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im chris . im only 16 and im from england

im a psychic/medium. i communicate with my angels daily . they are amazing :) they work with me to heal aswell. well thats my gift. if you can call it a gift?

i love all creative things . i love science and i love sport and karate =]

im single at the moment but im sure i will find the lady who is ment for me . =]

i believe we have a destiny but its not set in stone you can change it by your actions. so basically you can control your own destiny

life is a blank canvas and you have the tools to create a masterpeice.

my favourite saying:

to know life in every breath.

love and light to you all

chris

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Is it true my friend wont find peace with God after committing suicide?

Q.   Good day to all, A girl I know commited suicide. To be honest I am not so upset about the suicide itself or even her death. She had a really really awful life and alot of bad things happen her entire life-from the day she was born. When I f...

A.   31 August 2008: hi firstly. the bible doesnt condem suicide! also hi i have an important passage from the bible to show she is forgiven: isiah 43:25 . i even i. am he that blotteth out thy transgressions for mine own sake,and will not remember thy sins. this ... (read in full...)

How can I explain my church to my parents - they say it's evil!

Q.   hi i am an apostolic christian and my parents dont understand about this type of church. the fact we call on the holy ghost ect, we have tried to explain to her about the holy ghost and that i might speak in toungues but she thinks its evil and wont ...

A.   4 August 2008: the apostolic church was set up by the apostles. e.g. paul.when jesus was around not last century. it was revived last century. please do not comment again if you are going to tell me when it was founded. thankyou for advice... (read in full...)

How can I explain my church to my parents - they say it's evil!

Q.   hi i am an apostolic christian and my parents dont understand about this type of church. the fact we call on the holy ghost ect, we have tried to explain to her about the holy ghost and that i might speak in toungues but she thinks its evil and wont ...

A.   2 August 2008: the update is that. i would like to confirm. to older sister than its not a new religion. but it is actually the oldest form of christianity in the world . set up in the 1st century by jesus. thankyou all for your advise tho... (read in full...)

How will he react if I stop having sex with him?

Q.   I really like this guy who basically just used me for sex. I wanted to date him but he saw our relationship as "friends with benefits" He said he cared about me and I think he kinda did, he just didnt want a relationship. He did boyfriend stuff with ...

A.   27 July 2008: hey. firstly how can you like a guy who is using you as a thing? well sex between a couple creates a chemical bond, sort of like the emotional version of marriage. wether you want it to or not, this is what usually happens. So if you have this bond... (read in full...)

I'm healthy, but I still get horrible spots!

Q.   im very healthy. im super fit. i eat well and look after my body yet i still suffer from spots and now i have had two boils on my back. why is this ? i dont understand thanks chris...

A.   16 July 2008: yeah i drink lots of water. have been to doctor many times. they are useless... (read in full...)

Is it better to stay in his life or give him space?

Q.   My boyfriend has issues trusting people. I know everyone in his past has hurt him, but he never talks about it. Also, the girl he was engaged to before just left him for no reason. I want him to be able to trust me, but when I try to talk to him he ...

A.   15 July 2008: hey hun. dont give up just because of that. i know it must be difficult for you because you havent done anything wrong, right? well you could wait for him to open up to you in your own time. maybe thats the best option. let the trust build. i... (read in full...)

Does fortune-telling really work?

Q.   Does anynoe belive in psychic and has anyone had a reading that has actully come ture....Do u really belive there are people that can read your sitution without telling them to much?...

A.   15 July 2008: hi hun. im a psychic. trust me there are alot of fakes out there. e.g. the gypsy fortune teller on the beach is probably the biggest fraud. however there are alot of genuine psychics out there too. its hard to find a real one tho because most rea... (read in full...)

How do I fix my scruffy husband?

Q.   My husband's choice of clothing has got scruffier and scruffier and I find it embarrassing being out and about with him. As well as that, he doesn't change with the seasons any more as he used to, but wears long sleeved shirt, trousers, thick socks, ...

A.   15 July 2008: hey. first you need to understand why is he covering himself up? maybe its insecurities over his body? maybe he is cold lol the reason he wont wear new striking this seasons clothes? maybe he doesnt like attention but doesnt realise this way... (read in full...)

What pet names can you call a guy?

Q.   A guy calls you 'baby, huni, sexy.' But what can you call a guy? ...

A.   15 July 2008: hi . in public men dont like that sort of thing. but babe is a nice thing to call him. sexy is what you would say only when your in a horny mood because thats what it comes across as. you can call him hun if you want . but not hunny love an... (read in full...)

Am I psychic?

Q.   Heyy ! Im getting rather freaked out . I think i have physic ablilities. This has only happened twice but it only begun recently. First Occasion: I had a dream about a man in a bear suit in some toilets , the day later the exact same bear outfit +...

