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Hey!

So ok, I dont know the ways of the world, but who actually does? Life is a mystery. So thats why this site exists!

I have used this site before to help with my problems, and I thought I should give something back. I want to help others who are in difficult situations.

I have been horse-riding for most of my life and I love it. I currently have one horse. He's gorgeous. I also love acting and drama.

Feel free to message me if you have a problem! Thanks :D

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This past week I keep having a recurring dream of being raped.

Q.   hi, For the past week I've been having a dream where I'm being raped; this guy who seems stalks me (in reality) comes up to me (in my dream) knocks me out and puts me into his car, when I wake up I'm on a beach which is surrounded by cliffs, ...

A.   9 November 2008: Thats worrying.. where do you see him? And what sort of age?... (read in full...)

This past week I keep having a recurring dream of being raped.

Q.   hi, For the past week I've been having a dream where I'm being raped; this guy who seems stalks me (in reality) comes up to me (in my dream) knocks me out and puts me into his car, when I wake up I'm on a beach which is surrounded by cliffs, ...

A.   8 November 2008: Stalks you? What age is he and do you know who he is? If he is older than you then I advose you to tell someone, and soon. If hes some guy your age at school (which im guessing hes not if he has a car in your dream) who fancies you then I wouldnt ... (read in full...)

I'm scared !

Q.   hi. me and my boyfriend had sex. we got really carried away and just pulled our pants down and he stuck his penis in me. he didn't put a condom on cuz it was just in the moment. so we had sex and i guess he pulled out before he cummed and it got all ...

A.   3 November 2008: Go get a test asap! Thats the only way you will know and try to stay calm. It may not be that bad! Good luck xx... (read in full...)

My parents are interfering with my life too much and I can't take it any more...

Q.   I know this is long but please bear with me cuz I really need help. I am beginning to hate my parents because they never listen to me and because they treat me like some kind of kid and my two other brothers are given everything they want in a s...

A.   12 October 2008: You dont get a DOOR!? but surely teens need privacy to do whatever.... your room should be a private place. Well I think you should get more friendly with your brothers, so its more like kids vs adults. I dont mean that in a horrible way, thats just... (read in full...)

Do women kiss more passionately than men?

Q.   I have found that after kissing a woman now I dont find men kisses to be as good and/or passionate. Does anyone out there have felt the same as me? ...

A.   29 September 2008: Well just from hearing things about us girls always say most guys we get with are bad kissers, we rarely find a good kisser. But the boys all think we are great kissers so I dont know... maybe girls are just better ;)... (read in full...)

Why am I so terrified of actually having a baby?

Q.   hi, i'm 27 years old and since always i've been absolutely terrified of having a baby, and really quite scared of being pregnant- and nobody understands the way i feel. i don't know when it started, but i know that my birth was tramatic for my ...

A.   2 September 2008: Everyone is put off about childbirth, but just think, at the end of it you have a gorgous baby :) It sounds like a phobia to me, and there are courses you can go on to get over these fears, my friend went on one, addmittidly that was for spid... (read in full...)

Is my mom's friend acting strange or am I reading into things?

Q.   My mom has a guy friend Jeff (not real name) and hes nice and all but something seems strange about him.....when im home alone he'll call and ask what im doing for no reson and he always ask me "is any one there with you?!" then he'll tell/ask "ok ...

A.   29 August 2008: Well done! Im so pleased for you =] xxx... (read in full...)

What did he mean when he said this?

Q.   Ok this has confused me abit. Well before i start i'd like you to know that this bullying is mroe or less over but i'm still wondering about this. Basically afew members of the group suddenly took a disliking to me, never found out why or anything...

A.   29 August 2008: I think he meant that he didnt want to (obviously, thats awful!) But he couldnt say much in front of his mates and he probaly didnt havemuch time to think of a comeback. Guys minds work slow. Glad to hear the bullying is all sorted xx... (read in full...)

