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So ok, I dont know the ways of the world, but who actually does? Life is a mystery. So thats why this site exists!
I have used this site before to help with my problems, and I thought I should give something back. I want to help others who are in difficult situations.
I have been horse-riding for most of my life and I love it. I currently have one horse. He's gorgeous. I also love acting and drama.
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I cant hide my baby bump anymore but I'm worried about telling my family as my parents are going through a divorce....
Q. I am a 14 year old girl, and i know whats i have done is wrong and i am truly sorry. But when my mam and dad split up 7 months ago i went off the rails such as drinking just to foget about the pain that we would never do things as a family no more, ...
A. 14 December 2010: Congratulations :-) I hope you and your little family are really happy. Thanks for updating us. Good luck
xxxxx... (read in full...)
My 14 year old daughter is having sex with a 19 year old. How to handle this?
Q. i walked into my 14 year old step daughters room and found her having sex with her boyfriend who i later found out is 19 the age gap is really worryin me i dont think 14 year old girls would went to have sex do u think he couldve made her do it or ...
A. 10 September 2010: If thats the case then I agree with your choice to go to the police.
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My 14 year old daughter is having sex with a 19 year old. How to handle this?
Q. i walked into my 14 year old step daughters room and found her having sex with her boyfriend who i later found out is 19 the age gap is really worryin me i dont think 14 year old girls would went to have sex do u think he couldve made her do it or ...
A. 9 September 2010: I admit that its a big age gap, but im in a relationship with a 4 year age gap and it works for me. Although we are both over the age of consent so its different. As for the guy pressurising her into it, well maybe, but adults always seem to thing ... (read in full...)
My family want me to do a reading at a wedding next week but I'm so nervous! Help!
Q. I'm really confused. I'm going to my half brother's wedding next saturday, and one of my other brothers was supposed to do a reading, but he has backed out of it because he is too nervous and he thinks the poem sounds girly. my dad has asked me to ...
A. 5 September 2010: Hi :)
I did a reading at my mums wedding a few weeks ago and I was so so nervous on the days leading up to it. When the day came I was still really scared up to the point when I made it up to the alter and started reading. After that it was fine... (read in full...)
Am I right to be annoyed at my best friend?
Q. Hey, im really annoyed at my 'best friend' yet im not too sure whether im right to be or not. A few days ago it was my 19th birthday and i was really suprised when my best friend said to get all our friends from high school and people that we h...
A. 25 July 2010: Hmmm... well yes some may say you having sex in her bathroom as a bit disrespectful, but tbh you were drunk, and if she offered to have a house party at hers then she should expect people to have sex in her house. Thats kinda teenage life. Im ... (read in full...)
Ever since we went out for tea he's been acting strangely and I dont' know what the problem is?
Q. I have concerns about my boyfriend. We have only been togwether since the begining of April this year. Things have been absolutley wonderful. Never a nasty word said between us. We were happy and enjoyed each others company. We were getting on so ...
A. 25 July 2010: Its a tricky one for sure :S somethings upset him, whether it was those people or not, I think you need to find out whats wrong before you can really do anything.
Just wait and see if this behaviour continues. I agree its very odd.... (read in full...)
How likely is it I am pregnant, and how soon should I take a test?
Q. I was just wondering if anyone could tell me how likely it is that i might be pregnant, and how soon i should take a test Ok well over last night and yesterday morning me and my boyfriend have had sex many times and he has ejaculated inside me...
A. 20 July 2010: I'm your age and yeah I think babies are cute and all but your so not ready for one yet! Listen to the other posters! Your not even 18, you havn't experienced clubbing and all the other fun stuff which is gonna be damn near impossible unless you can ... (read in full...)
I lost the love of my life to WoW and we're still in the relationship
Q. "OP Own Title" Hello, I'd like to start off by saying that I am not an anti-gaming activist. I do not hate video games. To an extent, I am a gamer. I have a soft spot for the older Sega Genesis and Super Nintendo games and occasionally FPS and the ...
