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So ok, I dont know the ways of the world, but who actually does? Life is a mystery. So thats why this site exists!
I have used this site before to help with my problems, and I thought I should give something back. I want to help others who are in difficult situations.
I have been horse-riding for most of my life and I love it. I currently have one horse. He's gorgeous. I also love acting and drama.
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I love her but don't want to be one of her sex slaves
Q. Hi everyone, In short I know a girl who I care for and think I love, the problem is she is beautiful and younger and does not want to settle for any one man. She has a string of open relationships where she is sexually intimate with a few people. ...
A. 3 January 2011: You can, but you'll end up getting hurt, jealous and bitter if there are feelings involved. I'd try and find someone else :-) ... (read in full...)
Is he only using me for sex?
Q. okk this is kinda a hard topic for me to talk about and iv asked al my friends and they have all said to just leave him.. but i realy like this guy but the problem is, is that im only just turned 17 and hes nearly 20 and asian so his family d...
A. 3 January 2011: Sweetheart... guys will use you for as much as you'll give. If you give him no strings sex, then why will he bother committing? If you want more, your going to have to talk to him and tell him how you feel. No commitment, no sex.
Honestly, I know... (read in full...)
Is "introducing a girlfriend to family" on skype something big in the US?
Q. I'm in an open relationship with this guy (34yo) due to the long distance between us, we used to be close distance and committed but now we find it's better if we keep it open. We'll be close distance after 2 years. So he went back home in the...
A. 1 January 2011: Inviting your boyfriend/girlfriend round to meet your parents is a big step, yes. However turning the camera around so his family members can wave at you... not so much. Thats not a big deal at all. You havn't really met them in person so I wouldnt ... (read in full...)
I've been love sick for 14 months should I crash the wedding?
Q. How do I get myself out of the dumps of my gloating selfpity for passing the love of my life by? This is doomsday for me but the wedding day for her? Should I crash the wedding and vow my love to her to be my wife. It's been 14 mos that I was a ...
A. 1 January 2011: Personally I think someone crashing the wedding would be really exciting and romantic :-) however i'm an odd one and I don't think you should do that to her. But you can talk to her privately before hand, just say we need to talk, meet up and tell ... (read in full...)
Is this birthday card too overwhelming?
Q. if i gave you a birthday card and wrote in it 'i wasnt there, but i know it was very early on a wednesday morning in 1970 that you popped out of your mom and since then the world has experienced your sweetness and the joy it is to know you. i cant ...
A. 25 December 2010: Depends who its too. Male/female? Partner or just a friend? If it was a partner then yeah its ok, the popping out your mom bit is weird, change it to 'you were born' or something. ... (read in full...)
Are we going out? Or just acting like it?
Q. My friend and I have been nonstop texting and flirting, however, we only see each other once or twice a week at church because he lives at his college. He has told me that he really likes me and that he wants to go on a date with me. Last night, h...
A. 20 December 2010: Well your not officially going out if he hasn't asked you, but sounds like its headed that way and he really likes you :-)
As for the kissing thing? Its xmas, mistletoe, duh.
GOOD LUCK!!
xxx... (read in full...)
He wants to have a kid but I'm definitely NOT ready for it! Help!
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and he asked me if I would have a kid with him. We are both 15 and I just laughed it off as if he was joking and when he didn't mention it for the rest of the night I thought it was a joke. The next ...
A. 20 December 2010: This guy sounds like a loser, wanting a kid at 15? Does he seriously have no better life ambitions that that? You sound sensible and mature, but this 'threat' about just getting you pregnant when your drunk, its an awful thing to say. Sure it's fin... (read in full...)
Shouldn't sex last??
Q. So me and this guy always have sex well kinda we did like 3 times and when we do it's only for like 30 or 40 min .. And idk if he cummed or not or if he had an orgasim or not .. But shouldn't sex last for like an hour or 2 ??? ...
A. 19 December 2010: Jesus...
No no no! I'd say about 20 minutes is the norm! Usually not even that :/!... (read in full...)
He jokingly told me to get an abortion!
Q. Hello, I need some little help here. First of all, me and my boyfriend are together for about 2 years and we love each other very much. We haven't had sex yet, but we're about to (both virgins). One of my greatest fears is "what if the c...
A. 19 December 2010: Hey everyone, lighten up, she's over 18 therefore legally an adult so go for it. It's brilliant :-) Anyway, firstly, the chance of the condom splitting is pretty slim, so don't worry too much about that. Also there is only realistically about one ... (read in full...)
Do I tell the truth in this 'truth' game?
Q. I recently moved to a new school, where I know no one. So my new friends have been playing a truth game with me to help me get to know each other. Last time they asked me who my first kiss was. I'm afraid to tell them, because my first kiss was a...