I lied about my age for 3 years! Now what?

Q.   Hey every1...so I kinda have a problem you see I met this guy 3 years ago n I didn't think we would be messin around for this much time but he really likes me and cares the thing is when I met him I told him I was 15 when really im 14 He was 17 at ...

A.   26 August 2008: I have the same problem as you, I told I guy I was the same age as him (a year older) and now have had to lie about my gcse results, seeing as I havnt got any! Im starting to like this guy and I never thought that it would come to this, it was a ... (read in full...)

14 and I think I could be pregant.

Q.   Please take the time to hear me out..and please dont judge me. Im 14 Years old and I think i'm pregnant. My period came down July 27, 2008 And Went Back Up August 1st. My boyfriend And I had sex July 11 and 12, The first time we were unprotec...

A.   26 August 2008: Well I would say the odds are against you seeing as you had unprotected sex so many times... seriously use a condom! But we are not to know they only way you will find out is if you take a test so just do that asap Good luck to you x... (read in full...)

Is my mom's friend acting strange or am I reading into things?

Q.   My mom has a guy friend Jeff (not real name) and hes nice and all but something seems strange about him.....when im home alone he'll call and ask what im doing for no reson and he always ask me "is any one there with you?!" then he'll tell/ask "ok ...

A.   26 August 2008: Tell your mum but in a nice way. Dont accuse him. It could be his way of looking out for you but I agree it does sound wierd. If he call again when nobody is there DONT LET HIM IN. Pretend your out. Or if he calls tell him your mum is there too. M... (read in full...)

Do people say what's in their heart while loaded up on alcohol?

Q.   Is is true that people tend to speak the truth, and say what's truly in their heart when they are loaded? My b/f seems to have some difficulty being sweet and romantic to me, but when he's loaded he becomes poetic and loving, saying all the things ...

A.   26 August 2008: Well there is this girl I dont like much and shes always getting drunk. When shes sober shes always saying how ugly I am but when she was p*ssed she called me up to say I was the prettiest girl she had ever met! No idea which one is the truth but ... (read in full...)

Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....

Q.   Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...

A.   25 August 2008: Ha!... (read in full...)

Is it fun to watch a girlfriend have sex with another guy?

Q.   im thinking about asking my girlfriend to have sex with another guy while i watch. is this fun?...

A.   21 August 2008: Correct me if im wrong but isnt that just like having your cake and NOT eating it?? Why wouldnt you eat the cake yourself?! ... (read in full...)

How long do you think it will be before I get my braces?

Q.   tomorrow I am going to the orthodontist about braces. As i live in the uk the treatment is free and the orthodontist told my mom I will be put at the top of the waiting list and that my treatment starts in august. I have already had x-rays and ...

A.   8 August 2008: Lexilou I had the same as your daughter except Im just wearing my retainer at night untill he says not too. I expect you will have them put on at your next appointment, if they have decided not to remove teeth and such. Good luck! The time realy fl... (read in full...)

Can anyone help with a dream about a number?

Q.   It is a bit different, but, I was wondering if someone could help me? I had a dream about a number. The number was , 17.... It was very significant, and at the I got a strong message,to not forget it.. I tried to find out things ,but I have luck of ...

A.   23 June 2008: Did you do anything relating to this number in the days leading up to this dream? Or anything which may have reminded you of a time when you thought of this number. Is it an age? Who do you know is 17? Maybe something will happen on the 17th? Or at ... (read in full...)

Our mothers are always there!! How can we spend some time alone?

Q.   hey me and my chick wanna be alown together but we cant no matter where we are our mothers are there!! any advice of where we can be alown. so far we only get to kiss at school but we cant be together after school becouse of our mothers!!...

A.   11 June 2008: What about going to town? Or the cinema? Wait untill your parents are out and let her come round. Or go to yours and watch a movie. Parents wont object about that!... (read in full...)