A.   15 July 2008: hey. im only 16. im a psychic too! why are you freaked out ? well i can see why. i was scared when i saw spirits for the first time .it all started when i was about 14. when i had dreams like you. and things like i knew who was ringing the phone be... (read in full...)

Are these signs of immaturity that he'll grow out of?

Q.   I've been dating a 6 years younger guy. He is 25, a typical American cool guy who's life is about gym and clubbing on the weekends, very social, fun to hang out with but sometimes annoyingly immature! He is a good looking guy with a nice bod...

A.   26 May 2008: Heya hun x. this sort of relationship is one which develops into a controlled relationship. He will slowly work into your head and get you into a trap. he is bullying you. your shrinking so that others can shine does not serve the world but yo... (read in full...)

She still swears nothing more than kissing ever happened what do YOU think?

Q.   About 2 years ago my girlfriend started a relationship with her ex for about 2 months behind my back (we had been together for 3 years at the time). They had been in an online relationship for years before we were together and talked frequently on ...

A.   30 April 2008: hi. i dont want you to think because i am a psychic i will instantly be correct but i see that the pair had a strong emotional bond? freinds or lovers i dont know. but i also see the picture of deciet, this means that she may have been deci... (read in full...)

My husband doesn't pay me compliments because, he says, I don't accept them. I feel ignored and unattractive.

Q.   My husband and I have been married 10yerars and have beautiful children. I get upset because my husband never compliments me...ever....yet he often has eyes for other women when we are out and enjoys looking at the women in porn....I have told him I ...

A.   13 April 2008: hi. i am only a teenage boy but i know this is NOT right and Not acceptable. what you are saying is not pathetic. i understand thoes few words can mean sooo much.maybe he needs to be put right now before it does any more damadge.also have you ... (read in full...)

I have to be whipped and shed blood for my country to consider me a "woman". I'm scared!

Q.   In my country a girl must be whipped and shed blood for there to be a good harvest. If we flinch we dissapoint our clan. We then also aren't considered women... just girls. If I succeed I get a husbund. But I'm scared. Do you have advice?...

A.   13 April 2008: Give up this life ! is it right that to be ruled by a man , which is probably the way your marriage will run you must be tortured ? whipping is a brutal form of punishment not a Test !! if i was you i would find a nuns convent and live a life with ... (read in full...)

I love her but she has a boyfriend.

Q.   ok, there is a girl that im completly in love with, but she has a boyfriend, im completley in love with her and were best frineds. you can see how that makes it difficult. but she has found out that i like her. i am now talking to my ex-girlfriend ...

A.   11 April 2008: hey. the way i see it as a life coach wich i am .is that you have an oppertunity with your X at the moment but not with your best freind right? you need to take every oppertunity you get in life if you want your life to be a full one. waiting arou... (read in full...)

I felt really confident about myself until finding out that my BF's ex is a supermodel!!

Q.   Been going out with this gorgeous guy for the last couples of months and really like him. We spend hours in bed just cuddling, it's lovely. I recently found out that his ex girlfriend was a supermodel. I'm not exaggerating either - she actually ...

A.   21 March 2008: at the end of the DAy he is going out with you not her. there is a reason for this. because he wants you not her ! simple as =]... (read in full...)

I like this guy at school, how do I approach him and see if he likes me back?

Q.   I like this guy named Joc'(nickname I gave him.) We don't talk at all, but sometimes I catch him looking at me in class. I really like him but don't know what to say to him and NO I WILL NOT SAY SOMETHING STUPID like, "Hi, Im ____." The school year ...

A.   21 March 2008: eye contact is the most common type of flirting that exists. however its not 100% reliable the only way to find out is to talk and introduce yourself. so go ahead and talk to him.it can only go two ways.good luck it goes the right way. love and ligh... (read in full...)

Why is my friend so mean to me?

Q.   one of my best freinds keeps on insulting me, she will say somthing about the way i look, once she said "i am fit you're not" and "that boy you like will say you are ugly"at the time i just laughed it off but now thinking about it i feel hurt that ...

A.   21 March 2008: heya hun. the reason your freind is putting you down is fear.she is making you fell small so that she will seem bigger and better. it is obvious that your freind is not secure in her self. she has deep issues. a true freind will not put you down... (read in full...)

I'm hesitating between the two girls I talk to via Internet...

Q.   Well I'm talking to these 2 great girls online and kind of like them both and well I don't know what to do.. On one hand, the one I talked to longer seems more ready to settle down while the other I'm not sure so much. One who seems a bit more ready ...

A.   21 March 2008: heya. well at the end of the day people can only guide you to a desicion the final desicion must come from your heart. personally i do not think the 16yr old no matter how old she is will be serious enough or mature enough i am 16 i am mature h... (read in full...)