A. 19 December 2010: I try and tell the truth in truth games, but if its a answer I know will lead to bad outcomes then I just dont. Just say it was your 2nd kiss (assuming that was a guy) :-)... (read in full...)
I cant hide my baby bump anymore but I'm worried about telling my family as my parents are going through a divorce....
Q. I am a 14 year old girl, and i know whats i have done is wrong and i am truly sorry. But when my mam and dad split up 7 months ago i went off the rails such as drinking just to foget about the pain that we would never do things as a family no more, ...
A. 14 December 2010: Congratulations :-) I hope you and your little family are really happy. Thanks for updating us. Good luck
xxxxx... (read in full...)
I think I fancy my step brother!
Q. Well, its a long story; He isnt my full brother; he is my step brother; Well, my mum and his dad started dating. Now they have fallen out but they still love each other.. Me and my step brother have a really good bond... But one night we st...
A. 29 November 2010: Well technically your not related. And you say your parents arn't together now?
Its still unorthadox, I know my step brother is very much a brother figure to me, but I don't know your whole situation.
If you both like each other, go for it, your... (read in full...)
All I do is kiss her neck and she's ready to go!
Q. When I kiss my girlfriend's neck she becomes quite aroused. I know it's probably a dumb question because mostly likely it's her nerves responding but, why do women get turned on by that?...
A. 13 November 2010: Oh good lord, if your not willing to go all the way, dont kiss the neck ;-)
I don't know why its so good, it just REALLY IS. Also try behind the ear right down to that bit where the neck meets the shoulder. ... (read in full...)
It went from dating to FWBs!
Q. Ok so this guy I was dating broke up with me a couple weeks ago. I was crushed because I did like him although I never thought of him as a marriage material. Our personalities were clashing and I think he just got fed up, which is why he chose to ...
A. 13 November 2010: Not unless your prepared for just sex. At the time its brilliant but as soon as your apart you'll just be paranoid and worried that he's with someone else, which he's perfectly within his right to do. And it always ends up on the guys terms. ... (read in full...)
Does it hurt the second time around?
Q. I lost my virginity last year, and I am now scared to have sex again because it has been so long, and apparently it hurts again. Does it?...
A. 13 November 2010: A little, but not as much as the first time. No big deal :)... (read in full...)
My first kiss went a little something like this..
Q. So I'm 18 years old and a Freshmen in College. I am pretty but really picky when it comes to guys. Like I get asked out all the time but I get scared that he only likes me for my looks so I get nervous and make up an excuse. Now, a couple months ago ...
A. 13 November 2010: It was only a kiss, you did well to pull the homecoming king ;-)... (read in full...)
My parents are going to kick out my pregnant baby sister
Q. im 17 and my sisters 15 and pregnant and she wants too keep it and does not want to put her baby up for adoption but my parents and her have a rocky relationship so they dont want anything too do with her , i really want to help her because i love ...
A. 26 October 2010: You sound like a lovely sister :)
I think you, as the elder sister should sit down with your parents (and your younger sister too, as now she is going to have to act like an adult) and have a calm discussion. Hopefully they are just angry and don'... (read in full...)
How do you use a tampon?
Q. i am going to have P.E. soon and i was wondering, how do you use a tampon? also is there a specific age you need to be to wear one because i'm 14.i've looked on some web sites and they don't give a good explanation. so the main thing i'm asking is, ...
A. 16 October 2010: Pads are NOT better at all, with a tampon its like not being on your period at all. Get a applicator one, they are easier. There are basically 2 tubes, an inner one and a outer one. You pull the inner one down untill it makes one big tube, push it ... (read in full...)
Was losing your virginity as you expected it to be?
Q. Was losing your Virginity as you expected it to be and would you change your mind if you could go back?...
A. 15 October 2010: Hmm... I dont regret it. It was with a long term boyfriend and was really sweeta and didnt hurt that much.
But all in all it wasn't brilliant sex. I was a bit dissapointed. First couple of times wern't that great tbh. But we were both virgin, and ... (read in full...)
Has anyone experienced a late period one month and nothing at all the next??
Q. Well I had unprotected sex (no need for criticism) on the 4th of August and my period came late but it did show up and lasted 5 days I just noticed that I didn't have a period for the month of September I'm not having Pms nor Pregnancy symptoms ...
A. 14 October 2010: Good luck, let us know how it goes :)... (read in full...)
What do I do about my inability to let go of my fairy-tale fantasy?
Q. Hi, so I am an almost-sixteen-year-old girl and I have known for some months now that I like girls. I have never had an issue with gay people or anything like that and I am comfortable with the realization that I myself am gay but at the same time ...
A. 13 October 2010: Just because your gay doesnt mean you can't live in a fairytale. It just mean's there will be two princess's :)if your really in love with her then the other things wont matter! As for children, you can always adopt or use a sperm doner. But I ... (read in full...)
