 daughters (16and 19years old);they have never been married, lived together just for a wee while as children were driving ...
A. 27 March 2010: He spent 9 years with the woman and her children, watching them grow up and etc. So obviously he's going to have an attachment to the kids and them to him. If you've been together for over a year you should realise he's into you and not their ... (read in full...)
Should I just get out of my daughters life?
Q. What should i do ? well i have 7 kids all together. my oldest one don't live with me because her father is a real ass . and the people my daughter live with i can't stand them at all. she's going to be 12 yrs old . now they r telling her lies about ...
A. 26 March 2010: If your her mother then its even more important to stay in her life especially as she enters teenage years and will need your support and advice. Soz 4 the mistake... (read in full...)
Should I just get out of my daughters life?
Q. What should i do ? well i have 7 kids all together. my oldest one don't live with me because her father is a real ass . and the people my daughter live with i can't stand them at all. she's going to be 12 yrs old . now they r telling her lies about ...
A. 26 March 2010: You should definately stay in her life shes only twelve and needs a good fatherly influence, losing touch with her now will only make what those people say true because in a way you will be abandoning her, in the end of the day if your not a threat ... (read in full...)
How can I make up for cheating on my boyfriend?
Q. right i have a boyfriend who i have been with for over 10 months. i cheated on him just before christmas. he knows about this and i was completley honest but feel like i need to make it up to him, how do i do this?...
A. 25 March 2010: You could do a gesture to show how much he means to you, how much you care about and how your comitted to the relationship, it doesn't have to be anything big. Just to let him know your sorry and it was a mistake.... (read in full...)
Her protective mother made up break up. Should I have gone along with this?
Q. I was in a long distance relationship with a girl I never physically met. We was going to meet but something always got in the way. Her mum is very protective of her because she got raped in the past and that's why we haven't met. Her mum says she ...
A. 25 March 2010: Technically you could say, you weren't really in a relationship, and you couldn't just have a cyber relationship, maybe you could have stuck it out if you really wanted to be with her, it would have shown her mum you weren't just gonna give up. Her ... (read in full...)
Could these negative pregnancy tests be wrong. I hope so!
Q. Okay so my husband and i are trying to conceive, and my last period was in january, i completely skipped over feb and i took 2 tests but both came up neg. i felt pregnant, my boobs are bigger than what they were before, enough for my husband to even ...
A. 25 March 2010: I highly doubt your pregnant, your spotting is probably just the begining of your period, its probably gonna get heavier but if your adamant that you are pregnant, go to the doctors they'll be the only people who will definately know. ... (read in full...)
Should I date him if where on seperate sides of the cool line?
Q. ok, i hang out with the jocks/preps but i am friends with everyone. i just reacently developed a crush on what you would call a slacker. but i don't see him like that really. hes so nice and a good guy really. but i know how it doesnot work out ...
A. 25 March 2010: You should go out with him based on how you feel and not what other people think, its going to be your relationship after all and not theres.... (read in full...)
I feel trapped; I want to leave but he makes me feel bad them I end up staying! What can I do?
Q. Ok so there's been so much going on in this relationship. I'm 22 and my bf is 21. We've been together for two years and lived together for 1. Ever since being with him I lost alot of my friends and family. So at the beginning of our relationship I ...
A. 25 March 2010: You are not wrong for wanting to leave, most people are probably wondering why you went back. You should just get out of the relationship he is trying to control you by taking you away from people who u care about and who care about you, so theres ... (read in full...)
I'm gay but falling in love with a woman
Q. Hi, I am a gay man. In my life i've never been sexually attracted to a woman, only men. My dilemma i now I think I am in love with a woman. Im not sexually attracted to her but I believe I love her. Is this normal? ...
A. 25 March 2010: It might just mean your, bisexual. However have a good long think about how you love her, if your 100% gay then maybe your reading to much into it and think/love her as a friend. Its quite unusual that you don't feel sexually attracted to her, most ... (read in full...)
Missing my LDR terribly
Q. i am in a commited relationship.i and my bf love each other like mad..its a ldr.ok so the situation is that few months back my bf used to visit me every month and we used to have sexul activities...we also had oral sex bt couldnt have sex.now its ...
A. 25 March 2010: Why cant you just go and visit him? Especially with what you have in mind, i doubt your bf will mind.... (read in full...)
Did he really actually like me at one point even though he doesn't any more???