My mother says the Bible does not approve of interracial relationships. How can I prove her wrong?

Q.   Im engaged to a black man, and I could see myself spending the rest of my life with him, hes just like me in every way. My father is racist, and my mother claims that she is just "against marrying out of your race" because of her "religious ...

A.   24 February 2008: Jesus was hebrew i believe , or near enough , sum where around arabia. not white therefore. also jesus says that we should love one another. we are all brothers and sisters and to be blunt. that is a RUBBISH EXCUSE FROM YOUR MOTHER. SHE SHOULD B... (read in full...)

Is my weight normal?

Q.   I am 16 and weigh 10 stones is this normal?...

A.   15 December 2007: hey it depends on how tall you are , how small you are if you are male or female and also if it is fat or muscle , as muscle weighs more than fat. i would say for an average male at 16 thats fine and also for a strong female thats fine. the ... (read in full...)

My friend is in a very abusive relationship, how do I handle it?

Q.   My friend is in a relationship which is emotionally and physically abusive. Her boyfriend takes drugs. I've known her boyfriend longer than she has, he's a nice guy on the cover, but deep down very paranoid and insecure. He's had a strange ...

A.   15 December 2007: heya hun x girls put themselfs throught it for a strange reason when in love you are almost Blind , you cannot make sense of things and get into an awkward situation. a vicious circle it is very hard to break the emotional bond that forms but she ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my mum?

Q.   I am 13 and i think i may be getting my period i have learned about it a school and my mom gave me a book but i just dont know how to tell her i got my period (if it is on the way) How do i tell her?...

A.   7 December 2007: heya , your mom gave you a book on it lol so that means she is there for you and understands that this issue would be fast approaching you , the best thing to do is wait until you have a quite moment and say 'mom i think i am on my period' she will... (read in full...)

She said she could not come to lunch with me today but offered to meet up next week. Is she trying to avoid me?

Q.   hi. today i asked my crush if she wanted to go for lunch. she said that she couldnt today but offered to meet up next week. We get on well together andwork together in our practical groups and i'll walk her home. do you think that she is tryi...

A.   23 November 2007: why not stop asking yourself this and worrying about it just wait till next week and then see if she is serious or not lol , if she is she will go to lunch if she isnt she wont take care chris... (read in full...)

She doesn't really like me so why can't I just get over her?

Q.   Well for a starter im 13 and i like this girl and i keep putting myself down i have never really asked her out but my friends did behind my back but she says like eww or she will tell me later i know she will never date me but i cant get over her i ...

A.   23 November 2007: heya im the same as you except i asked her out , she said no but is acting weird but its probably imagination , you need to treat things as you see them , ask her out , if you dont you are cutting off your nose just to spite the face or in this ... (read in full...)

Does he just want all the perks with none of the restrictions??

Q.   I'm 18, and have been "dating" a 27 year old for almost a year. He works with teenagers, and therefore our relationship cannot be public, as he would risk losing his job and ruining his reputation. However, he also refuses to introduce me to his ...

A.   22 November 2007: heya hun why would he lose his job ? you both can legally be together it is just morally seen as wrong in some peoples eyes is it right for you to shy away in the shadows ? is he ashamed of what ? if he loves you he wont be ashamed of you , he ... (read in full...)

Is she retarded or what?

Q.   I walked down to prop open the outside door of my apartment complex for one of my friends. I just through on a pair of jeans, so I wasnt wearing a shirt or shoes. This girl came down the stairs behind me and said, "its five o' clock somewhere,...

A.   16 November 2007: lol , she isnt a retard she likes you , and is acting silly because she wants you ... (read in full...)

Why has he suddenly decided to get counselling now?

Q.   Will my ex change? And why did he start counseling now, after we are broken up? Throughout our relationship I felt like he treated me not right and that it was very unhealthy. He never agreed to go to counseling but now he is! What is up with that?! ...

A.   14 November 2007: heya hun well your ex most probably decided to go into counselling now as he can start a fresh and can get back on track to get on with his life he may have gone into counselling to try and get you back as he realises what he did was stupid but m... (read in full...)

I am looking for a psychic person

Q.   i need help, i am looking for a phsicic person in my area so i can talk to my dad, me and my sister - 21, have been looking for ages, im 13 and cant go another month with out knowing he's okay, please help we are also trying to find out how he died, ...

A.   27 October 2007: heya hun x you are obviously disstressed about the matter . you need to find a medium not a psychic , also i dont think that any respectable medium will help you considering your age , they usually wont deal with anybody under around about 18... (read in full...)

My best friends mum

Q.   i live in glasgow,scotland and i am 31, i want to shag my best freinds mum but i dont know how to go about it she has great big tits. my freind lives away from home so it's just her living herself, one time i was at my freinds own house at ...