My friend is making a big mistake! How can I make her see sense?
Q. My friend who's my age is having sex in a week w/ a guy who's not even her boyfriend (she doesn't have one). Basically, she's in love with this guy and he's a total player. He hooks up with anyone that has boobs and something to stick it in (yes, ...
A. 13 October 2010: Oh dear... well you tried your best, and i'm sure she'll appreciate that in the long run. She's an idiot not to get condoms though, if he's been about as much as you say theres a chance she could have caught something.
She will realise that he does... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend her boyfriend has kissed another girl? Is it even my place to say something when I am friends with both of them?
Q. I've been solid friends with this guy, A, for a while, and friends with his girlfriend of three years, B, for even longer. A and B have a very stable, happy relationship. But the other day A told me he'd kissed another girl, C, who he's liked fo...
A. 6 October 2010: It's really tough. I'd advise him to tell her. Don't tell her yourself, I would try not to get too involved.... (read in full...)
Sex was so fun, I don't regret it but now I"m 14 & pregnant!
Q. Im under 16 and pregnant. Let me fill you in, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now since I was 12,i'm 14 now. Anyway, we were celebrating our 2 year anniversary by going for dinner then a movie at his. When we finished our dinner ...
A. 5 October 2010: If your sure your pregnant you just have to sit them down and tell them. They will be angry at first, but at least they will help you, if your planning on keeping the baby. Let us know how it goes.... (read in full...)
I blocked my b/f on facebook, will he be upset about it?
Q. my boyfriend wants me to give him space, we have been through quite a lot together emotionally and the last time we had a break i found it incredibly difficult to not talk to him. my friends told me i should block him on fb just to give me a peace ...
A. 5 October 2010: Yes if it helps you, just maybe send him one message tell him why your blocking him, and its not because your mad at him but because your taking his word, and having a break. :)... (read in full...)
Twitter codes and teenagers
Q. Ok this is probably the rarest question submitted. But i am hoping someone knows the answer. I have a 16 yr old daughter and as a concerned parent, I like to know what she is up to. I notice from time to time on her tweeter page she would type a b...
A. 3 October 2010: Yeah it basically means 'arghhhh im so stressed' and the reply is basically 'omg yeahhh I totally understand'.
As for why its only girls replying, well only girls would probably understand whats going on to make her stressed out, unless she has real... (read in full...)
I want to have sex but my heart starts beating so fast I feel like I'm going to die!
Q. I think I have problem and I always been shy to talk about it but I can’t keep it inside me anymore I need help... I am 23 years old and I really want to have baby so badly but the big problem is I can’t have sex I am virgin. I have been trying...
A. 29 September 2010: Are you currently with the right person? Maybe you don't think so and thats why your reluctant to go through with it. But he sounds like a lovely patience bloke, but I dont know him im just going on what you said.
I think maybe the problem is, you ... (read in full...)
My 1st time wasn't horrible and there was no bleeding why?
Q. Well im 16 years old nd had sex for the very first time, all my friends were already sexually active and they said there first time was very painfull nd horrible but my first time wasent painfull at all nd i taught u were suppost to bleed but i ...
A. 27 September 2010: I didn't bleed, but it hurt a tiny bit. Everyone is different :)... (read in full...)
Ideas needed. What can I do to get to know him better?
Q. heyy!! well i am just your average 16 year old i like to go clubbing shopping and basically living my life to its fullest! even though my mum doesnt know i go out into town clubbing i still do it :) anyway were i live they are a group of la...
A. 23 September 2010: Just see where it goes from here. Act friendly with him, and if he's interessted them i'm sure he'll give you signals. Its always easier to talk to new guys when in a bar (and after a drink!) As long as you wern't like seeing the other guy I doubt ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, I lost a child and I'm still craving one!
Q. I'm 15 years old and I'm craving a child. I know many other people have asked about this but I feel my situation is somewhat different and would like specific advice please. 11 months ago today I had a miscarrige; I was almost 4 months pregnant...
A. 23 September 2010: The way I see it... you can have it both ways. Your young now, you can have your youth and party and stay out to all hours of the morning and dance and flirt with guys and do all the things people miss when they grow up.
Then when you get olde... (read in full...)
First True Love Never Lasts. Prove me wrong
Q. Alrighhhtty, We'll cut to the chase. The love between my ex and I is well..confusing.So I'm asking for help, any advice, thoughts and suggestions. Help me out here! Get this, I went to middle school with my ex, totally didn't know each other t...
A. 23 September 2010: Sorry...
My first love was when I was 14. We went out for 2 years, fought over something and broke up. Havn't heard from him in over a year.
I think maybe it used too, I know a lot of granparents who met ridiculously young, (like 12) and are stil... (read in full...)
My friend is making a big mistake! How can I make her see sense?