Q. I met this guy on myspace in December. When we first started talking, we talked for hours. We decided to meet on New Years since we live 25 min from each other (a week after we started talking) He was really nice. We cuddled, held hands.. and even ...
A. 24 March 2010: He's a player and a charmer, he probably used the same tactics on all of those other girls, does it matter if he actually liked you hes gone, you should just be glad that it ended before it really started or you could have got really hurt. He ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend changed, should I end the relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. Before that, we were very close friends... and very intimate with each other. At first he would be so sweet and caring and he never said any mean things to me. I was like a queen. If I ...
A. 24 March 2010: It is clear that he is a changed man, but maybe instead of focusing on how he was, think about how he is, is there anything you love about him now, or is whats keeping you in the relationship who he was? More importantly you should think does he ... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex, and now worry of the consequences. Please help me!
Q. [Moderators Note - Helpful advice only please] ok this is really long but ill try to make it short: alright im fifteen,i went out with a guy for what would have been a year on feb. 27 this year but he kept breaking up with me an begging me to ta...
A. 23 March 2010: I think the first thing you need to do is take a pregnancy test, also go to a clinic and gt urself checked out, you don't know him very well so he could have passed something on to you and a condom doesnt always work. Don't feel like a slut, you ... (read in full...)
Why do we hurt even if we're in love?
Q. Why is it that even if you and the person you are with are in love why does it still hurt ? i just try to understand that but i can't. i know he love's me. but why do we go through all the thing's we do ?...
A. 22 March 2010: Love may feel, like your existing in a fantasy world, but life is more down to earth and almost always complicates situations, with the challenges it throws us, and we don't really have control of either. No ones superhuman, everyone makes mistakes, ... (read in full...)
I want to be accepted my muslim girlfriends family.
Q. My girlfriends mum has recently found out that her daughter is dating me and she will not accept it as she is worried that the rest of her family will frown upon it. They are a Muslim family and they will not accept me, a White British male, even ...
A. 21 March 2010: As a muslim, i can say highly doubt they will, mainly because of what other people might say. My grandmother was a white convert, but my mother thinks me acknowledging im quarter english is me acting christian, you have to think about it from a ... (read in full...)
Confusing life... badly need help!
Q. 4 years ago,i was going out with a boy for three months...i was the one responsible for our breakup...i was afraid of my father because he's a strict man and he don't want to hear any boyfriends type of things from me...for him, at that time i had ...
A. 21 March 2010: You seem to be in love with the person he was, and to me it seems the idea of that is the only thing thats keeping you in this 'relationship', i think you need to ask yourself are you in love with the person he is now, because he's clearly changed, ... (read in full...)
All my friends knew my man was cheating and none of them said anything. I feel so stupid and alone!
Q. Ive been with my boy friend for almost four years its been a terrible four years but I still truely care about the first year of our relationship we broke up for the summer he went on a masive partying bindge with his ex he ended up goin to the city ...
A. 21 March 2010: You should just completely forget about him, you've had a crappy relationship and the best thing to do is move on, and meet someone else who will treat you right. As for your friends talk to them or you'll never know their reason for not telling you ... (read in full...)
He hits me for speaking to other guys!
Q. hi i really need help. am in a relationship since past 4 years and i have cheated upon my boyfriend and we broke up. after an year he came back to me ans said that he wants to be with me. so we hooked up again. now the problem is he hits me even if ...
A. 21 March 2010: You should move on, simply because of the fact that he's hitting you and not because he wants to wait before he marries you. It doesn't seem like he would make a good husband, hes taking out his insecurities on you with violence. Any man that ... (read in full...)
Four year disfunctional relationship put to rest.
Q. *OP's own title* I met him the first months of high school. Now here I am two months away from graduation and our story is ending. Ive stepped back and realized everythings completely changed. I have been heartless to other people and im no good ...
A. 21 March 2010: Maybe you could start by correcting your wrongs, apologise to people. Get your priorities in order, have an aim of where and who you want to be in life and keep going. When you think things are falling apart think of the change you are making to ... (read in full...)
Long-distance boyfriend ignoring me?
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship. We used to talk almost all day, everyday, but naturally that has stopped being the norm now. My problem is this: I write to him, but it takes him a week to answer me. He says he's busy with ...
A. 20 March 2010: Writing letters are something you put effort and time in and you may not be taking into consideration the time taken to recieve and send letters. And if hes so active on social networking sites, why not talk to him while he's on, letter writing ... (read in full...)
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