We care about each other so much but we are not in love! What do you think we should do?

Q.   hi im 17 me an my boyfiend have been together 4 a year an a half. the problem is, we aren't inlove. we care about eachother so much! but we just aren't inlove. we both want to be! y aren't we? we talked about it the other day but we both broke down ...

A.   6 June 2008: Hey! Love can be anything.. why dont you think you are in love? Some people dont know when they are in love. Take some time and spend it with each other. Spontanious romantic gestures are nice. Gifts, roses all the soppy stuff if you think it will ... (read in full...)

Since about christmas every now and then I've got these strange hallucinations/dreams!!

Q.   Hello this isnt a relationship question but i use this site so somebody may be able to help! not been able to find anything on the internet about it. Basicly since about christmas every now and then ive got these strange hallucinations/dreams, they ...

A.   6 June 2008: Seriously, go to a doctor! It doesn't sound normal at all... do you take drugs? That could be the cause but im assuming if you did you would have already worked that out... whats changed since christmas? Try and work that out and you may have your... (read in full...)

Is it possible to fall pregnant in this situation?

Q.   hi, is it possible for a girl to get pregnant if a boy an a girl have just there underwear on while kissing on the bed on top of eachother an the boy has a boner?...

A.   6 June 2008: Its highly unlikely. Infact extremly unlikely. I realy dont think its possible, unless sperm traveled through TWO LAYERS of clothing. If your worried take a pregnancy test, but im sure it cant happen. Pregnancy comes from sex!... (read in full...)

I'm 10. How can I impress my girlfriend?

Q.   im 10 and i have a gf, she likes me as well, but the thing is that i think i need to impress her more, how can i impress her? please help! ...

A.   6 June 2008: Like Jay said.. I reccomend a necklace. It doesnt have to be expensive. But she can wear it all the time. I garentee she will love it. My bf got me a necklace for valentines day and I have never taken it off (except for that week it was ... (read in full...)

I want a baby but I have no boyfriend and am only 12.

Q.   i want a baby but im only 12 years of age. im a single,im good with babys i baby sit my cosin 2. i feel like im ready, but am i. how can have a baby without a boyfreind....

A.   5 June 2008: Hunny, your only 12! Im 15 and I love kids too, but there is no way I could handle a baby on my own. Kids are a lot of work and MONEY. Right now you need to concentrate on school (yes boring I know) and get some good grades, then maybe go to collage ... (read in full...)

What is Karma..? Can someone please explain this to me?

Q.   Hi guys, this my sound like a silly question but, can anyone explain to me what Karma is, i knew this guy in the past and he use to say this to me, sometimes two people are ment to be together no matter what, its karma, faith....an unex...

A.   5 June 2008: Ha they are all pretty good explanations but the way I use it is 'If you do something bad, it will come back and bite you' or if something is going amazingly well, like your wildest dreams, something bad will happen then too. Heres a video to kinda ... (read in full...)

PLEASEEEE I really need someone to talk to and someone to help me decide things!

Q.   Hey aunts ! So its not like I have problems or anything, but I think I really need someone to talk to. It might make me feel better . But there are all these little problems I have, and I dont wanna write them all up here and post like 100 questi...

A.   31 May 2008: Hey im a teenager and i would be happy to help you if you want. Message me if you feel like it. If by IM you mean MSN then I can give you my addy and we can chat about whatever you like! Good luck with everything hun xx... (read in full...)

Am I throwing away a friendship to prove a lie?

Q.   I dont know what to do ! im feeling pretty low right now. I feel like im about to lose something i could of had, because of my friends. me and my friend wre talking in a conversation on msn. She thought i liked this boy that i have been talking ...

A.   29 May 2008: Tell your friend you think hes 'alright'. Then just carry on with him. If you go out then its all good. Why dont you want your friend to know? If shes a close friend then you should beable to tell her. If not then its none of her buisness. Dont let ... (read in full...)