Q. My friend who's my age is having sex in a week w/ a guy who's not even her boyfriend (she doesn't have one). Basically, she's in love with this guy and he's a total player. He hooks up with anyone that has boobs and something to stick it in (yes, ...
A. 17 September 2010: Yeah, there isn't really much way of talking her out of this one, so your just gonna have to be supportive when the enevitable happens.
I had sort of the same thing with one of my friends (except they met on holiday, hadn't done anything and were... (read in full...)
Kids having sex!
Q. OK lately I see a lot of questions here where children from the age of 14-16,17 years think that they are old enough to have sex. They don't understand anything about it. They think that they are ready. There are even parents who agree with the idea ...
A. 13 September 2010: @Cindycares
Yes actually I do know the social costs etc of all this and I don't agree with it, but I was making the point that in the grand scale of all teenages that have sex, only a few actually end up falling pregnant, and because of that we are ... (read in full...)
Virgin and totally freaked out!
Q. Hello. I really need some answers. 2 days ago me and my boyfriend were hanging out. I was topless, he wasnt, and i had my underwear and jeans on and he had his boxers and shorts on. He was on top of my and his penis was pretty much on my vagina, ...
A. 12 September 2010: Nope :)... (read in full...)
Kids having sex!
Q. OK lately I see a lot of questions here where children from the age of 14-16,17 years think that they are old enough to have sex. They don't understand anything about it. They think that they are ready. There are even parents who agree with the idea ...
A. 11 September 2010: Actually i'm 17, I just havn't updated my info in a while. I think yes, maybe 18 is mature enough for some people. It depends on the person really, but underage sex is always gonna happen, so its better to educate "kids" about it rather than try to ... (read in full...)
Kids having sex!
Q. OK lately I see a lot of questions here where children from the age of 14-16,17 years think that they are old enough to have sex. They don't understand anything about it. They think that they are ready. There are even parents who agree with the idea ...
A. 10 September 2010: I think mainly adults tend to hear the shock stories of teenage pregnancies and stuff, when in reality whilst that happens, its actually quite rare and most teenagers can work out how to put a condom on and get by quiet happily.
What age would you ... (read in full...)
My 14 year old daughter is having sex with a 19 year old. How to handle this?
Q. i walked into my 14 year old step daughters room and found her having sex with her boyfriend who i later found out is 19 the age gap is really worryin me i dont think 14 year old girls would went to have sex do u think he couldve made her do it or ...
A. 10 September 2010: If thats the case then I agree with your choice to go to the police.
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What do I say to him after that kiss???
Q. So this past weekend I went to a party, got a little bit too tipsy and kissed a guy i was dancing with. The party was at a frat house at my college. Now all his frat buddies and teammates know who I am. I walked into the cafeteria yesterday and they ...
A. 9 September 2010: It was only a kiss... im pretty sure worse things happen at college, if thats the best they have to joke about then you must go to a pretty tame college! By next week something else will have happened and they will move on. No worries :)... (read in full...)
Daughter's breakup is effecting the entire family
Q. Please help my 16 year old daughter has just split up from her boyfriend. It was a serious relationship very quickly they were together 7 months she is devestated it is effecting the entire family what can i do?...
A. 9 September 2010: Invite her friends over and tell them to bring chocolate, Haribo and a chick flick.
A good rant about her ex combined with junk food is always a good cure :)... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a young teen girl to have feelings for their teacher?
Q. Ok so i'm attracted to older men and most of m friends think that's pretty werid but anyways there's this teacher that i know and he was my wrestling coach for 2 years. But lately i've started to have a major crush on him because he's easy to talk ...
A. 9 September 2010: If you regularly check this site, you'll see its extremly normal!... (read in full...)
My 14 year old daughter is having sex with a 19 year old. How to handle this?
Q. i walked into my 14 year old step daughters room and found her having sex with her boyfriend who i later found out is 19 the age gap is really worryin me i dont think 14 year old girls would went to have sex do u think he couldve made her do it or ...
A. 9 September 2010: I admit that its a big age gap, but im in a relationship with a 4 year age gap and it works for me. Although we are both over the age of consent so its different. As for the guy pressurising her into it, well maybe, but adults always seem to thing ... (read in full...)
I cant hide my baby bump anymore but I'm worried about telling my family as my parents are going through a divorce....
Q. I am a 14 year old girl, and i know whats i have done is wrong and i am truly sorry. But when my mam and dad split up 7 months ago i went off the rails such as drinking just to foget about the pain that we would never do things as a family no more, ...
A. 3 June 2010: Sweetheart, none of this is your fault, you were raped, thats horrific and traumatic for you and you've delt with it all on your own. You need to tell your mother, I wouldnt even bother mentioning you've slept with your boyfriend, just stick to the ... (read in full...)
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