A. 20 July 2010: Agh. I was reading in a magazine about people who are addicted to video games. Maybe you could get him some help? But from what you've said it doesnt sound like he'd take it. I don't understand online games at all, but I have 3 brothers and whil... (read in full...)
Dating questions from a confused teen.....
Q. I went to the movies with a friend who I have known since Kindergarten (we're in 8th now). I've liked her for a long while but never really told. Feelings were probably mutual for all this time... anyways. The theatre was rather empty, around 10 or ...
A. 3 June 2010: 1. No, girls do this, its a shy way of flirting with you.
2. Girls don't say that they're flirting.
3. No, your a teenager, I used to do it all the time :) Not so much now, I need my sleep now for exams! Try and get some sleep!
4. I expect she w... (read in full...)
I cant hide my baby bump anymore but I'm worried about telling my family as my parents are going through a divorce....
Q. I am a 14 year old girl, and i know whats i have done is wrong and i am truly sorry. But when my mam and dad split up 7 months ago i went off the rails such as drinking just to foget about the pain that we would never do things as a family no more, ...
A. 3 June 2010: Sweetheart, none of this is your fault, you were raped, thats horrific and traumatic for you and you've delt with it all on your own. You need to tell your mother, I wouldnt even bother mentioning you've slept with your boyfriend, just stick to the ... (read in full...)
Cool music, great hair, hot style, OH MY!
Q. Well, so I'm kind of having this problem here. I don't usually write on these kind of things, but I'm soooo confused... Ok, so, my friend set me up with this really hot guy. He's exactly what I look for in a guy... he loves the same kind of music I ...
A. 29 April 2010: Ive been in exactly the same situation, and basically, you can act like your dating, but until he actually says something, then your not.
You gonna have to be brave and talk to him, I wish I had :(
If you both want different things then it wont ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him that she cheated?
Q. I am in the trickest, most childish situation i have been in, in a long time. Im 19 years old and ive been best friends with two girls for a very long time. One is a childhood friend and has been there since birth, and the other i met in highschoo...
A. 6 April 2010: It's a tricky situation, but i'd have a quiet word with the girl. She's probaly feeling awful now and may need someone to talk to. You can discuss with her whether its better for her to tell her boyfriend what happened or not. Just make it clear ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is gross, do you think he wants someone else?
Q. My boyfriend does stupid things and i think he is showing off for me. But the things that he does are pretty stupid like he fights a lot. He talks about naked women and boobs and that stuff. Do you think he wants someone else?...
A. 2 April 2010: I think he's just a teenage boy...... (read in full...)
How do I handle this situation with this seller on ebay?
Q. Hi. I was wondering if you could offer some advice about this ?. I won a bid on ebay for some concert tickets, and paid for them straight away. It has now been three weeks since i paid for them, and i still haven't received them. I sent the seller a ...
A. 28 March 2010: Ebay can give you a refund, if you report the seller to them, then again they have have just had trouble in their personal life, there is no way of knowing.
Keep it friendly, and send them another email. 3 weeks is a long time, so i'd probaly ask ... (read in full...)
Are irregular periods normal?
Q. omg my period comes 2weeks or sometimes 3weeks..is this normal?? for example: this month it came again after just 2weeks after ive gone of it.. and nest month it will come 3weeks. am not on pills or anything. thnx..x is this ...
A. 28 March 2010: I don't think it would do you any harm, but i'd check with a doctor and maybe go on the pill so you can become more regular, and that will make it easier for you :)... (read in full...)
Is he a little too attached to his dog for him to be this depressed after it died?
Q. My boyfriend has been depressed for about a month now ever since his dog died, is he a little too attached to his dog for him to be this depressed?...
A. 15 February 2010: Animals are the only things that love you without question.
Of course hes upset, you should be there for him... (read in full...)
Falling in love with an adopted brother?