Why does my girlfriend role play?

Q.   This may seem like an odd question but it deals with the relationship I am in. My question is, why do people Role play? More specifically online role playing with other people. My girlfriend does it like routine every night and she always seems...

A.   29 May 2008: Roleplay? Hmm possibly need a bit more info here. Is it a game like Habbo or Runescape? Or is it pretending to be movie charecters like Harry Potter and stuff? Pesonaly I have never done that, cant see the attraction when you can be yourself. But ... (read in full...)

What is marriage?

Q.   I got alot of questions please help i need answers for all of them what is marriage? What is the purpose of marrigae in Judaism? Here is an satement what are aggree, and disagree points 'Marriage is only a pice of paper you might as w...

A.   29 May 2008: Ha does sound like my GCSE Re exam questions! And im not quite sure how you would put that into a table.. but anyway on the internet there are plenty of GCSE help sites if your stuck, like this one. http:/... (read in full...)

I think my brother is gay, how can I know if he is?

Q.   i think my brother is gay how can i know if he is not ...

A.   18 May 2008: Wait until he tells you. Its his decision.... (read in full...)

I kissed my best friend and now I feel awkward

Q.   Okay i need bit of advice. baically i been like best friends with this guy for most of my life. We both swim for the same club and have always been very close, in the wa we would have sleepovers together and nothing ever thought of it. but yeah ...

A.   14 May 2008: It takes two to tango hun. Of course that saying isn't usually used about kissing but nevertheless its the same princibles. He kissed you back, so maybe he has feelings for you. Maybe it was just a kiss. Who knows? So when you next see him, if ... (read in full...)

Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....

Q.   Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...

A.   11 May 2008: Haha heres a joke about men and women I think its kinda funny :) WIFE: What would you do if I died? Would you get married again? HUSBAND: Definitely not! WIFE: Why not - don't you like being married? HUSBAND: Of course I do... (read in full...)

A boy interferes in my private affairs and has approached me inappropriately. What can I do to avoid him?

Q.   Hi, I'm a 14 year old female living in the UK, I go to secondary school and a few months ago we asked the teachers whether were allowed to have some sort of prom, the teachers agreed after some discussions. The prom was like for raising money for ...

A.   13 April 2008: Tell Jack to stay out of you affairs. In my opinion, he realy likes you! I dont think he likes your mate, he was just trying to make you jealous. He's probaly a forward going cocky guy who thinking he can get anyone, and now he's determined to have ... (read in full...)

I'm scared my GF could be pregnant at 14, how to tell our parents?

Q.   i need help,im 14 and i think i made my girlfriend pregnant who is also 14. im really scared, i dont really know if she is or if she isn't. if she is, i dont know what i would do and how we would tell our parents. can someone please help me!!!...

A.   22 March 2008: Ok calm down. First thing you need to do is determin if she actually is pregnant. Go buy a test, or go to a clinic. They are free and confidential. If she is you basically have 3 options, Abortion, adoption or keep it. Just choose which ever would ... (read in full...)

Is it right for my friend to date this girl?

Q.   dear cupid i would like to know is it wrong for a person to date a girl that is 2 years younger? because my friend want to go out with a girl in year 10 and he is in college. Does this make him a pedo? Also i would like to know why does the...

A.   22 March 2008: I would say its ok, hes definatly not classed as a pedo. A pedo is a much older man and probaly a much younger child. Although I suppose it could be anything realy. Anyway when I was in year 9 I had friends with up to 22 year old bf's. Cant realy ... (read in full...)

Why is my friend so mean to me?

Q.   one of my best freinds keeps on insulting me, she will say somthing about the way i look, once she said "i am fit you're not" and "that boy you like will say you are ugly"at the time i just laughed it off but now thinking about it i feel hurt that ...

A.   21 March 2008: Your 'friend' sounds jealous of you. By insulting you I bet it makes her feel better. You may not realise it but you are probaly prettier/cleverer/nicer than her and she doesn't like it. Talk to her about it, and ask what you have done to deserve ... (read in full...)

