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Hey!

So ok, I dont know the ways of the world, but who actually does? Life is a mystery. So thats why this site exists!

I have used this site before to help with my problems, and I thought I should give something back. I want to help others who are in difficult situations.

I have been horse-riding for most of my life and I love it. I currently have one horse. He's gorgeous. I also love acting and drama.

Feel free to message me if you have a problem! Thanks :D

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First date go on a ghost walk?

Q.   I've just started chatting to this girl who seems to like me and I like her. This may sound a strange thing to do on a first meeting, but would it be acceptable if I asked her on a ghost walk? If not, what do you think and where would readers ...

A.   22 June 2009: I'd love it ;) Plus if she gets scared she can snuggle up to you- sorted! Just dont you get scared! That would not look good. Plus Id ask her before hand if she wants to go, as some people hate things like that! Good luck xx... (read in full...)

I feel our frienship may not be as good as it looks!

Q.   My friend recently went away for ten days holiday and hasn't been in touch with me on her break. During that time, my Mum and her boyfriend have been asking me several times when she'd be back, and whether she's made contact with me. The answers to ...

A.   17 June 2009: Id talk to her about it, there could be a perfectly good reason, if she was abroad, many phones dont work out there. Just mention how you were a little confused. Now I dont understand how your mums boyfriend links with your friend? Unless they are... (read in full...)

What can we do to spice things up; and how can I convince my mom to let him stay over?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months, we have not had sex and we aren't going to until we are both ready but i want him to be able to stay over night at my house with my mum being okay with it. How can i convince her to let him stay ...

A.   17 June 2009: My mum lets my male friend stay over, infact she even let me have this one guy overnight whilst she was away. She wasnt bothered, because she knew we were just friends but I know he got a lecture on 'Keeping it in your pants!' Which I thinks q... (read in full...)

What should I write in my crushes year book?

Q.   okay, so my crush gave me her yearbook to sign, and i'm thinking now could be the chance to let her know how i feel, but what should i write? any ideas? ...

A.   16 June 2009: Ive always thought you were gorgeous, Dont forget me and never change-your too cool :) Keep in touch - (Plus your number) xox Well thats what someone wrote in my book anyway :D Good luck!!... (read in full...)

I call my ex every time I get drunk to tell her I love her and miss her.

Q.   Hi whenever I go partying with my friends and get drunk I call my now ex girlfriend from about 3 months ago to tell her I love her, and miss her. I don't want to do it. But everytime I drink I think of her and miss those times together. I dont know ...

A.   15 June 2009: Delete her number when your out drinking!! Drunk dialing is not such a good plan in the morning ;) x... (read in full...)

On her birthday while having sex I called her by another girls name!

Q.   My girlfriend (of 2 years) and me were making love. I called her by the wrong name by mistake. She really mad at me and than she started crying and storm off. I've been calling her like crazy with no answer and went to her place but her roommate ...

A.   14 June 2009: Ohh dear... not good mate! Well your gonna have to let her calm down firstly, then reassure her that your not cheating on her. Send her flowers to her apartment if she wont speak to you. What name was it? Completly random or someone you know? Y... (read in full...)

What is so attractive about the bad boys?

Q.   I'm perplexed at the number of women who tell me they want a man who is nice to them, but in reality, the men they are attracted to and form relationships with are "bad boys." Then they spend their time complaining about how the bad boy behaves and ...

A.   13 June 2009: Because we think we can be the one to change them.... (read in full...)

Friends before boyfriends/girlfriends?

Q.   I know people always say 'freinds before boyfriends/ girlfriends' but is this actually true? Does this apply to freinds of the opposite gender, even if they really are just friends and your'e not attracted to them at all? My boyfriend recent...

A.   12 June 2009: Mates before dates! Or Bros before hoes for the guys. I do always wonder that if your bf is also your best friend what do you do?? But put your friends first. Like Cerberus said, they are there for you if your relationship ends! I have a frie... (read in full...)

Can anyone tell me about England?

Q.   can anyone here who lives in England tell me how great a place it is to be in? ever since i met this girl from England over the internet 5 months ago, i have become fascinated over England and English girls and their accents, etc. now i find myself ...

A.   9 June 2009: Im a english girl :) Feel free to PM me. Englands fun, and the countryside is beautiful. And the drinking age is only 18 ;) The horseback riding is very different to the western style, and we say trousers not pants. Pants are knickers here. ... (read in full...)

I was sweaty and smelly. Did this ruin my chances with her?