Q. me(im a girl btw)and my family might adopt a guy my age (13)and im really excited about that its there is one thing im worried about.... what if we were to fall in love? I mean i dont don't think i would mind it at all! but at the same time I dont ...
A. 3 January 2010: I wouldn't worry. If you have to live with him you will have to endure all his annoying and disgusting habits. That will turn you off pretty quickly! I have a step brother whos my age and we met at about 11 and we get on great but we definatly see ... (read in full...)
I often dream of sex with siblings!
Q. Okay, so I in no way have any type of physical or sexual attraction to any of my siblings, but I have at some point in the last two years dreamed about having sex with almost every single one of my siblings. Why is this? ...
A. 16 December 2009: Um.. apparently it just means you respect them or something... if you believe that dream analysing stuff.
But you cant control your dreams, I wouldnt worry :)... (read in full...)
My dad doesn't want me dating black guys
Q. My dad doesn't want me dating black guys. Which I think is terrible, but there's nothing I can do to change it. I just started going out with this back guy (I'm white), and I'm afraid of how my dad might react.. it's not that he's racist, he ...
A. 13 December 2009: Anonomous reader- I cant believe you agree with him!
Yes your dad only wants whats best for you, but your going to have to ask him WHY he doesnt want you with a black guy. Then tell him your a big girl now and can make your own decisions.
Take ... (read in full...)
My friend had a child with a one night stand, should she tell him?
Q. A friend of mine asked my advice on this situation and I had no idea what to tell her. She is a 19 year old single mother and the father of her baby doesn’t know that she had his baby. She feels that she doesn’t want to tell him because he has such ...
A. 13 December 2009: I think he deserves to know, whether he wants to take action about it is another story..
xx... (read in full...)
An orgasm out of nowhere!
Q. Sitting in class writing a paper I had an orgasm like feeling but I was not doing anything. Just writing a paper and listening to a teacher. Is it possible to have an orgasm out of no where and since I was wearing a long tampon instead of wide ...
A. 12 December 2009: Theres this girl that orgasm's like 20 times a day from things like a train going past and stuff like that.
But thats a rare condition, I doubt it was a orgasm, maybe just shivers or something :)... (read in full...)
I was in love with him, until he fell in love with me...
Q. I'm really confused at the moment. I really liked this guy, I kept thinking about him all the time. Then he told me he liked me and asked me to be his girlfriend. I said no. I have no idea why, but as soon as he started to like me, I completey ...
A. 10 December 2009: You want what you cant have?
I had the same but the other way round, he liked me, and as I grew to like him, he seems to have gone off me..
Typical!
I think you need to think this through carefully, because if you lose him, it will be harder to ge... (read in full...)
No period for 2 months--am I pregnant?
Q. Well, last October me and my boyfriend had sex. I am getting a little bit worried that I may be pregnant. I havent had my period for two whole stinkin months!!! Could i be pregnant? I'm 14 and I can barely take care of myself. Help please?...
A. 10 December 2009: Anytime you have sex theres a risk of pregnancy.
The risk is very low if you use condoms and are on the pill, assuming you used them correctly.
The risk is much higher if you dont use contraception.
Basically the only way your gonna know is by t... (read in full...)
Who is going to want me looking like this?
Q. I´ve just been feeling sad about my appearance lately. As a child, I was very early to develop (by the standards of the times I lived in). when I was ten, I suffered from severe acne... and now my face is horribly scarred. My parents were alw...
A. 9 December 2009: Well, theres ways of helping these things, but there pretty extreme, chemical skin peels and stuff.
I think you need to accept you for who you are. If your confident, others will look past your skin. Beauty is only skin deep as they say...
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Should I marry him?
Q. I made a rash decision to have a baby girl with a man whom I dont love, but he loves me very much. He is 10 years older than me, and at a point in life where he wants to start a family. I don't love him, but I want my daughter to have a family. ...