''Crabit Old Woman''

Q.   "Crabbit Old Woman" What do you see, what do you see? Are you thinking, when you look at me- A crabbit old woman, not very wise, Uncertain of habit, with far-away eyes, Who dribbles her food and makes no reply When you say in a loud...

A.   21 March 2008: We read this in a RE lesson. It's a realy sweet poem and quite sad too.... (read in full...)

My best friend is getting really secretive.

Q.   My best friend is getting really secretive. I mean, normally if i had news i would tell her before anyone else! She got a boyfriend, right, and i only found out off someone else! I asked her if it was true and she said yes. Now i'm unsure of ...

A.   20 March 2008: Girls are funny. I think the best thing to do if have a sleepover or something, with just her, and do some fun stuff together, facials, makeovers, manicures etc. It would also be good idea to just ask her if anything is up, and why she isnt telling ... (read in full...)

My ex has just dumped me...

Q.   hello I'm really worried and upset, my ex boyfriend dumped me and their was rumours going around that he kissed another girl that has a boyfriend herself, I don't know if this is true, I still love him, and I've tried so many times he said he's ...

A.   19 March 2008: Hey babe, Been through this so many times and yes I know it hurts like hell, BUT it gets better I promise you. The rumor that hes kissed someone else is possibly just that. A rumor. Even if its true, dont worry about it, hes the one that will get... (read in full...)

I do not want my bf to think I am not interested in him just because I am generally not excited about Valentine's Day!

Q.   Hello, I'm in a fairly new relationship with this guy and I like him a lot. My sort-of dilemma that's developing is he's clearly into Valentine's Day and is looking forward to doing something special and extravagant, but I'm not a big Valentine'...

A.   30 January 2008: I have the same sort of dilemma. Im not particulary excited about Valentines day, and I know my bf is. Whilst my friends are out buying personalised chocolate hearts, im happy just buying a card and going to see a movie. Just make it like any other ... (read in full...)

How do i know what love is?

Q.   im 14 years old and ive been going out with my 15 year old boyfriend for 6 months now i think i love him but how do i know what love is and am i too young for love x?x ...

A.   13 August 2007: Your never too young for love. If you love him, im sure u will know, but I always feel awarm feeling inside when I think of him and a jolt of electricity when I see the oone I love. You wont be able to stop thinking about him, but not in a obsessive ... (read in full...)

Want to lose weight by not eating.

Q.   Ok well i'm 14 and i want to loose weight as im 9 stone which is like pretty bad for my age i'm fat really..i wanna loose weight by not eatin..but i wanna know what will happen to my boobs? will they shrink?? please answer thanks xxx...

A.   11 August 2007: Well Im 14 and all my friends weigh 8-9 stone (some even over) and not one of them I could call fat. They are just tall. On the other hand I am tiny for my age and weigh 5 stone, but I would rather be big! Basicaly everyones different and pe... (read in full...)

How should i ask him out?

Q.   i like this boy. he is cute. i want a way to notice me because i like him alot. idont know what to say when i want to ask him out what should i do???...

A.   11 August 2007: I say yeah! Ask him if he wants to hang out some time. Boys do (In my experience) like it when they know your interessted in them. Although play it cool. Casual flirting, no way full on on a first date. Also if your friends can ask him if he likes... (read in full...)

Could anybody see you if you have a built in webcam on your laptop or desktop

Q.   Could anybody see you if you have a built in webcam on your laptop or desktop? I was wondering because my laptop came with a built in webcam that's already automatically active and on. If I'm searching or cruising on the internet could anybody se...

A.   11 August 2007: I think they will be able to see if you have a web cam, but they will not be able to view it unless they have your consent. This will appear in the conversation if someone wants to see you, and you can accept or decline. Hope this helped!... (read in full...)

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