Q.   Hey Everybody, Basically, I was at university playing some pickup soccer with some of my friends, but there was this new girl playing with us and she had to guard me, so i was taking it easy on her and everything right, but I noticed that she...

A.   23 May 2009: Go see her again whilst your smelling GORGOUS with that linx or whatever it is boys wear that works so well :) I dont think shes that bothered, everyone is sweaty after sports x... (read in full...)

Is the tech interested?

Q.   Ok so this is what happened. i was having a phone line installed and this really hot tech shows up to do it. he's about 10 yrs younger then me but i don't look my age, anyway. i wasn't paying that much attention to him at first but he had to go out ...

A.   9 May 2009: Go for it! He probaly forgot his tool on purpose. Sly..... (read in full...)

I'll do anything to get him back

Q.   i am 14 and there is this kid a year older then me and we use to txt alot and flirt non stop. then he asked me to hug him the next day at school so i said yeah...but before we hugged he txtd and said im gonna ask u a question after we hug (ask me ...

A.   10 April 2009: What a loser! He obviously just wanted to use you for pictures and 'hugs', without committing to anything! Forget about him, if he's making a big deal about how you couldnt come round one day hes not worth it. Stop running after him begging for ... (read in full...)

Am I being paranoid or have I got every right to be angry?

Q.   okay here goes.... I was reading through my bf's phone earlier and found texts from 2 girls (they both work at the club he plays rugby for). He had deleted his sent items so I don't actually know what he said to them, but the texts from these g...

A.   10 April 2009: Well I put kisses on the end of all of my texts, no matter who its too. And I talk to guys via facebook. I wouldnt read too much into it, unless you get a clearer sign that hes up to no good! For now, trust him. Good luck xox... (read in full...)

She has a really pretty face but she's fat!

Q.   I kind of like this girl in school. The thing is she's the nicest girl I've met and she's got a stunningly pretty face but she is a bit on the big side. She is pretty but fat. I feel I shouldn't go out with her beausde I'm one of the best foot...

A.   9 April 2009: Ignore what people will say, if you like her, ask her out! Sure people will talk, but thats all gonna stop, and if you are the popular kid, then you should be able to do as you like! I would not tell her she needs to lose weight, thats a fast way... (read in full...)

She used to be a HE! UPDATE

Q.   This is an UPDATE to my question yesterday, "She used to be a HE!" I read your responses. All of you, that replied to me, were right. I love her. She is everything I ever wanted, regardless of her past. I marched round there last night and told her ...

A.   1 April 2009: Thats adorable :) Good luck, your a decent guy! x... (read in full...)

What happens if you have the cervical cancer jab and you have already had sex?

Q.   What happens if you have the cervical cancer jab and you have already had sex? I am not asking because I am in the situation, I am just wondering because people have said lots about them....

A.   4 March 2009: Yes, this jab basicaly means it will protect you against HPV, and if you already have had sex, you may already have it, but they reccomend you get the jab anyway, just in case. I got that off the NHS website, i was interessted too, I have been hear... (read in full...)

Article for all children thinking of having a baby

Q.   This is not a question i know i just think it should be put out there to all children who are considering having/planning/keeping a baby. Literally 10 minutes ago, the lunchtime news was on and broadcast on there was the story of a 13 year old bo...

A.   13 February 2009: I saw this story this morning and was shocked! He was 12 when the baby was concieved! I didnt even know what sex was then... Its just unreal x... (read in full...)

How do I tell her how much I love her on her birthday?

Q.   My best friend (whom is a girl) and I have been best friends since we were in diapers. The problem? I've had a huge as hell crush on her since we were freshmeat in high school. At this point, I'm completely in love with her and every other girl I've ...

A.   7 February 2009: Thats so sweet :) How about some things from your childhood? Like photos and toys or something, even just bring up memories, but do it casualy like 'Guess what I found...' Good luck! xox... (read in full...)

DearCupid had over one million people visit the site in January!

Q.   I have just peeped at our visitor figures for January 2009, the month just gone, and I'm excited to see that DearCupid passed 1,000,000 (yes, one MILLION!) unique visitors/month for the first time. According to Google Analytics we had 1,040,812 ...

A.   1 February 2009: Congratulations! Your an actual genious for coming up with this idea :) xx... (read in full...)

I am looking for hair extensions.

Q.   Hi, I've been trying to look for hair extensions in the UK but I can't find any. I live in London now I was wondering if anyone knows where I could get them from? I want clip on hair extensions and how much would they be? Many people have said for ...