A. 7 December 2009: If you have to ask, you shouldnt marry the guy..... (read in full...)
My five minutes of fame are bringing a lifetime of shame
Q. I've had real problems with self-esteem and subsequently booze for quite a few years. I have forced myself on a downward spiral and i seem to dwell on my problems more and more. It all began when i was 20 and booze enabled me to be 'popular' (at the ...
A. 6 December 2009: Oh mate... I bet it was hilarious at the time! But not for you, you poor thing!
Look, if they are your mates, I dont think they would show your girlfriend, they will probs just tease you about it... and if the pictures are on their old phones, I do... (read in full...)
Why do girls stay with the bad guys?
Q. Why do girls always stay with guys that they either dont like or are mean to them? I liked this one girl a few years back and i wanted to be with her but she had a boyfriend, and she would tell me that she kinda liked me and could see something bu...
A. 6 December 2009: Well, its true that women will put up with a lot more than guys will.
If a woman acted like a jerk to a guy, he would leave her, but if its the other way round, she just puts up with it.
Maybe woman form more emotional attachments earlier on?
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Should I recreate a scene from the "Twilight" book?
Q. When I was in the 6th grade, a school right next to mine was closed down, and some of the students there came to our school. One of these students was Lisa (fake-name). A friend of mine had a crush on Lisa's friend, so a group evolved. We saw each...
A. 6 December 2009: Aw thats sweet, I agree with the others tho, ask her out on a date first, then maybe later go to the meddow.
But, I wouldnt tell her your recreating the scene, I think that would scare me a bit, let her figure that one out and make the conn... (read in full...)
Just a simple and sincere thank you to all of you...
Q. I've asked for help many times and I'm so thankful that so many wonderful people I have never met take the time to read other peoples stories and respond. This is not a message in request for advice but just a thank you to you all. Without the ad...
A. 5 December 2009: This is a nice message :)- your welcome!
And I would like to say the same-
Thank you guys! Your great :D
Like a big online family who you can tell literally anything too
THANK YOU!!
xxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
Why do boys always mess me around?
Q. The other night one of my friends said something that really made me think. He said; 'Oh Jess, why do guys always mess you about? :(' Which made me think, why do they?! All my last relationships have ended badly. And I dont know what im doing ...
A. 5 December 2009: But.. im nice to them deffinatly not verbally abusive!
I have only had sex with one guy, and that was a guy I was with for a year, before all this mishap happened with other guys, which is why I also believe I know what a relationship enta... (read in full...)
Computer game idea for g/f?
Q. Hi guys, I'll keep this short and sweet. I'm a computer games development student, and I want to make a nice little game for my girlfriend to play, nothing big and complex, but I want it to be fun and entertaining as well as cute and a reminder t...
A. 1 December 2009: This is so cute :)
I'd say check out 'sorority life' on facebook, its basically about fashion but its fun to play (for girls anyway)... (read in full...)
I love him so much but I want to hate him.
Q. I love him so much but I want to hate him. What shall i do to oppose my emotions towards him?! please help!...
A. 30 November 2009: Im guessing its a guy youve fallen for whos acting like a jerk?
Ignore him, you will find another guy to take your mind off him, believe me they come from the strangest places!
Good luck :) x... (read in full...)
I'm always the friend and never the girlfriend. How can I change this around?
Q. I dont get it, I'm always the friend to a boy, never the girlfriend and I hate it, its always "you're a great friend" or "I love you as a friend" never "I just love you" any tips on getting them to change their minds x thanks for the time ...
A. 29 November 2009: The best relationships always start as friendships.. ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend but wants a threesome with my friend and I
Q. I like this guy and he likes me back. but he is 17 and im 15 so we cant date. we still hang out and go to his car and you know the rest of the story. lately he wants to do somthing with both my bestfriend and i,so i said yes beacuse i thought ...
A. 28 November 2009: This is so wrong.
Firstly; just because your 15 and hes 17 doesnt mean you cant date, it means its illegal to have sex. Which from the sound of it, your already doing. So technically from my point of view it would be better if you were in a rela... (read in full...)
