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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2011): There are always people that you'd be intrigued having sex with even if you're happily married. It's normal.
The key is being in control over you hormones. It's part of growing up and being mature.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2011): bed him and leave your bf before that....but before that ask your bf if he fantasizes about a threesome...if he does them you dont loose anything...enjoy a threeesome
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2011): Well I think what you have with your bf is not "love" he's just a good friend that you are very emotionally attatched to (after 6yrs thats natural) but its not love, because if it was you wouldn't even entertain the idea in your head about his friend.
My advice is break it off with your bf, because theres always going to be another guy, at your age you want to experience different guys that only natural but this guy was good to you so its not fair to hurt him.
If you really want to get with the friend then Id wait at least 3 months after the break up, because he is your bfs friend and you don't wanna hurt anybody especially because you guys were together 6yrs. Its just showing respect for that person and the relationship you had together.
Good Luck.x
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (8 August 2011):
 Time to switch boyfriends I guess. At your age it happens all the time and it's a good thing.
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reader, *problems*  +, writes (8 August 2011):
 Well yous have been together for 6 years its along time!! Why waste that for one of sex with his mate! Think if the damage it could cause to your relationship and your boyfriends relationship with his friend! Stick with your boyfriend, he sounds very nice!! X
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reader, N91 +, writes (8 August 2011):
 You either break your boyfriends heart or don't have sex with his friend - its pretty simple.
Not sure you love him that much if you want to have sex with his friend though, that doesn't so much like the thing a loving girlfriend would do....
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (8 August 2011):
 Dont be ridiculous, if you loved him that much you wouldn't be bothering about anyone else. And if this other guy was any kind of a man he wouldn't sleep with you anyway, out of respect for his friend.
If you feel like cheating, i'd leave them both well alone.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (8 August 2011):
 Keep that thought to yourself. and don't let your feelings for the other guy ruin the great relationship that you're currently in.
If you allow your feelings for the other guy to progress, you would start to feel bad, guilty, and you may end up throwing away the 6 years that you currently have with your boyfriend.
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (8 August 2011):
Grow up and realize you can't have it both ways. If you really love your boyfriend "soooo much" then you wouldn't be asking us this in the first place. So make a decision. Stay with "the sweetest guy you will ever meet who does everything for you" or give in to your hormones and effectively ruin everything you've built up for 6 years.
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