A.   1 February 2009: I have a sort of permanant market near me (sorry not London, but still England!) and it has a wig/extensions stall. I dont expect they are brilliant quality, but they are probly cheap, and they look nice. If you have anywhere like this then maybe ... (read in full...)

Sex and regrets

Q.   Well, i am a roman catholic. I have been with my boyfriend for about 1 year, 2 and a half months. And today, yes, we had sex. (He is also roman catholic) And now im feeling guilty :/ and a bit .. confused. I always told my self i would wait...

A.   1 February 2009: My friend is a catholic and she's had sex. She's not that bothered, but her dad found out, and (after he cooled down) he wanted her baptised. If you have decided you dont want to do it again until marriage, then maybe baptism is a option, if it wi... (read in full...)

Bullied in college, what to do?

Q.   recently in college a girl has began bullying me, making comments about things i have posted on myspace and saying awful things about me i had talked to her a couple of times before and we seemed to get on quite well but now shes just attackin...

A.   1 February 2009: Hun, shes obviously jealous of you and as nothing better to do than make stupid comments to get attention. I have the same problem with a stupid girl, shes lovely to my face but a complete b*tch behind my back. Wanna know what I did? Ignore her. Ok... (read in full...)

Irish catholic?????

Q.   This guy described himself once as "Irish catholic." obviously, this means he's Irish, but does it mean he's also of the catholic religion? Sorry, this is probably a stupid question....

A.   31 January 2009: I guess thats what he means. But dont worry, my family is from Northern Ireland and they are protestant, but loads of my friends are Catholic. I dont think religion is that important anymore, except in very strict families! x... (read in full...)

Thoughts on belly button piercing?

Q.   Hey :) Well I was thinking about getting my belly button piereced, but im not sure if its a good idea or not! It looks cool, but although im ok with pain, its needles im not a fan off, although I can cope. I mean I got through my TB jab! So the main...

A.   29 January 2009: Thanks everyone :) Im realy tempted.. but also a bit concerned, as I cannont seem pull any skin up from my belly button, so im worried about how they are gonna pierce it! Im a bit skinny :S Also, do they use a gun, so it goes in straight away? Or d... (read in full...)

3 boyfriends and don't know who to choose...

Q.   I have a problem, I have 3 boyfriends two are english and one is italian and I don't knoe whst to do because I really like the italian one but all my friends say that I should just keep going out with them all but I really like him what should I do ...

A.   17 January 2009: Well do they know each other? Because there is a fair chance that somehow the truth will get out and you will lose them all... not good! Decide which one you want, then dump the other two! Simple, but leave a while inbetween dumping them both.. but ... (read in full...)

Do guys like girls who go horseriding?

Q.   do guys like girls who do horseriding or they think girls who horserifing are posh and snobby...

A.   11 January 2009: Well duh, horses beat guys anytime. But if you don't have one you wouldn't understand ;)... (read in full...)

Do guys like girls who go horseriding?

Q.   do guys like girls who do horseriding or they think girls who horserifing are posh and snobby...

A.   11 January 2009: Im a horsey girl and proud :) I dont think its snobby, sure it costs a bomb etc but if they saw us cleaning out stalls and grooming muddy horses. However I dont tend to highlight the fact I ride, because some of the immature ones seem to think the ... (read in full...)

I'm just not feeling her love anymore

Q.   I really need some help on this one please... I'm having some trouble with my girlfriend. I haven't seen her for 2 months on Friday because she keeps saying her work and family are keeping her busy (she's doing her GCSEs so maybe that really coul...

A.   6 January 2009: To be fair, im doing my GCSE's at the moment and we have just started mocks today... is she very studious?... (read in full...)

How do I get school to remove bad record?

Q.   When i was in grade 7, I made out wit my bf and the principal caught us. [looool. xD] NOW im worried if it'll b in my permanent record, im a straight A student and bcuz im asian my parents r strict, im not allowed bf's. (until im 20 =.=) im scare...

A.   5 January 2009: a decent one... making out isnt sex its kissing... and I think it looks like shes learning if her lowest average is 94%!! Wish I could do that.. Dont worry hun, unless your school is very strict they shouldn't hold it against you, I mean even teac... (read in full...)

Has he cheated on me? Opinions please

Q.   Hey there im guna apologise for this as its guna be a long one. This girl on facebook messaged me with a conversation her and my boyfriend were having, im guna post it here - could you please let me know what you think? Do you think he has che...

A.   5 January 2009: Hey I wouldnt worry! This girl seems..er.. quite forward and I think she likes him, however your boyfriend seems to be sticking to his guns here that he is NOT available, so dont worry! Another thing.. why would the girl message you with this... (read in full...)