Missing my ex bf so badly... help!
Q. i really miss my ex. its been about a month since we really spoke. i mean i seem him twice since then, and he spoke to me, he even kissed me the other day, after telling me a month ago neva to speak to him again. so i havent hit him up and wasnt the ...
A. 21 November 2009: Look the best way to get over him, is just to leave it. I know its so hard, the hardest thing ever, and you'll be reading into little actions to see if he still likes you.
But there is no point to it. Occupy your mind with other things. Let him come... (read in full...)
Am I a slut?
Q. Am I a slut? A few people have said it to me and sometimes my friends say it, in a jokey way, but I think they kinda mean it sometimes. I'm 16, I've only ever had 1 proper boyfriend and we went together for about a year. About 10 months in...
A. 21 November 2009: Your not a slut, rumors are spread easily at this age and things are exagerated.
Plus its not like your doing it with tonnes of different guys.
But its all down to you, if you feel like a slut, pehaps you should take it easy for a while.
However, ... (read in full...)
Why would my boyfriend suddenly exclude me from his birthday plans?
Q. i was wondering, last night was my boyfriend's birthday. We've been together almost 3 years on and off. Every year weve spent it together, last night he excluded me from hanging out at his local bar where ive been with him before and met his ...
A. 20 November 2009: This does sound strange.
Was it a boys night?... (read in full...)
Who the heck is "Sadie?"
Q. the guy I ve been seeing just text me, he said ok tks sadie, thing is my name isnt sadie....what shall i do...
A. 20 November 2009: My friend called me Judy the other day simply cos he had predictive on and was in a rush. Ask him :) x... (read in full...)
What gave me this sudden, intense chill???
Q. In the middle of my last class I got this sudden intense feeling down below (which felt good) and it gave me a chill? Like a sudden very short chills. Although I did not do anything at all I was just talking to friend in the class (and when this ...
A. 19 November 2009: Someone walked over your grave?
Hmm.. im not sure, prehaps you were just shuddering?
:S
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Adice on a girl
Q. So I've been sort of going out with this girl for like a month. We've been talking and I've known her for a long time and I really like her. However, she hasn't talked to me in over a week. Nothing wrong with it, but its strange because we were ...
A. 19 November 2009: Hmm just send her a nice text;
Hey, havnt heard from you in a while! How are you? :) x
Something like that?
Dont be pushy or clingy tho, if shes havnt second thoughts then she will want to have some time to think.
Good luck :) x... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and wondering if I am a lesbian?
Q. I am 13 and like boys. But last weekend I stayed at my BFF house like we do sometimes. That night we started talking about boys and sex and stuff. We were talking about what it is like with our boyfriends and started messing around. So we e...
A. 8 November 2009: Um.. what exactly did you do? I think the same thing still applies. Im sure your BFF doesnt want it mentioned either, so if both of you stay quiet im sure it will be fine :) xx... (read in full...)
Heard a lot of bad things about this guy...should I drop him or give him a fair shot?
Q. Ok this is kind of long but I really need your guys's help. Ok I just started highschool and there's this boy that im very confused about. He's a sophmore but should be a junior because he got held back cause he had to go to rehab......
A. 8 November 2009: hmm... well if he wants to get you into bed then hes bound to be nice to you.
If what his mates are saying is true, he doesnt sound like a nice guy.
Id ask him nicely about it. Be careful and dont get too involved,
Good luck
xxx... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and wondering if I am a lesbian?
Q. I am 13 and like boys. But last weekend I stayed at my BFF house like we do sometimes. That night we started talking about boys and sex and stuff. We were talking about what it is like with our boyfriends and started messing around. So we e...
A. 8 November 2009: Your a bit young to know if your gay or not :)
Does it really matter either way?
I think you were just experimenting with your friend, your a teenagers and your hormones are all over the place, so you wont have a clue what your really want untill y... (read in full...)
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