A.   27 October 2007: heya even if she would you are going down a very bumpy one way road and will land up with lots of difficulties thinking this way is pretty sick to be honest its your best freinds mom the best thing i can suggest is to seek counceling , do not ask... (read in full...)

13, worried because I've never had a boyfriend! Is there something wrong with me?

Q.   I'm 13 and I've never had a boyfriend. Everyone else seems to have had one. There are girls in my form that have been out with sooo many boys. They have like 10 different ones every year and have been going out with people since they were like 8. ...

A.   26 October 2007: heya hun x nothing is wrong not every one starts so young i know people who didnt have a boy or girl until they were 15 why dont you ask sum boys you like out ? if they say no its there loss good luck hun chris... (read in full...)

How can I please my man? What Sex positions do men prefer?

Q.   I need tips on how to please my man. Is there any sexual positions that men prefer when having sex with their partner?...

A.   26 October 2007: heya hun x u havent got to please him he has to please you so do what you want take care chris... (read in full...)

I didn't go to my prom as I didn't have a date!

Q.   has anyone ever been to a prom without a date or in a limo. Well that would have been the case for me. All of my friends had dates except me and by the time I asked if there was any space in 1 of the 2 limos my friends got, there wasn't. Because of ...

A.   26 October 2007: heya dont worry about it , the prom seems such a big thing at the moment but you will look back on it and wonder why your are worried not everybody goes to the prom because they have relationships out of school basically dont worry ... (read in full...)

I've got no confidence and it's affecting my school and personal life...

Q.   I'm 12 and have no confidence whatsoever. At all. I can't even ask a shop assistant how much something costs or a teacher if I have a problem. A lot of people like me... I guess, but I feel alone, even though my best friend is always there for me. ...

A.   26 October 2007: heya sounds just like i was at your age confidence deffinately grows with time , the only way you can build confidence is to involve your self in things , talk to the shopkeeper even tho you are nervous keep involving yourself in conversation... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend gay or just open minded?

Q.   I was on my boyfriend's computer trying to find a document I downloaded for homework and found gay porn on it. He's said that he had sex with another guy in the past and that he likes having stuff up his butt (ie. toys, etc.). We are crazily...

A.   25 October 2007: why are you scared if he is gay ?he loves you ? i shouldnt worry at all as long as he doesnt cheat on you chris x ... (read in full...)

He's treating me bad, and I don't know what to do.

Q.   he was my fiance and my all life.i live in this world only for him i cant do anything cant eat or drink or get out until he called me. our love story spend 5 years and he loved me so much and was struggle for me with his family until he came to my ...

A.   25 October 2007: your points are all messed up hun collect them and re write it but take your time , you have all the time you need... (read in full...)

My mother-in-law comes every day to clean up, do my bf's ironing, etc. Her interference is destroying my relationship.

Q.   my bf mum is really ruining our relationship, she wont but out, she comes round every day and cleans up, best thing is she does the my bf's ironing and i have to do my own, its as if i need a gold card to be with my bf its ruining our relationship ...

A.   25 October 2007: have you thought to what the reason she could be doing it is ?? the psycological reason ? e.g. she is taking care of him because she finds it hard to accept he has left home ?~... (read in full...)

Should I forget about a summer love or work harder to keep it alive?

Q.   Hi! I am 23 and this is my second real gf ever. This summer, I fell for a girl who also fell for me...the attraction was mutual, instant, and the relationship was intense and amazing. She slept at my house every night for the three months we ...

A.   25 October 2007: hey you have had an amazing experience with her and i presume she has had an amazing experience with you. however at the moment in the situation it can only be an experience. you need to just take the experience as a lesson and evolve from it and ... (read in full...)

I can get an erection over anything, even just hugging a mate. Advice, please?

Q.   well im 17 and i can get an erection over anything and they're really hard, even just hugging a mate, i wear baggy trousers, tight underwear and a long jacket as it is. has anyone get any advise, pls?...

A.   25 October 2007: ooh thats embarrising right ? but there isnt alot you can do unfortunately, your hormones are on a high and its gonna happen ,you just need to try and control it , thinking about it will make it worse ! good luck ... (read in full...)

My mother-in-law comes every day to clean up, do my bf's ironing, etc. Her interference is destroying my relationship.

Q.   my bf mum is really ruining our relationship, she wont but out, she comes round every day and cleans up, best thing is she does the my bf's ironing and i have to do my own, its as if i need a gold card to be with my bf its ruining our relationship ...

A.   25 October 2007: heya hun x oh that must be frustrating , but the only way to sort it is to actually talk with your boyfreind who probably will find it hard to understand your point of view because he sees it not as his mother ruining your relationship but the hous... (read in full...)

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