Female curious about animal sex

Q.   my friend has a male dog he's about 3 yrs old. she's been curious about having sex with animals is it ever sinces she was 9. is it alright for her to do it with out getting Any Std's? ...

A.   4 January 2009: Its illegal. And so, so wrong :|... (read in full...)

Continue efforts to get closer to my crush?

Q.   Characters (all fake names): Me Jack (my crush's crush) Sophie (my crush) So somehow I found out I'm actually in some kind of love triangle. So today I met my crush's crush, who I shall call Jack. I had a hunch that Jack was Sophie's c...

A.   4 January 2009: Look, its a difficult situation, and its only gonna be resolved if someone makes the first move, and lets face it you dont want it to be Sophie or Jack. So tell Sophie you like her. If shes a nice girl shes hardly gonna put you down cruley. If she ... (read in full...)

Candy cane fun and worries.

Q.   Ok I have this friend. She wanted to play a harmless joke on some of the teachers at my school. So before christmas break she left different male teachers candy canes in their lockers asking were they naughty or nice? It was funny at first but now ...

A.   31 December 2008: Na dont worry about it. Its Christmas, they will know its just a joke, and if they were mad, they have had the christmas holidays to cool off and I doubt they will bother reporting it. Dont worry! :) xox... (read in full...)

If a guy is taken and plays seven minutes in heaven with another girl, is he cheating?

Q.   If a guy is taken and plays seven minutes in heaven with another girl, is he cheating?...

A.   30 December 2008: The reason we play seven minutes in heaven instead of spin the bottle is because so many of our friends are taken. So no, if they simply spend 7 minutes with another girl thats not cheating, but if they did anything, kissing etc, then yes, thats ... (read in full...)

Two guys who want to date me! I'm really confused...

Q.   I have two really great guys that both want me to date them. Guy number one is my ex. I broke up with him because my mother hates him, he was really jealous from time to time, and I was worried I couldn't stop myself from having sex with him. I ...

A.   30 December 2008: I am in exactly the same situation. Its confusing right? I'd say maybe take a break from guys, then have some time to yourself to think this over, as only you can make the decision. Have some girly time with friends. I have one friend who is always ... (read in full...)

I feel romantically attracted to my dog!!!

Q.   I have been having some very strange feelings about my beautiful Dobermann Pincher named Shelly. I have owned her for aout 6 years and she has been a wonderful, loving and loyal pet. It just feels like more than that lately. I don't have many ...

A.   28 December 2008: Ok I love my dog to pieces, but so not in that way! They are best friends, nothing more! Try and get out a bit more, and meet some new people! Prehaps try talking to other dog walkers when out with your dog so you can meet someone with the same sort ... (read in full...)

I think I'm becoming addicted to Dear Cupid!

Q.   Okay...here's my question: I've been trying to give helpful advice all day on this site. I now realize I should have gone to bed an hour ago! I think I'm becoming addicted to this site! I've always been the person friends come to for advice...and ...

A.   10 November 2008: Its a good thing for us! =]... (read in full...)

My parents are splitting up! What can I do to stop them?

Q.   My parents are going to split up! :( i don't know how to keep them together ...... please i need help........ x ...

A.   10 November 2008: No problem thats what we're here for :) x... (read in full...)

This past week I keep having a recurring dream of being raped.

Q.   hi, For the past week I've been having a dream where I'm being raped; this guy who seems stalks me (in reality) comes up to me (in my dream) knocks me out and puts me into his car, when I wake up I'm on a beach which is surrounded by cliffs, ...

A.   9 November 2008: Thats worrying.. where do you see him? And what sort of age?... (read in full...)

My parents are splitting up! What can I do to stop them?

Q.   My parents are going to split up! :( i don't know how to keep them together ...... please i need help........ x ...

A.   9 November 2008: My parents are divorced too and its honestly much better than having them arguing all the time, im sure you would agree that having no arguments will be better for you? And you can live with alternate parents too, which isnt bad at all (and a great ... (read in full...)

This past week I keep having a recurring dream of being raped.

Q.   hi, For the past week I've been having a dream where I'm being raped; this guy who seems stalks me (in reality) comes up to me (in my dream) knocks me out and puts me into his car, when I wake up I'm on a beach which is surrounded by cliffs, ...

A.   8 November 2008: Stalks you? What age is he and do you know who he is? If he is older than you then I advose you to tell someone, and soon. If hes some guy your age at school (which im guessing hes not if he has a car in your dream) who fancies you then I wouldnt ... (read in full...)

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